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post 1644848273 08-13-2021, 05:15 AM
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Usually its about the $$$$$$.

When young girls go after older dudes, you gotta wonder if it's because they like the guy or their wallet.

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post 1644848443 08-13-2021, 05:22 AM
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post 1644848483 08-13-2021, 05:24 AM
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post 1644848563 08-13-2021, 05:26 AM
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I get approached everywhere I go. But I'm also almost 6'2 and mog in most settings
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post 1644848653 08-13-2021, 05:28 AM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
I highly disagree. The value of pussy is so inflated these days due to simps and social media, that even your average whale thinks she deserves brad pitt.
Especially on dating apps. With an infinite amount of dink, why should they settle for less?
You can't disagree unfortunately, it's a well established fact that women on average (not just gold diggers) prioritise looks way lower than men do. This recent paper sums up the research, and performs a study on men and women in the US, UK, China, and Europe (can't post links): Different impacts of resources on opposite sex ratings of physical attractiveness by males and females
We found that ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females. These results indicate that higher economic status can offset lower physical attractiveness in men much more easily than in women. Neither raters' BMI nor age influenced this effect for females rating male attractiveness.
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Our study aimed to evaluate whether females are more sensitive to resources when rating male attractiveness than males are when rating females. Using images that were ranked with and without salary information we found females are roughly one thousand times more sensitive to salary when rating males than are males rating females. Our study confirms the evolutionary expectation that females should be more sensitive to resources than males. This difference between the sexes has major impacts on human male and female mating strategies and can explain many disparities in male and female mating behavior. Given that males are largely insensitive to cues indicating resources, females can most effectively enhance their mating prospects by making themselves physically more attractive
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On the other hand, males can offset poor physical attractiveness, or further enhance existing good looks, by demonstrating their large levels of resources. In a similar vein recent work has indicated that proxies for intelligence may also offset low facial attractiveness in males but not females, although there was no evidence of an effect in those who were already good looking
Although you shouldn't need a study to prove it, the evidence is around you everywhere.
post 1644848853 08-13-2021, 05:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Rylol
Needs to be in good shape and have lots of money. No chance without.
This

30-40; looking young/great shape and life-career set = p00sy
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post 1644848873 08-13-2021, 05:33 AM
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as long as you're the complete package then yes

you can get away with being just good looking in your 20s

in your 30s, you dont need to be elon musk but you gotta be financially secure
post 1644851453 08-13-2021, 06:39 AM
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No. The misc is delusional. I am a good looking guy and had a hard time matching with anyone under 25 when i was still dating around 30. This, coupled with the fact that most zoomer chicks seem to be fat slobs with blue hair....the rest are incredibly delusional and obsessed with social media... no thx jeff.
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post 1644851673 08-13-2021, 06:42 AM
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Didn't read it's not about age but how good you look, mature and rich you are. Despite your age, you'll get pussy from every range
post 1644851813 08-13-2021, 06:44 AM
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No we don't lol, but this is the misc they will be bagging 18-20 y/o 10/10's all day even at age 70
post 1644851843 08-13-2021, 06:45 AM
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Late 30s checking in.

This is mostly correct in my experience.

But I do have decent genetics (hair, height etc) and mad discipline (still have a four pack, use sunscreen, eat clean, etc)

I have way more money, status, sports car, boat etc than in my 20s so it’s much easier in many ways to get girls, even bearded and even chicks in their early 20s. They do sometimes ask my age but I usually deflect it and it’s forgotten quickly.

On the other hand, I recently noticed I don’t go out of my way to hit on the younger chicks like I use to, it’s as if I start to feel self councious of my age
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post 1644851883 08-13-2021, 06:46 AM
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I think it depends on the person. There are a lot of guys I see who seem to improve with age. I think they are the ones who have taken good care of themselves - worked out and stayed healthy. I’ve also noticed some guys seem look like they jumped from 25- 45 almost overnight and they’re the ones who have run themselves into the ground.

Interestingly, it can be the same with women. Over-all, I think guys probably age better, but if a woman has genuinely looked after herself, she can look better in her 30/40s than she did in her 20s too.
post 1644852573 08-13-2021, 07:01 AM
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post 1644852663 08-13-2021, 07:03 AM
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Originally Posted By Lunu
I think it depends on the person. There are a lot of guys I see who seem to improve with age. I think they are the ones who have taken good care of themselves - worked out and stayed healthy. I’ve also noticed some guys seem look like they jumped from 25- 45 almost overnight and they’re the ones who have run themselves into the ground.

