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post 1647132813 09-16-2021, 12:08 AM
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Trying to mentor a 24 year dude at the gym

My height (his saving grace 6’ 3” )
Pale
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Has like 6/10 face not bad but nothing close to Chad


I want him to succeed so he can enjoy his 20’s and meet sloots

Problem is he lifts like a pussy he’s never sweating and there is zero intensity. Skinny fat

Is he even worth trying to save?
I keep telling him to push harder and to stop doing an hour of cardio and to just fast and do 20 min of high intensity. And focus on heavy compound lifts

He never listens and does the same chit
post 1647132853 09-16-2021, 12:09 AM
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sounds like a lost cause (SRS).
post 1647132893 09-16-2021, 12:11 AM
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if he's not interested don't even bother. why mess up your own workouts for a soyboy?
post 1647133023 09-16-2021, 12:17 AM
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If he doesn't want to put full effort in, don't bother.
post 1647133163 09-16-2021, 12:22 AM
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When you're helping someone, if they won't listen you just have to let them do their own thing instead of wasting your energy on them.
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post 1647133213 09-16-2021, 12:24 AM
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Push him. He's a fat kid.
post 1647133223 09-16-2021, 12:24 AM
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Does he have a nice ass?
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post 1647133233 09-16-2021, 12:24 AM
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Train me srs
post 1647133243 09-16-2021, 12:25 AM
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That’s kinda how it is due to information pollution out there.

A million people have talked to me about lifting advice from seeing my results and lifestyle and a million people ignored that advice lol

That’s why the intense culture we had here like 10 years ago was so useful at convincing people because it was one large hive mind that all agreed on the same major principles
post 1647133273 09-16-2021, 12:27 AM
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When people take advice they're usually just making conversation lol

Unless they came to you for advice and/or are paying you.
post 1647133303 09-16-2021, 12:28 AM
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Originally Posted By 8pieces⏩
if he's not interested don't even bother. why mess up your own workouts for a soyboy?
He wants this dude to eventually become better than him.
post 1647133383 09-16-2021, 12:32 AM
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Nothing some cellular technology won’t straighten out
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post 1647133393 09-16-2021, 12:32 AM
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If they wanted to learn how to train correctly they would use Google. The information is literally all available for free and takes about 20 seconds to find.

The problem with people who don't push themselves in the gym has nothing to do with ignorance of proper training methodology.
post 1647134213 09-16-2021, 01:06 AM
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how much does he want your help? i think you would only be wasting your time if he doesn't want help.
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post 1647135333 09-16-2021, 02:30 AM
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get him some celltech
post 1647135743 09-16-2021, 02:55 AM
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It’s only 30 percent training and 70 percent nutrition though
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post 1647135903 09-16-2021, 03:04 AM
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post 1647135963 09-16-2021, 03:08 AM
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Why are you so interested in him?
post 1647136043 09-16-2021, 03:10 AM
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I can't think of a bigger waste of time than worrying about what other people are doing at a gym, let alone trying to actively coach some random guy who most likely won't take it seriously anyway. Quit wasting your time and focus on yourself. Not worth the hassle beyond giving some brief advice here and there, and only if they ask you for it first.

Also, if you are going out of your way to give unsolicited advice in the gym, even if its "good" advice, you're not much different than random lanklet/skinny fat/fat guys who go around doing the same chit with bad advice. If you're doing it unprovoked, most people are going to think you're a douchebag for it. Rightfully so tbh, because going around giving out unsolicited gym advice is an inherently douchey behavior.
post 1647136053 09-16-2021, 03:11 AM
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Mentoring another dude at the gym? WTF? Sounds gay.

You should be getting paid for giving him advice.
post 1647136213 09-16-2021, 03:17 AM
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ITT OP has started training with his boyfriend...
post 1647137623 09-16-2021, 04:13 AM
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Originally Posted By infinityplus1⏩
ITT OP has started training with his boyfriend...
post 1647137813 09-16-2021, 04:22 AM
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Originally Posted By SleepWithFan89⏩
My height (his saving grace 6’ 3” )
Pale
Gamer
Has like 6/10 face not bad but nothing close to Chad


I want him to succeed so he can enjoy his 20’s and meet sloots

Problem is he lifts like a pussy he’s never sweating and there is zero intensity. Skinny fat

Is he even worth trying to save?
I keep telling him to push harder and to stop doing an hour of cardio and to just fast and do 20 min of high intensity. And focus on heavy compound lifts

He never listens and does the same chit
Gae misc——>
I loe e.
post 1647137983 09-16-2021, 04:27 AM
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Extremely strong username to thread topic
post 1647139583 09-16-2021, 05:34 AM
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maybe you're the one that needs help.
post 1647139753 09-16-2021, 05:42 AM
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Stop being a creep, OP. Worry about your gainz and your gainz only.
post 1647139893 09-16-2021, 05:47 AM
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are you trying to bang him op?
post 1647140023 09-16-2021, 05:51 AM
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I only sweat at the gym because I’m on so many ****ing stims

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post 1647140113 09-16-2021, 05:55 AM
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They have to want it. If he doesn't, move on.


Gains I mean, not man sexx...
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post 1647140413 09-16-2021, 06:06 AM
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Seeing these kids is brutal. 20 year old "...man..." and basically a 50 year old woman.

There is a double mask kid that shows up from time to time and struggles to rep out 65 on the bench. He also 1/4 reps 95lb squats. He's not a beginner, that's just his limits.
Eat in a deficit to lose weight.
Hit your protein and fat minimums to stay healthy and keep your gainz.
Lift heavy and do HIIT to look and feel awesome.
Use the internet to learn why you should do these things and how to do these things.
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