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post 1611037251 07-19-2020, 06:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Polaris
I didn't even bother reading her list until a few second ago, #4 is the one that that makes me lol - I don't think the most of the others are that bad.

Phuck #4 though, you don't have gold between your legs - and lol @ how women want "equality", but at the same time you have ones like this (and I'm not saying all women are) having a massive sense of entitlement when it comes to a man's money.

yep their money is their money but ur money is also their money
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I sent girl #2 a text saying "Hey, bummed we didn't get to hang out, I wasn't expecting anything, just vibed hanging out with you"

And this is what I got back from her about 24 hours later, clearly I'm not a priority and she's treating me like an option. I left her on read, not going to reply.

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Originally Posted By thadderbox
I sent girl #2 a text saying "Hey, bummed we didn't get to hang out, I wasn't expecting anything, just vibed hanging out with you"

And this is what I got back from her about 24 hours later, clearly I'm not a priority and she's treating me like an option. I left her on read, not going to reply.

Come on asteroid!!!!!!
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
I sent girl #2 a text saying "Hey, bummed we didn't get to hang out, I wasn't expecting anything, just vibed hanging out with you"

And this is what I got back from her about 24 hours later, clearly I'm not a priority and she's treating me like an option. I left her on read, not going to reply.

She used the N-word. You're done.
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
I left her on read, not going to reply.
First sane thing ive read on the misc in months srs. At least you realize what truly is going on


Im going to tell you what she means with that message btw: "I met a better looking guy than you and im going to go on a few dates with him, fuk him 3 or 4 times, maybe send him some nudes, and if he doesnt commit to me i will complain about him on my whatsapp groups calling him a 'fukboi', and then ill proceed to reach out to you and see if you are still willing to entertain me, at least until i find another Chad and i delude myself again into thinking i can get him to commit to me, as unlikely as it may be seeing how every other woman is after the same dude too for exactly the same superficial reasons as i am, while leaving an army of normal/nice enough dudes hoping for a simple reply"
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
post 1611075321 07-19-2020, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget
She used the N-word. You're done.
Was it "nice" -- yeah, but having her basically meant options, I'm backing away.
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post 1611075431 07-19-2020, 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
First sane thing ive read on the misc in months srs. At least you realize what truly is going on


Im going to tell you what she means with that message btw: "I met a better looking guy than you and im going to go on a few dates with him, fuk him 3 or 4 times, maybe send him some nudes, and if he doesnt commit to me i will complain about him on my whatsapp groups calling him a 'fukboi', and then ill proceed to reach out to you and see if you are still willing to entertain me, at least until i find another Chad and i delude myself again into thinking i can get him to commit to me, as unlikely as it may be seeing how every other woman is after the same dude too for exactly the same superficial reasons as i am, while leaving an army of normal/nice enough dudes hoping for a simple reply"
I know who her ex is and I'm waaaaay better looking than him, but I guess I'd say her taste in men is hit or miss -- also she's bi too, likes girls.
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
she's bi too, likes girls.
Surprise surprise!!!
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
I know who her ex is and I'm waaaaay better looking than him, but I guess I'd say her taste in men is hit or miss -- also she's bi too, likes girls.
"Ive met someone"


She isnt talking about her ex...
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post 1611076781 07-19-2020, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Tomohokk
He's just gonna get burned by more women. Play stupid games win stupid prizes

Work on yourself so much that you are the one who rejects women, not the other way around. And life will truly be glorious when you reach that point. Trust that
This tends to be my attitude. Most women will end up being a waste of time. Working on yourself to the point of women chasing you would lead to an overall quality life. Just takes a lot of self control to not think with your penor.
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post 1611076881 07-19-2020, 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted By SweetDreamz
I ghost men all the time and here are the reasons:

1. He's a soyboy.
2. Incompatible in terms of religion, politics, ect. I'm a woman and I shouldn't teach or influence a man how to think. Refer to reason #1.
3. Not chasing me, not planning dates in advance ect...Refer to #1.
4. Stingy, doesn't pay for everything. Refer to reason #1. Fortunately I haven't encountered men like this in years.
5. No chemistry, he can be the hottest man on Earth but I'm just not attracted to his pheromones.
6. If I sense he just wants to hit and quit/commitment-phobe.
7. He's broke, lazy, spends money on stupid things like video games or activities that don't benefit him physically or financially.
8. Mental health issues
9. Mommy or daddy issues
10. Divorced/has kids
11. Talks about his ex girlfriend even once

etc etc...
Unless he's Chad as then you'll bang him behind a KFC dumpster within 3 minutes.
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Threads like this reminds me of how effective my policy was when I was dating.

