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04-05-2021, 10:11 PM
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Bruh, 6.5 on photofeeler is not good lol. I'm a short, ****** and even I got 7+ on some pics, 8 on a couple. I'm also not aesthetic like some of the autists on the misc either (18ish% bf, not even intermediate level BB strength levels on the Big 4 lifts).
I'm not trying to put you down, but just realize that while you're probably not ugly, you're not hot enough for OLD and need to find a way to approach IRL. I'm not hot enough for OLD either and am trying to find ways to meet women organically because I know it's futile for me to waste more time on the apps as a 5'7 brown dude.
I'm not trying to put you down, but just realize that while you're probably not ugly, you're not hot enough for OLD and need to find a way to approach IRL. I'm not hot enough for OLD either and am trying to find ways to meet women organically because I know it's futile for me to waste more time on the apps as a 5'7 brown dude.
04-05-2021, 10:15 PM
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Originally Posted By imbeingcereal⏩
oof.Bruh, 6.5 on photofeeler is not good lol. I'm a short, ****** and even I got 7+ on some pics, 8 on a couple. I'm also not aesthetic like some of the autists on the misc either (18ish% bf, not even intermediate level BB strength levels on the Big 4 lifts).
I'm not trying to put you down, but just realize that while you're probably not ugly, you're not hot enough for OLD and need to find a way to approach IRL. I'm not hot enough for OLD either and am trying to find ways to meet women organically because I know it's futile for me to waste more time on the apps as a5'7 brown dude.
I'm not trying to put you down, but just realize that while you're probably not ugly, you're not hot enough for OLD and need to find a way to approach IRL. I'm not hot enough for OLD either and am trying to find ways to meet women organically because I know it's futile for me to waste more time on the apps as a5'7 brown dude.
04-05-2021, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted By imbeingcereal⏩
haha OP is another CarSalesManBrah, totally delusional about his looks. You're not attractive in your pics, and you probably post retarded shit that makes you even more unattractive. Just the fact that you masquerade as this "Chad" is pretty disturbing and consistent with you being a complete creep. GJDM!Bruh, 6.5 on photofeeler is not good lol. I'm a short, ****** and even I got 7+ on some pics, 8 on a couple. I'm also not aesthetic like some of the autists on the misc either (18ish% bf, not even intermediate level BB strength levels on the Big 4 lifts).
I'm not trying to put you down, but just realize that while you're probably not ugly, you're not hot enough for OLD and need to find a way to approach IRL. I'm not hot enough for OLD either and am trying to find ways to meet women organically because I know it's futile for me to waste more time on the apps as a 5'7 brown dude.
I'm not trying to put you down, but just realize that while you're probably not ugly, you're not hot enough for OLD and need to find a way to approach IRL. I'm not hot enough for OLD either and am trying to find ways to meet women organically because I know it's futile for me to waste more time on the apps as a 5'7 brown dude.
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04-05-2021, 10:21 PM
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Originally Posted By PassiveLearner⏩
lol i said i was average and looking for a 4/10 ethnic girl.haha OP is another CarSalesManBrah, totally delusional about his looks. You're not attractive in your pics, and you probably post retarded shit that makes you even more unattractive. Just the fact that you masquerade as this "Chad" is pretty disturbing and consistent with you being a complete creep. GJDM!
04-05-2021, 10:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
This.always crazy to see legit 7+/10s responding or opening enthusiastically and actually contributing to convo. different world for some ppl
they talk to me like i killed their cat or something (if they respond at all) just because im not chad. its such an uphill battle that most of the time has no finish line.
i can get some girls but never the ones I want. Would at least be nice to get a fit girl. face not that important.
Usually stuck with 40+ milfs, or chunky girls if they are by my age.
the type of messages you sent show theres no such thing as "game" as well
chad: I farted, wanna go out?
girl : hahahah yaaas
I aint tryin to add to the negativity. I just learn to live with it and take wat I can get
they talk to me like i killed their cat or something (if they respond at all) just because im not chad. its such an uphill battle that most of the time has no finish line.
i can get some girls but never the ones I want. Would at least be nice to get a fit girl. face not that important.
