We all just gonna gloss over the fact that shes in a hospital here?

Corona?

Don't know how to multi on my phone.

Iron infusion round 2/ second dose. Usually infusion txmt lasts me a year at least. Had a check up 3 months out from my previous txmt and my numbers had already dropped below normal. It's isn't fun. Mostly annoying because I want to get back to looking and feeling like myself again.

Old miscers who are married are deluded as ****. Try divorcing your other half and then jumping on tinder for a week to either get ghosted by a 2/10 or in terms of Op have a train ran on them . I swear the boomers are always oblivious just how much relationships have changed these days. FOH

Nothing sexy going on here ATM.

https://i.imgur.com/bRZ9aoB.jpg

Considering atomic's lift numbers maybe you two should do a couples "best booty" thread.

We can vote on the winner's prize. Or loser's forfeit.

Old miscers who are married are deluded as ****. Try divorcing your other half and then jumping on tinder for a week to either get ghosted by a 2/10 or in terms of Op have a train ran on them . I swear the boomers are always oblivious just how much relationships have changed these days. FOH

Love for life is a constant choice. You’re right



Wouldn’t be single if you paid me

But the rose tinted glasses they wear about a past they never lived in, it wasn’t all easy peasy lemon squeezy yaknow

Why is your default for female interaction tinder and not real life? You talk about relationships changing but your example is a superficial dating app mostly on looks 100%.

No hymen no diamond crew

Yes. It's been that way since christmas.. but i left it. Because d!ck in the box is suitable for all holidays.

All you need to find a suitable mate:

- be real with yourself and with others. Know who YOU are.
- be realistic with your standards and expectations based on what you, yourself, have to offer.

Everything else will fall into place.

It was only a few hundred years ago that the idea that you would be in love with your wife was considered ridiculous. Being in "love" was for whores or a mistress. Your got married to form a family for child raising. Like a job.
I have no interest in children but if I did I would want a woman that understands this concept. If we eat steak everyday, no matter how great the steak is we are going to get sick of steak over time. You have to both agree that it is your job to eat steak for the next 20 years no matter how sick of eating steak you get. We don't live in a Disney movie or a romcom. Those are fiction.

- We know the nature of people and society is DRASTICALLY different than even 20 years ago
- We know that the average wagecel male will never earn enough to support an entire household and the average sloot has a million dink miles
- We know that men are only valued as providers, male job loss is the #1 indicator for divorce
- We know we aren't a pair bonding species by nature and we will ALWAYS be subconsciously influenced by our ape DNA
- We know the social guardrails used to stratify monogamous commitment have been removed
- We know that marriage is a one sided legal property contract that provides women with emotional leverage and financial incentives to break the contract
- We know that every economic and social indicator we have are predicting a declining living standard for western civilization for at least the next 50 years
- We know there is a high likelihood your children will be raised by social media to be sloots/neckbeards/addicts/depressedcels
- We know half of marriages end in divorce and the majority of ones still intact are miserable


I guess it's still not enough to pull ourselves away from the allure of that life, eh?

The hell? Are you dying?

Why is your iron low? Is there an underlying causes

How you coping with fatigue?

The topic of this post is really misleading, my current one may not like it but as a miscer seeking wives I just wanted to repost my add that I am accepting applications, you must be willing to clean multiple times per day

What's your longest relationship?

Personally I think it’s a huge turn off when girls post attention whore pics on social media, like the girl in the OP. For that reason alone I would find it difficult to marry her.

I feel like you made this thread in response to me bby.
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=178989831

Whether you did or not, my thread was just a list of red flags collected from Miscers in a past thread.
No evaluation if they were good red flags or not.

My question was, how does one go about finding out the red flags before you've invested too much.

I mean, take your OP for example. You say its simple and list only three categories. But within each category you have a list of questions. Your categories are a lot more complicated than you make them seem. Its not so easy after all.

SoPURELY from aPRACTICAL STANDPOINT, how do you go about figuring out if your partner fits your three categories. You can't just ask on the third or even fifth date - what is your vision for marriage and child rearing. Obviously its too soon to be so direct about long-term. But if you wait 6 months, its too late. You've already wasted 6 months to a year of your life with her added baggage to your life too.

So we have to look for signals. Instead I'll ask about her parents and her parent's method of marriage and child rearing. This would be the best indicator of her vision/goals.


Your OP is in a lecturing tone, without the class curriculum.

Teach me, Grandma Misc, how do I figure out if the girl fits the categories and questions you list?