New women got 1 week of texting and then they either had time for a call or they didn't. 90% didn't but it was such a great filter.

The woman I married moved from chat to the phone to skype in a week and had no issue with it.
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post 1611077551 07-19-2020, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
"Ive met someone"


She isnt talking about her ex...
No I'm talking in past tense, I know who her ex is, so based off of that her taste in men isn't... as good looking.
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post 1611077771 07-19-2020, 04:19 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
No I'm talking in past tense, I know who her ex is, so based off of that her taste in men isn't... as good looking.
Brb she has one average looking ex so that means she doesnt like good looking guys.





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Originally Posted By SweetDreamz
I ghost men all the time and here are the reasons:

1. He's a soyboy.
2. Incompatible in terms of religion, politics, ect. I'm a woman and I shouldn't teach or influence a man how to think. Refer to reason #1.
3. Not chasing me, not planning dates in advance ect...Refer to #1.
4. Stingy, doesn't pay for everything. Refer to reason #1. Fortunately I haven't encountered men like this in years.
5. No chemistry, he can be the hottest man on Earth but I'm just not attracted to his pheromones.
6. If I sense he just wants to hit and quit/commitment-phobe.
7. He's broke, lazy, spends money on stupid things like video games or activities that don't benefit him physically or financially.
8. Mental health issues
9. Mommy or daddy issues
10. Divorced/has kids
11. Talks about his ex girlfriend even once

etc etc...
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
I sent girl #2 a text saying "Hey, bummed we didn't get to hang out, I wasn't expecting anything, just vibed hanging out with you"

And this is what I got back from her about 24 hours later, clearly I'm not a priority and she's treating me like an option. I left her on read, not going to reply.

unexpected butt stuff more like it, go NC
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Originally Posted By guest89
This but there is also the inverse of that. Take my cousin for example. Just hit 21. Has been single since she was 19. Tried tinder/bumble but deleted them almost instantly because literally every guy she matched with just wanted to fukk immediately. Tried dating guys she meets through friends/family members. Pretty much none of the dudes her age or that she meets really has anything going for them. Literally soyboys. Comes from a family where dudes are masculine, athletic, have professional careers and/or are a skilled tradie that makes good money. Have their sh!t together. Strong family ties. Etc. Pretty much every dude she meets can't measure up and just doesn't have their sh!t together.



0 problems getting ghosted or going on dates. Cannot find a dude worth going on more then 2 or 3 dates with. Based on her experiences dating I think a large portion of guys complaining about getting ghosted were lacking in other areas. IE may have been physically attractive enough for the chick but personality wise or career/life wise just wasn't worth the investment.



A decent girl that isn't looking to get plowed by every single Chad or Jamal that comes along is going to have higher standards on personality and where someone is going in life.
unattractive women with standards really are given a bad hand brah.
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
I sent girl #2 a text saying "Hey, bummed we didn't get to hang out, I wasn't expecting anything, just vibed hanging out with you"

And this is what I got back from her about 24 hours later, clearly I'm not a priority and she's treating me like an option. I left her on read, not going to reply.

pretty beta behavior.
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Originally Posted By umadbroski
pretty beta behavior.
Nah, alpha because you're getting the answers you want rather than waiting around.

I demand respect, if you can't be honest with me, then you're not worth my time.

Got my answer so I can walk the phuck away.
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
Nah, alpha because you're getting the answers you want rather than waiting around.

I demand respect, if you can't be honest with me, then you're not worth my time.

Got my answer so I can walk the phuck away.
you sound like someone whos not phucking brah.

