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if this paulie fook can do it so can any of yall, 65 and gettin prime early 30s cunny
if this paulie fook can do it so can any of yall, 65 and gettin prime early 30s cunny
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Originally Posted By FlexLex⏩
How do you take a girl seriously thats been through a "sloot" phase (DEDFKNSRS). I'd understand a sloot phase in Highschool where it was ~5 guys but a sloot phase in your 20's entails triple digits.The difference between chicks at 28 and 32 is night and day, they really start to go downhill fast.
Most early 30s just lost all their glow. Most have below average bodies and way over inflated self worth and standards.
It is tough out there.The sweet spot seems to be ages 26-29, these chicks are past the sloot phasebut not get quite ruined and looking to settle down. You can still find some good catches. Anything past 30 and theres a reason they are still out there.
I just lost a 3 year relationship, and dating is easier as im older but also the quality is definitely lesser.
Most early 30s just lost all their glow. Most have below average bodies and way over inflated self worth and standards.
It is tough out there.The sweet spot seems to be ages 26-29, these chicks are past the sloot phasebut not get quite ruined and looking to settle down. You can still find some good catches. Anything past 30 and theres a reason they are still out there.
I just lost a 3 year relationship, and dating is easier as im older but also the quality is definitely lesser.
09-23-2021, 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted By GayCumLord⏩
I can't. Seems like a lot of women have 20+ counts and I can't take them seriously for marriage.How do you take a girl seriously thats been through a "sloot" phase (DEDFKNSRS). I'd understand a sloot phase in Highschool where it was ~5 guys but a sloot phase in your 20's entails triple digits.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Chicks quiet on this topic.I can't. Seems like a lot of women have 20+ counts and I can't take them seriously for marriage.
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My dating options have only improved as I've aged. 36 now and I'll admit dating is a bit of a chit show, but it always has been once online dating became popular.
At least women look at me now as a source of security due to age and career. So that's definitely helped me with finding and getting the quality women interested. My advice is to take note of red flags and when to move on to women that are quality. It's not an easy skill to learn. If you're not getting anywhere with women that you actually want to date or be in a LTR then there's likely things you need to work on or fix.
At 28-30, I was still degreeless and no quality job. It began to make sense why I wasn't getting the girls I wanted it. By age 32-35 I had the education and a great career. Dating quality women became pretty easy after that, but you still have to sift through all the red flags and train wrecks, which comes from dating experience.
It's a chit show on both sides. So keep that in mind and differentiate yourself from the field of red flags. If you're dating multiple women and can't remember things you've already talk about, a lot of women are going to notice. I pretty much know exactly when women start talking to another guy or dating another guy just by her texting behavior or slip ups. So if you're actually trying to do a LTR. You're not doing yourself any favors if you're dating multiple women. They will know and drop you. And you're back to square one.
I honestly don't factor in age very much either. I've dated very mature 21yos, and immature 35yos. I care about how they carry themselves, take care of themselves, their habits and how they're aging. I've seen 40yos that are aging better than a 25yo. So I'd honestly drop your age credentials.
At least women look at me now as a source of security due to age and career. So that's definitely helped me with finding and getting the quality women interested. My advice is to take note of red flags and when to move on to women that are quality. It's not an easy skill to learn. If you're not getting anywhere with women that you actually want to date or be in a LTR then there's likely things you need to work on or fix.
At 28-30, I was still degreeless and no quality job. It began to make sense why I wasn't getting the girls I wanted it. By age 32-35 I had the education and a great career. Dating quality women became pretty easy after that, but you still have to sift through all the red flags and train wrecks, which comes from dating experience.
It's a chit show on both sides. So keep that in mind and differentiate yourself from the field of red flags. If you're dating multiple women and can't remember things you've already talk about, a lot of women are going to notice. I pretty much know exactly when women start talking to another guy or dating another guy just by her texting behavior or slip ups. So if you're actually trying to do a LTR. You're not doing yourself any favors if you're dating multiple women. They will know and drop you. And you're back to square one.
