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09-24-2020, 01:54 PM

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#8701

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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩

You telling me you got 600 matches in one day?

Yeah, the first day, beginners boost I suppose, but I imagine every damn woman in the Toronto/Metro area is on Bumble, I know it's a big area, but it's crazy, I live an hour outside.

Here's a video of my queue so you don't think I'm full of shiet:

09-24-2020, 03:19 PM

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#8702

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Originally Posted By Midi77⏩

Yeah, the first day, beginners boost I suppose, but I imagine every damn woman in the Toronto/Metro area is on Bumble, I know it's a big area, but it's crazy, I live an hour outside.

Here's a video of my queue so you don't think I'm full of shiet:

So you swiped right on over 600 chicks? In less than a day?

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09-24-2020, 06:15 PM

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#8703

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Originally Posted By Midi77⏩

I have one selfie, and and action shot that you can't even tell it's me. 600+ matches in first day in Toronto area... Any of you guys live near there, Bumble is a goldmine in those parts.

near the border in NY and when i did online post divorce yrs ago some of the apps didn't even have an option to block candians so i kept matching with women in toronto because it's a straight shot across the lake from Buffalo.

got a few to meet me at the casino in Ft. Erie for the night but it might as well of been prostitution because I was paying for the room and taking them out on the town.

Toronto is densely populated with a lot of hot women.
It's like dating in any major city.
It really isn't remarkable to math with hundreds of women.

matches don't mean chit if they don't end up on your dik.

09-24-2020, 06:19 PM

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#8704

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩

So you swiped right on over 600 chicks? In less than a day?

hahahahahahaha.
didn't think of this.

I once got 15 swipes out while taking a chit.
how long does it take to do 600?

09-24-2020, 06:55 PM

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#8705

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Originally Posted By Austin317⏩

Turns out professional photos cost a few hundred. Something I don’t have the luxury to afford right now. Finding it pretty difficult saying to friends “hey let’s do something today but also take pictures of me” without them calling me a **** lol.

Professional photos is something I am going to do eventually though as I believe it’ll be good for linkedin and my own company’s internal portfolio and resume. Everyone has photos of themselves on there so I think I should probably have some taken of myself aswell.

Get a professional photographer to take photos for your linkedin or something but perhaps they can take one that kinda looks unplanned as if you are in the middle of something. Depends on your work but dressed professionally and doing something so it’s natural and not some awkward passport photo style or awkwardly standing and staring at the camera.

Add one of these in your dating profile and the rest keep casual. Perhaps some holiday photo, a photo with friends but blur them out so it’s clear which one is you and most girls like puppies lol. Getting a photo with some cute animal (preferably a dog) will get you extra matches for sure. Just try not give any desperate and try-hard vibes. If your account only has professional photos it will look strange.

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09-24-2020, 06:56 PM

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#8706

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Originally Posted By Midi77⏩

Yeah, the first day, beginners boost I suppose, but I imagine every damn woman in the Toronto/Metro area is on Bumble, I know it's a big area, but it's crazy, I live an hour outside.

Here's a video of my queue so you don't think I'm full of shiet:

Major props bruh, it's nice to finally see a bruh winning in here instead of the usual whining and bitching.

Toronto was easy to clean up in on tinder.

09-24-2020, 07:01 PM

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#8707

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Originally Posted By 4North1Side2⏩

Major props bruh, it's nice to finally see a bruh winning in here instead of the usual whining and bitching.

https://i.imgur.com/fukssxg.png

Congrats on not bitching or whining after being attractive enough to get 10k+ matches and high interest!

It's super easy to have a positive mindset when you have high success. Well done?

Stop bragging.

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09-24-2020, 07:20 PM

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#8708

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09-24-2020, 08:02 PM

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#8709

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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

Must stay strong

Wait, which ex????

And don't do it!!!!!!

This is why I deleted every single thing of FWB. All pics, number, everything. Granted, I could go into my cell phone records and get his number, but I won't.

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09-24-2020, 08:05 PM

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#8710

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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

Must stay strong

Noooo

Looks like I have another date this weekend. Nobody has said a word about covid either...

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09-24-2020, 08:46 PM

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#8711

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩

Wait, which ex????

And don't do it!!!!!!

This is why I deleted every single thing of FWB. All pics, number, everything. Granted, I could go into my cell phone records and get his number, but I won't.

I think it’s just my emotions getting to me. Especially after sushi guy.

Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

Noooo

Looks like I have another date this weekend. Nobody has said a word about covid either...

I won’t and apparently not many people care for COVID lol especially in the early & late 20s crowd

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09-24-2020, 08:49 PM

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#8712

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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

I think it’s just my emotions getting to me. Especially after sushi guy.

