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post 1628383023 01-12-2021, 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Uhyeahokay
hmmm tis true, he had her in a fuking gym doing squats and chit and didn't work in his dink.

She will blow him off like the gym date if it's left to Saturday tho. The netflixs and wine thing might work as long as she knows she's getting dick downed.

I get you don't want to be obvious with this but you kinda have to be at this point OP.

In4 lulz. Good luck you fabulous winged *******.
At this point if a second date were to end the same way the first one did she'll feel even worse than OP. There's no chance of it happening for a bunch of reasons not the least of which is the number of options she no doubt has.
post 1628383073 01-12-2021, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted By umadbroski
brah.

couldnt you drink something less gay than a lemonade?
lmao.
Originally Posted By KingOmar9
Lol...sipping lemonade, srs?
Originally Posted By GordonXXX
can you imagine the look on the woman's and the server's faces when the kid orders a Lemonade??? did he order the chicken fingers and curly fries too? JFC
yo ****ing ded! idk what else homie could order.. apple juice? Shirley temple?
post 1628383583 01-12-2021, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX
i think a lot of you guys are under this false impression that every woman over 40+ is just DTF immediately. this in my experience is false - especially if they are attractive. they want and demand more. they've heard and been through it all in their last 20+ years of dating. they want more. it's the young girls 20-30 that are more promiscuous and easy - because they feel they have all the time in the world. older women know their time is running out and they want a relationship. so i think you all should stop assuming that this woman is just DTF and it's so easy for OP.
You're right however the entirety of the situation as it's been layed out by the OP says that's not the case here.
post 1628384053 01-12-2021, 04:12 PM
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Originally Posted By umadbroski
agreed.


"you, me, wine, netflix"

Works everytime for me.
Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Maybe this instead?
I actually think that would be good. Although I'd start it out saying you had a good time Sat night and then text that. But I'm a woman. What do I know about what women want? lol
Originally Posted By GordonXXX
it could have been just an ego boost for her. maybe she was thinking possibly a relationship - her ex-husband was young too. but to assume she is just desperately DTF is just incorrect. she could get that anytime from anybody if she wanted it. she wanted a date and probably a relationship. but during the date she realized that OP is not compatible or just too young or just not her type.

you guys need to stop assuming that every 40+ year old woman is just so pathetically and desperately and frantically DTF. they usually want MORE. especially if they are attractive. Legz - help me out here. am i right or what?

OP is still Autistic with no game.
Well I can't answer for every 40+ woman, just myself. When I was online dating after my divorce and young guys were pursuing me, I never had sex on the first meet. It was basically just to see if there was any attraction there. Just because someone is cute in pics doesn't mean I'm going to be attracted to them IRL. And before people start saying I used them for dinner, I never did dinner meets.
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post 1628384273 01-12-2021, 04:14 PM
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Plot twist; op's milf probably browses the misc and is aware.
post 1628384613 01-12-2021, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Very possible
Ok then that makes sense why you wouldn’t want to be left on read or rejected.

I would do a Hail Mary if you never saw her again.
post 1628385503 01-12-2021, 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422
I actually think that would be good. Although I'd start it out saying you had a good time Sat night and then text that. But I'm a woman. What do I know about what women want? lol



Well I can't answer for every 40+ woman, just myself. When I was online dating after my divorce and young guys were pursuing me, I never had sex on the first meet. It was basically just to see if there was any attraction there. Just because someone is cute in pics doesn't mean I'm going to be attracted to them IRL. And before people start saying I used them for dinner, I never did dinner meets.
Legz, what kinds of dates would you go on with these guys, and how much younger than you were they?
post 1628385633 01-12-2021, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Pumpinmirin
Plot twist; op's milf probably browses the misc and is aware.
LOL if it fails the second time , send her the link to this.
post 1628386393 01-12-2021, 04:38 PM
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why in the fuk is this still going? something good better be brewing..srs. cliffs?
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post 1628387153 01-12-2021, 04:45 PM
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Originally Posted By IronILLinois
why in the fuk is this still going? something good better be brewing..srs. cliffs?
fumble recovery in progress.


post 1628387593 01-12-2021, 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted By LordBroly
Legz, what kinds of dates would you go on with these guys, and how much younger than you were they?
I'd usually just meet guys out for a drink or a coffee. I always did a very casual meet for the first time because I learned from the first guy I met that just because you like their pic and like texting with them/talking on phone it doesn't mean you're going to like them or be attracted to them in person. I met from 20somethings up through my age. I was 45-46 at the time.
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post 1628388583 01-12-2021, 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted By nosirrahx
When I was in my late 20s I dated a few late 40YOs. They were all DTF on day 1 and one of them had my cock in her hands within 30 minutes of meeting for the first time (movie theater).