Quit taking chit srs. its all a joke. go talk to more girls. FFS.
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I like threads like these because it helps to know I'm not the only one struggling so bad and who is so utterly disappointed with how girls are.

There is no way in hell women have always been like this. Social media definitely changed the game. Hypergamy has always been there and they probably always sought an alpha male to get fuked by and a beta to raise the bastard, but idk man it's such a flakely cheap culture we live in. Dating is such a stupid mindfuk there is no way men throughout history have always had to deal with this kind of stupid chit.

Yet like others have said I also still see couples everywhere I go. It drives me crazy sometimes trying to figure out where and how they met. Like what did that guy do that I'm not doing that made that girl stick with him?

Then I remember and realize that there are definitely quality normal girls out there but every time I meet one she's already taken.

It was surreal going through my 20's and seeing the quality of girls my age drop off so dramatically as time went on. By about 25 years old it seemed like it was only trash left.

At my age (32), I do feel like the clock is ticking for me and there is no chance in hell I'm going to get involved with a girl my age even if she has her **** together and isn't a single mom. Just her age alone would turn me off.

So the best option is for me to cradle rob. I want a girl younger than 25. Obviously those are the most in demand women on the planet though so forget about meeting her online. Even if you're Chad she's got 10's of Chad's offering her dick every day and she'll never be able to decided which dick to sit on and stay on.

Unless you join some volunteer group or something then cold approach is really the only option left for most of us. Honestly I couldn't even do some volunteer bullchit at this point as it would be obvious to everyone I just joined to find a girlfriend and that would probably kill any vibe.
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
Woman #1 seems to want to take things slow, "see where they go" and ends up going MIA for 3 weeks, eventually gets into a a relationship with a new man.

Woman #2 pretty much was DTF right off the bat, was stoked to hang out Monday night, then was like "Oh I can't tonight" -- and hasn't been texting all week, left me on a read all day today.

JESUS CHRIST MAN.

WTF.

This is beyond pathetic, barely getting a girl to stay interested in you for a few weeks isa lot of phucking work for so little return.
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Chads do the same thing to them if it makes you feel any better, I turned down sex three times last week and ghosted all three.
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LOL I had a good chuckle at all the rustled jimmies.

I know ya'll don't want to hear about women having standards because they're harder to get than your average plain jane. If you're upset about my comment then maybe you can transfer that energy into self improvement and not project your inadequacy onto others. Like minds attract.

Everybody gets ghosted! It's not nice but life isn't fair! Nobody owes you an explanation especially if you've barely been on a few dates with the person.
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I too am fed up. i've been dealing with the same mindset for far too long.
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Even the female miscer agrees with me^. Self-improvement, even if it involves hopping on tech, is much better than whining on the misc for years on end (which I’ve seen many of you do) about a dating scene that’s only getting tougher as the days and years go by
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Originally Posted By SweetDreamz
LOL I had a good chuckle at all the rustled jimmies.

I know ya'll don't want to hear about women having standards because they're harder to get than your average plain jane. If you're upset about my comment then maybe you can transfer that energy into self improvement and not project your inadequacy onto others. Like minds attract.

Everybody gets ghosted! It's not nice but life isn't fair! Nobody owes you an explanation especially if you've barely been on a few dates with the person.
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I waited about 24 hours to text her back cus she did the same to me, and hit her with this...

“Ah I see, well I don’t want to be someone’s option. Give me a call if you change your mind, good luck with the new one ✌🏻“

And deleted the thread after send
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
I waited about 24 hours to text her back cus she did the same to me, and hit her with this...

“Ah I see, well I don’t want to be someone’s option. Give me a call if you change your mind, good luck with the new one ✌“

And deleted the thread after send
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
I waited about 24 hours to text her back cus she did the same to me, and hit her with this...

“Ah I see, well I don’t want to be someone’s option. Give me a call if you change your mind, good luck with the new one ✌🏻“

And deleted the thread after send
I see where you are coming from, but this just sounds butthurt and bitter.
Should of just stayed NC but not like you would of kept talking to her anyway I guess
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