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post 1634095493 03-18-2021, 07:10 PM
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How do you guys not hate social media/online dating?

I was talking to a girl average at best.. she unmatched me and ghosted me...

ok whatever

but i go on her social media... all selfies.. so arrogant. so narcissistic, prbably thinks she is a 8/10 because of all the tinder matches and simps... makes me annoyed/angry inside...

hate these women

but its our fault as men
post 1634095783 03-18-2021, 07:14 PM
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I agree. However, this is the world that we live in and the competition is rough.

Have you tried using fake Tinder pictures?
Heres a Tinder picture I use and lie that its me. I lost my virginity last year from Tinder, because I used this fake picture of a guy who looked like me:


Now I have a girlfriend.

As I stated before, this is the world that we live in and the competition is rough for young men. Gotta do what you gotta do.
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post 1634095853 03-18-2021, 07:16 PM
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post 1634095863 03-18-2021, 07:16 PM
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Yeah it sucks because they dominate you and then go home happy. There is no karma. Women always win.
post 1634096203 03-18-2021, 07:20 PM
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post 1634097803 03-18-2021, 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21
Yeah it sucks because they dominate you and then go home happy. There is no karma. Women always win.
I think you've got it backwards son, you're supposed to dominate her...
post 1634098183 03-18-2021, 07:42 PM
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Originally Posted By iAmHandyMan
How do you guys not hate social media/online dating?
online dating is trash

First you have to ask yourself why an attractive, kind young lady would need a dating app to find a man... just lol

There's always a reason that the girl is on the app, you're essentially dealing with factory defects


obviously with covid and everything it's more difficult, but if you're going to try to find women just do it in the flesh. Sure you might get shot down but I can tell you the percentages will be much better than they are on dating apps

plus you can see the woman and at least get a feel for what you're dealing with, and whether you have some spark
post 1634098303 03-18-2021, 07:44 PM
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Originally Posted By nick5569
online dating is trash

First you have to ask yourself why an attractive, kind young lady would need a dating app to find a man... just lol

There's always a reason that the girl is on the app, you're essentially dealing with factory defects
this

its the most wretched and mentally ill sloots on the app.

all the hottest wholesome sloots i know dont do dating apps cuz they find long term bfs irl
post 1634098363 03-18-2021, 07:45 PM
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I don't mind online dating but the girls here in california have many options lol.

I've never met a girl that carried the conversation. I always have to ask a leading question. even girls that actually want to go on dates they just say things like haha yeah

and i have to be like asking next question. eventually they open up and you can roast them and they roast back but dude getting to that stage is hell

women are boring asf

this girl unmatched me when she was boring as fk. literally was at work thinking of a way to reply to her dry "i lived in uk" and she unmatched me probably cause i didnt reply in few hours.

they all got guys trying. prob like 3-5 messages at once. meeting a co worker/girl at club is so much easier but way harder now with covid
post 1634099303 03-18-2021, 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted By nick5569
online dating is trash

First you have to ask yourself why an attractive, kind young lady would need a dating app to find a man... just lol

There's always a reason that the girl is on the app, you're essentially dealing with factory defects


obviously with covid and everything it's more difficult, but if you're going to try to find women just do it in the flesh. Sure you might get shot down but I can tell you the percentages will be much better than they are on dating apps

plus you can see the woman and at least get a feel for what you're dealing with, and whether you have some spark
Yea very true


Have you ever been at the shops and seen a store with heaps of advertising "ON SALE " "50% OFF " "SALE MUST END SOON" and you think ooo i might grab a deal!

Then you get closer and start seeing the products on sale and realise they are on sale for a reason.. it's either crap , junk or **** that no one else wants

ths is how i feel about girls who are on tinder and online dating....