Verbally abusive?! Abort! Abort! Do NOT contact him!

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09-24-2020, 08:54 PM

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#8713

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩

Verbally abusive?! Abort! Abort! Do NOT contact him!

Alright lol this will be my last vocaroo. Feels good to vent verbally vs text tho. Woooo

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09-24-2020, 08:59 PM

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#8714

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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

Alright lol this will be my last vocaroo. Feels good to vent verbally vs text tho. Woooo

Awwww sweetie, I know you're worried about that. The more you stress about it though, the harder it will be to find the right person. Unfortunately you can't rush into something just to have kids, that will only end in disaster.

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09-24-2020, 09:01 PM

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#8715

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩

Awwww sweetie, I know you're worried about that. The more you stress about it though, the harder it will be to find the right person. Unfortunately you can't rush into something just to have kids, that will only end in disaster.

Thanks mama legz and I know. That’s why I made sure not to settle for someone like sushi guy. Yeah. I want kids, but I also don’t want to be unhappy. I also don’t want an unhappy home for the children.

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09-24-2020, 09:02 PM

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#8716

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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

Thanks mama legz and I know. That’s why I made sure not to settle for someone like sushi guy. Yeah. I want kids, but I also don’t want to be unhappy. I also don’t want an unhappy home for the children.

You still have plenty of time. Just stop stressing about it and try to meet guys and have some fun dating. It'll happen.

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09-24-2020, 10:26 PM

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#8717

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩

You still have plenty of time. Just stop stressing about it and try to meet guys and have some fun dating. It'll happen.

I’ll try to. I think that’s the biggest issue I have always struggled with. Stressing about meeting deadlines/time limits.

Ill keep trying to meet guys and have fun dating. We’ll see what I can find lol

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09-24-2020, 11:14 PM

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#8718

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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

Alright lol this will be my last vocaroo. Feels good to vent verbally vs text tho. Woooo

24 is v young, honestly. Do you have any idea how many women are looking on the apps age 28-32+? LOTS. And honestly that age is fine with me to meet and have kids.

I'm 12 years older than you, so I know the feeling. It does kinda suck. But there's plenty of time for you, my Mom was mid-30's when I was born and they're very traditional.

You actually have a decade to still find someone, settle down and have kids. Definitely 5 years without worrying at all.

Edit: I will add that even if you do have trouble having kids (plenty of couples do), there are options. If you're really worried about fertility and really want your own biological kids, then consider freezing eggs. Your age may not even be the primary factor there.

The other reason I'd know you're so young, even if you didn't list your age, is the idealism. Approaching mid-30's I let go of some "ideals" I had about how my life would go, and it's quite liberating. You may not have the white picket fence at age 25 with the breadwinner husband and 2 kids. But really, who cares? You'll discover that you can be perfectly happy with other life paths; even adoption, even marrying later etc.

I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue your desires, but be careful about fulfilling either the expectations others have of you, or you have of yourself based on idealistic notions.

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09-24-2020, 11:35 PM

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#8719

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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

Alright lol this will be my last vocaroo. Feels good to vent verbally vs text tho. Woooo

You're still very young. Plenty of time.

Just do not settle and ignore red flags to meet your imaginary deadlines. When the time is right though, bring up (casually) in conversation that you would like to have kids by 30 or something so guys who are overwhelmed at that thought don't lead you on.

09-25-2020, 12:06 AM

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#8720

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

Noooo

Looks like I have another date this weekend. Nobody has said a word about covid either...

I have a girl coming over on the weekend for a couple hours just before I go over my friends house to watch the fights. Just gonna bang then drop her home.

As far as Covid goes I don’t think anybody cares srs. I believe the uk got locked down in like March, I think I was on a date by April and have probably had 4-5 different ones since then. My office has been re opened since mid April and it’s full of people coughing their lungs up. I genuinely believe there may be some people in there that NEED to be tested however as long as people are passing the temperature check on the way in nobody gives a fk. Little bit too relaxed if I’m honest.

09-25-2020, 12:17 AM

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#8721

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

24 is v young, honestly. Do you have any idea how many women are looking on the apps age 28-32+? LOTS. And honestly that age is fine with me to meet and have kids.

I'm 12 years older than you, so I know the feeling. It does kinda suck. But there's plenty of time for you, my Mom was mid-30's when I was born and they're very traditional.

You actually have a decade to still find someone, settle down and have kids. Definitely 5 years without worrying at all.

Edit: I will add that even if you do have trouble having kids (plenty of couples do), there are options. If you're really worried about fertility and really want your own biological kids, then consider freezing eggs. Your age may not even be the primary factor there.

