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post 1648918123 10-14-2021, 11:06 AM
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Has seeing a girls exes ever put you off pursuing her?

I just ended it with a girl I've been dating for a few weeks because literally all her exes were lowlifes. Seriously, one of them is in jail for oxy posession lol.

Great girl so far but the red flags were blaring on this one.
post 1648918193 10-14-2021, 11:07 AM
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maybe ill look at her last ex, maybe.

women like to date losers that should be of no real shock to anyone
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post 1648918253 10-14-2021, 11:08 AM
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it's a reflection of them.

Have your fun if you need to but definitely don't keep this one around cuz
post 1648918303 10-14-2021, 11:09 AM
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the real answer is if she has exes its over for you.

the realistic answer is absolutely. only a retard would not pay attention to this.
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post 1648918393 10-14-2021, 11:10 AM
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only if her exes were black
post 1648918593 10-14-2021, 11:15 AM
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Yes, you are who you hang around with. If she has trash exes chances are she has weak parents, is kind of trashy and not as reflected as she should be
post 1648918683 10-14-2021, 11:16 AM
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post 1648918923 10-14-2021, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By truesteez⏩
it's a reflection of them.

Have your fun if you need to but definitely don't keep this one around cuz
Yep, we had a few weeks of fun but I think I was right to end it now before it became anymore serious
post 1648919053 10-14-2021, 11:23 AM
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Birds of a feather flock together. Time and time again throughout my life this quote rings more and more true. Don't let people fool you. Girls like her think of you as a means to get away from the life they had before. Not necessarily anything wrong with that but I think more times than not they go back to that or they have baggage from it that a good gentleman like yourself shouldn't have to deal with.
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post 1648919353 10-14-2021, 11:29 AM
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EXs baby daddy drove by in his truck
Fat baldcel with cope beard

Started cheating that weekend srs
post 1648920793 10-14-2021, 12:01 PM
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Yes, if she has no respect for herself and dates degenerates I aint trying to pick up the pieces.
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post 1648920803 10-14-2021, 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted By ZeroPercentTip⏩
only if her exes were black
this. If they're the ghetto, criminal lifestyle peeps that is a massive, massive, massive red flag showing horrifically poor judgement.
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post 1648921833 10-14-2021, 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted By SleepWithFan89⏩
EXs baby daddy drove by in his truck
Fat baldcel with cope beard

Started cheating that weekend srs
fukkin lol, was he a bad guy?
post 1648922253 10-14-2021, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted By ZeroPercentTip⏩
only if her exes were black
Damn half my exes are black I'd hate to think I'm getting judged for it
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post 1648924013 10-14-2021, 12:52 PM
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Yes. If any of her exes were lowlifes, criminals, or even just really ugly, it would always be in the back of my mind bothering me and I wouldn't be able to have anything serious with her. It means she has very low standards.
post 1648924923 10-14-2021, 01:06 PM
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Me exโ€™s ex was David Cameronโ€™s Godson srs
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if she's been with tyrone
i'll leave her alone
post 1648925233 10-14-2021, 01:10 PM
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I mean its not much better if the ex is several points higher than you, then she will just cheat or go back to him
post 1648925243 10-14-2021, 01:11 PM
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Of course lol. If a girl has dated a bunch of trashy dudes I'd avoid them like the plague
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post 1648925833 10-14-2021, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted By sleepwithfan89⏩
exs baby daddy drove by in his truck
fat baldcel with cope beard

started cheating that weekend srs
rofl, it's definitely something to look at
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These are men that she allowed to put her in one of the most intimate and vulnerable situations a girl can be in.

I absolutely judge and lose respect for girls based on the type of dudes they choose to lie with.
post 1648930283 10-14-2021, 02:39 PM
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Well first off I would prefer no talk of ex's at all. If the subject comes up I'm almost guaranteed to think the guy is a loser and the girl is, too, thusly.

I don't know why a lot of women think they have to be dating SOMEONE no matter what, no matter who he is Lots of decent women with guys you can tell is a total sack of chit just by looking at him
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Personally, no. Haven't had to deal with a girlfriend who had trashy exes before. The minute she starts talking about her ex though in any manner positive/negative is a sign to me that she isn't gf material.
I don't talk about my past flings, neither should she.
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Originally Posted By ZeroPercentTip⏩
only if her exes were black
post 1648931293 10-14-2021, 02:59 PM
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if I want a relationship ofc it will

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Yeah of course
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been with my wife 16 years (13 being married) and i try not to think about it since it still gets under my skin. she had a thing for dating military guys and i didnt know until a few years after we got married. i was cleaning up some chit in the garage and there was a bunch of stuff in boxes from her parents place. i started going through them and i felt like chit.... saw pics of her with different guys in their uniforms. really pissed me off since i was in the military when i met her. i brought it up to her, asking why the **** she keeps **** like this. she said she forgot.... still didnt make sense since we dated for a few years, all the while those pics were in her room. then i made a remark, asking her wtf is up with you dating so many military guys.... told her it made me feel insignificant, especially since most of them were officers (i was enlisted). i dont remember what she said afterwards but it just made it worse and i remember feeling more like ****.

a piece of me still feels like i was used to get her out of her military town.....
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Originally Posted By nineOHnine⏩
I usually don't have to "see" a girl's exes to get a good idea of the type of dudes she's fcuked in the past.

You can tell, if you listen to her carefully. When she describes her exes. They're all losers.

Generally, your mindset should be that you're the best she'll ever have.

OP just smash that sloot once a week and don't talk too much, while you're looking for wifey.
This is betamaxxing. Have some pride and drop her or be this incel and latch on to every piece of ass even if it means giving up some dignity.

Lmao. Take the alpha route.
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Yes but i can tell sloot right away

As soon as i get the slightest hint of rash decision making
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Originally Posted By TonyTriangles⏩
been with my wife 16 years (13 being married) and i try not to think about it since it still gets under my skin. she had a thing for dating military guys and i didnt know until a few years after we got married. i was cleaning up some chit in the garage and there was a bunch of stuff in boxes from her parents place. i started going through them and i felt like chit.... saw pics of her with different guys in their uniforms. really pissed me off since i was in the military when i met her. i brought it up to her, asking why the **** she keeps **** like this. she said she forgot.... still didnt make sense since we dated for a few years, all the while those pics were in her room. then i made a remark, asking her wtf is up with you dating so many military guys.... told her it made me feel insignificant, especially since most of them were officers (i was enlisted). i dont remember what she said afterwards but it just made it worse and i remember feeling more like ****.

a piece of me still feels like i was used to get her out of her military town.....
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