Usually stuck with 40+ milfs, or chunky girls if they are by my age.
the type of messages you sent show theres no such thing as "game" as well
chad: I farted, wanna go out?
girl : hahahah yaaas
I aint tryin to add to the negativity. I just learn to live with it and take wat I can get
It's absolute madness.
04-05-2021, 10:25 PM
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“Want to go out with me?” Autism central. Reminds me of the first time I asked a girl out. 15, awkward AF, “Do you wanna go out?”
You need to be atleast a 9 to get away with that level of autism
Also, I think Tinder is best served as the occasional swipe on the toilet. Alternate between wipe and swipe. I don’t think it’s a particularly efficient use of your time otherwise
You need to be atleast a 9 to get away with that level of autism
Also, I think Tinder is best served as the occasional swipe on the toilet. Alternate between wipe and swipe. I don’t think it’s a particularly efficient use of your time otherwise
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04-05-2021, 10:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
Your text game is lousy though. We've seen it posted.always crazy to see legit 7+/10s responding or opening enthusiastically and actually contributing to convo. different world for some ppl
they talk to me like i killed their cat or something (if they respond at all) just because im not chad. its such an uphill battle that most of the time has no finish line.
i can get some girls but never the ones I want. Would at least be nice to get a fit girl. face not that important.
Usually stuck with 40+ milfs, or chunky girls if they are by my age.
the type of messages you sent show theres no such thing as "game" as well
chad: I farted, wanna go out?
girl : hahahah yaaas
I aint tryin to add to the negativity. I just learn to live with it and take wat I can get
they talk to me like i killed their cat or something (if they respond at all) just because im not chad. its such an uphill battle that most of the time has no finish line.
i can get some girls but never the ones I want. Would at least be nice to get a fit girl. face not that important.
Usually stuck with 40+ milfs, or chunky girls if they are by my age.
the type of messages you sent show theres no such thing as "game" as well
chad: I farted, wanna go out?
girl : hahahah yaaas
I aint tryin to add to the negativity. I just learn to live with it and take wat I can get
Fck OLD. I am going out as soon as pubs open. I feel nervous an autistic due to lockdown. Kinda dreading it.
04-05-2021, 10:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
how would you ask a girl out then??“Want to go out with me?” Autism central. Reminds me of the first time I asked a girl out. 15, awkward AF, “Do you wanna go out?”
You need to be atleast a 9 to get away with that level of autism
Also, I think Tinder is best served as the occasional swipe on the toilet. Alternate between wipe and swipe. I don’t think it’s a particularly efficient use of your time otherwise
You need to be atleast a 9 to get away with that level of autism
Also, I think Tinder is best served as the occasional swipe on the toilet. Alternate between wipe and swipe. I don’t think it’s a particularly efficient use of your time otherwise
04-05-2021, 10:29 PM
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Online dating is impersonal and there are a surplus of options of perfect strangers that are the sum of their uploaded photos and bios. And you have to talk to these strangers through online text exchanges, a low form of communication.
You’re competing against a sea of these other such profiles and texts. Unless you really stand out through your pictures, bio, and “text game”, your chances probably won’t be great.
Hard as it might be to approach girls IRL, if you even have an outlet for interacting with them, it really is the better option.
You’re competing against a sea of these other such profiles and texts. Unless you really stand out through your pictures, bio, and “text game”, your chances probably won’t be great.
Hard as it might be to approach girls IRL, if you even have an outlet for interacting with them, it really is the better option.
04-05-2021, 10:30 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
Hey Stacy, I'm imbored21. I couldn't help but notice you from across the cafe, how about drinks sometime?how would you ask a girl out then??
