Has your life objectively improved from slaying multiple women? Srs


I met my GF at 21 so didn’t get to play too long (don’t really care though seeing the quality of relationships nowadays).

it's not worth it bro. Herpes is more common than you think. Someday you'll meet a 9/10 with a 10/10 personality, but if she isn't already a carrier then you won't be an option for her.

please tell me how to get girls some other way then srs

quality over quantity is the only lesson i've learnt

You probably weren't socialised correctly/dont have adequate socials skills in person and are Chad-lite at best so your genes don't overcome being an autist.

You are smart enough to know how to "present" yourself as a viable option for females online and have self-taught how to reply, techniques to use..etc over message. The thing about message is it gives you enough time to formulate a response to get to the desired outcome.

Most males are not good at communicating in person. It is a lot more complicated especially if you're an autist and it doesn't come naturally. You probably enter a social interaction with your high beams on to assess threats, watch peoples body language and pick up on incongruencies that means they are about to attack you/insult you/lower your value in the social group. I believe this is how males have evolved and it makes sense. It is especially true for males who aren't at the top of the food chain.

Females who are much more adept at subcommunication pick up on this. The fake it itll you make it isn't working for you yet and you are subcommunicating somehow that you aren't who you present yourself as. Much like men get spidey senses for female slootery. Females have spidey senses for male betaness.

Assuming you are an autist, how you solve it is two fold:

1. You are not going to pick up on correct socialisation/social cues at this point. You will need to read books/watch videos on socialising and interraction with the opposite sex which will give you a framework of understanding.
2. With the framework of understanding you will need to throw yourself into interactions with the opposite sex and refine and hone your skills. Practice Practice Practice as they say.

It will be a process, if you are afraid of in person communication you need to get over that and the fear of rejection. After a few good interactions you will have less of a stress response and will be able to work effectively. Ultimately, you probably don't want to do this and it is much easier and lower investment to just go the app route but you are effectively retarding your ability to get what you want.

Get a job in face-to-face sales while in uni (i think you're in uni right?). You will learn and earn which is great motivation.

Once you can talk to old women and middle age mums and hbb re buying something, then shift your attention to "ok, how do I do the same talking/charming except with sexual intent".

Ive graduated and have a wfh job so pretty much screwed for meeting girls that way. I used to have a job in a shop tbf but it never seemed to get me anywhere, also I feel like the fact a big chunk of myuni was taken over by coronavirus ruined my chances of meeting girls in person somewhat

srs. never slayed a girl irl. Have come close a few times and gotten unlucky imo. I fingered a girl I met on holiday in croatia but thats the cloest ive come. What advice would you give me to get my first irl slay becuase it feels like its never gonna happen at this rate

Has your life objectively improved from slaying multiple women? Srs


I met my GF at 21 so didn’t get to play too long (don’t really care though seeing the quality of relationships nowadays).

You have a self-defeatist, low-cofidence/experience and entitled attitude from this post.

If it doesn't come easy you don't want to do it which explains the use of and getting good on apps.

You aren't entitled exclusive access to quality women and if you have this view they won't be interested in you anyway because you are low value in their eyes.

Would I be right in saying you don't have much of a social circle, and of those in your current circle, they are all in a similar situation with women?

Earn more money and adapt your life so you are exposed to women in your free time. Women help their friends find suitable guys, spend more time with your friends in relationships and they will introduce you to their female friends that "want to find a guy". Depending on your interests, attend places females will also be. This could be work, this could be bars/nightclubs, social groups...whatever.

Every male has the same problem as you. If you see your inability to get women as a problem, take steps to fix it.

Welcome to adulthood boyo. You drive your own outcomes now.

low confidence/high inhibition boyo

work on yourself

good income for avg 23yo =/= good income

At 23 I was earning 90/100k (can't remember exactly). 26 I got a job with $150k base + variable comp.

23yo girls aren't looking to date 23yo guys for this reason. Every guy on the forum in the late 20s/early 30s bracket is targeting these girls. If you want to compete get better.

These are tangent points. The answer is in the first two posts i gave you.

Any chitty salesman will blame the quality of the leads rather than the number of phone calls they make. Expose yourself to more women and it will take care of itself BUT if you want to do it effectively and not be swinging in the dark learn areas that your childhood/adolescent socialisation missed out on to have a higher success rate. I'll assume you're a bit clunky in progressing from Look at girl > talk > break physical > get more sexual > close routine so learn how this works in the real life.

If your friend group are childish re rejection from girls get a new friend group or realise they are doing it to divert attention away from their own failure with women. Approach women everytime you go out if you don't want new friends and they will stop the joke will get old quickly and will stop.

Confidence is built through success experience. Experience some successes in manageable steps/progession/difficulty and you will become confident.

Cheers and good luck.

The problem is that all types of women use online dating now, not just trash. It might be better to just use online dating to find someone.

My sister is a doctor and uses online dating. She is obese, but extremely picky. She won't date Republicans or anti-maskers either. Her PMs are filled. She uses those "elite" dating apps that cost $$$ as well. She wants a long term relationship.

So yes, even getting women for long term relationships is hard now that even they use online dating.
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Im the opposite. Have never slept with a woman that I didn’t meet IRL first. Don’t have social media or dating apps.

Just the good ole “wait for her to smile at you then approach” strategy, thousands of years old lol