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10-25-2020, 10:25 PM
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Why do you want to smash her so bad? Is she hotter than most of the women you get? Are you on a cold streak? Do you want the validation of smashing her after she's breadcrumbed you for years?
I had a "friend" like that too. Eventually I became confident enough that I could attract women as hot as or hotter than her regularly and now if I ever reach out (big if) there'll be no mind games and she can take or leave what I offer (casual). In most scenarios the answer is also self-improvement.
Also, for the most part you should not refer to these women as friends either as there's rarely a genuine friendship once you mix in all the flirty behavior.
I had a "friend" like that too. Eventually I became confident enough that I could attract women as hot as or hotter than her regularly and now if I ever reach out (big if) there'll be no mind games and she can take or leave what I offer (casual). In most scenarios the answer is also self-improvement.
Also, for the most part you should not refer to these women as friends either as there's rarely a genuine friendship once you mix in all the flirty behavior.
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Originally Posted By kauseemcee⏩
ThisFR I'd be finding out her motives with a straight up question like "why are you tryna get back in my life after you basically ghosted me"
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Originally Posted By sv722⏩
Your her concurred soul, papi.I'd like some advice on a girl that i am / used to be friends with. We met about 4 years ago and have been close. I've had several chances to smash and she always flirted with me but I failed to do so as she was dating a buddy of mine at the time.
I have since fallen out with that buddy and we no longer speak. Looking back on it, i should have smashed when i had the chance as my "buddy" turned out to be a jealous Piece of chit. I moved cities to start a new career in 2017 and haven't looked back since.
I messaged her in summer 2018 and asked her to come see me but she ended up ghosting me for 9 months. I was lowkey butthurt and a few friends suggested that she wasn't interested so i left it at that and focused on living my best life. From April 2019 she has been messaging me trying to meet me but i had lost interest and was still a little upset so i just carried on with my career and focused on other chit.
So i've been dodging her meet-up requests but keeping my text replies civil and not going apechit at her as i'm too polite to say what i really feel. She keeps on attempting to get into contact with me and even rang lat month but i didn't respond.
I get the feeling i'm being bread-crumbed and im certain she is on someone else's cock and only wants attention. I'd smash if i found her naked on my bed but i certainly am not going to put my neck out on the line to get rejected again and have my ego bruised.
What is the best way to proceed? Try and smash or just go NC?
No pics, but thank you for your time
I have since fallen out with that buddy and we no longer speak. Looking back on it, i should have smashed when i had the chance as my "buddy" turned out to be a jealous Piece of chit. I moved cities to start a new career in 2017 and haven't looked back since.
I messaged her in summer 2018 and asked her to come see me but she ended up ghosting me for 9 months. I was lowkey butthurt and a few friends suggested that she wasn't interested so i left it at that and focused on living my best life. From April 2019 she has been messaging me trying to meet me but i had lost interest and was still a little upset so i just carried on with my career and focused on other chit.
So i've been dodging her meet-up requests but keeping my text replies civil and not going apechit at her as i'm too polite to say what i really feel. She keeps on attempting to get into contact with me and even rang lat month but i didn't respond.
I get the feeling i'm being bread-crumbed and im certain she is on someone else's cock and only wants attention. I'd smash if i found her naked on my bed but i certainly am not going to put my neck out on the line to get rejected again and have my ego bruised.
What is the best way to proceed? Try and smash or just go NC?
No pics, but thank you for your time
She is returning to the scene of the crime for your energy, validation, and to feel the thrill of dangling it infront of someone she knows can't get it.... and never will.
She is the cat toying with a mouse before ripping its head off (when she give you one last real illusion of a chance.... then ghosts you forever for the guy she was waiting for all along).
Your answer, OP, is to realize this is a life lesson. Walk away, remove her contact from all mediums and proceed to live a happy life. You wont take this advice, you'll get crushed by her (pain is the ultimate teacher and provider of perspective).... but in the off chance you do listen to me and avoid the pain thats around the corner, then congrats on your future happiness. SRS
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10-25-2020, 11:18 PM
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Originally Posted By sv722⏩
sounds like you're hesitant. so i say no goMy gut tells me that she's after something whether it's attention or something else like money, i dunno.
10-25-2020, 11:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Hartley110⏩
Why would you be friends with a girl?
You were never friends... You wanted to sex her, but you settled as a just another male orbitor who she attentionwhoremaxxed.