04-05-2021, 10:36 PM
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There are Tinder swipe experiments. Where people swipe on over 10,000 profiles. Obese white women get 15%. That ugly Eurasian female in Sweden had something like 30% or higher. Meanwhile I haven't really seen a Chad go above 12%.
Somehow male SMV is worthless in 2021. Sitcoms from 20 years ago, which made fun of involuntary female spinsters, are horribly obsolete. How could a woman born after 2000 even relate to a show like Sex in the City where these women were forced to date ugly Toads on the show?
Somehow male SMV is worthless in 2021. Sitcoms from 20 years ago, which made fun of involuntary female spinsters, are horribly obsolete. How could a woman born after 2000 even relate to a show like Sex in the City where these women were forced to date ugly Toads on the show?
04-05-2021, 10:55 PM
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Back in the day I had 11,000 matches on Tinder. I had all types of chicks DTF within a few messages. Sometimes it happened.
Definitely not happening in today's climate. I would be lucky to get 30 whales to match with me. Let these stupid dating apps go, the golden years long have been over.
Definitely not happening in today's climate. I would be lucky to get 30 whales to match with me. Let these stupid dating apps go, the golden years long have been over.
04-05-2021, 11:27 PM
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Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM⏩
Good point, women had to date whoever was around them in their day to day life. Basically were limited to their job, whoever their neighbors were, and sometimes when they'd go out, the people at the bars/clubs. Now they have almost every man on the globe at their fingertips. Pretty wild considering that most dudes aren't picky at all and will swipe right on everyone. The game is even more rigged now lol.There are Tinder swipe experiments. Where people swipe on over 10,000 profiles. Obese white women get 15%. That ugly Eurasian female in Sweden had something like 30% or higher. Meanwhile I haven't really seen a Chad go above 12%.
Somehow male SMV is worthless in 2021. Sitcoms from 20 years ago, which made fun of involuntary female spinsters, are horribly obsolete. How could a woman born after 2000 even relate to a show like Sex in the City where these women were forced to date ugly Toads on the show?
Somehow male SMV is worthless in 2021. Sitcoms from 20 years ago, which made fun of involuntary female spinsters, are horribly obsolete. How could a woman born after 2000 even relate to a show like Sex in the City where these women were forced to date ugly Toads on the show?
04-05-2021, 11:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Potatoshredder⏩
Dude even catfished his rating LOLlol king of durotar
you don't even keybind your pet abilities fking scrub
hard stuck 1400 mmr 2k games u are.
post a spoon pic or gtfo
you don't even keybind your pet abilities fking scrub
hard stuck 1400 mmr 2k games u are.
post a spoon pic or gtfo
just lol
04-05-2021, 11:50 PM
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Like I told you the last time you made a thread about bumble, go on BFF mode and pretend to be a gay guy looking for female friends. That's what I've been doing and I match with more girls than I can keep up with. I hung out with one girl the other day from doing this and she bought most of our drinks and paid for our food and she's always texting me wanting to talk and hang out. I probably won't ever have sex with her because she thinks I'm gay, but it's nice having female friends. And then when I take pictures and videos with them for snapchat and IG, other people see it and they think I'm on a date and smashing these girls and I just let them think that.
04-06-2021, 12:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Briangumble⏩
wow I've seen a lot of things on the misc but this....this is something else.Like I told you the last time you made a thread about bumble, go on BFF mode and pretend to be a gay guy looking for female friends. That's what I've been doing and I match with more girls than I can keep up with. I hung out with one girl the other day from doing this and she bought most of our drinks and paid for our food and she's always texting me wanting to talk and hang out. I probably won't ever have sex with her because she thinks I'm gay, but it's nice having female friends. And then when I take pictures and videos with them for snapchat and IG, other people see it and they think I'm on a date and smashing these girls and I just let them think that.
