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Thread: ITT: We aren't divorced

post 1597955491 02-17-2020, 03:57 PM
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Three years this Memorial Day, first kid could be coming any day now (wife is 36 weeks pregnant).
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post 1597956791 02-17-2020, 04:18 PM
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17 years

Still going strong
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post 1597957201 02-17-2020, 04:25 PM
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Will hit 17 years in July and 20 overall together in Sept
post 1597957881 02-17-2020, 04:39 PM
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31 years, still havent gotten a divorce or been married lol
post 1597958571 02-17-2020, 04:53 PM
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22 years married, together over 30

Together through hs and I never dated anybody else. Wouldn't change a thing.
post 1598008521 02-18-2020, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted By nn586⏩
Past statistics have shown that in the U.S. 50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce.


Let that sink in.



But good luck to all of you.
I'm in the get married once crew. If something happened to my wife, I'd go at alone. Date, absolutely, get married again? NFW. Too complicated, especially with finances. If it's over you walk away clean and I told my wife the statistic above Saturday.

Her divorced, low esteemed friend who has been in 3-4 relationships in the past 10 years of being single is engaged to a dude who has a TON of baggage with his kid. Lo and behold, they're postponing the wedding. FUK THAT.
post 1598008721 02-18-2020, 12:31 PM
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Originally Posted By AlBHappy⏩
I'm in the get married once crew. If something happened to my wife, I'd go at alone. Date, absolutely, get married again? NFW. Too complicated, especially with finances. If it's over you walk away clean and I told my wife the statistic above Saturday.

Her divorced, low esteemed friend who has been in 3-4 relationships in the past 10 years of being single is engaged to a dude who has a TON of baggage with his kid. Lo and behold, they're postponing the wedding. FUK THAT.
We dated a relatively long time (5-6 years) before getting engaged. Both our families don't really have any divorce in them, we were both raised to make sure you're sure before you commit.

Had a 4x divorced old hag at my work at that time tell me to chit or get off the pot, lmao.
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post 1598008871 02-18-2020, 12:34 PM
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Married and divorced 4 times

Not making that mistake again.


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post 1598008961 02-18-2020, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted By darkninja67⏩
Married and divorced 4 times

Not making that mistake again.


Single for lyfe crew
Yeah odds are not in your favor.
post 1598009101 02-18-2020, 12:38 PM
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Best decision I made in my life. Will be 3 years on April 7th. =)

Edit: My parents were married over 50 years before they died.
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post 1598009131 02-18-2020, 12:38 PM
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married 13 years in June. Chit is weird...Never thought I'd ever be bonded with someone like this. The thought of going one day without her completely blows my mind.
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post 1598009261 02-18-2020, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted By IronBrahh⏩
??? how old are you

always thought u were like mid 20s
Be 32 this summer
Originally Posted By backinthegymbro⏩
Tf? You're married? I thought you were a single brah looking for feminine twinks to pound.
Those days are behind me
I'm back, bitches!
post 1598009481 02-18-2020, 12:44 PM
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Happily married with children and wouldn’t have it any other way. Each year thay goes by I look around more and more and think to myself “damn I’m glad I found a good woman before the world reached this current environment”.
post 1598009541 02-18-2020, 12:44 PM
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OPie, what % of your combined income does your wife make?
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post 1598009581 02-18-2020, 12:45 PM
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Originally Posted By jtaylor2010⏩
Happily married with children and wouldn’t have it any other way. Each year thay goes by I look around more and more and think to myself “damn I’m glad I found a good woman before the world reached this current environment”.
found her before 2012? mirin. srs
post 1598009661 02-18-2020, 12:47 PM
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15 years married, 29 years as a couple


couldn't dream of a better wife
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post 1598009811 02-18-2020, 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
OPie, what % of your combined income does your wife make?
Currently 0%
Originally Posted By cjmadscientist⏩
15 years married, 29 years as a couple


couldn't dream of a better wife
Damn that's a long ass dating period. What made you guys wanna tie the knot? Kids? Just finally time?
I'm back, bitches!
post 1598009911 02-18-2020, 12:51 PM
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Little bit over a year so far. A lot of work but has been rewarding.