The other reason I'd know you're so young, even if you didn't list your age, is the idealism. Approaching mid-30's I let go of some "ideals" I had about how my life would go, and it's quite liberating. You may not have the white picket fence at age 25 with the breadwinner husband and 2 kids. But really, who cares? You'll discover that you can be perfectly happy with other life paths; even adoption, even marrying later etc.

I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue your desires, but be careful about fulfilling either the expectations others have of you, or you have of yourself based on idealistic notions.

Oh I know there are a lot of older women on apps. I just don’t want to be that way lol

Only 12 years? Honestly thought it would’ve been more. I know i still have a decent amount of time, but it’s a bit hard to set aside the time stamps I gave myself. Of course you are correct about my idealism lol I kinda never want to lose it tbh. Just need to find a balance between that and realism.

I have thought about egg freezing beforehand. Still might look into, but I still want to adopt one kid.

I guess I diluted myself into a certain mindset and family/traditions really haven’t helped with it either. Married before 28, at least one kid, SAHM, etc. It’s always been a goal for mine since I was younger. One of the reasons why I didn’t play around so much in high school.

I understand that and I’m trying to find the balance as I go. I know I won’t personally rush anything. Due to the fact I already have enough on my plate. Job, completing my degree, taking care of my parents, volunteer work, etc. There’s already so much stress on my shoulders that having a kid would only add to it rn. Just need to be more realistic and stop letting my emotions control me. Which will take a long time to grasp lol

But thank you. I really appreciate your input and same with Skinnyfat’s

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09-25-2020, 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩

You're still very young. Plenty of time.

Just do not settle and ignore red flags to meet your imaginary deadlines. When the time is right though, bring up (casually) in conversation that you would like to have kids by 30 or something so guys who are overwhelmed at that thought don't lead you on.

I won’t settle. I want a marriage and kids, but not to the point where I’d let red flags go. In the end I want to be happy lol settling wouldn’t do it. I do mention it all of the time but so far most guys I’ve met state they don’t really believe in marriage anymore lol same with children. That’s why I usually just stick with men that are 30+ (Maybe late 20s)

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09-25-2020, 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

Oh I know there are a lot of older women on apps. I just don’t want to be that way lol

Only 12 years? Honestly thought it would’ve been more. I know i still have a decent amount of time, but it’s a bit hard to set aside the time stamps I gave myself. Of course you are correct about my idealism lol I kinda never want to lose it tbh. Just need to find a balance between that and realism.

I have thought about egg freezing beforehand. Still might look into, but I still want to adopt one kid.

I guess I diluted myself into a certain mindset and family/traditions really haven’t helped with it either. Married before 28, at least one kid, SAHM, etc. It’s always been a goal for mine since I was younger. One of the reasons why I didn’t play around so much in high school.

I typed a longer response but got a site error.

Basically I said that you can seek the life you want, without stressing over reaching some specific age marker just to fulfill an arbitrary idealized goal.

I understand it's difficult to drop, but you really do have plenty of time.

And yes, stick with men 28+ generally.

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩

So you swiped right on over 600 chicks? In less than a day?

No, Bumble puts them in a queue, just like Tinder, there are 600 people who already swiped on you, I've swiped maybe 6 people, I'm too lazy for that. The point is, the Toronto scene is endless, if guys live near there, or within a couple of hours, it's worth it.

09-25-2020, 09:13 AM

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#8725

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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩

I won’t settle. I want a marriage and kids, but not to the point where I’d let red flags go. In the end I want to be happy lol settling wouldn’t do it. I do mention it all of the time but so far most guys I’ve met state they don’t really believe in marriage anymore lol same with children. That’s why I usually just stick with men that are 30+ (Maybe late 20s)

Glad to hear you won't settle.

Have you tried a legit matchmaker?
What's your cultural background and do you date within it usually or no?

09-25-2020, 11:02 AM

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Sucks, it indicates this girl smokes cigarettes "sometimes" on her profile, didn't notice before. Definitely a long term dealbreaker for me.

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09-25-2020, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted By Midi77⏩

No, Bumble puts them in a queue, just like Tinder, there are 600 people who already swiped on you, I've swiped maybe 6 people, I'm too lazy for that. The point is, the Toronto scene is endless, if guys live near there, or within a couple of hours, it's worth it.

Oh, you pay for that?

Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

Sucks, it indicates this girl smokes cigarettes "sometimes" on her profile, didn't notice before. Definitely a long term dealbreaker for me.

I wouldn't even bother with someone who says they smoke at all.