I honestly don't factor in age very much either. I've dated very mature 21yos, and immature 35yos. I care about how they carry themselves, take care of themselves, their habits and how they're aging. I've seen 40yos that are aging better than a 25yo. So I'd honestly drop your age credentials.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
The sluttiest ones are the first ones to cry "double standard" when men that fuk a lot dont like to commit to sluts. They dont seem to mind the OTHER double standard though; A 20 year old virgin girl that is actually hot and cute is basically a princess, shed get worshiped for it. A young man that is a virgin is basically a loser.I can't. Seems like a lot of women have 20+ counts and I can't take them seriously for marriage.
There are of course biological reasons to explain why we think the way we do, but still, you dont seem men complaining about that double standard do you? "If i were a girl, nobody would have a problem with me being a virgin!"
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Originally Posted By _zman⏩
Repped, but age matters in terms of ability to have 2/3 kids without completely rushing it. Biological clock = reality.I honestly don't factor in age very much either. I've dated very mature 21yos, and immature 35yos. I care about how they carry themselves, take care of themselves, their habits and how they're aging. I've seen 40yos that are aging better than a 25yo. So I'd honestly drop your age credentials.
If you don't want kids, yes.
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Originally Posted By GayCumLord⏩
This is a very small amount of women. A lot of guys for a girl is actually above ten according to studies.How do you take a girl seriously thats been through a "sloot" phase (DEDFKNSRS). I'd understand a sloot phase in Highschool where it was ~5 guys but a sloot phase in your 20's entails triple digits.
Even a sloot phase is typically a few guys, then they settle down, then maybe after 1-2 years they break up, a few more guys, etc. Repeat if they haven't had long term relationships. It's like guys think women will go out to a club and bang a different guy every weekend for years. It just doesn't happen except in outlier cases. Most girls even if they are single will sleep with guys they already know or have slept with before instead of finding new random guys. Especially if they know the guy is good in bed.
I've only ever met one woman outside of the kink community who's had more than twenty partners in her life. Only once have I slept with a girl who's had more than about thirty different guys and she was a fetish porn model. She'd have a lot of sex, but it was with the same 6-10 guys often, not new ones.
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Originally Posted By _zman⏩
Agree completely with bolded. Any chick that would be ok with you juggling girls is doing the same thing with dudesMy dating options have only improved as I've aged. 36 now and I'll admit dating is a bit of a chit show, but it always has been once online dating became popular.
At least women look at me now as a source of security due to age and career. So that's definitely helped me with finding and getting the quality women interested. My advice is to take note of red flags and when to move on to women that are quality. It's not an easy skill to learn. If you're not getting anywhere with women that you actually want to date or be in a LTR then there's likely things you need to work on or fix.
At 28-30, I was still degreeless and no quality job. It began to make sense why I wasn't getting the girls I wanted it. By age 32-35 I had the education and a great career. Dating quality women became pretty easy after that, but you still have to sift through all the red flags and train wrecks, which comes from dating experience.
It's a chit show on both sides. So keep that in mind and differentiate yourself from the field of red flags. If you're dating multiple women and can't remember things you've already talk about, a lot of women are going to notice. I pretty much know exactly when women start talking to another guy or dating another guy just by her texting behavior or slip ups.So if you're actually trying to do a LTR. You're not doing yourself any favors if you're dating multiple women. They will know and drop you. And you're back to square one.
I honestly don't factor in age very much either. I've dated very mature 21yos, and immature 35yos. I care about how they carry themselves, take care of themselves, their habits and how they're aging. I've seen 40yos that are aging better than a 25yo. So I'd honestly drop your age credentials.
At least women look at me now as a source of security due to age and career. So that's definitely helped me with finding and getting the quality women interested. My advice is to take note of red flags and when to move on to women that are quality. It's not an easy skill to learn. If you're not getting anywhere with women that you actually want to date or be in a LTR then there's likely things you need to work on or fix.
At 28-30, I was still degreeless and no quality job. It began to make sense why I wasn't getting the girls I wanted it. By age 32-35 I had the education and a great career. Dating quality women became pretty easy after that, but you still have to sift through all the red flags and train wrecks, which comes from dating experience.
