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Thread: About to pack my bags and move to Italy to be with my soon to be fiancee

post 1595072441 01-06-2020, 09:10 PM
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NOOOOO dude. This broad has you in the palm of her hands! EJECT EJECT EJECT. Never flip your life around for a woman you've known for less than a month!

Jesus christ OP screw that head on straight.
post 1595073251 01-06-2020, 09:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Bingu⏩
I make really good money here in the statesbut we both want to move to Italy so she can be closer to her family. She said she would come move to the states with me if I have difficulty finding a job there but I dont think she would really like it here.. I'd feel really guilty taking her away from all of the amazing food/culture/history/her family/life of living in Florence/Milan withall of the art everywherearound you.
You are pissing it all away son for a sloot you barely knew. She's brb banging some Romeo right now. There are no jobs for local young Italians already why do they even need to hire you? Europe is an economic shthole. The art and culture don't pay bills.

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post 1595073341 01-06-2020, 09:23 PM
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Huge mistake OP.

A woman should uproot and follow the man, not the other way around.


You following her, shows you have no roots and no social status worth keeping at home. So you're willing to puppy dog follow her.
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post 1595073411 01-06-2020, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Well, that much was obvious anyway.

Pretty women can kill a man’s rational faculties. Everything OP described so far is emotional - based on lust/chemistry/infatuation. That’s why I’m telling him to tread defensively.

Unless OP, you have evidence of strong virtues and values, you’ve dealt with conflict, you’ve negotiated, you’ve determined and compromised on life paths and family desires etc?
she wanted to pay for half of my plane ticket twice but i refused to let her. she always wants to pay for half dinners etc, i took her virginity and met her entire family and they all loved me and were so kind/close to eachother. we both want kids in a few years after traveling and enjoying eachother first. HUGE family values, very compassionate and caring and extremely sweet to those less fortunate. just some traits. I'm not going to just go and marry her right away thats retarded. but the conversation of engagement came up.
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post 1595075041 01-06-2020, 09:49 PM
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Originally Posted By garthismad⏩
ITT: what happens when you find 10/10 pussy
Preach! Hahahahaha OP in here ready to risk it all for what amounts to basically a stranger, idgaf how many family members she knows.

inb4 new thread by OP In 1 year linking his gofundme for a plane ticket back to the States and a tinder premium account to drown his despair
post 1595077491 01-06-2020, 10:38 PM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
I believe you. But I have also known people that married quickly and it worked out. I think Cass has said she married her guy PDQ.




Pretty sure Cass, bless her, was a Finnish mail order bride
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post 1595077511 01-06-2020, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Bingu⏩
she wanted to pay for half of my plane ticket twice but i refused to let her. she always wants to pay for half dinners etc,i took her virginityand met her entire family and they all loved me and were so kind/close to eachother. we both want kids in a few years after traveling and enjoying eachother first. HUGE family values, very compassionate and caring and extremely sweet to those less fortunate. just some traits. I'm not going to just go and marry her right away thats retarded. but the conversation of engagement came up.
how old is she? 16?
post 1595077591 01-06-2020, 10:41 PM
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Just curious op, but can you tell me more about these feelings of "true love".

You mentioned you had relationships before but what differs and how are you so adamantly sure? When did you know--during the first meet or as you got to know each other.
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post 1595077971 01-06-2020, 10:49 PM
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
Pretty sure Cass, bless her, was a Finnish mail order bride
I was a groupie not ordered by mail.
post 1595078051 01-06-2020, 10:51 PM
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These threads always seem to be a kind of precursor to things not ending well, as if the part that feels the need to not only write paragraphs about how they've found the one but make a thread about it is the part that leads to their downfall.
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post 1595078281 01-06-2020, 10:54 PM
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Holy ****, how is this even a thread. You're 25, that's the only information needed, just do it, you're not at an age where you have to worry about risk.
post 1595078291 01-06-2020, 10:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
I was a groupie not ordered by mail.
Big amerrican hamsum g.i love u long time groupie?