You make **** happen by taking action, which you tried, and she ended up not being serious.
Now, she wants to leach out some more attention from you.
The solution is simple. You text her "I've learned a lot since I first started being friends with you. And well, I have absolutely zero desire to be friends with a female who I'm physically attracted to. I've attempted to hangout and make something happen between us, but you disrespected me by ghosting me after my invitation. If you want another chance with me, you'll have to make this up to me. When are you free? You can bring some food over and cook me dinner and then I'll get you naked."
Stop being friends with females and do not give any free attention, ever. Always make **** happen with females, they either comply or disappear. PERFECT.
You were never friends... You wanted to sex her, but you settled as a just another male orbitor who she attentionwhoremaxxed.
You make **** happen by taking action, which you tried, and she ended up not being serious.
Now, she wants to leach out some more attention from you.
The solution is simple. You text her "I've learned a lot since I first started being friends with you. And well, I have absolutely zero desire to be friends with a female who I'm physically attracted to. I've attempted to hangout and make something happen between us, but you disrespected me by ghosting me after my invitation. If you want another chance with me, you'll have to make this up to me. When are you free? You can bring some food over and cook me dinner and then I'll get you naked."
Stop being friends with females and do not give any free attention, ever. Always make **** happen with females, they either comply or disappear. PERFECT.
Hes right. Eiher throw down your hand (high risk, high reward) or stop wasting time on some oneitis sloot
10-26-2020, 05:15 AM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
I want to smash because of my ego. I had previous chances to smash but as i mentioned she was seeing my friend at the time and i also pussied out. She's okay looking, not a model but good enough for a tumble in the sack. I want to smash just to get back at her and feel good about myself.Why do you want to smash her so bad? Is she hotter than most of the women you get? Are you on a cold streak? Do you want the validation of smashing her after she's breadcrumbed you for years?
I had a "friend" like that too. Eventually I became confident enough that I could attract women as hot as or hotter than her regularly and now if I ever reach out (big if) there'll be no mind games and she can take or leave what I offer (casual). In most scenarios the answer is also self-improvement.
Also, for the most part you should not refer to these women as friends either as there's rarely a genuine friendship once you mix in all the flirty behavior.
I had a "friend" like that too. Eventually I became confident enough that I could attract women as hot as or hotter than her regularly and now if I ever reach out (big if) there'll be no mind games and she can take or leave what I offer (casual). In most scenarios the answer is also self-improvement.
Also, for the most part you should not refer to these women as friends either as there's rarely a genuine friendship once you mix in all the flirty behavior.
I've done well for myself and improved and i have been with better looking chicks but not smashing her just bugs the hell out of me! I wasted my chances and i want to redeem myself and prove to myself i can do it, if you see what i mean.
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10-26-2020, 05:55 AM
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Would you be in a relationship with her? If yes it might be worth the chance. If no and you only want to fuk, rejecting her advances can give much more fulfilment lol.
Fuking randoms also tends to "cut" potential female ties with the closest one to her
Fuking randoms also tends to "cut" potential female ties with the closest one to her
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Originally Posted By sv722⏩
That sounds like one big steaming pile of horsechit. You’ve been eating steak and you wanna bite of your former friends leftover cheeseburger? For what? This ego boost has nothing to do with her, but the “jealous piece of chit” ex and former friend. You’ve barely talked to, let alone seen this person in years and you’re this torn up?I want to smash because of my ego. I had previous chances to smash but as i mentioned she was seeing my friend at the time and i also pussied out. She's okay looking, not a model but good enough for a tumble in the sack. I want to smash just to get back at her and feel good about myself.
I've done well for myself and improved and i have been with better looking chicks but not smashing her just bugs the hell out of me! I wasted my chances and i want to redeem myself and prove to myself i can do it, if you see what i mean.
I've done well for myself and improved and i have been with better looking chicks but not smashing her just bugs the hell out of me! I wasted my chances and i want to redeem myself and prove to myself i can do it, if you see what i mean.
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have a few sloots like that
keeps rejecting to come over or meet up / hookup again with weird excuses
but wont stop texting me
like fuk off
keeps rejecting to come over or meet up / hookup again with weird excuses
but wont stop texting me
like fuk off
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10-26-2020, 06:27 AM
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Originally Posted By DSTEE⏩
I would not be in a relationship with her, hell no. Not after our history and the fact that she mocked me for wanting leftovers after my old friend finished fukking her.Would you be in a relationship with her? If yes it might be worth the chance. If no and you only want to fuk, rejecting her advances can give much more fulfilment lol.