It's a chit show on both sides. So keep that in mind and differentiate yourself from the field of red flags. If you're dating multiple women and can't remember things you've already talk about, a lot of women are going to notice. I pretty much know exactly when women start talking to another guy or dating another guy just by her texting behavior or slip ups.So if you're actually trying to do a LTR. You're not doing yourself any favors if you're dating multiple women. They will know and drop you. And you're back to square one.
I honestly don't factor in age very much either. I've dated very mature 21yos, and immature 35yos. I care about how they carry themselves, take care of themselves, their habits and how they're aging. I've seen 40yos that are aging better than a 25yo. So I'd honestly drop your age credentials.
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Indeed, I make this clear very early. Another good way to weed out low quality sluts.Agree completely with bolded. Any chick that would be ok with you juggling girls is doing the same thing with dudes
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Do you guys travel in a minivan everywhere?Oh yeah ofc Iโm not expecting to be their gf or be posted on their IG lmao.
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Yeah Iโm sure they share my nudes and actually Iโve met all my main fwbโs friends and stayed at his place with his friends and gone out with him and his friends to the gym and to dinner etc.
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Originally Posted By stezus⏩
yeah.. i found 2 nice sloots also. both married very young, divorced young with kids. really nice females otherwise.. if they were willing to give the children up for adoption they may have had a shot. they had kept that sh*t secret for a week tooTwice now i thought i found the perfect one only to find she's raising Tyrone's kid
as for most sloots 30+ on bumble.. their profiles are
PhD (almost every swipe)
liberals - yay all decisions based on their feelings (80% of all swipes)
wine in photos - alcoholics (99% of all swipes)
bikini photos (95% of all swipes)
bar photos (90% of all swipes)
kids (50% of all swipes)
divorced (99% of all swipes)
don't want kids (50% of all swipes)
"don't know what they want" (70% of all swipes).... they are 30+ and still don't know what they want other than attention
gucci / chanel bags/belts materialism BS (70% of all swipes)
tattoos like a mofo (50% of all swipes)
follow me on IG (35% of all swipes)
polyamorous (20% of all swipes)
OF (20% of all swipes)
"looking for a real gentleman" - to pay for me after slooting it up all my 20s (30% of all swipes)
sh*t.. and then the mental issues on top. and their expectations are through the roof when they bring almost nothing to do the table. most are not home owners either.. well the single mothers are because the big daddy government helped them out, or they got it in the divorce. but don't expect them to give you a shot if you don't own your own place.
they are mostly a carbon copy of each other and are not feminine at all at this age. and add nothing to a man's life other than a regular hole
go for younger chicks boyos - and try to meet them in the real world
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
disagree, I'd say most women that don't go through a sloot phase get married young and stay married so they're out of the market all together. Also Strongly disagree with a sloot phase being "just a few guys".... Lmao. If these 19 yo baddies can fk celebrities these days, it isn't going to be just a couple of guys, thats pure cope.This is a very small amount of women. A lot of guys for a girl is actually above ten according to studies.
Even a sloot phase is typically a few guys, then they settle down, then maybe after 1-2 years they break up, a few more guys, etc. Repeat if they haven't had long term relationships. It's like guys think women will go out to a club and bang a different guy every weekend for years. It just doesn't happen except in outlier cases. Most girls even if they are single will sleep with guys they already know or have slept with before instead of finding new random guys. Especially if they know the guy is good in bed.
I've only ever met one woman outside of the kink community who's had more than twenty partners in her life. Only once have I slept with a girl who's had more than about thirty different guys and she was a fetish porn model. She'd have a lot of sex, but it was with the same 6-10 guys often, not new ones.
Even a sloot phase is typically a few guys, then they settle down, then maybe after 1-2 years they break up, a few more guys, etc. Repeat if they haven't had long term relationships. It's like guys think women will go out to a club and bang a different guy every weekend for years. It just doesn't happen except in outlier cases. Most girls even if they are single will sleep with guys they already know or have slept with before instead of finding new random guys. Especially if they know the guy is good in bed.
I've only ever met one woman outside of the kink community who's had more than twenty partners in her life. Only once have I slept with a girl who's had more than about thirty different guys and she was a fetish porn model. She'd have a lot of sex, but it was with the same 6-10 guys often, not new ones.
