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post 1610671111 07-15-2020, 11:05 AM
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Is it okay for men to cry?

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post 1610671171 07-15-2020, 11:06 AM
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No! If a sloot will see you cry or get emotional she will never have sex with you ever again.
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post 1610671301 07-15-2020, 11:07 AM
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Yes, only redpilled/blackpilled FAs will tell you otherwise
post 1610671341 07-15-2020, 11:07 AM
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Wait, I should have added that I don't mean cry about girls.
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post 1610671361 07-15-2020, 11:07 AM
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Been married over 3 years, haven't seen husband cry yet.

I think it's okay if it's something serious like losing someone to death. It's not okay for a male to cry if he can't handle the stresses of life. That's us womens' job.
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post 1610671631 07-15-2020, 11:10 AM
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I miss the times where I was able to shed a tear. This world really withers you down to a form of nothingness.
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post 1610672801 07-15-2020, 11:22 AM
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In the right setting, of course it is.

Lol at saying no. Bitch you cry.

It is much more acceptable to cry than to lie about it. Your insecurities are showing.
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post 1610672921 07-15-2020, 11:23 AM
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In my experience, its more that no one cares and youre on your own.
post 1610672981 07-15-2020, 11:24 AM
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Ofc, I shed a tear every time I hear that a young souled 98 year old boomer didn't make it to 100 because young and healthy people decided to genocide him by going outside and "enjoying life" aka naziism (against boomers).
post 1610673821 07-15-2020, 11:32 AM
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Everyone cries, depends on what it is and the setting that makes it appropriate.
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post 1610674041 07-15-2020, 11:35 AM
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post 1610674731 07-15-2020, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Disallowing the people around you to process their emotions is sociopathic
It's SS, what do you expect.
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post 1610674851 07-15-2020, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Disallowing the people around you to process their emotions is sociopathic


I know a guy just like this

He's 24 and pretty good looking and his wife is 31 years old, feminist, and fat
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post 1610675391 07-15-2020, 11:48 AM
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Men are beholden to a higher standard when it comes to stoicism, if you must cry, do it in private.
post 1610675481 07-15-2020, 11:49 AM
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Yes but only in the shower. not srs.

Crying is healthy.
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post 1610675521 07-15-2020, 11:50 AM
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Go to 18:00 - what he says about men crying is right

"If you're going to cry, don't do it around your sister. Hold it in. Tears are contagious, and right now she needs your hope and encouragement. Smile, even if it hurts. That's what being a man means."
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post 1610675741 07-15-2020, 11:52 AM
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post 1610675931 07-15-2020, 11:53 AM
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post 1610676021 07-15-2020, 11:55 AM
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post 1610676111 07-15-2020, 11:55 AM
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post 1610676141 07-15-2020, 11:56 AM
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No. Only women and babies cry.
post 1610676271 07-15-2020, 11:57 AM
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No, and I see far too many men crying now, in real life and entertainment.
post 1610676511 07-15-2020, 11:59 AM
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post 1610676601 07-15-2020, 12:00 PM
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Originally Posted By MaesterSeymour
No. Only women and babies cry.
You would say that master Seymour you Guado **** ... if you didn’t shed a manly tear during that game you missed out
post 1610676851 07-15-2020, 12:03 PM
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Yes but never around your wife, gf, or kids. I've only cried around my brother or close friends. Cry and acknowledge the feelings, but immediately get started on taking action to improve your situation....make sure no one sees you. Never listen when a woman says they want to see your sensitive side, they will leave you as soon as you do.
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post 1610677341 07-15-2020, 12:07 PM
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It’s fine imo.

I don’t though. I actually don’t get emotional often in any which way. Even at funerals. I’m sad sure and I mourn the loss, but tears just don’t come.
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post 1610677481 07-15-2020, 12:08 PM
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Yes of course. However, men are less hormonal so it would be weird if they randomly started crying like yours truly for instance.

However, they are allowed to cry because as far as I know they also belong to human species with human emotions.
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786
Been married over 3 years, haven't seen husband cry yet.

I think it's okay if it's something serious like losing someone to death. It's not okay for a male to cry if he can't handle the stresses of life. That's us womens' job.
This. I think if a man is prone to crying (at all) it is a sign of some underlying trauma that he should seek to understand with professional help. Seeing a man cry is even more alarming to me than seeing a woman cry.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
You are setting rules only for men
Have you seen SS texting with her fukbuddies. Might as well be texting with a robot.
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