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Sick of these incel fantasist threads, negs on sight. If you want a virgin better go for a 14 year old, which you probably do anyway.

This happened to me in college. I finally hooked up with my oneitis after two years of quiet desperation in the friend zone. She was super loose and just gave me the starfish treatment. Eventually I got whiskey dick and never even finished. It was very disappoint.

"Watch Joe Rogan podcast episode #1757 open your eyes to clown world srs"

You understand your low standards is what perpetuates clown world right?

> BRB have standards and only marry a virgin like 99% of ancestors did

> BRB get called incel

> BRB "bu why we live in c..clown world bros?"

do you just have a. bunch of stats saved for any thread you decide to make?

I only make quality threads backed by science

Ok, whats the science behind large age gaps in relationships?

Got you fam:

Age gap couples fare better than age similar couples

Studies have shown that age gap couples are more likely to break up than age similar couples and that the risk of breaking up increases as the age gap increases. Nonetheless, studies also show that the intrinsic nature of the age gap itself has nothing to do with the risk of breaking up, and instead, society's strong stigma against age gaps causes the risk of breaking up. Research shows that when age gap couples are exposed to disapproval from friends, family and society at large, they experience less commitment and satisfaction in the relationship while when they receive approval from friends and family and don't experience stigma from others, they have a lot of commitment and satisfaction. Most age gap couples will receive disapproval from friends, family and society at large. When they experience approval from others, age gap couples fare far better than age similar couples. In fact, studies show that age gap couples have increased life satisfaction compared to age similar relationships and are more trusting, less jealous, and less selfish compared to age similar relationships. This is particularly true for age gap couples of an older man and younger woman. These studies found this to be true among age gap couples, including age gap couples where the younger partner might be a college student (i.e.: in the 18 to 21 age group). The reason age gap couples fare better is because their age gap matches the evolutionary perspective of age gaps between older men and younger women (i.e.: young women having high fertility and high reproductive value and older men having more wealth and resources to provide for a family). Many people will assume that young women who date much older men have daddy issues, but studies show this is a myth and that most women who date much older men have healthy relationships with their own father.

Discussion:

Age gaps in relationships are heavily stigmatized even if the younger person is age 18+. Sometimes even age differences of a few years are stigmatized, especially when the younger person is age 18 to 22. People often assume the older man is a predator, a cradle robber, a pervert, a creep, a weirdo, or even a ****phile (despite ****philia actually being a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children). These studies debunk the idea that age gaps are predatory or dangerous.

Quotes:

In addition to increased life satisfaction, research suggests age-gap relationships fare well in other regards. For instance, age-gap partners appear to be more trusting, less jealous, and less selfish in their relationships compared to persons who are more similar in age to their romantic partners.
The common belief that the women who choose much older partners because of having “daddy issues” was unfounded in this study. There was no significant difference in attachment styles between the 2 groups, and 74% of the women in age-gap relationships were securely attached. Results are consistent with the limited literature on age-gap relationships regarding attachment style and relationship satisfaction. This study adds to the growing body of literature on attachment style and offers insight into the less-explored age-gap relationship dynamic.

References:

Skentelbery, S. G., & Fowler, D. M. (2016). Attachment styles of women-younger partners in age-gap relationships. Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences, 10(2), 142–147.https://doi.org/10.1037/ebs0000064
Lehmiller, Justin and Agnew, Christopher, "May-December Paradoxes: An Exploration of Age-Gap Relationships in Western Society" (2011). Department of Psychological Sciences Faculty Publications. Paper 27.http://docs.lib.purdue.edu/psychpubs/27

So get a girlfriend in high school and marry her is ultimately the advice. No thanks, Jeffrey.

BS.
I actually know dudes who were stupid enough to marry virgins in their 20's and their sex life became non-existent after kids were born.
its almost as if these women were brought up thinking sex was just for procreation.

Anecdote/10

Stats are clear bro

loled @ marrying the town wh0re

Technically, you’re a cuck if you don’t marry a virgin.

Biologically - sex = children. So if a woman has had sex, she’s had children or has given another man permission to impregnate her.

You are then trying to marry a woman who has given the green light for multiple men to impregnate her prior to you.

Groce.

That said, it’s the modern world. We got to adapt. I’ll accept less than 5. 7 if she had very good reason, all of them LTR. Anything more and it’s not wifey material.

loving this thread rn. it's true her parents till this day wants her to break up with me lol every time they are alone. doesn't help the relationship. but oh well...... we persevere




my wife was a virgin when we met. we are 12 yrs apart.


still going strong 10 yrs!

^COPE post^ for not being able to get poon.

You can't generalise stats down to an individual level. Psychological studies are not as rigid and replicable as STEM lol. But I'm sure you knew this since you're well educated guy with a lot of intellectual humility in your field of interest (psychology and social studies)



Jokes aside I'm glad you're sticking to your guns srs. I've been getting daily laid for years and I think don't think that would be the case if I had to find a virgin. Would just feel too awkward going out of me any my peers social network. Life is short and tomorrow isn't guaranteed so I'll have my cake today thank you. But I'm glad people are willing to invest many years holding until they find their one.

Although from my personal experience virgin relationships are mostly with conservative christians, where they fast track from relationship->marriage->family life. Rarely do they spend years fuking and enjoying life between the two of them as other couples do

Sure but the studies give an indication and show a clear trend.

Exceptions prove the rule.

Ayyyyyyyyyyyy I said marry a virgin not to stop fcking around with sloots before that

virgin may be too extreme in modern times, though a lower body count than usual for sure to ensure a better mate

Lol at your weak neg, you really think dating standards have nothing to do with clown world?

Lol at your low IQ/10

Brutal if true

They wont be at the bars and clubs, bub

If theyre even outside at all they will most likely be with their immediate family members

Srs married a virgin crew - we’re orthodox muslims so theres plenty of us




Also to the people saying that virgins are bad in bed: everyone was a virgin at one point. Would you rather your wife have learned from 10-50 men before you... or have her learn only from youexactlywhat you like?

Virgins past 20 are gross af mate.

You seem mad as fuk cuz..do you live your life according to stats? Like yeah, marrying the town bicycle would probably not end well, but marrying a virgin could be different but equally as bad.

I think a happy compromise would be to find a woman who only had sex with men she was in a long term relationship with. If she hooked up even once then she belongs to the streets, specifically the gutter.

And don't be shy or fall for modern day gyno degeneracy of thinking it's not proper to ask a woman what her number is or if she's ever hooked up before. If you're vetting women, and dating with a purpose then absolutely it's crucial to find a women who hasn't slutted it up.

Hurr durr it's nun of ur bzns. Yeah fuk youHahaha! Jesus, man....

This. OP couldn’t fuk his way out of a wet paper bag and he knows it.

strong chance the sex would be awful though

full dead fish mode.

Unless you're still in high school, finding a virgin in the modern world is gonna be difficult. Enjoy dying alone lol.

Lol, look how many cucks I upset by stating facts, enjoy your whore wives that had multiple dicks drilling out her hole.