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
Thatโs interesting to know what the competition is out there. Iโm not a PhD and donโt even have a Masters. I own a home with my estranged husband. No wine or drinking photos. No bikini or bar photos. No tattoos. No materialistic objects. Not Poly.yeah.. i found 2 nice sloots also. both married very young, divorced young with kids. really nice females otherwise.. if they were willing to give the children up for adoption they may have had a shot. they had kept that sh*t secret for a week too
as for most sloots 30+ on bumble.. their profiles are
PhD (almost every swipe)
wine in photos - alcoholics (99% of all swipes)
bikini photos (95% of all swipes)
bar photos (90% of all swipes)
kids (50% of all swipes)
divorced (99% of all swipes)
don't want kids (50% of all swipes)
"don't know what they want" (70% of all swipes).... they are 30+ and still don't know what they want other than attention
gucci / chanel bags/belts materialism BS (70% of all swipes)
tattoos like a mofo (50% of all swipes)
follow me on IG (35% of all swipes)
polyamorous (20% of all swipes)
OF (20% of all swipes)
"looking for a real gentleman" - to pay for me after slooting it up all my 20s (30% of all swipes)
sh*t.. and then the mental issues on top. and their expectations are through the roof when they bring almost nothing to do the table. most are not home owners either.. well the single mothers are because the big daddy government helped them out, or they got it in the divorce. but don't expect them to give you a shot if you don't own your own place.
they are mostly a carbon copy of each other and are not feminine at all at this age. and add nothing to a man's life other than a regular hole
go for younger chicks boyos - and try to meet them in the real world
as for most sloots 30+ on bumble.. their profiles are
PhD (almost every swipe)
wine in photos - alcoholics (99% of all swipes)
bikini photos (95% of all swipes)
bar photos (90% of all swipes)
kids (50% of all swipes)
divorced (99% of all swipes)
don't want kids (50% of all swipes)
"don't know what they want" (70% of all swipes).... they are 30+ and still don't know what they want other than attention
gucci / chanel bags/belts materialism BS (70% of all swipes)
tattoos like a mofo (50% of all swipes)
follow me on IG (35% of all swipes)
polyamorous (20% of all swipes)
OF (20% of all swipes)
"looking for a real gentleman" - to pay for me after slooting it up all my 20s (30% of all swipes)
sh*t.. and then the mental issues on top. and their expectations are through the roof when they bring almost nothing to do the table. most are not home owners either.. well the single mothers are because the big daddy government helped them out, or they got it in the divorce. but don't expect them to give you a shot if you don't own your own place.
they are mostly a carbon copy of each other and are not feminine at all at this age. and add nothing to a man's life other than a regular hole
go for younger chicks boyos - and try to meet them in the real world
Weird. Although I see the divorced women drinking heavily. Many wine taste all day while their husbands pay alimony.
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Originally Posted By GayCumLord⏩
the truth is, we will never know how many men they've been with. she'll give you a number but only count them men she was in a relationship with, not the ONSs, drunken encounters, or how many men they've given BJs to. a woman in her late 20s/30s isnt going to be honest and disclose how much of a slott she was, especially when she's looking for a guy for marriage.disagree, I'd say most women that don't go through a sloot phase get married young and stay married so they're out of the market all together. Also Strongly disagree with a sloot phase being "just a few guys".... Lmao. If these 19 yo baddies can fk celebrities these days, it isn't going to be just a couple of guys, thats pure cope.