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post 1595078311 01-06-2020, 10:55 PM
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In all seriousness I hope it works out for you OP. You're in for a world of hurt if this backfires.
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post 1595078501 01-06-2020, 11:00 PM
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Wait, this wasn’t a troll job?
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post 1595078911 01-06-2020, 11:08 PM
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
These threads always seem to be a kind of precursor to things not ending well, as if the part that feels the need to not only write paragraphs about how they've found the one but make a thread about it is the part that leads to their downfall.
I doubt it, it's just a probability thing. Most relationships don't last, but OP's is off to a decent start it seems.

To play a more cynical perspective, perhaps the infatuation itself is a path towards disappointment - when each other inevitably discovers they are an imperfect couple, not matching the perfect vision in their minds.
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post 1595080101 01-06-2020, 11:45 PM
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Way better chance to find wife material overseas imo. OP will also know after a couple months if she was personality frauding or the real deal. Also the right age to pull something like this.
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Shutting this down.

The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.

The reality here is: OP found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick...

The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.

OP has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.


OP. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a headcase.
post 1595081021 01-07-2020, 12:17 AM
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Hopefully she drains your funds and cucks you, because I got a feeling thats the only way you're gonna learn.
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Just remember when you marry her, you also marry her family.
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Go for it, bro.

You are young and can bang plenty of European pussy



Milan has crap night life, but you should definitely live it up while young.
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op is 25? this is something that a 18 year old girl would do for her boyfriend of 6 months not a grown ass man
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Trevi Fountain.. very nice.
Except it smells like piss most of the time.

OP, go for it. This will almost certainly end in disaster, but I have 3 reasons for blessing this train wreck:

1. You are young enough that you can recover financially
2. If you don't do it, you will always regret it and future relationships will be judged against an impossible benchmark
3. When it blows up, it will make for an epic thread here on the misc

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lol you fuking cuck OP good one bro

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Just another economic immigrant then.

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Getting married at 25 is the life equivalent of punting from the opponent’s 35 yard line on 4th and 2.
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Originally Posted By Humungus⏩
Way better chance to find wife material overseas imo.
Western Europe LOL.
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Go for it OP. F*ck the consequences. It could end badly, high possibility of that happening, but who knows? Take the risk kiddo.

I had a friend move to USA when he was 19. First night he was there he met a chick at a festival and they bounced to Vegas the next day and got married. 12 years later they're still together.
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Originally Posted By Bingu⏩
My girlfriend and I are deeply in love. We met when I was visiting family overseas and we fell in love immediately. She is very good friends with my cousin and she knows my entire family. It is really true love and neither of us have ever felt anything like this before.. We spent 15 days together back in July and I just got back from another 12 days with her over the christmas holidays. I just booked my flight back to be with her in March but we want to possibly get engaged/move in together.

She is Italian but works in Paris right now at a high fashion place as a dress designer. I make really good money here in the states but we both want to move to Italy so she can be closer to her family. She said she would come move to the states with me if I have difficulty finding a job there but I dont think she would really like it here.. I'd feel really guilty taking her away from all of the amazing food/culture/history/her family/life of living in Florence/Milan with all of the art everywhere around you.

Her dad said he could help me find a job there which is apparently very difficult for americans to get a work visa. I know I'd be making like 40% less but I think I would be much more happier there and I need to be with this girl everyday. When we said "a dopo" (see you later. I dont like saying goodbye) after my last visit to her, it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. She was crying a lot and then I started crying seeing her so sad that I was leaving.

Has anyone ever had any luck finding work in Europe? I am looking in both Paris and Italy for anything Finance/Analytical etc. Typical corporate cuck work.

Thanks for reading.

Here is a pic of us in Rome where it was the best day of our entire lives SRS.
Nothing wrong with trying new countries but wtf kind of grown man writes this way
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Originally Posted By dontstopbelief⏩
Shutting this down.

The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.

The reality here is: OP found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick...

The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.

OP has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.


OP. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a headcase.
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