Fuking randoms also tends to "cut" potential female ties with the closest one to her
Fuking randoms also tends to "cut" potential female ties with the closest one to her
I just wanna rage fukk her and move on.
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10-26-2020, 06:28 AM
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
HAHA it's funny you say that as she once said to me that wanting her is wanting leftovers becasue my old buddy had fukked and chukked her. She's going on the delete and block list now.That sounds like one big steaming pile of horsechit. You’ve been eating steak and you wanna bite of your former friendsleftovercheeseburger? For what? This ego boost has nothing to do with her, but the “jealous piece of chit” ex and former friend. You’ve barely talked to, let alone seen this person in years and you’re this torn up?
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Originally Posted By sv722⏩
Good man. She ain’t worth the trouble. Use that energy towards someone that genuinely wants your time.HAHA it's funny you say that as she once said to me that wanting her is wanting leftovers becasue my old buddy had fukked and chukked her. She's going on the delete and block list now.
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That's not how pics work.
You have 5 minutes.
You have 5 minutes.
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Happened to me aswell. She needs the attention, she'll never love you or suck your cock.
Go NC, troll her if you want some lulz but do not be fooled
Go NC, troll her if you want some lulz but do not be fooled
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
pics are pics okay?That's not how pics work.
You have 5 minutes.
You have 5 minutes.
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She knows you wanted to fuk her and she didnt want that back then but that doesnt mean she dont like the validation from it. Shes confused why you arent a beta orbiter like most men she trapped. Not giving her validation now when you did before. She is chasing that validation, wondering did she get fat, does she have less glow, why doesnt this guy seem to want to fuk me anymore. If she gets you to respond positively it means she "still has it". Its like aging married guys that are loyal but still went to bars on travel to see if they can get digits from sloots to see if they "still have it"
There is no point in telling her the truth, you can ghost her but she might chase more or eventually stop, depends how emotionally messed up she is.
There is no point in telling her the truth, you can ghost her but she might chase more or eventually stop, depends how emotionally messed up she is.
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Originally Posted By MirinCanadian99⏩
I totally agree with this. This girl is low value just based on the fact that she flirted with you while with your friend. You reciprocated that flirting which honestly is ****ty on your part. Will you really feel better if you smash this girl? Just block her and be done with it, you lose nothing of value.I negged you because you sound like a POS and you also sound like a fake friend and I'm kinda glad your buddy isn't your buddy anymore. What am I backing my claim up with? With the following:
"I'd like some advice on a girl that i am / used to be friends with. We met about 4 years ago and have been close. I've had several chances to smash and she always flirted with me but I failed to do so as she was dating a buddy of mine at the time.
I have since fallen out with that buddy and we no longer speak. Looking back on it, i should have smashed when i had the chance as my "buddy" turned out to be a jealous Piece of chit. I moved cities to start a new career in 2017 and haven't looked back since."
You're telling me this girl was openly flirting with you and instead of sitting your bro down and telling him that his girl ain't chit you are mad at the fact that you didn't take the chance to bang her? What kinda friend are you? Seems like your buddy had reasons to be a "jealous Piece of Chit" (your words not mines). Cheating isn't okay no matter the context. Why is cheating magically ok when a partner is jealous? Especially when his significant other is flirting with his buddy of all people and instead of chutting her down you seem to have enjoyed the idea of being inside her.
In conclusion, I wouldn't trust you and I'm glad your buddy moved on from you. We live in a highly social media oriented world and cheating has never been more socially acceptable and instead of being that diamond in the dirt you are justifying to yourself why cheating would have been okay. I'm expecting a neg back from because you're gonna be bitter. Inb4 you're just 21. Should have been that good bro and told your bro to leave that sloot. If you wanna bang her afterwards I don't care but you should have done your bro-duties and at least warned him. You didn't and you got negged for it.
"I'd like some advice on a girl that i am / used to be friends with. We met about 4 years ago and have been close. I've had several chances to smash and she always flirted with me but I failed to do so as she was dating a buddy of mine at the time.
I have since fallen out with that buddy and we no longer speak. Looking back on it, i should have smashed when i had the chance as my "buddy" turned out to be a jealous Piece of chit. I moved cities to start a new career in 2017 and haven't looked back since."