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
Red and yellow flags marked, if you're looking for LTRyeah.. i found 2 nice sloots also. both married very young, divorced young with kids. really nice females otherwise.. if they were willing to give the children up for adoption they may have had a shot. they had kept that sh*t secret for a week too
as for most sloots 30+ on bumble.. their profiles are
PhD (almost every swipe)yellow flag, could be too career oriented
wine in photos - alcoholics (99% of all swipes)obv red flag
bikini photos (95% of all swipes)obv red flag
bar photos (90% of all swipes)obv red flag
kids (50% of all swipes)obv red flag
divorced (99% of all swipes)yellow flag for me, could have made a bad early decision and will try harder in the next if she thinks you're the right guy, more appreciative, more life experience etc
don't want kids (50% of all swipes)yellow depends what you want
"don't know what they want" (70% of all swipes).... they are 30+ and still don't know what they want other than attentionobv red flag
gucci / chanel bags/belts materialism BS (70% of all swipes)obv red flag
tattoos like a mofo (50% of all swipes)obv red flag for me anyway
follow me on IG (35% of all swipes)obv red flag, just there for the follows
polyamorous (20% of all swipes)obv red flag
OF (20% of all swipes)obv red flag
"looking for a real gentleman" - to pay for me after slooting it up all my 20s (30% of all swipes)obv red flag, always, shows she's been in a lot of bad relationships
sh*t.. and then the mental issues on top. and their expectations are through the roof when they bring almost nothing to do the table. most are not home owners eitherobv red flag, not very responsible, might not have a stable job/income, can't commit, and probably makes bad financial decisions.. well the single mothers are because the big daddy government helped them out, or they got it in the divorce. but don't expect them to give you a shot if you don't own your own place.
they are mostly a carbon copy of each other and are not feminine at all at this age. and add nothing to a man's life other than a regular hole
go for younger chicks boyos - and try to meet them in the real world
as for most sloots 30+ on bumble.. their profiles are
PhD (almost every swipe)yellow flag, could be too career oriented
wine in photos - alcoholics (99% of all swipes)obv red flag
bikini photos (95% of all swipes)obv red flag
bar photos (90% of all swipes)obv red flag
kids (50% of all swipes)obv red flag
divorced (99% of all swipes)yellow flag for me, could have made a bad early decision and will try harder in the next if she thinks you're the right guy, more appreciative, more life experience etc
don't want kids (50% of all swipes)yellow depends what you want
"don't know what they want" (70% of all swipes).... they are 30+ and still don't know what they want other than attentionobv red flag
gucci / chanel bags/belts materialism BS (70% of all swipes)obv red flag
tattoos like a mofo (50% of all swipes)obv red flag for me anyway
follow me on IG (35% of all swipes)obv red flag, just there for the follows
polyamorous (20% of all swipes)obv red flag
OF (20% of all swipes)obv red flag
"looking for a real gentleman" - to pay for me after slooting it up all my 20s (30% of all swipes)obv red flag, always, shows she's been in a lot of bad relationships
sh*t.. and then the mental issues on top. and their expectations are through the roof when they bring almost nothing to do the table. most are not home owners eitherobv red flag, not very responsible, might not have a stable job/income, can't commit, and probably makes bad financial decisions.. well the single mothers are because the big daddy government helped them out, or they got it in the divorce. but don't expect them to give you a shot if you don't own your own place.
they are mostly a carbon copy of each other and are not feminine at all at this age. and add nothing to a man's life other than a regular hole
go for younger chicks boyos - and try to meet them in the real world
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09-23-2021, 06:17 PM
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Honestly I am 31 and theres this girl Ive known for years that is going to move close to me and I am going to just have a kid with her. Kind of tired of all these older sl00ts that take everything way too seriously. Just gonna have a kid with the girl i get along with and roll from there.
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09-23-2021, 06:42 PM
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#144
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
The funny thing is, your fwb aren't chads. they're fat average looking college guys. Say's a lot about what you look like geezer.Nah even now Iโd still much rather share Chad than settle.
09-23-2021, 07:00 PM
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- Bodhy
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I'm 32 and I match with women 12+ years either side of me all the time on dating apps. The key is to be muscular and low body fat, good education, good job and own place.
Have your chit together and you will be ok. And watch out for that Norwood reaper too.
Have your chit together and you will be ok. And watch out for that Norwood reaper too.
Back off, Warchild.
Seriously.
09-23-2021, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted By irmocool⏩
Theyโll just beat around the bush (lel) and then get annoyed that you didnโt notice the attraction โclues/hintsโ they were supposedly making โglaringly obviousโ all night.funny thing is they really won't, if you have any standards or are not subservient to them most will next cause there is always beta bill around the corner.
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09-23-2021, 07:24 PM
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- MikeLowrrrey
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Originally Posted By _zman⏩
So it's OK if they date multiple people, but we can't. LOL.My dating options have only improved as I've aged. 36 now and I'll admit dating is a bit of a chit show, but it always has been once online dating became popular.
