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post 1659628253 04-14-2022, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By 73ers⏩
I keep hearing about people that only smash their partners (THAT THEY LIVE WITH) like once every few weeks or so?

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How TF do you keep banging the same chick without getting bored? That ****'s impossible to me.

Last time I had a live-in gf I was banging her once a month... But banging other girls every week.
post 1659628433 04-14-2022, 08:29 AM
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The average in the US is 1.2/week for married couples and 1.6/week for unmarried cohabiting couples, so once per day or greater is is an extreme outlier.

https://relationshipsinamerica.com/r...%20per%20month).



This is a skewed distribution because you can't go below zero, so the tail results (i.e. people who do it multiple times every day or 10-15 times per week or more) so this will bring up the average. For the married category (again, 1.2/week or a little less than unmarried cohabiting couples), 47% do it less than once a week:

https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationsh...uples-have-sex
Research carried out by the General Social Survey shows the following:‌

10% did not have sex in the past year
7% of American adults had sex once or twice in the last year
17% had sex once a month
19% had sex twice or thrice per month
25% had sex weekly
16% had sex twice or thrice per week
5% had sex four or more times a week
Only 5% do it 4/week or more, which is still only roughly about every other day, and almost 2/3 fall between once a month and once a week.

Those are the averages. If you're getting it more, good for you, but realize that you are in the tail of the distribution, not the norm.
post 1659628723 04-14-2022, 08:32 AM
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Originally Posted By Jayarbie⏩
The average in the US is 1.2/week for married couples and 1.6/week for unmarried cohabiting couples, so once per day or greater is is an extreme outlier.

https://relationshipsinamerica.com/r...%20per%20month).



This is a skewed distribution because you can't go below zero, so the tail results (i.e. people who do it multiple times every day or 10-15 times per week or more) so this will bring up the average. For the married category (again, 1.2/week or a little less than unmarried cohabiting couples), 47% do it less than once a week:

https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationsh...uples-have-sex



Only 5% do it 4/week or more, which is still only roughly about every other day, and almost 2/3 fall between once a month and once a week.

Those are the averages. If you're getting it more, good for you, but realize that you are in the tail of the distribution, not the norm.
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post 1659628853 04-14-2022, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted By John$Galt⏩
Imagine being so pathetic that you're that obsessed with sex.

Ejaculating every time, wasting your life force, your creative force, and your health and your life suffer.

Imagine thinking that sex is the pinnacle of existence, especially when you pump for 5/10 mins, shoot out your life force, then go to sleep while your body struggles to regenerate it.

In fairness, I was there when I was younger, obsessed with it. But I wish I'd have had someone to teach me then what I know now. I wouldn't have wasted so much time and energy on it.

That said, really no reason to live with a girl unless you're planning on having kids with her one day.
Imagine not understanding that seggs is a critical component in a marriage relationship for bonding and is a key indicator of happiness within the marriage....

I agree that seggs shouldnt rule your life and its absolutely beta if it does. Segss is healthy and its really the only differentiator between two partners in a marriage and being roommates, however. The only other difference is the legal ramifications of the contract with the state.
post 1659629003 04-14-2022, 08:35 AM
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Originally Posted By EnforcerOTF⏩
My wife and I have sex every day, sometimes twice or three times. We never miss a day and haven’t in 3 years.
Yeah we're on the same schedule here. No idea why people even bother living together if they're not gonna **** all the time unless they're 75 years old.
Originally Posted By Jayarbie⏩
The average in the US is 1.2/week for married couples and 1.6/week for unmarried cohabiting couples, so once per day or greater is is an extreme outlier.

https://relationshipsinamerica.com/r...%20per%20month).



This is a skewed distribution because you can't go below zero, so the tail results (i.e. people who do it multiple times every day or 10-15 times per week or more) so this will bring up the average. For the married category (again, 1.2/week or a little less than unmarried cohabiting couples), 47% do it less than once a week:

https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationsh...uples-have-sex



Only 5% do it 4/week or more, which is still only roughly about every other day, and almost 2/3 fall between once a month and once a week.

Those are the averages. If you're getting it more, good for you, but realize that you are in the tail of the distribution, not the norm.
I wonder what the average would be if you only looked at people between 18 and 45 with no medical issues? I bet old people and unhealthy ****s bring down the average drastically.
post 1659629033 04-14-2022, 08:36 AM
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I probably bang the wife 2× per week if you average it through the year. Some weeks are only 1×, then sometimes we will does the secks 4-5 days in a row. Never go longer than a week though. I'm also in my mid 30's, wake up at 5:45am, and we have a 10 month old, so a lot of times after we get the baby to bed we are both ready to just crash. As for as fapping, I might have the urge to choke the chicken 1-2× a month, so it's not like I'm constantly craving release and she ain't giving it.

Once a month is fukking insane though. I would rope ded fkn srs.
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post 1659629063 04-14-2022, 08:36 AM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
Top 5% crew

Unless you fap, how do you release? Dead srs.
My wife and I average about 2-3/week (still puts us in the top 20% or so), which is every couple days. I'm 50 now. I don't need release any more often than that at this point. If I do, I can always fap, but the frequency of that is down to once every couple months at most.
post 1659629363 04-14-2022, 08:39 AM
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Originally Posted By steeler505⏩
I don't get this. I only see my gf 2-3 days per week, and we bang 4-5x each day.