Like how can an attractive, normal, social girl without any mental issues etc be on a dating app.. like not one man in her work / family friend / out and about /social circle has gf'd her?

you're 100% right
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Online dating is absolutely pointless unless you're in the top 20% of men. I wish this forum gave more good advice on how to pick up women in real life if you don't have a social circle to rely on.
It was all just satire. Sorry if I offended anyone with my trolling and sickening posts. Peace and love to everyone.
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Originally Posted By deeAvi
I don't mind online dating but the girls here in california have many options lol.

I've never met a girl that carried the conversation. I always have to ask a leading question. even girls that actually want to go on dates they just say things like haha yeah

and i have to be like asking next question. eventually they open up and you can roast them and they roast back but dude getting to that stage is hell

women are boring asf

this girl unmatched me when she was boring as fk. literally was at work thinking of a way to reply to her dry "i lived in uk" and she unmatched me probably cause i didnt reply in few hours.

they all got guys trying. prob like 3-5 messages at once. meeting a co worker/girl at club is so much easier but way harder now with covid
Girls without brothers and sisters tend to be to most boring and lack the most personality. I think being an only child or having an age gap between siblings seems to be a significant contributing factor. City girls also seem pretty boring to me. They usually can't cook or do much handy work around the house.
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Originally Posted By _zman
Girls without brothers and sisters tend to be to most boring and lack the most personality. I think being an only child or having an age gap between siblings seems to be a significant contributing factor. City girls also seem pretty boring to me. They usually can't cook or do much handy work around the house.
my ex was so fun but also a huge sloot, daddy issues etc..
fml.
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In terms of sex and hookups the only place I felt satisfied with Tinder was rural Philippines. Never saw another white man under 60 years old. I had a monopoly on all the bucketlist, gold digger and BWC chicks. I won't name the city I lived in because last thing I need are miscers and PUA clowns ruining the place if I ever decide to go back.


But even my SMV in rural Philippines is probably still lower than a 600 pound woman on Tinder in USA.

I've seen WhaleFish experiments on Reddit and also from LooksMaximus. Chads are literally simping obese whales.
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Originally Posted By deeAvi
I don't mind online dating but the girls here in california have many options lol.

I've never met a girl that carried the conversation. I always have to ask a leading question. even girls that actually want to go on dates they just say things like haha yeah

and i have to be like asking next question. eventually they open up and you can roast them and they roast back but dude getting to that stage is hell

women are boring asf

this girl unmatched me when she was boring as fk. literally was at work thinking of a way to reply to her dry "i lived in uk" and she unmatched me probably cause i didnt reply in few hours.

they all got guys trying. prob like 3-5 messages at once. meeting a co worker/girl at club is so much easier but way harder now with covid
That's extremely discouraging man. I'm pretty shy/autistic so I prefer when the girl leads the conversation and I can just smile and nod. Escorts don't mind doing this for me but if that is really what dating is like these days, I'd rather paraglide into a volcano. Girls are supposed to be the talkative gender. I'm not letting some lame b*tch make me be the talker.
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Originally Posted By imbored21
That's extremely discouraging man. I'm pretty shy/autistic so I prefer when the girl leads the conversation and I can just smile and nod. Escorts don't mind doing this for me but if that is really what dating is like these days, I'd rather paraglide into a volcano. Girls are supposed to be the talkative gender. I'm not letting some lame b*tch make me being the talker.
That's the bullchit of this ClownMaxing stuff. A lot of guys are either forced or voluntarily adopting feminine traits due to how lopsided and mutated the SMV system has become since 2012.


Sitcoms like Sex in the City are so outdated and obsolete that if any teenage girl in 2021 watched them she would be confused. There literally was a time when 30+ year old women had to settle for dorky out of shape Jewish guys. But now all they have to do is install Tinder and hookup with Chads all day.
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most people meet at work
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I genuinely don't participate in it except for the misc if you count that. I have messenger and WhatsApp purely for group work and talking to mates.

At my university I've found it pretty easy to chat to girls and I think they find it refreshing tbh.

Only a chadlite/Brad.