At least women look at me now as a source of security due to age and career. So that's definitely helped me with finding and getting the quality women interested. My advice is to take note of red flags and when to move on to women that are quality. It's not an easy skill to learn. If you're not getting anywhere with women that you actually want to date or be in a LTR then there's likely things you need to work on or fix.
At 28-30, I was still degreeless and no quality job. It began to make sense why I wasn't getting the girls I wanted it. By age 32-35 I had the education and a great career. Dating quality women became pretty easy after that, but you still have to sift through all the red flags and train wrecks, which comes from dating experience.
It's a chit show on both sides. So keep that in mind and differentiate yourself from the field of red flags. If you're dating multiple women and can't remember things you've already talk about, a lot of women are going to notice. I pretty much know exactly when women start talking to another guy or dating another guy just by her texting behavior or slip ups. So if you're actually trying to do a LTR. You're not doing yourself any favors if you're dating multiple women. They will know and drop you. And you're back to square one.
I honestly don't factor in age very much either. I've dated very mature 21yos, and immature 35yos. I care about how they carry themselves, take care of themselves, their habits and how they're aging. I've seen 40yos that are aging better than a 25yo. So I'd honestly drop your age credentials.
At least women look at me now as a source of security due to age and career. So that's definitely helped me with finding and getting the quality women interested. My advice is to take note of red flags and when to move on to women that are quality. It's not an easy skill to learn. If you're not getting anywhere with women that you actually want to date or be in a LTR then there's likely things you need to work on or fix.
At 28-30, I was still degreeless and no quality job. It began to make sense why I wasn't getting the girls I wanted it. By age 32-35 I had the education and a great career. Dating quality women became pretty easy after that, but you still have to sift through all the red flags and train wrecks, which comes from dating experience.
It's a chit show on both sides. So keep that in mind and differentiate yourself from the field of red flags. If you're dating multiple women and can't remember things you've already talk about, a lot of women are going to notice. I pretty much know exactly when women start talking to another guy or dating another guy just by her texting behavior or slip ups. So if you're actually trying to do a LTR. You're not doing yourself any favors if you're dating multiple women. They will know and drop you. And you're back to square one.
I honestly don't factor in age very much either. I've dated very mature 21yos, and immature 35yos. I care about how they carry themselves, take care of themselves, their habits and how they're aging. I've seen 40yos that are aging better than a 25yo. So I'd honestly drop your age credentials.
It's bad enough women have it so EASY. At the drop of a pen she has hundreds of betas lined up. Meanwhile as a man you're taking a huge risk, you're back to square one if she monkey branches
09-23-2021, 07:31 PM
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I came across this one time. I didn't go on nearly the amount of dates this dude did, but the experience was similar:
Spoiler!
but again that's online dating. You can approach women irl, but it seems like people overall are more receptive to online dating and dating apps. Even the women who say they hate online dating still won't accept a lot of guys approaching them irl, from my experience
Spoiler!
but again that's online dating. You can approach women irl, but it seems like people overall are more receptive to online dating and dating apps. Even the women who say they hate online dating still won't accept a lot of guys approaching them irl, from my experience
09-23-2021, 07:35 PM
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I turned 34 last month. This year I have gotten SOOO much attention on Tinder. I basically match with whoever I swipe right with, about 1 out of 5 message me first and I only talk to the ones that message me first. I have been seeing/banging this 23 y/o chick that hit me up on Hinge.
My preferences are set to 18-28 y/o. Its an absolute chit show with the girls around my age, much like OP described. I used to set my preferences to 28-34 just to see if I was passing up on any cute girls, I would find maybe 1 of 20 attractive enough to swipe left on.
My preferences are set to 18-28 y/o. Its an absolute chit show with the girls around my age, much like OP described. I used to set my preferences to 28-34 just to see if I was passing up on any cute girls, I would find maybe 1 of 20 attractive enough to swipe left on.
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09-23-2021, 07:39 PM
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Originally Posted By sabusake⏩
Not all 20 yr olds are immature. I was dating a 19 year old and she was barely on social media at all.what the fuk do you talk about with a 22 yr old when you're 20 yrs older than them? tik tok and tanning doesn't qualify as good conversation
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