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post 1653470263 12-30-2021, 09:02 PM
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I just casually brought it up after the last time we hooked up while cuddling, and she goes "umm idk...humans?" lmao i wish i was joking brahs. Feel like a clown taking her to expensive dinners and chit. Bishes are cold blooded. how would you react to that?
post 1653470363 12-30-2021, 09:06 PM
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Lmao @ liking a girl more than she likes you.


Lamooooooo @ asking that beta ass question.
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post 1653470403 12-30-2021, 09:06 PM
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Ouch OP played himself
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post 1653470433 12-30-2021, 09:07 PM
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a chick asked me that last week after the first time we fukked.
post 1653470463 12-30-2021, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnyboi123
lmao i wish i was joking brahs.
We wish you were joking too brah. Only females ask that stupid chit
post 1653470473 12-30-2021, 09:08 PM
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Sounds like she labeled you as a fukk buddy and you caught feelings cuz. (Ded fkn Srs)
post 1653470543 12-30-2021, 09:09 PM
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JFC you phucking pussy.

Men never ask that question.

Men never show emotions first.

I should neg you.
U
post 1653470573 12-30-2021, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Lmao @ liking a girl more than she likes you.


Lamooooooo @ asking that beta ass question.
i know mane. feel like a beta clown.
only thing that's keeps me going back is sex which is good.
Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Ouch OP played himself
it didn't fully register til a few days later. autism of piss.
Originally Posted By fishnbrah
a chick asked me that last week after the first time we fukked.
chad
post 1653470613 12-30-2021, 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnyboi123
I just casually brought it up after the last time we hooked up while cuddling, and she goes "umm idk...humans?" lmao i wish i was joking brahs.Feel like a clown taking her to expensive dinners and chit.Bishes are cold blooded. how would you react to that?
You're her rich sidepiece. Treat her like the ****buddy she is and look elsewhere.
post 1653471333 12-30-2021, 09:27 PM
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what can be said that hasn't already in this thread,

wait unless...

roll bread?
Cope first, cope hard, no realtea
post 1653471533 12-30-2021, 09:30 PM
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Brutal all around. Sorry op.
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post 1653471693 12-30-2021, 09:34 PM
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now you drop her cause she disrespected you

i'll bet you you ignore her she'll keep trying and trying

go 2 weeks and then decide what you want to do

you're def. with an immature sloot
post 1653471773 12-30-2021, 09:36 PM
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and you posted this beta **** on the Misc hoping for moral support?

U dun goofed
post 1653471843 12-30-2021, 09:37 PM
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did you give her a firm handshake afterwards
post 1653471943 12-30-2021, 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
now you drop her cause she disrespected you

i'll bet you you ignore her she'll keep trying and trying

go 2 weeks and then decide what you want to do

you're def. with an immature sloot
she's definitely a little immature. she's 24 and im 34. And the next day she sends me a morning text " i want you". Either she's just playing games with me or she's just confused what she wants from this.
post 1653472123 12-30-2021, 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnyboi123
she's definitely a little immature. she's 24 and im 34. And the next day she sends me a morning text " i want you". Either she's just playing games with me or she's just confused what she wants from this.
from what i know of you.. i bet you're a bet hesitant

for her to be spending so much time with you i def. think she likes you. i feel like she may be calling you out to put your foot down and control where it's going.

that's up to you

but yea, spending so much time with you and all that jazz.. then saying that doesn't make much sense
post 1653472363 12-30-2021, 09:56 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
JFC you phucking pussy.

Men never ask that question.

Men never show emotions first.

I should neg you.
This....

What is this amateur hour?

Edit: at this point, I'd tell this sloot you have other sloots that are trying to grab your cawk. See how she reacts... if she says cool go for it she's getting side diked and doesn't give a chit about you.
post 1653472443 12-30-2021, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnyboi123
I just casually brought it up after the last time we hooked up while cuddling, and she goes "umm idk...humans?" lmao i wish i was joking brahs. Feel like a clown taking her to expensive dinners and chit. Bishes are cold blooded. how would you react to that?
She's phucking other men

sorry brah

IMO if you are a guy you should advance things sexually (escalating physically) but let the woman escalate things in terms of relationships (saying I love you, 'what are we', etc.).

