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post 1625282733 12-12-2020, 03:27 AM
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post 1625282823 12-12-2020, 03:32 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Confirmed. No heartbeat.


Fuark
Damn no words bud

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post 1625285233 12-12-2020, 04:50 AM
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My condolences, OP. It must be terrible to lose a child this way. I've heard that miscarriages are especially tough on mothers. Take good care of yourself so that you can be there for your wife as much as possible. I really hope your next is delivered safely and healthily. All the best.
post 1625286123 12-12-2020, 05:28 AM
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Sorry to hear.

Went through pretty much the same thing with our first potential child.

Wife was pregnant and so happy. She was several weeks in and we expected to hear the heart beat for the first time that visit. Ultra sound tech starts the scan and is pretty quiet. She leaves the room and the PA comes in and basically says sorry there is no heart beat.

Its terrible. One of the worst feelings ever.

She had a D&C and wanted to try again as soon as we could.

Fast forward a couple years...We now have 2 boys....5 and 3.
post 1625286593 12-12-2020, 05:41 AM
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Originally Posted By StallionRx⏩
Sorry to hear.

Went through pretty much the same thing with our first potential child.

Wife was pregnant and so happy. She was several weeks in and we expected to hear the heart beat for the first time that visit. Ultra sound tech starts the scan and is pretty quiet. She leaves the room and the PA comes in and basically says sorry there is no heart beat.

Its terrible. One of the worst feelings ever.

She had a D&C and wanted to try again as soon as we could.

Fast forward a couple years...We now have 2 boys....5 and 3.
Ya, exactly the same, but the ultrasound was done on Monday, but there was no doctor available to decipher it. So here we wait a fukin week, thinking all is good and get the call yesterday.

Awesome it worked out for ya and I know it will for us. Pretty chitty to expect the best going into an ultrasound tho.


Worst thing...absolute worst thing is that apparently it still has to "come out". Its just not alive in there.... Wife is gonna lose it

I keep telling her this is for the best because odds are it wouldn't have been healthy.


Sorry for the downer post all.
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post 1625286683 12-12-2020, 05:43 AM
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Originally Posted By LordBroly⏩
My condolences, OP. It must be terrible to lose a child this way. I've heard that miscarriages are especially tough on mothers. Take good care of yourself so that you can be there for your wife as much as possible. I really hope your next is delivered safely and healthily. All the best.
Thnx.

Hoping the same.

1 in 3 miscarried apparently.
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post 1625287153 12-12-2020, 05:54 AM
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post 1625287253 12-12-2020, 05:55 AM
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Miscarriages are actually a lot more common than people think. You'll have a kid soon enough, bro.
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post 1625287443 12-12-2020, 06:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Sorry for the downer post all.
Wouldnt they do a D&C procedure? My wife had it done pretty quickly after we got the news. Like literally just a couple days after. Ive heard of women passing the fetus on their own, but damn that sounds incredibly rough from an emotional standpoint.
Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Thnx.

Hoping the same.

1 in 3 miscarried apparently.
Its nature and just wasnt meant to be.

I hate the whole pregnancy process. After the first it ruined it for me. Im a pretty solid/stable person, but every time i went in for one of those ultrasound visits I was nervous they were going to tell me something was wrong. Pregnancy is tough. I really dont know many people who just sail right through. It always seems like something unexpected pops up that makes people nervous...blood sugar levels off, unexpected bleeding, baby under/over weight, etc etc. Everyone always has a story. Im sure you'll be all good in the future.

Prayers and best of luck.
post 1625287453 12-12-2020, 06:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Confirmed. No heartbeat.


Fuark
I'm really sorry, brah. This is terrible. You and your wife are in my thoughts and I wish you the best.
post 1625287693 12-12-2020, 06:06 AM
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That's awful, OP. I'm really sorry to hear that. One of my best bud's girlfriend miscarried. They have 2 kids now, but I remember how hard it was on her.

Be there for your girl. You both have one another to lean on.

Really sorry to hear about how you have to wait outside. That must be the worst. I think I'd be a wreck waiting out there.