04-06-2021, 12:04 AM
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just fuking lol if you didn't already know this
i knew the brutal blackpill and tbh it's fuking over
i make good money and have decent facial aesthetics so i get chicks and hook ups but i'm not 6'4 or some **** so prime pussy always evades me
i knew the brutal blackpill and tbh it's fuking over
i make good money and have decent facial aesthetics so i get chicks and hook ups but i'm not 6'4 or some **** so prime pussy always evades me
04-06-2021, 12:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Briangumble⏩
Like I told you the last time you made a thread about bumble, go on BFF mode andpretend to be a gay guylooking for female friends. That's what I've been doing and I match with more girls than I can keep up with. I hung out with one girl the other day from doing this and she bought most of our drinks and paid for our food and she's always texting me wanting to talk and hang out. I probably won't ever have sex with her because she thinks I'm gay, but it's nice having female friends. And then when I take pictures and videos with them for snapchat and IG, other people see it and they think I'm on a date and smashing these girls and I just let them think that.
04-06-2021, 12:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Dirtylocks⏩
So far it's the only way I can have any type of interaction or friendship/companionship with girls. I use to bang a lot of escorts but I got tired of that so at least this way I don't have to pay them.wow I've seen a lot of things on the misc but this....this is something else.
04-06-2021, 01:39 AM
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Originally Posted By Briangumble⏩
That is sad af. I might do it if I didn't risk friends finding out though so no judge.So far it's the only way I can have any type of interaction or friendship/companionship with girls. I use to bang a lot of escorts but I got tired of that so at least this way I don't have to pay them.
Crazy how even platonic female company is often off limits.
04-06-2021, 02:30 AM
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Originally Posted By Briangumble⏩
Have you ever told one you weren't gay? Would be interesting to see what they'd say. Women basically worship any groups they have been brainwashed into thinking are victims.So far it's the only way I can have any type of interaction or friendship/companionship with girls. I use to bang a lot of escorts but I got tired of that so at least this way I don't have to pay them.
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Tinder is in most cases just a platform to find hook-ups. If you don't belong to the top 5% in looks or have something particular the girl is looking for you're gonna end empty handed.
04-06-2021, 02:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Dirtylocks⏩
What are fatties for then?Bagging the cow handing you the McDouble in the drive-thru last week is nothing to brag about, even if it was your first.
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04-06-2021, 03:19 AM
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Originally Posted By zarathu5tra⏩
This. When will 99% of the people learn?Tinder is in most cases just a platform to find hook-ups. If you don't belong to the top 5% in looks or have something particular the girl is looking for you're gonna end empty handed.
If you're not absolute top tier chad von chaddington you have no business using these apps mang. I'd rather lay down and rot aka stay alone than waste my time getting rejected by single moms.
04-06-2021, 03:37 AM
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lol at talking to females in todays world they are completely ruined and worthless and then going on the app that amplifys it is even worse lolol
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If you're not getting matches you have bad pictures, a bad profile or you're unattractive (or all three). If you can get matches but not dates you have no personality and need to work on your text game. If you can get dates but not laid then you need to learn how to communicate and not give a crap, plus seduction techniques.
You're at stage 1. Your profile is probably boring and you're not that good looking. If you're only matching with 3's I got bad news for you.
You're at stage 1. Your profile is probably boring and you're not that good looking. If you're only matching with 3's I got bad news for you.
04-06-2021, 04:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Briangumble⏩
From a long game perspective this is actually not bad. I'd frame it as I'm the gay guy and get them drunk on wine spritzers, then start talking about how I've never been with a girl before and guaranteed any girl would want to be the first. Easy smash.Like I told you the last time you made a thread about bumble, go on BFF mode and pretend to be a gay guy looking for female friends. That's what I've been doing and I match with more girls than I can keep up with. I hung out with one girl the other day from doing this and she bought most of our drinks and paid for our food and she's always texting me wanting to talk and hang out. I probably won't ever have sex with her because she thinks I'm gay, but it's nice having female friends. And then when I take pictures and videos with them for snapchat and IG, other people see it and they think I'm on a date and smashing these girls and I just let them think that.
04-06-2021, 04:37 AM
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OP misspelled GRINDR
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