If this doesn't work then I will never get married again. Way less stressful just taking care of myself.
Sounds bad but Im not gonna put it on a pedestal and act like its the best thing ever. It is work and can get very rough at times. Not gonna lie to people who ask about it.
post 1598010001 02-18-2020, 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Currently 0%

Damn that's a long ass dating period. What made you guys wanna tie the knot? Kids? Just finally time?
we started dating in middle school, so there was automatically a built in timer for getting married


for a long time, we didn't even plan on getting married, but our respective grandparents were getting quite old and we decided to get married while they were still alive

we were committed regardless, the ceremony was really for our family

with that said, we're both glad we did it
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post 1598010031 02-18-2020, 12:52 PM
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Made it 12 years... Not part of this crew anymore...
post 1598010341 02-18-2020, 12:57 PM
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12 years; i'm happier being married than when i was single. sure, we have our ups and downs but mostly ups and it feels good having a partner working towards a common goal
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post 1598010621 02-18-2020, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Beararms⏩
Little bit over a year so far. A lot of work but has been rewarding.

If this doesn't work then I will never get married again. Way less stressful just taking care of myself.
Sounds bad but Im not gonna put it on a pedestal and act like its the best thing ever. It is work and can get very rough at times. Not gonna lie to people who ask about it.
Just over a year and it's already very rough? Hoping things improve for you.
Here's to swimmin' with bow-legged women.
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post 1598010671 02-18-2020, 01:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Agree AIB, would never contemplate marrying again
Only if you're comfortable doing so, can you say more about that? I've heard that sentiment before and it's something I don't understand.
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post 1598010851 02-18-2020, 01:08 PM
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I've been married for 4 years now. Doesn't seem like its been that long but it feels like I've been with my wife forever. Its strange
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post 1598010961 02-18-2020, 01:09 PM
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post 1598011021 02-18-2020, 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Only if you're comfortable doing so, can you say more about that? I've heard that sentiment before and it's something I don't understand.
I would NEVER want to remarry. I'd date again sure, but a whole new lifelong commitment to someone else? Nah fam.
I'm back, bitches!
post 1598011131 02-18-2020, 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted By BRANDERSS⏩
Just set a date, is it over from there boyos?
It's over bro.
I'm back, bitches!
post 1598011191 02-18-2020, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted By MrQuint⏩
Just over a year and it's already very rough? Hoping things improve for you.
We have our moments just like other couples do. I just have to learn to deal with it instead of walking off like I'm used to doing. Personality clashes like crazy, shes has an alpha type personality and I'm very quiet and mellow. Those don't go well together when bad stuff happens. She a relationship person, hates being single. I can be in a relationship or single, I can find happiness in either situation.
I enjoy her and our family we have built, we help each other out, push each other to do better, workout/compete in bb shows together. I do need some time to myself every now and then though.
post 1598011211 02-18-2020, 01:12 PM
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Can't get divorced if you never get married


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post 1598011531 02-18-2020, 01:16 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Only if you're comfortable doing so, can you say more about that? I've heard that sentiment before and it's something I don't understand.
I'm saying this as someone who has been married a long time, not someone who married young, and made a mistake.

23.5 years. A great marriage. I've been extremely lucky. She's sane, a great wife, still likes me and looks fantastic. We've built a nice thing. We have 2 boys, and raising kids is a challenge. But they're our kids and we're a team.

The older you get, the more set in your ways you are. You want life simpler not more complex. When you remarry, you're not only getting the new spouse, you're getting their baggage as well. I don't want their debt, or have my life complicated by their kids. You will never going to be number 1 on their priority list. The kids will always come first and I think that causes a lot of tension when there are interfamily issues with kids.

If I was widowed, met a nice woman and she gave me the ultimatum, I'd say "don't let the door hit you on the way out."
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