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post 1641470563 06-23-2021, 11:37 AM
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Most brutal way you found out she was cheating?

-High school sweetheart, first love, together and inseparable 4-5 years
-Found out she was talking to some foreign fgt because she had him blocked on snapchat (gut feeling made me check, she changed in last year, was perfect first few years)
-She had him saved as daddy lol (she would only call me that when SUPER drunk... brutal, especially now most girls my age like to say it and it makes my heart hurt every time when it used to be hot in the right moment)
-All I know is she talked to him because I apparently didn't give enough "attention" (too busy making money lmao) and I was "controlling". She always maintained she just used him as an emotional tampon but they were prob fukkin for a while
-Had our first holiday abroad together booked at the time it happened, that I was fully paying for

I've still not fully recovered from it, even after relationships (even when the sex was better, longest since only been 6 months tho) and probably never will, well maybe in like 5 years possibly. My personality, confidence (in general and iwth girls), overall mental state hasn't been the same since.

Curious if mine beats the cake
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post 1641470693 06-23-2021, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted By lilbloaty
-High school sweetheart, first love, together and inseparable 4-5 years
-Found out she was talking to some foreign fgt because she had him blocked on snapchat (gut feeling made me check, she changed in last year, was perfect first few years)
-She had him saved as daddy lol (she would only call me that when SUPER drunk... brutal, especially now most girls my age like to say it and it makes my heart hurt every time when it used to be hot in the right moment)
-All I know is she talked to him because I apparently didn't give enough "attention" (too busy making money lmao) and I was "controlling". She always maintained she just used him as an emotional tampon but they were prob fukkin for a while
-Had our first holiday abroad together booked at the time it happened, that I was fully paying for

I've still not fully recovered from it, even after relationships (even when the sex was better, longest since only been 6 months tho) and probably never will, well maybe in like 5 years possibly. My personality, confidence (in general and iwth girls), overall mental state hasn't been the same since.

Curious if mine beats the cake
we can tell. Get over it *******.
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post 1641470723 06-23-2021, 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted By badbl00d
we can tell. Get over it *******.
I've gone through phases where I'm over it for a bit
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post 1641471273 06-23-2021, 11:48 AM
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Found out she was talking to (at the time) one of my best friends.

Friend was engaged for like 5-6 years or so at the time too, still engaged to that fat hambeast.

Chick was a bi sloot I was having fun with so it wasn't like it was out of left field other than my supposed friend being the one she was fooling around with.

That and the guy would NEVER approach a chick like my ex (hence engaged to hambeast), but he got comfortable with her by proxy of her being with me.

And her dumb ass wanted me back and was like "NEGATIVE" next time you cheat make sure to cheat up you dumb cooze
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post 1641471283 06-23-2021, 11:48 AM
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probably seeing them follow some guy on instagram (On a few occasions)

the one girl I was seeing the longest randomly followed some guy one morning and then the whole day after was silent. Then instead of suggesting we hang out like usual.. she would start saying things like "oh its a nice day, you should go out and enjoy"
then went to ******** which she didnt know I had and saw her commenting an enthusiastic happy birthday to the same guy with a kiss gif.
and as usual, my instincts were right
I dont know if that was technically cheating but watching her monkey branch in plain sight.
ended up getting back with her last year and being exclusive for first time and I guess I ruined it but still.. She screwed me over way more times.
Still dont know why but cant stop thinkin about this one
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post 1641471793 06-23-2021, 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon
Found out she was talking to (at the time) one of my best friends.

Friend was engaged for like 5-6 years or so at the time too, still engaged to that fat hambeast.

Chick was a bi sloot I was having fun with so it wasn't like it was out of left field other than my supposed friend being the one she was fooling around with.

That and the guy would NEVER approach a chick like my ex (hence engaged to hambeast), but he got comfortable with her by proxy of her being with me.

And her dumb ass wanted me back and was like "NEGATIVE" next time you cheat make sure to cheat up you dumb cooze
at this point, I feel like Im immune to getting my feelings hurt..

but certain things would fuk me over bad.
like if i had a friend and she ended up getting with him
or family

dont know how I would get over that

but ppl are animals and dont care
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post 1641472063 06-23-2021, 11:57 AM
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She was the best, man
post 1641472963 06-23-2021, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
at this point, I feel like Im immune to getting my feelings hurt..

but certain things would fuk me over bad.
like if i had a friend and she ended up getting with him
or family

dont know how I would get over that

but ppl are animals and dont care
I completely excommunicated him.

What especially bugged me at the time was that I used to literally put pussy in the guys lap and he'd never seal the deal because he didn't have the balls to.

I wish I could show you some of the broads I was trying to throw his way when his then GF (the same hambeast) left him for a year.

