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post 1588870691 09-30-2019, 02:59 PM
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Originally Posted By flexnation
Been awhile since Ive been on the misc read this thread. Glad to see that its still going. Developed a minor case of autism reading through eod and peachys posts though. Glad we got some posters like Pondus and the married 40y/o brah who know what the fuk they're talking about ITT.

Cold approached a girl at the gym the other day and got rejected. Thought I saw some IOI's such as her eyeing me while shooting hoops a week prior(didn't make a move at that time), me walking in the gym and her walking out we exchange smiles and a few minutes later she's upstairs on the stretching mats facing the squat racks where I was, etc. I made a move after I finished squatting and deadlifting. Chatted for a bit, asked her to hang out sometime, and she says no. Im in sales so I have the mentality of "it takes 7 no's to get a yes" and made a joke out of it and asked again lol. Same result. On to the next one.

Men nowadays are terrified of rejection and walk in to a social situation with a defeatist mentality. Brb any average 6/10 girl has at least 1 Chad and 7 Timothys hitting her up at all times so no point to make a move. You need to get past the mind frame and develop a "fuk it" type attitude where rejection doesn't bother you. Too many men are outcome oriented whereas they should be input oriented. Worry about actually making a move, the things you say, how you say them, your mannerisms, etc and the outcome of getting a girls number/date/lay will fall into place when you have the inputs you can control mastered.
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post 1588870701 09-30-2019, 02:59 PM
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This sexist Kent really got me annoyedhttps://youtu.be/RtL-8XfDka4
post 1588870881 09-30-2019, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted By peachy977
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Originally Posted By peachy977
This sexist Kent really got me annoyedhttps://youtu.be/RtL-8XfDka4
post 1588871371 09-30-2019, 03:11 PM
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can't even fathom why anyone would cold approach instead of just becoming a regular at a bar and banging/dating barsloots

i'm utterly hideous and don't wear nice clothes at all and it works for me
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
can't even fathom why anyone would cold approach instead of just becoming a regular at a bar and banging/dating barsloots

i'm utterly hideous and don't wear nice clothes at all and it works for me
Impart some of your wisdom on our boy Void. He's been doing the bar thing for a few weeks now.
I'm back, bitches!
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Sick of people defending women because they are women they are scum of the earth they are shallow time wasters rude judgemental stuck up they tell people kill themselfs they have no respect for anyone and people think that by default every man that is struggling is the problem😂😂😂😂 it’s women
post 1588871671 09-30-2019, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted By peachy977
Sick of people defending women because they are women they are scum of the earth they are shallow time wasters rude judgemental stuck up they tell people kill themselfs they have no respect for anyone and people think that by default every man that is struggling is the problem it’s women
Is this the cold approach thread or another whiney ******* incel thread?
post 1588871711 09-30-2019, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
can't even fathom why anyone would cold approach instead of just becoming a regular at a bar and banging/dating barsloots

i'm utterly hideous and don't wear nice clothes at all and it works for me
Nah it don’t no one goes to bars with men they already know or there boyfriend
post 1588871951 09-30-2019, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted By ko300zx
Is this the cold approach thread or another whiney ******* incel thread?
So because I disagree of what women do trolling telling people kill the self shallow etc. I’m an incel? How’s you work that out I’m entitled to my opinion all women are like that
post 1588872131 09-30-2019, 03:25 PM
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Originally Posted By peachy977
So because I disagree of what women do trolling telling people kill the self shallow etc. I’m an incel? How’s you work that out I’m entitled to my opinion all women are like that
Go cry on reddit.
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Originally Posted By peachy977
So because I disagree of what women do trolling telling people kill the self shallow etc. I’m an incel? How’s you work that out I’m entitled to my opinion all women are like that
1. Talk to a therapist
2. Maybe a psychiatrist
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post 1588872451 09-30-2019, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted By peachy977
So because I disagree of what women do trolling telling people kill the self shallow etc. I’m an incel? How’s you work that out I’m entitled to my opinion all women are like that
with instagram,********,tinder cold approaching doesnt work anymore, unless you doing whales


and from the way you type , you sound like a ****** who has reached his lowest betaness "srs"
Cherish your life. Live to tell your story
post 1588872891 09-30-2019, 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted By MEDITATE
with instagram,********,tinder cold approaching doesnt work anymore, unless you doing whales