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post 1625291653 12-12-2020, 07:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Lunatic⏩
Miscarriages are actually a lot more common than people think. You'll have a kid soon enough, bro.
This

Condolences though OP. Good luck with comforting the wife. Been down that road.
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post 1625291953 12-12-2020, 07:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Thnx.

Hoping the same.

1 in 3 miscarried apparently.
I really had no idea it was that common. From your story and others in this thread, seems like people are all too familiar with this. Damn.
post 1625292353 12-12-2020, 07:54 AM
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Sorry OP for your loss. I'm hopeful you guys will make it through this.
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post 1625292403 12-12-2020, 07:55 AM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
That's awful, OP. I'm really sorry to hear that. One of my best bud's girlfriend miscarried. They have 2 kids now, but I remember how hard it was on her.

Be there for your girl. You both have one another to lean on.

Really sorry to hear about how you have to wait outside. That must be the worst. I think I'd be a wreck waiting out there.

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post 1625292583 12-12-2020, 07:57 AM
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Originally Posted By LordBroly⏩
I really had no idea it was that common. From your story and others in this thread, seems like people are all too familiar with this. Damn.
I guess it is.

I used to hear about them every so often and thought meh, its not even a baby yet.


Different when its your own. I get it now
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Hey OP, stay strong. If you need anything at all, you can PM me. Would be willing to lend an ear if you need at any time.
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
I guess it is.

I used to hear about them every so often and thought meh, itsnot even a baby yet.


Different when its your own. I get it now
Rather embarrassingly, I used to think like that as well. In my mind I was like "how attached can you be to an unborn baby?" But now I guess I realize that it was someone you already had love for and who you expected to care for for the next 20 years. Your comment about preparing the room for the kid kind of put that into real terms. I think we often have a hard time showing compassion and understanding for things we haven't experienced.
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
Hey OP, stay strong. If you need anything at all, you can PM me. Would be willing to lend an ear if you need at any time.
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It happens. Sorry to hear.
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Originally Posted By LordBroly⏩
Rather embarrassingly, I used to think like that as well. In my mind I was like "how attached can you be to an unborn baby?" But now I guess I realize that it was someone you already had love for and who you expected to care for for the next 20 years. Your comment about preparing the room for the kid kind of put that into real terms. I think we often have a hard time showing compassion and understanding for things we haven't experienced.
A good lesson in empathy for me i guess
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Op I’m so sorry. My heart hurts for you and your wife right now and I wish I could just give you a big hug. I had a miscarriage in August and it was painful, physically and mentally. We are still praying and trying for our rainbow baby.
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Terribly sorry for your loss, OP. This hurt my heart. I'm a father of 3, and I can't imagine losing a child. Life is precious, no matter how small or what stage it's in. If you need to talk to someone, please feel free to PM me. I will shed tears for you and your little one.

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Originally Posted By MadNinjaSkills⏩
Op I’m so sorry. My heart hurts for you and your wife right now and I wish I could just give you a big hug. I had a miscarriage in August and it was painful, physically and mentally. We are still praying and trying for our rainbow baby.
If you have any questions or need to vent, my inbox is open.
Chitty deal. Sorry to hear.

Thnx for the offer.

We are just...stuck waiting right now. Well try again, but I guess we just wait at the moment.
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Chitty deal. Sorry to hear.

Thnx for the offer.

We are just...stuck waiting right now. Well try again, but I guess we just wait at the moment.
The waiting is the hardest part. Just know you’re not alone and it’s ok to have the full range of emotions about it all.
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
No, was thinking of faking a shoulder injury to at least be in the waiting room
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Confirmed. No heartbeat.


Fuark
Fuark sorry boyo. The idea of kids still fuarks me up but I feel for y’all anyway.
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Originally Posted By LordBroly⏩
Rather embarrassingly, I used to think like that as well. In my mind I was like "how attached can you be to an unborn baby?" But now I guess I realize that it was someone you already had love for and who you expected to care for for the next 20 years. Your comment about preparing the room for the kid kind of put that into real terms. I think we often have a hard time showing compassion and understanding for things we haven't experienced.
Personally, I wasn't as bummed as others. I was more sad for my wife than myself. Mainly because it was so early and my mind hadn't wrapped around the whole parenting concept yet. My wife still thinks about it sometimes, though we do have a son now.
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