He never made a move on any of those broads but he's gonna make a move on his friends GF?

I've ****ed hotter than my ex, and I've made cooler, more respectful friends since ditching those losers.

That's how I got over it

I also want to add I don't think mine is that bad because I wasn't all that emotionally attached to the girl.

Don't get me wrong I was hurt, angry, all of the above but it's not like I was smitten with the girl and making plans for the future.

I knew it had an expiration date, just didn't think she'd go after my friend, and didn't think he'd stab me in the back.

If it was like the love of my life?

Let's just say I can see how people kill over that stuff, not saying I would but I'm sure I'd be filled with murderous rage just being honest tee hee
The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
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At least it will thunderstorm tonight, and we know how they feel about water. :)
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post 1641473103 06-23-2021, 12:14 PM
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Thread title says "most brutal way" and everyone here is saying "I found out she was talking to some dude on instagram". Nobody gives chit about that. I want to hear how you took the early flight home from San Diego and a couple of nude people jumped out of your bathroom blindfolded like a goddamn magic show ready to double team your girlfriend.
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Originally Posted By xxAchillesxx
Thread title says "most brutal way" and everyone here is saying "I found out she was talking to some dude on instagram". Nobody gives chit about that. I want to hear how you took the early flight home from San Diego and a couple of nude people jumped out of your bathroom blindfolded like a goddamn magic show ready to double team your girlfriend.
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post 1641473913 06-23-2021, 12:28 PM
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we lived together, often told me she was going to work, working night shifts (health care worker)
brought her work clothes and everything
turns out she had quit her job months ago...

lmfao I was 19 and delusional as fuk. I took it pretty hard back then but now I just laugh about it srs.


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Originally Posted By xxAchillesxx
Thread title says "most brutal way" and everyone here is saying "I found out she was talking to some dude on instagram". Nobody gives chit about that. I want to hear how you took the early flight home from San Diego and a couple of nude people jumped out of your bathroom blindfolded like a goddamn magic show ready to double team your girlfriend.
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post 1641474103 06-23-2021, 12:31 PM
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I never really ended up in this situation. Someone I liked and was not dating started going for this guy I noticed on ******** who I considered far less impressive than me.

I should have stayed in touch more socially to mog these kinds of people in the long game.
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So out of all the girls i been with? And all the girls I had as fwbs? I only been cheated on twice iml. Though I canโ€™t figure out if thatโ€™s a good number, by that I mean ratio. As itโ€™s like Iโ€™ve really only had like 6 relationships. Or that Iโ€™d call relationships and? One of the times Iโ€™d got cheated on Iโ€™d not even considered it a relationship at all...

So first time? Was this girl we will call her G. So I was 14 yo and I just wanted tj get laid... by the time I ended up doing it? It happened at my friends camp right? And man? Was horrible. Thought I was like fucjibg ghey her vagina was garbage. And that lasted for like two months? Maybe but prolly not even that long. And it was like? I totally ended up having her gf hit me up over aim messenger... tell me she cheated on me some black dude? Lol hell yes, first gf I was too bish made tj break up with her. This was my opportunity... Iโ€™m out smashed her friend? Boom. Iโ€™m out time to date Jessica Clarke... cuz this girls vagina sucked...

And then everyone knows that story. Never got at it and ended up drunk staring at her house from her neighbors at 3 am wishing sheโ€™d come outside. Never happened for me. People linked in. Damn I wish I could go back in time. Iโ€™m sorry Jessica...

Flex boss bears for the bears who donโ€™t get enough credit

I got you. Still so mad about that whole freaking thing dude. I liked Jessica

Anyways moving on now?

The last time my last gf was trash and man? I found out via fb confirmation. Like I told that one non privvy nsa agent... anyways? It was like? I was so happy there too. It wasnโ€™t like I was afraid tj break up with her... it was that I felt obligated tj it. Her dad is a fucjibg **** loser BFF Bill Gates? And is like? To me I just wanted tj bury this fool so bad and be out. Miserable this **** her family is dog ****. I had all these hot bears accruing on my ********? Awesome... but then??? Duty called I guess and ******** is run by degenerates as per usual what do you expect theyโ€™re located in San Francisco

Tell em Suzanne

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Look at what theyโ€™ve done tj California

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Never really found out in a brutal way. It was either after the fact, or just monkey branching that I discovered.

1st GF was prob the worst...pulled up to her house for her birthday party, as I was sitting outside getting ready to walk in, she called and was like "my ex sees you outside, you have to leave or he won't come to the party". her ex lived like across the street from her lol. went stag to senior prom because of that and it cut pretty deep. though to be fair, i'd homewrecked their relationship so it was pretty karmic.