and from the way you type , you sound like a ****** who has reached his lowest betaness "srs"
Lol at I need help because of how women are towards me please stop being sexist
post 1588872951 09-30-2019, 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus
1. Talk to a therapist
2. Maybe a psychiatrist
Women are never to blame
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Originally Posted By peachy977
So because I disagree of what women do trolling telling people kill the self shallow etc. I’m an incel? How’s you work that out I’m entitled to my opinion all women are like that
Originally Posted By peachy977
Lol at I need help because of how women are towards me please stop being sexist
negged you fail troll
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post 1588873061 09-30-2019, 03:41 PM
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=MEDITATE;1588872451cold approaching doesnt work anymore
Well, I like hot approaching better anyway.
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post 1588873111 09-30-2019, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
can't even fathom why anyone would cold approach instead of just becoming a regular at a bar and banging/dating barsloots

i'm utterly hideous and don't wear nice clothes at all and it works for me
Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
Impart some of your wisdom on our boy Void. He's been doing the bar thing for a few weeks now.
I would appreciate it.
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Originally Posted By MEDITATE
negged you fail troll
Anyone who has a different opinion is a troll? Yeah sounds like the bodybuilding fourm lol
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
I would appreciate it.
I think with ratfish he just has very low inhibition compared to yourself and most other guys.
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Originally Posted By ItsNotAPhaseMom
I think with ratfish he just has very low inhibition compared to yourself and most other guys.
Kinda reminds me of Dave Atell. Man I miss Insomniac.
I'm back, bitches!
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
Kinda reminds me of Dave Atell. Man I miss Insomniac.
Is Kimm4 still alive? It's been a while since I've been on the misc
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post 1588874121 09-30-2019, 03:58 PM
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Dating apps don’t work cold approaching don’t work
post 1588874871 09-30-2019, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted By peachy977
Dating apps don’t work cold approaching don’t work
They work. You just need to put in the work
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post 1588875231 09-30-2019, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus
They work. You just need to put in the work
Dating apps are full of fake profiles time wasting trolls not many girls use them and cold approaching I put work in I approached 13 women (don’t ask me how I got the confidence to do it) they Bert stared rejected me or the convo was forced and they just continue looking at their phone
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
Impart some of your wisdom on our boy Void. He's been doing the bar thing for a few weeks now.
oikay
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Nah it don’t no one goes to bars with men they already know or there boyfriend
plenty of sloots go to bars without dudes. some in groups, some of the slootiest by themselves.
Originally Posted By Voidgaze
I would appreciate it.
my advice would be for you to choose 1 bar that tends to have a decent amount of sloots at least in your age range. i might be spoiled here because of the sheer number of bars, but i only go to a select few ever because the gals there tend to match my preferences. most bars are gonna at least have something going on friday/saturday night, but in Portland, you can meet sloots any day of the week because a lot of them have irregular service industry schedules and work friday and saturday.
as far as what to actually say/do, that's a bit difficult because i mostly just troll everyone. i got to the main spot i go to with one of my gals at around midnight on saturday and i had to fukken shake 10 people's hands. that chit gets tedious, but it shows how many friends you make if you're a regular. talk to everyone, not just the sloots. if you're that weird dude who only goes to creep on sloots, you will probably fail. if you're just a funny guy who is friendly with everyone, you'll be golden. make sure the staff likes you as well. they're vouching for you in a way.

if you keep switching locations, you start from zero every single time. total waste. i have buddies who want to do that and it never results in anything.

it might take a few weeks for you to build it up, but it's worthwhile.

as far as how to start talking to gals, i've found that a lot of the time they simply overhear me getting yucky with the boys and the chit i say is sufficiently intriguing that they'll introduce themselves. if i ever directly talk to a gal i've never talked to before i usually just ask them a ridiculous question of some sort. or interject with some troll comment in their conversation.

the most important thing though is that i'm completely unconcerned about results. i say whatever is most fun for me sentence to sentence and fukk anyone who doesn't like it. some gals hate me and some love me. don't care what happens.

it would be pretty tough to do this if you're not funny. a lot of people are funny but too afraid to pipe up. alcohol will help you get there until you build confidence.

on the subject of alcohol, make sure you're not drinking too fast or drinking chit that is too strong. the point is to talk to sloots, not get rekt. i have buddies who fail continuously because they get rekt too fast and then are totally useless at that point.
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All women are the same man
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Bars are sausage fests lol no one goes alone eitherhttps://youtu.be/npo9FWGtZg4
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Originally Posted By peachy977
Bars are sausage fests lol no one goes alone eitherhttps://youtu.be/npo9FWGtZg4
some are definitely like that. certainly not all.
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
some are definitely like that. certainly not all.
They are all like that here bro
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