lol i knew this was going to happen..something like this happened when i was 19..i chickened out with a 50 year old but learned from then to always be aggressive and seal the deal

you ruined a once in a lifetime smash but hopefully you learn to not be an autist next time *******

Lol I did not.

m8 we tried to tell you this was what was gonna happen.


dont let your hamster spin.

My day is ruined lol

Did you eat her ass OP?

Cool mindset bro

Today’s my day off, gonna get some groceries, play some guitar and maybe lift with my dumbbells at home.

i think i know what happens. you play the "nice guy" cause you're afraid you don't measure up - from your lack of experience or what, idk, but i do know this is happening. this is comforting to you because it's like you don't even try so when it doesn't happen it's like "well, i didn't try" that's that. you're afraid to take the risks because of the fall

this is similar to what incels do with all the looks stuff. it's more comforting to them to say they should have had a 2 inch mandible than it is to realize they had the chance but let it slip from their hands. there's a comfort and confining things into these neat little boxes to make them make sense

this is probably theoretically ok, but the problem is that women have lots of options. the problem is there is a HUGE chance that girl you just went on a date with was hit up by someone more authoritatively. by sheer chance that he knew exactly what he wanted, the girl knows where he stands and is thus more attracted. whereas you were in the middle sphere, haphazard and deciding what you want. the other guy just blatantly told her he wanted to fuk her brains out

MAN, it's a completely different world. i honestly don't think it will take that long or you couldn't implement changes quickly, but you are definitely far off now

i think one of the biggest things for me when i was growing up - when i realized how forthright and direct and honest you can be with women was on a night out. there was this group of college girls and there was a really hot chick in jean shorts in the group. i approached her but i waited until the group had already passed and i approached her after

she laughed in my face (because i let her pass and decided to go after her after she passed) and said "why do all guys do this"? and i was like... the fuk

then the rest of her group and friends were like "ok, we gotta go", etc.

but i was like dammmmm.. she really wanted me to see her right away and tell her i wanted to fuk her (the implication of approaching her)? women want guys so direct and forthright that they have their minds already made up and that the split second you see them you know exactly what you want; they want to be that object of desire

it is 100% true guys that are just forthright and to the point will slayy wayyyyy more because they're simply slicing through all the bs

cliffs please.


Did OP smashed??

For the last time, I’m not playing a “nice guy” I’m literally being myself

Actually read some of the thread and to put it in language you might understand OP, my rep to you should have been my 2nd ever neg instead (srs)

All I’ll say is the attitude that nothing will ever change for you while having pages of advice that you can’t seem to take is just sad and pathetic really...

yes you are or you're close to asexual

and even still the point still stands. the guys who are being more clear and direct are stealing the women from you. srs

cliffs?

I like OP but he is turning into a incel in real time. Right in front of our eyes.

Maybe it’s time log off the misc Cherry

op you chose not to bag

she didnt turn you down, you turned her down....


why is so hard to understand

Gen X women grew up in the era of AIDS and didn't have casual sex. There was no Tinder back then, so the only casual sex happened in a bar setting.

That said, many are like SS and want a love relationship with a younger guy. Not many women are set up to want sex only in that age group.The Misc is being harsh here.

MOST young guys are intimidated by older women and freeze up on a date. Usually she has to do the initiating.It's not too late. Try to salvage it and ask her to come over and workout with you. What do you have to lose?So she has some red flags. She's also extremely religious and on Tinder? Not like that isn't a possibility, I'm just confirming.

You can still be yourself, a gentleman, and be more assertive with the ladies.

wow don't tell me OP didn't bang that used up hoe

maaaaaane

Not sure your age, but as a fellow Gen Xer...we and especially the ladies had MAD causal sex. Hell the 90s was all about casual sex.

OP forget about this post glow 50 year old.

focus on girls like this

oh, here's another clear example for your "nice guy" ploy:

you took 3 condoms - this is what you really wanted and were thinking

the date happened and you put your nice guy act on

sounds like you also let her take control of the ship seeing as when you took 3 condoms you knew the implications and what you wanted

anybody can spin words

Just like you’re spinning words right now right?

no, because im not spinning anything.

you took 3 condoms. that action literally happened

just so you know not everybody does that on first dates, so it sounds like you knew the implications. but you're trying to say you took 3 condoms and didn't want sex?

that's why im saying you're spinning words.

lol you're in denial. Had condoms on you, and you went on a date telling a milf how beautiful she is as she nudged you to make a move. A lot of us can see through it because we have been the nice guy. You don't even want to change

Why do people care so much about this

Time for me to go back to my real home if this true.
But i believe it totally

Beats me, I think they’re baffled that I’m a relatively good looking guy that can’t pull women to save his life lol

The dichotomy is just infuriating to them

It still can be salvageable. What did you text her about?

can't speak for all of us

you're just insecure and taking it as bashing, when lots are trying to help you

instead of taking advice you're fighting back

i have seen you make numerous threads now where you've failed. and in this very thread you've even said you're struggling

I'm rooting for you, OP. But this guy is pretty spot on. You were prepared, just not mentally...