You're telling me this girl was openly flirting with you and instead of sitting your bro down and telling him that his girl ain't chit you are mad at the fact that you didn't take the chance to bang her? What kinda friend are you? Seems like your buddy had reasons to be a "jealous Piece of Chit" (your words not mines). Cheating isn't okay no matter the context. Why is cheating magically ok when a partner is jealous? Especially when his significant other is flirting with his buddy of all people and instead of chutting her down you seem to have enjoyed the idea of being inside her.
In conclusion, I wouldn't trust you and I'm glad your buddy moved on from you. We live in a highly social media oriented world and cheating has never been more socially acceptable and instead of being that diamond in the dirt you are justifying to yourself why cheating would have been okay. I'm expecting a neg back from because you're gonna be bitter. Inb4 you're just 21. Should have been that good bro and told your bro to leave that sloot. If you wanna bang her afterwards I don't care but you should have done your bro-duties and at least warned him. You didn't and you got negged for it.
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Uhh I dunno breh maybe she was in a relationship at the time and now she’s been single.
Unless I’m missing something seems like you and a lot of other peeps in this thread are getting worked up over nothing.. just hook up, or don’t. No need to over analyze and get even more butthurt.
Unless I’m missing something seems like you and a lot of other peeps in this thread are getting worked up over nothing.. just hook up, or don’t. No need to over analyze and get even more butthurt.
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Originally Posted By sv722⏩
Don't delete and block her breh. Text her and schedule at meet up. Be a good little cuck and give her the attention she needs.HAHA it's funny you say that as she once said to me that wanting her is wanting leftovers becasue my old buddy had fukked and chukked her. She's going on the delete and block list now.
10-26-2020, 07:30 AM
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Originally Posted By sv722⏩
Yeah just move on. If you are not getting it on regularly this one might be the best one and will **** with your mind for some time. Last thing you want is her to become your oneitisI would not be in a relationship with her, hell no. Not after our history and the fact that she mocked me for wanting leftovers after my old friend finished fukking her.
I just wanna rage fukk her and move on.
I just wanna rage fukk her and move on.
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Originally Posted By sv722⏩
HAHA it's funny you say that as she once said to me that wanting her is wanting leftovers becasue my old buddy had fukked and chukked her.She's going on the delete and block list now.
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10-26-2020, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted By MirinCanadian99⏩
Thanks for your response bro. It seems that reading isn't a strong suit of yours. I never smashed that chick precisely because she was with my buddy. Contrary to what you claim, i did in fact mention it to him and we had a discussion and we both agreed that nothing will happen between me and his chick and of course nothing did happen, hence why i am making this thread.I negged you because you sound like a POS and you also sound like a fake friend and I'm kinda glad your buddy isn't your buddy anymore. What am I backing my claim up with? With the following:
"I'd like some advice on a girl that i am / used to be friends with. We met about 4 years ago and have been close. I've had several chances to smash and she always flirted with me but I failed to do so as she was dating a buddy of mine at the time.
I have since fallen out with that buddy and we no longer speak. Looking back on it, i should have smashed when i had the chance as my "buddy" turned out to be a jealous Piece of chit. I moved cities to start a new career in 2017 and haven't looked back since."
You're telling me this girl was openly flirting with you and instead of sitting your bro down and telling him that his girl ain't chit you are mad at the fact that you didn't take the chance to bang her? What kinda friend are you? Seems like your buddy had reasons to be a "jealous Piece of Chit" (your words not mines). Cheating isn't okay no matter the context. Why is cheating magically ok when a partner is jealous? Especially when his significant other is flirting with his buddy of all people and instead of chutting her down you seem to have enjoyed the idea of being inside her.
In conclusion, I wouldn't trust you and I'm glad your buddy moved on from you. We live in a highly social media oriented world and cheating has never been more socially acceptable and instead of being that diamond in the dirt you are justifying to yourself why cheating would have been okay. I'm expecting a neg back from because you're gonna be bitter. Inb4 you're just 21. Should have been that good bro and told your bro to leave that sloot. If you wanna bang her afterwards I don't care but you should have done your bro-duties and at least warned him. You didn't and you got negged for it.
"I'd like some advice on a girl that i am / used to be friends with. We met about 4 years ago and have been close. I've had several chances to smash and she always flirted with me but I failed to do so as she was dating a buddy of mine at the time.
