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Have you checked her tiktok

Friend needs to tell her she has 24 hours to come home or he is giving away all her stuff. After 24hours he needs to dump all her things on the front lawn with a 'free' sign on it.

Let me guess. Conservative/protective father but weak parenting?

That is scary

Maybe they can offer her money to come home.

Dolan twins are god tier btw hnnnnggghh

Threats of punishment won't bring her back.

Definitely call the police and check your options.

Scout her fb and get in touch with her friends parents, it's likely one of them is sick af of her freeloading for a week. Otherwise you might spot recent correspondence with whoever she's staying with.

When she eventually comes back treat her with love. Concede that she's a sloot, provide her with safe sex tools like condoms or birth control and hope as she matures she realised what a kunt she's been.

Do be stinger around providing her with straight cash in future.

Be good role models.

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Tell her that she better make sure the person she is with treats her well because she's no longer allowed home.

When she finally comes back home have a pillow sack full of Valencia Oranges ready and teach her the lesson of her life. The oranges get the job done and they don't leave a bruise

Not feminism. I did the same thing when I was 15 for about 10 days. My mum threatened with police instead of just quietly talking to them. Made me just go fuk you and stay away longer.

If you put her under house arrest when she returns she's just gonna bounce again. So make your home a welcoming place, give her tools so you don't get an early grandchild and talk about boundaries in terms of sex in your home is disrespectful to the parents. Go do it somewhere else.

A lot of kids go through a rebellious phase, a year from now she'll probably clean up her act and realise she's a kunt and stop slooting.

You boot her out and you're setting her up to be a poverty sloot for life.

Daughters...

Remember this.

[Serious] My wife walked in on our daughter having sex with 2 guys? How do we handle it?

My wife and I were supposed to be out of town for the weekend but our plans changed and we came home a day early. My wife walked in on our 18 year old daughter having sex with 2 guys at the same time. Our daughter is not aware that this happened since my wife quickly walked out and we got in the car and drove away.

Our daughter has always been a great kid. Good grades, no drug or drinking issues. Played sports in high school. She's going to a local university and often stays at our house and we love seeing her. She broke up with her long time boyfriend right after classes started in August. We knew that she was having sex with the prior boyfriend so we are not prudes but we are worried about her encounter with two guys. STD's and pregnancy are of course a concern but our biggest issue is how to handle this particular encounter and behavior.

Since this happened a week ago my wife and I have been arguing about how to handle it. Any suggestions from other parents.

Update: This is more of an issue with my wife and she is looking for ideas on how to approach this. I told her our daughter is an adult and can make these choices while my wife wants us to have this huge intervention with her. I think the intervention is a huge mistake. I'm trying to find out if there is some middle ground here. We have never spoken to our daughter about ground rules now that she is an adult. In high school we have rules but these don't really apply now that she is over 18.

Update 2: I'm spending the morning with my daughter while my wife is out with friends. I have decided to talk with her about the situation. Since I experimented at her age in a similar situation without regrets about it I feel I have some positive perspective on it. I want to make sure she's doing it for the right reasons and not out of attention or by being pressured. Safety is a concern too. My wife is determined to go nuclear on her later today so I want to discuss it with my daughter first. While I'm going to go through my concerns about safety and her motivation for what she's doing. I want her to know she's loved and that we care for her and to state some house rules. Thank you for all the ideas and advice. My mindset is parenting doesn't stop at 18 and her safety and happiness are my biggest concern.

Update 3 - Conversation with my daughter: I spoke to my daughter this morning and it went better than I expected. I honestly don't know how my wife is going to speak to her about it. My wife knows I was going to have this conversation and I'm hoping that me having the conversation first will help to defuse the situation a lot or at least some. My daughter was understandably mortified that we knew and that my wife saw anything happen. My daughter was not aware that we had come home and was very apologetic and embarrassed.

Once we got past that, we were able to talk about safety and other things. She was indeed safe and I was at least happy to hear that this encounter took place with her ex-boyfriend and another friend of theirs versus two guys she might have just met. She said her ex and her have been in a FWB situation since breaking up and that last weekend was her second threesome with them. She doesn't know if she will do it any more but she said she wants to continue to see her ex-boyfriend casually. (They are going to school about 2 hours apart)

We talked about boundaries and she said she made a mistake doing it openly in the den. I am quite sure she will never have sex in a place she can be discovered again. She was very embarrassed and is concerned what her mother now thinks of her. I told how her much we love her and wanted her to always be able to come to me. About 20 minutes after our conversation she told me how much she loved me and thanked me for showing how much I cared about her and not judging her. Not a dry eye in the place. I hope that I can now convince my wife not to condemn her for this but to realize it's part of growing up. I need to remind my wife how mortified her own mom was when she caught her giving a blow job to her boyfriend when she was in high school and how her reaction put a dent in their relationship for a long time.

Thank you for all your help and feedback on this. I realize now that this community is so sex positive which is not necessarily a bad thing. Almost all of the comments on here were productive in nature trying to help and I appreciate that. Your comments helped me to think through a way to approach this in the best way possible for our family. Thank you!

How do they even know they're messaging her and not someone else who has her phone/acct?

I hope this isn't true but she could be getting sucked into human trafficking and someone might be controlling her

I strongly doubt her friend's parents would stick their neck out and hide a child from their parents or police. She has to be with an adult but not an adult dumb enough to go to jail for harboring a child

One of the things i told him is to never cross the boundary of her door, thats like her only line of defense and they actually got in a fight about her locking the door because she would always lock herself in exxesively and he found pipes and stuff in her room.

So its like an animals primal level of self survival if you crash in there they have nothing left on the earth and need independent privacy as a primal need. I told him to do the convincing outside that door and respect that as her only shield.

Thats a good goal probably. The thing is the inverse could work and put fear in her heart and maybe she wants discipline secretly. He was spoiling her a lot. And she seems emo, craving emotional clashes.

She's 13 mate, you're trying to be too intellectual about someone who isn't fully mentally developed yet. She's not thinking about the influence of tiktok or reverse psyching you. Odds are she's dreading the consequences of her return and that's keeping her away.

Weed or meth pipes? One would have me more concerned than the other.