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Originally Posted By vulgoo
most people meet at work
Or college, but the competition is rough there.
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Originally Posted By imbored21
That's extremely discouraging man. I'm pretty shy/autistic so I prefer when the girl leads the conversation and I can just smile and nod. Escorts don't mind doing this for me but if that is really what dating is like these days, I'd rather paraglide into a volcano. Girls are supposed to be the talkative gender. I'm not letting some lame b*tch make me be the talker.
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If you suck with women and aren't Chad tier, you'll have better chances meeting a girl in person. The internet is a completely different dynamic
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Why would I hate something I don't acknowledge, let alone participate in?
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Social media is just entertainment brah, never done online dating in my life bruh
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Originally Posted By imbored21
That's extremely discouraging man. I'm pretty shy/autistic so I prefer when the girl leads the conversation and I can just smile and nod. Escorts don't mind doing this for me but if that is really what dating is like these days, I'd rather paraglide into a volcano. Girls are supposed to be the talkative gender. I'm not letting some lame b*tch make me be the talker.
Leading the conversation doesn't mean doing all the talking. Women will talk you to death if you just make the right comment or ask the right question.
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Originally Posted By vulgoo
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just going to outright say it.....online dating sucks if you suck. period

I've been on and off again since 2013 so I've seen OG Tinder before it became pay to play, OG Bumble, Hinge, etc. Sure you gotta put some money these days, but I've never had to put that much. A boost here and there with some decent time separating them and that is pretty much it.

I will admit, online dating is a bit more brutal to those towards the lower mid-tier/bottom. Around the end of last year I had around 400+ matches on hinge (no e-brag) after the misc being sure that black dudes barely get matches. It is not what it used to be, but it is still relatively easy. You just have to make yourself stand out somehow.
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Originally Posted By NEXTEPICBULG91
just going to outright say it.....online dating sucks if you suck. period

I've been on and off again since 2013 so I've seen OG Tinder before it became pay to play, OG Bumble, Hinge, etc. Sure you gotta put some money these days, but I've never had to put that much. A boost here and there with some decent time separating them and that is pretty much it.

I will admit, online dating is a bit more brutal to those towards the lower mid-tier/bottom. Around the end of last year I had around 400+ matches on hinge (no e-brag) after the misc being sure that black dudes barely get matches. It is not what it used to be, but it is still relatively easy. You just have to make yourself stand out somehow.
But of those 400 matches how many of them were quality women that you may consider marrying one day? just lol

I'm sure the odd one does use a dating app once in a while but it's like looking for a needle in a hay stack

Now if you're just looking to bang then sure dating apps can be handy, but remember the girl has the same mentality

Do you really want to sleep with a girl who likes to have sex with 100's of guys per (year?month?) whom she has never met before, just lol

be careful dude, it's a slippery slope once you drop your standards


one of my best mates was absolutely slaying on tinder, fast forward 2 years and now he has herpes..
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Originally Posted By nick5569
But of those 400 matches how many of them were quality women that you may consider marrying one day? just lol

I'm sure the odd one does use a dating app once in a while but it's like looking for a needle in a hay stack

Now if you're just looking to bang then sure dating apps can be handy, but remember the girl has the same mentality

Do you really want to sleep with a girl who likes to have sex with 100's of guys per (year?month?) whom she has never met before, just lol

be careful dude, it's a slippery slope once you drop your standards


one of my best mates was absolutely slaying on tinder, fast forward 2 years and now he has herpes..
oh for sure. i'd say maybe 6 girls of the 7 years I've even remotely used the apps were pure wifey material. of the 6 girls majority I've met between 2013-2015. after tinder's first year (2014-onward), any girl that is on a dating app is damaged goods to an extent (dudes as well in a sense)

Dating apps at this point as just a mere extension of social media though. Society in general is just more hyper-sexualized. Since it is more socially acceptable to hit on a girl via DM then it is being on a dating app, it can even be worse.

It is a lose-lose either way. Being 31, at this point I know I am going to have to settle on something about the chick no matter how perfect she may seem.
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