I have since fallen out with that buddy and we no longer speak. Looking back on it, i should have smashed when i had the chance as my "buddy" turned out to be a jealous Piece of chit. I moved cities to start a new career in 2017 and haven't looked back since."
You're telling me this girl was openly flirting with you and instead of sitting your bro down and telling him that his girl ain't chit you are mad at the fact that you didn't take the chance to bang her? What kinda friend are you? Seems like your buddy had reasons to be a "jealous Piece of Chit" (your words not mines). Cheating isn't okay no matter the context. Why is cheating magically ok when a partner is jealous? Especially when his significant other is flirting with his buddy of all people and instead of chutting her down you seem to have enjoyed the idea of being inside her.
In conclusion, I wouldn't trust you and I'm glad your buddy moved on from you. We live in a highly social media oriented world and cheating has never been more socially acceptable and instead of being that diamond in the dirt you are justifying to yourself why cheating would have been okay. I'm expecting a neg back from because you're gonna be bitter. Inb4 you're just 21. Should have been that good bro and told your bro to leave that sloot. If you wanna bang her afterwards I don't care but you should have done your bro-duties and at least warned him. You didn't and you got negged for it.
Also my "buddy" has always been jealous of me and has repeatedly cock blocked me, failed to turn up to my birthday parties, has actively sabotaged my relationship with a completely different girl that i was with and also refused to drive me to an interview but drove another buddy a further distance. Hence why we are no longer friends.
But hey, if you wanna get on your high horse, act judgmental and take some green squares away from me, then you do you buddy. Don't worry about your CP, i won't be negging you back. Take care.
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10-26-2020, 08:30 AM
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Originally Posted By sv722⏩
let me give you some first hand advice. i was in the exact same situation as you earlier this yearI want to smash because of my ego. I had previous chances to smash but as i mentioned she was seeing my friend at the time and i also pussied out. She's okay looking, not a model but good enough for a tumble in the sack. I want to smash just to get back at her and feel good about myself.
I've done well for myself and improved and i have been with better looking chicks but not smashing her just bugs the hell out of me! I wasted my chances and i want to redeem myself and prove to myself i can do it, if you see what i mean.
I've done well for myself and improved and i have been with better looking chicks but not smashing her just bugs the hell out of me! I wasted my chances and i want to redeem myself and prove to myself i can do it, if you see what i mean.
i wanted to smash a girl YEARS back. we went out a few times, i thought it was going really good, she even slept over at mine but she wouldn't put out. then she starts fading me out and eventually ghosts me
we moved on with our lives, she then came back messaging me and sh*t. she had a bf i had a gf. i didn't entertain her
i had written her off as a potential smash, i thought it'd never happen and i wasn't gonna chase her. i smashed her earlier this year after she was basically begging for it. she's now a pseudo fwb but she wants more, im not giving it.
that's the most satisfying part. smashing her is fun - it feels complete in your mind now it's out the way
but the most satisfaction comes from not giving them what they want - a relationship.
i say go ahead and do it. but then be the guy she wants to lock down but cant
make a plan before you get in to not catch feelings for her.
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10-26-2020, 08:56 AM
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Why not just ask her:
"what's up?" when she tries contacting you? Don't start a conversation. Keep it short and simple. If she starts trying to talk to you or make excuses, or whatever, laugh and ignore her.
When she tries talking to you, simply cut her short saying you're real busy. Ask her if she'll be in your city or not anytime coming up. If she says no, ignore her. If she says yes, leave it to her to tell you when and see if she does. Expect her to flake or come up with some BS excuse and proceed to continue your life as if she isn't coming.
If she actually does come through, smash.
win/win
you don't provide her more than a minute's worth of your time
you don't actively engage in conversating about bull**** with her
you don't provide her emotional support or orbiting
etc.
"what's up?" when she tries contacting you? Don't start a conversation. Keep it short and simple. If she starts trying to talk to you or make excuses, or whatever, laugh and ignore her.
When she tries talking to you, simply cut her short saying you're real busy. Ask her if she'll be in your city or not anytime coming up. If she says no, ignore her. If she says yes, leave it to her to tell you when and see if she does. Expect her to flake or come up with some BS excuse and proceed to continue your life as if she isn't coming.
If she actually does come through, smash.
win/win
you don't provide her more than a minute's worth of your time
you don't actively engage in conversating about bull**** with her
you don't provide her emotional support or orbiting
etc.
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