Your tour is now over
post 1653472493 12-30-2021, 09:59 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
from what i know of you.. i bet you're a bet hesitant

for her to be spending so much time with you i def. think she likes you. i feel like she may be calling you out to put your foot down and control where it's going.

that's up to you

but yea, spending so much time with you and all that jazz.. then saying that doesn't make much sense
yeah bro, she's just constant mixed signals. we spent christmas night together. Literally in bed from 7pm to 2am when i dropped her off after we watched spiderman at the theatre and had dinner. And two days before that, she was with me from 12pm to 1am. I don't know what to make of it but she's never made it clear to me that she wants something serious.
post 1653472693 12-30-2021, 10:04 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnyboi123
yeah bro, she's just constant mixed signals. we spent christmas night together. Literally in bed from 7pm to 2am when i dropped her off after we watched spiderman at the theatre and had dinner. And two days before that, she was with me from 12pm to 1am. I don't know what to make of it but she's never made it clear to me that she wants something serious.
how many guys has this girl been with? you think a lot or nah? is she weird - like eclectic?

i remember this from a while ago. so seems its fairly deep

she prob should've brought it up by now

imo sounds like you need to grab control for clarity or it's just gonna keep going on

i remember you saying you dont like her that much too
post 1653473803 12-30-2021, 10:24 PM
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“Humans”

Lmfao. Absolutely brutal

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post 1653473873 12-30-2021, 10:26 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
how many guys has this girl been with? you think a lot or nah? is she weird - like eclectic?

i remember this from a while ago. so seems its fairly deep

she prob should've brought it up by now

imo sounds like you need to grab control for clarity or it's just gonna keep going on

i remember you saying you dont like her that much too
she told me she had very little experience before me and did the most with me. she's asian, very academic and career oriented. but i know that doesn't mean much these days. I can only take her word for it. I do like her and im attracted to her, we have great chemistry in the bed, but i'm constantly asking myself if im going through all this effort for something that's going nowhere long term.
post 1653474083 12-30-2021, 10:31 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnyboi123
she told me she had very little experience before me and did the most with me. she's asian, very academic and career oriented. but i know that doesn't mean much these days. I can only take her word for it. I do like her and im attracted to her, we have great chemistry in the bed, but i'm constantly asking myself if im going through all this effort for something that's going nowhere long term.
for what it's worth i like "weird" im not saying weird is bad. but i feel like she's weird/ inexperienced that's why there's all of this mess

ironically, you're gonna have to be more masculine/ lead/ control for someone like that

i think that's what it is. i just know from your chit that's probably what you're not doing

all that stuff you just said after "take her word for it" is for you to decide

imo you can get clarity by taking the reigns. creating what you want. you're letting the chick decide this

if youre gonna continue on the haphazard road you should at least be hitting up other chicks
post 1653474093 12-30-2021, 10:31 PM
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post 1653474163 12-30-2021, 10:35 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnyboi123
she told me she had very little experience before me and did the most with me. she's asian, very academic and career oriented. but i know that doesn't mean much these days. I can only take her word for it. I do like her and im attracted to her, we have great chemistry in the bed, but i'm constantly asking myself if im going through all this effort for something that's going nowhere long term.
Mate when I was 34 I was in a same situition with a 19 y/o asian. Don't catch feels or you're fooked. Just remember at some point which is now is, that you're "loosing ground"

Act a little more less emotional for the next month. Or you'll catch some other dudes Balls deep inside her, while at the same time, on the phone to you asking "how your day was"
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
for what it's worth i like "weird" im not saying weird is bad. but i feel like she's weird/ inexperienced that's why there's all of this mess

ironically, you're gonna have to be more masculine/ lead/ control for someone like that

i think that's what it is. i just know from your chit that's probably what you're not doing

all that stuff you just said after "take her word for it" is for you to decide

imo you can get clarity by taking the reigns. creating what you want. you're letting the chick decide this

if youre gonna continue on the haphazard road you should at least be hitting up other chicks
she's definitely a little autistic and weird and you know about me from my post history.lol
feel like she probably has an avoidant attachment disorder, whereas i have anxious attachment (everybody should read into the attachment theory, it's eye opening). I think that's where the disconnect is. I also won't discount the fact that she's maybe wanting to entertain the carousel before committing to something serious.
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Originally Posted By johnnyboi123
she's definitely a little autistic and weird and you know about me from my post history.lol
feel like she probably has an avoidant attachment disorder, whereas i have anxious attachment (everybody should read into the attachment theory, it's eye opening). I think that's where the disconnect is. I also won't discount the fact that she's maybe wanting to entertain the carousel before committing to something serious.
You need to play your cards very smart here from now on. You just opened yourself to weakness. Good luck OP.

Act and pretend you never even said that "Statement" to her
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This happened to me once. Chick was staying at my place every weekend and even Christmas. It was 6 months and still didn’t want to put me on ********. I asked her what are we and she ghosted me 🤷🏼‍♂️
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Originally Posted By Immichaelski
This happened to me once. Chick was staying at my place every weekend and even Christmas. It was 6 months and still didn’t want to put me on ********. I asked her what are we and she ghosted me ������������‍♂️
damn bro. rough. bishes are ruthless. i think she was just using you, just like i suspect this chick is using me. they decided a while back she didn't see you/me as relationship worthy. just hanging around until they find something better (monkey branching).
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Originally Posted By johnnyboi123
damn bro. rough. bishes are ruthless. i think she was just using you, just like i suspect this chick is using me. they decided a while back she didn't see you/me as relationship worthy. just hanging around until they find something better (monkey branching).
I bet she doesn't have any photos of you on her social media, nor invites you to meet her friends
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