2nd gf, found out from my close buddy like 2 months after we broke up that aforementioned close buddy of mine had made out with her in a bar shortly after I'd gotten kicked out. We're no longer close, barely even acquaintances. Same buddy also hooked up with the 3rd gf below when we were on a break. granted, they'd had a thing before i started dating #3 but still...c'mon bro.

3rd gf, she was basically monkey branching the entire relationship but I was in denial and believed her when she just claimed they were friends. i don't think she cheated on me, but I think she would have. That gf is now dating another "friend" who she'd previously claimed she was hitting up to coordinate plans for all of us just lmao.
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this happened not long after a LTR ended so I was bouncing hard on the rebound and missed some red flags...

They say someone can hide who they are for 90 days.

Well I meet this chick through mutual friends. I had just moved back to my home state, she was a blond with a banging body, wanted to spend every minute she could with me, would make huge homemade lunches to me at work, basically treating me like a king. After the sh!t way my last relationship had ended, I was loving this.

Fast forward a few months... she'd start flaking out. We'd have plans to meet for drinks and no show. Hours later I'd get a text, oh I had flat tire/ car broke down/ family emergency, etc etc This was starting to become a regular thing.

Caught up with one of my old buddies who pulls be aside and said his buddy was at a party with her several months ago and she was talking about meeting clients in hotel rooms. WTF... I google her number and it pops up an escort website.

Supposed to meet at a bar for drinks after work... she shows up and I can tell shes fukked up. Has one drink and just about passes out. take her to her car and can't help but look at her phone. Texts with a random number from the night before when she'd flaked, talking price per hour and giving him room#.

Noped out of there on the spot
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I walked into a restaurant and she was eating with her husband. Dirty sl00t
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High school GF into my soph year of college. So 3+ years total or so. She joined track team. Had a "friend" we will call Jamal. Started acting different, being less available. Got suspicious. So went into her email (not even sure why I had access this was pretty much before social media, or maybe myspace days). Found pics he had sent her of dink in her mouth. Was upset for like week then was happy to be free. Think I was the last non jamal she was with including her now husband. So the saying was true.
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Cot dayum mang ^

After better part of a decade, we were about to get on a plane for a tropical vacation (that I paid for through and through thinking to propose) and I saw some texts that gave it away.
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Originally Posted By TealCat
Cot dayum mang ^

After better part of a decade, we were about to get on a plane for a tropical vacation (that I paid for through and through thinking to propose) and I saw some texts that gave it away.
jesus

a whole decade?
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Oh yeah

Also when I was younger I had a drop dead gorgeous gf in school. I got in a fight and was in isolation a few weeks and she started hanging around with some ugly nerdy kunt on breaks. She said he was like a brother and I believed her cause he was so fukkin ugly.

...Well she was caught getting fingered by him on a break on some stairs. Lmfao

Wish I was gay
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"You're too controlling"is universal woman-speak for"I'm cheating on you"
This. And usually if she says she needs more attention, she doesn't mean from you.
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Originally Posted By TealCat
Cot dayum mang ^

After better part of a decade, we were about to get on a plane for a tropical vacation (that I paid for through and through thinking to propose) and I saw some texts that gave it away.
Yeah I was gonna propose too lol.
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Originally Posted By -
"You're too controlling"is universal woman-speak for"I'm cheating on you"
I always thought they meant this:

The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
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At least it will thunderstorm tonight, and we know how they feel about water. :)
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Originally Posted By TealCat
Cot dayum mang ^

After better part of a decade, we were about to get on a plane for a tropical vacation (that I paid for through and through thinking to propose) and I saw some texts that gave it away.
Wow
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Had my suspicions when a male friend from work and her started to hang out a lot (long distance relationship). One weekend I was down I did some snooping while she was at work and found a list in her diary of guys she'd slept with - and I wasn't the last name on the list.

Did some more detective work and found out eventually that not only was it that guy, she'd slept with FIVE other guys in six months we'd been distanced, including the very first night she moved there with some random at a party her housemate organized. I was ethered. And she was carrying on like nothing had happened. I'd even met and hung out with two of the guys she was banging. I got her caught when I messaged one of them pretending I was her and then got him to describe how much he loved the insane sex they'd had the night I left after a weekend with her. Gutted.

I made sure I had a couple of days off, knew she was at work and drove down and took all my stuff I'd bought her to make her feel comfortable. Television, furniture, lots of kitchen stuff, etc. I had even adopted a cat for her so she wouldn't be lonely. Took him too. When she got off work my phone literally blew up for days and I just ignored it.
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^ holy **** brah i cant quote and respond but thats BRUTAL

you handled it like a champ though. everything taken without her knowledge & no contact from you. kicked to the curb like last weeks trash. she'll feel like a dirty useless whore until the day she dies
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