Interestingly, it can be the same with women. Over-all, I think guys probably age better, but if a woman has genuinely looked after herself,she can look better in her 30/40s than she did in her 20s too.


Not unless she was obese or gets surgerymaxxed.
post 1644853063 08-13-2021, 07:09 AM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
Lol @ being this delusional. Cope.
I literally have girls on my ******** that I was comparing to their younger-selves and thinking this just a couple of days ago.
post 1644853203 08-13-2021, 07:11 AM
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no young woman is going to get with a 40+ year old man unless he's loaded or famous. 18-25 women are only interested in chads cock. they assume they'll find some beta provider when theh're older. now if youre older and have a nice boat or something then you could get some prime vag because of the implication, but an average corporate wagecel? lol
post 1644853283 08-13-2021, 07:13 AM
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mid 30s truly opens up the biggest possible age range/window of possibility. everyone is an option. I however decided to get married so neither here nor there. but its true
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post 1644853473 08-13-2021, 07:18 AM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
Men being in their prime at 40 is the biggest cope i ever heard. You'll be swiping for single moms at that age lmao.
Only young sloots old men with money are able to pull are gold diggers.
LOL, hush now
post 1644853853 08-13-2021, 07:24 AM
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That vast majority of men I know 30+ hit the wall just like women. Norwood 4 hairline and out of shape. But if you're 6'0+ with at least norwood 1 and successful you can keep dating 10 years younger. I do this currently
post 1644854183 08-13-2021, 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
Like WHChampion said, unless a sloot was obese in her 20s, there's no way they look better in their 40s.
That glow is long gone. Maybe they look better with snapchat filters and make up but that's not real life.
I guess they just looked really plain and put more effort into looking good now...who knows. I can say the majority of the girls I knew in high school look way worse now though. These are the minority I’m referring to.
post 1644855123 08-13-2021, 07:46 AM
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It all depends on the situation really.

At work, I am the IT supervisor, but I dress like a maintenance worker because I get dirty being out in the field sometimes. I would rather ruin cheap poverty clothes than nice clothes. That being said, we have a lot of young case managers and 90% of them are in their 20s. Like most of you, I am fit with a graying beard. They are normal around me, but the moment they find out I'm the boss of my department, they change their tone around me quickly.

They call my direct office line asking for help instead of submitting a ticket. They DM me on Teams for anything. Women dig power and money. At my facility, I'm in the top 5 of highest paid employees and we have about 180 employees. It's weird.
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post 1644855943 08-13-2021, 07:57 AM
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post 1644856813 08-13-2021, 08:09 AM
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I can get attention from 20s-60. For men, a combination of looks, fitness, some style, confidence, and stability checks most of the blocks. Chicks can be interested in some or all of those.
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Originally Posted By eod8989
I get approached everywhere I go. But I'm also almost 6'2 and mog in most settings
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Depends on the country. Poorer countries that have rich older men can attract girls from 16 years old to any age. In the West older men attract leftovers like SS.
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I find that women are much more attracted to me (without effort) now vs 10 years ago. I'm talking women in their 20's up through women my age and even slightly older. If I were a lesser man and didn't respect my marriage, I could be pulling 8s without a lot of effort.

Could be that they see an older man as more mature, stable, financially sound. I'm sure I exude more confidence now than I did then, because as I get older I just dgaf about much. Beyond first glance it's obvious that I am successful, have a solid career and plenty of money.
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So far the thread says that:
1) Women are primarily attracted to looks
2) Women can not improve in looks into their 40s
3) Genetics are all that matter for looks
4) Women that are attracted to older guys are gold diggers
5) Men are washed up and get no attention into their 40s

All of these are opposite to what I observe IRL, and to all research on the matter.

How are so many miscers perceptions so warped?
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Younger girls don't know much but they know BDE, which is something a lot of younger guys don't earn until they're more experienced in life.
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From personal experience, I have had absolutely no problems pulling girls in my thirties. I’m not sure if it’s been easier or the same as in my twenties though.
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