There are older women looking for companionship but they don't look for that in kids the age of their own kids.
she was married to a 21 year old. she was much older at the time.
post 1628392253 01-12-2021, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted By _grape
yo ****ing ded! idk what else homie could order.. apple juice? Shirley temple?
All about that chocolate milk lol
My cousin used to go around ordering whatever he didn’t think they’d have.
He ordered chocolate milk at a knock off hooters and the waitress brought it to him in a kids cup with a straw lol
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post 1628392513 01-12-2021, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted By DBoyDaRealest
this, if you are gonna send the hail marry don't make dipchit azz plans for 5 days out. fukin tell her to come over and then she'll schedule her next available day if she can't tonight
So I should wait till Saturday night to text her?
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post 1628392623 01-12-2021, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
So I should wait till Saturday night to text her?
Is Saturday night the only night you’re available or what?
Sloots Gon Sloot.
post 1628392743 01-12-2021, 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted By _grape
yo ****ing ded! idk what else homie could order.. apple juice? Shirley temple?
What’s wrong with Lemonade?! Haha
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post 1628392783 01-12-2021, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Krackerjacked
Is Saturday night the only night you’re available or what?
I go back to work tomorrow, so I can’t be up late and neither can she with her job. She works Mon-Fri so told me she’s usually in bed by 8PM cause she gets up super early to train
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post 1628392923 01-12-2021, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
I go back to work tomorrow, so I can’t be up late and neither can she with her job. She works Mon-Fri so told me she’s usually in bed by 8PM cause she gets up super early to train
She won’t have to with cardio at your place, gnomesaiyan? Lol
Sloots Gon Sloot.
post 1628393053 01-12-2021, 05:36 PM
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just FYI Cherry I am going to neg you. I really really really don't want to but I have to. You did this. I still like you though.
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post 1628393103 01-12-2021, 05:36 PM
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Originally Posted By IronILLinois
just FYI Cherry I am going to neg you. I really really really don't want to but I have to. You did this. I still like you though.
Bruh I’m about to text her lol

I’m consulting you bastards like you said too
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Originally Posted By Legz422
I actually think that would be good. Although I'd start it out saying you had a good time Sat night and then text that.But I'm a woman. What do I know about what women want? lol
Nice try Jacob, you can't fool us
if you need someone to chat with, don't hesitate to shoot me a PM.
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So I should wait till Saturday?
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
So I should wait till Saturday?
My only concern on waiting that long is you’d get a
New phone who dis?

I say just do it now
That way we don’t have to wait half a week either
If you miss out on an hour of sleep to break a 3 year dry spell, I think you’ll be fine.
Sloots Gon Sloot.
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There's 32 pages of this chit and OP hasn't banged grandma yet?
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Originally Posted By Krackerjacked
My only concern on waiting that long is you’d get a
New phone who dis?

I say just do it now
That way we don’t have to wait half a week either
If you miss out on an hour of sleep to break a 3 year dry spell, I think you’ll be fine.
**** it, I wanted this thread to die out after pages 28 but ill give my input on this

Youre better off doing it rn because on a weekend, her options pretty much go up by like x100 so you'll wanna talk to her on an actual weekday, not the weekends. Mate you have nothing to lose at this point at least you can look back after your first fukup and this redemption act and say *I Tried*
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I've got a similar situation to OP...
I matched with a 30 year old asian gym chick (I'm 21) - I saw a video on her Instagram squating 110kg for 4 reps. She liked every message I sent on Tinder and replied with paragraphs, so I'm pretty sure I'm IN.
Meeting for a gym date on Friday... only problem is, she moved back in with parents to go back to university. I also live with my parents and I wouldn't wanna bring her over. Not sure if I'll be able to take it back to her place after the gym. She said we should grab a "feed" after the gym, but I noticed in her bio that she used to be a chef, so I'm planning on just asking her to make us something at her place lol.
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do it TONIGHT
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post 1628395553 01-12-2021, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted By ChangeOfStyle
**** it, I wanted this thread to die out after pages 28 but ill give my input on this

Youre better off doing it rn because on a weekend, her options pretty much go up by like x100 so you'll wanna talk to her on an actual weekday, not the weekends. Mate you have nothing to lose at this point at least you can look back after your first fukup and this redemption act and say *I Tried*
So basically just say

“You should come over on Saturday”
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post 1628395973 01-12-2021, 06:08 PM
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Originally Posted By ChangeOfStyle
Nice try Jacob, you can't fool us
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And now we wait...

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