Yea I agree and that is great and all, but when the general populace of females have sex with tons of different men, which means they don't respect or value their own body, and then acts like we should, how is that not hypocritical? Why should I accept that?

Why should I accept a female who posts pictures of her ass and tits on social media including male friends, coworkers, family members, etc.

Why should I settle for someone that doesn't fit all the major boxes of mine?
-Religious
-Conservative views on sex, marriage, finances, kids, schooling, etc
-I want several kids
-I want to have a homestead style house with some extra land to grow food and animals

Do you know how hard it is nowadays to find a female like that and find them attractive also? Do you know how hard it is to find a female that is loyal, not insane, honest, doesn't hide things, dresses conservatively, and doesn't whore themselves out?

Actually it was inspired by this thread:
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=179007281

I don't know that you can get there in 3 dates. If you wanna go for more efficiency then you might want to set yourself up in a "group interview" type situation. Do you have a friend group? Know other guys that are looking too, but maybe not for exactly what you are looking for?

If you can pull together a crew with regular social activities then you can spend time with multiple women and some of them repeatedly. Would be tough to do right now because of the pandemic restrictions, but that has to end eventually.



I agreed in an earlier post ITT that there have been real changes. AFAIK you are a genuine guy seeking an equal, not a guy that is just coping because you want someone better than you could realistically get with.

My post wasn't meant to imply that men should just take anyone they can get, it was to say you shouldn't rush to judgement because you have convinced yourself that you will be safe if you find a "just so" woman.



This is a big problem.



I'm sorry that you have been plagued with unsuitable women. I believe you when you say it is hard and I hope you find a good one.

FWIW I don't believe "good ones" have ever been super common. But I do know some personally. Not single though.

I have a cousin who I believe has a very good woman and a good marriage. He is no Chad- average face, struggles with his weight, doesn't have a fat wallet - but he is a genuinely good man who is the leader of his family and his wife is lovely. They met as part of the same church youth group in their 20s. She was a beauty pageant contestant and I would say she is even prettier on the inside. They have 4 children; two natural and two adopted.

And, because misc, she works out and runs regularly and isn't fat.

Resident misc granny here bored of another "female body count" thread.

There isn't one single reliable factor to find the right wifey for you. Yeah, there are "red flags" to watch out for and you may absolutely have your own personal preferences.

But by putting up more and more "gates" to filter your choices you may reduce your pool of likely candidates down to a point where you can't find anyone at all either due to chance or your own personal value vs. the value of the women you are pursuing.

There are still some good ones out there. I think there must be since good parents mostly raise good kids.

If you are serious about wanting to have a family the common factors I've seen in relationships that last are:

Attraction:Doesn't matter if other people think your choice is hot, just if you think she is attractive. Attraction can start with face + body, but it can also be things like sound of her voice, how she moves, a sparkle in her eyes, the way she dresses, etc. etc. etc.

Good Character:Does she have integrity? Loyalty? Kindness? Perseverance? Bravery? Openness? You may have some others that matter to you. Those first few matter quite a bit though. If she keeps her word, isn't two-faced, wouldn't intentionally lash out at someone who is down, and doesn't quit at the first hard situation, or the second, then you have a better chance of making it.

Shared Vision:Do you want the same thing? Share the way that you prioritize? This is big.

If you can't imagine a life with kids or a life without them then you want to know if you are on the same page early. Is religion important to you and are your partners desires around faith compatible? Do you want to always live near your family or do you want to tramp around until something clicks? Maybe there is someplace that you have always wanted to live. Do you expect to share all of the work (earning money, keeping house, childcare, money management) or are there areas that you want primary control of, or want minimal involvement with? Talk that out. Maybe you both want children, but neither one wants to be a stay home parent. Could be that you can arrange your jobs/work schedules so that you both share in child rearing, or maybe you hire someone or use outside childcare.

That's it. It might be nice to think that her education level, number of previous partners, parents' marriage, or size of her arms will guarantee your "happily ever after" marriage. Real life doesn't work like that.

Pics of a woman I found on Insta while looking at pics of RVs.

About 5 years ago:



She met a man (fellow outdoor enthusiast/hiker), fell in love, got married.

He is a welder and travels to jobsites. They wanted to keep their family together, so they bought a toyhauler and took to the road:



Over the years they have had 3 children (which has to be very challenging under the circumstances) and they seem happy together:



Don't trip yourself up with a bunch of superficial BS.

Show us your tits

I'm here for this

Tldr post pics of ass