Dated for nearly 3 years, don’t want to go into why we broke up, mainly due to op being an absolute ****ing idiot who never learns

It’s been a couple weeks and it feels like no other girl will ever compare srs. I’ve dated three girls and never felt this way.. I have a few female friends who have blatantly tried coming on to me since and I just feel disgusted srs.

I injured myself in the gym squatting a few days after the breakup, just had so much ****in anger that I went way too hard and form got way too sloppy so can’t even lift rn to let out some steam. What the **** to do?

Try men

Try men

Can't tell if OP regrets his decision and wants her back or not.

I'm recently passed a LTR of 3+ years and feeling the freedom, opened doors, lack of ball and chain, lack of obligations.

Try trans-men.

Besides the obvious solution of trying men, I’d say just keep working on building your life into what you want it to be. Don’t even worry about women for a while.

I’m in the same position dude except it’s been a year for me. Smashed a few times since the breakup but it felt empty and a waste of time. Now I’m 100% dialed into school and fitness and I feel way better about life and where I’m headed, women aren’t even on my mind. If it happens it happens but don’t worry about forcing it

Ask us what to do but didn't give us the reason for your breakup. It's a good thing she's moving on from a dumb kunt like you who can't even make a proper thread.

Also, not sure if mentioned yet but you should try men

You need a good cuddle session with those female friends srs

Your just reminded of the cute chit you and your ex did


Just smash a friend and cuddle with her you’ll start pair bonding with her srs

Broke up with ex almost 4 weeks ago been seeing a new one already getting comfy

-Broke up with GF
-Has zero desire to be with other girls

Have you tried going back out with said GF?

If you truly loved her you won't get over her fast if ever. Rebounds and hookups won't do a thing either, you'll just keep missing her. Let your emotions out and keep yourself busy with goals for now.

Try men

she wuz da best mayne

it's your brain playing tricks on you. After you break up, the emotions and hormones, etc. just go wild. Your mind thinks that a piece of you is literally gone but you're still you. You don't need anyone to live a good life. Obviously it's an added bonus. But your brain just remembers and amplifies the good times, especially when you're vulnerable.

You know that it's over and truthfully, she's just another chick. You'll find another one that you connect with, have fun with and all that ghey chit. And then another one after that.

Find other chit to keep your mind busy. Socialize when you can. Break ups suck but you'll look back and laugh man. Also stay in north carolina. Nothing good comes from that desperate lonely behavior. She's probably moved on or at least started entertaining her orbiters. Monkey branching of piss. Female nature, nothing against you.

Normal. Takes time, I've had particularly bad breakups where i didn't feel "emotionally free" to want to date someone else until 4 or 5 months after the breakup. You said its only been 3 weeks? you'll be fine.

your gf was the best

I was the opposite

Once i broke up with my gf of 5+ years I was smashing girls left and right

Try men

Cynical view on life. I’ve dated enough women to know that some are special, at least for you.

Misc always goes on about what they want in a perfect woman. Makes some moneys. Loyal as fk. No tats, no partying. Submissive. Smart, partly ambitious but puts family first. Good sex drive etc. So when you find that you just gonna let it go and assume next one will be the same?

Dumb way to look at chit fam. There are women objectively better than others for you.

and men, try em

Know the feel got in a fight with my lady at Pennsylvania State University in freshman year. Rolled to the gym, grabbed 95 lb dumbbells and started Arnold pressing them. Way too much weight but especially for an 18 yo. Left hand dumbbell twists back, smacks me in the head and proceeds to drag me backwards off the bench pinching a nerve in my left shoulder. I can barely do any shoulder exercises at all without pk’s. One of many, I’m a moron.


Anyways, it took me a moment to come to that realization after DB. See DB was one of the hottest girls in my high school and when graduating I had to pick between Nora and DB. Nora was the 5’”10 super skinny model type with the small but nice teds and long legs. DB was the 5 foot tall beautiful face, perfect ass that was plump but not fat and perfect B cup teddies.

I ended up with DB, safer relationship choice. Anyways, after we broke up and I started smashing all these new girls I was like happy to be back on the grind. Granted I was still young dumb and full of cum. #AllYoungMales so spreading seed priority number 1. Not that the girls were all way more beautiful than dB, of course I usually pulled the hot chicks but rarely any truly much prettier than DB. What I was chasing was not happiness, not fulfillment, not love or even better orgasms(best nuts ever committed love dB, not even close). I was just chasing the thrill of new hot broads who were all over me and sex in random exciting places like library stacks.

When I came around to do some introspection, I had realized not only how empty this **** made me feel after a while. But that I wasn’t being anywhere close as productive, having moments of true happiness they’d just been cheap thrills and the main source of entertainment surrounding it was just the parties. I’ve never been love with anyone that I dated besides DB and it’s hard to say if I couldn’t find better.... even though I’m sure it’d be at least a challenge. It’s that I avoided, ran away and searched for the exact opposite I had with DB to avoid similar breakup pain. I admitted it hurt breaking up with her, but nowhere to the level I really experienced in terms of pain and no doubt I’m still wary about it but less so cuz vCard. I’m going to do things completely differently now that I’ve learned my lesson and am actually pretty mature now. Not the same thing gojbg tj happen a second time around.

location - UK

Also try meeting more than one girl in your life, Abdul. You will see that they're all more or less the same. You sound very inexperienced but I can't hate since all your Uk women look like snagletooth inbreds.

When the right dude comes around, that little loyal, smart, family oriented girl is going to get a tattoo and party till her tits fall off.

seek therapy and learn to manage your insecurity

i will personally grab your cock and jam it in the nearest vagina if you keep being a ****

Think of it like drug withdrawal, and act accordingly.

dear diary

Just do no fap for a week when you are ready to go back to dating (srs)

You will launch some sloot into a ceiling with the shear force

She was the best man. You will never get another that even approaches her. Might as well just quit and try men.

LOL so why did you break up?

Also you're not the only one - i've been split with my ex for the past 2 years and im still not over her.

Every time i check her IG she's got some new guy with her, so i guess she has not found happiness either.

It is what it is.

Also that 'stupid reason' you split up is probably something that's going to take time for you to truly resolve and when you heal past that you'll notice how it was holding you back this whole time.

You could always try posting pics
And this, do it