Why tf live together if you don't fook
Is this real life?
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post 1659629833 04-14-2022, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Then again she's developed some physical health condition, forgot what it's called but it paralyzes her body so now she can't walk very far and has to use a wheelchair when leaving the house srs.
Wood plow it more often if that was the case.
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post 1659629903 04-14-2022, 08:45 AM
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33, live with gf of 12 years, smash prolly 3-4x a week. Mostly on weekends. Weekdays are tiring ya know.
post 1659629943 04-14-2022, 08:46 AM
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Probably just get bored of the person, or slaying side poon.
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post 1659630183 04-14-2022, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted By QuickShotSteve⏩
my 7 year married friend keeps telling me he is going to start having affairs, he only gets laid like once every 6 weeks if he is lucky. Hes the type that wants daily.

He hasn't cheated yet to my knowledge, but I know they wont make it much longer.
His wife will end up on a friends couch drinking wine, crying, stating she never saw the affair coming and that he is TRASH...although he has been telling her for years about issues with seggs in their relationship.


I've had several friends wives end up on my couch regurgitating this same story to my wife. I know for a fact everyone of their husbands had addressed and complained about the seggs issues for decades before infidelity occurred.

Cheating isnt ok but dont say you didnt see it coming and that he is the only one that is trash in the relationship
post 1659630323 04-14-2022, 08:51 AM
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Haven't had sex in 4 years but might as well be 6


Idk how it happens it just did

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post 1659630503 04-14-2022, 08:53 AM
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Originally Posted By John$Galt⏩
Imagine being so pathetic that you're that obsessed with sex.

Ejaculating every time, wasting your life force, your creative force, and your health and your life suffer.

Imagine thinking that sex is the pinnacle of existence, especially when you pump for 5/10 mins, shoot out your life force, then go to sleep while your body struggles to regenerate it.

In fairness, I was there when I was younger, obsessed with it. But I wish I'd have had someone to teach me then what I know now. I wouldn't have wasted so much time and energy on it.

That said, really no reason to live with a girl unless you're planning on having kids with her one day.
First you need to define what "Obsessed" means, then we can have a real conversation here.
Is obsession daily, multiple times a day, every few days, weekly, or are you talking about nun type behavior?
Be specific.
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post 1659630783 04-14-2022, 08:58 AM
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1⏩
Yeah we're on the same schedule here. No idea why people even bother living together if they're not gonna **** all the time unless they're 75 years old.



I wonder what the average would be if you only looked at people between 18 and 45 with no medical issues? I bet old people and unhealthy ****s bring down the average drastically.
Frequency is related to age for sure, but it's probably not as drastic as you think.

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/201...cy-age-average

20's: 112/year (a little over 2/week)
30's: 86/year (a little under 2/week)
40's: 69/year (a little over 1/week)

Getting data on "healthy" vs unhealthy is a little more difficult, but ED and menopause/"dryness" are definitely leading causes of frequency drops.
post 1659630813 04-14-2022, 08:59 AM
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the argument of ejaculating life force would only make sense if youre fapping, but if youre havin sex then the female counterpart balances your mental and hormonal side
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post 1659630863 04-14-2022, 09:00 AM
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Originally Posted By MisterJustice⏩
the argument of ejaculating life force would only make sense if youre fapping, but if youre havin sex then the female counterpart balances your mental and hormonal side
post 1659631313 04-14-2022, 09:07 AM
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So easy to detect the people ITT who are still living at home/by themselves and think that being in a relationship is a 27/4 fuk fest. Lay off the pern guys
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We masturbate each other more than we have the fuk, works out fine and we both are satisfied
post 1659631643 04-14-2022, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
If she isn't on tinder scouting out bi-fems for you for threesomes you got the wrong one.
Nah thats just weird
post 1659631723 04-14-2022, 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Haven't had sex in 4 years but might as well be 6


Idk how it happens it just did

In 2014-2016 I had sex about 800 times
Whats a tall decent looking guy like you doing not getting laid.

4 years ? U w8 mate?
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Originally Posted By Scarrdbutsmartr⏩
The female libido is driven by novelty. It doesnt matter if you are chad, rich or famous they get bored with you and it becomes work for the vast majority of women. This is scientifically proven with studies.
that's because most guys are idiots and just stick it in and jackhammer for five minutes and it's over.

if you take the time to be the best phuk she's ever had, her libido will be sky high
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Originally Posted By Jayarbie⏩
Frequency is related to age for sure, but it's probably not as drastic as you think.

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/201...cy-age-average

20's: 112/year (a little over 2/week)
30's: 86/year (a little under 2/week)
40's: 69/year (a little over 1/week)

Getting data on "healthy" vs unhealthy is a little more difficult, but ED and menopause/"dryness" are definitely leading causes of frequency drops.
2x a week is pathetic at any age
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post 1659632253 04-14-2022, 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted By 73ers⏩
That’s like what, twice a week at max?

Blows my mind srs. Any reason why? Sex drive not there? Not attracted to her? Tired from work?
nah... You just bang when you want to.... that happens roughly 4-8x per month.

I can see an incel being confused by this, but the married brah ITT who bangs everyday.... how???? Jesus christ.
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33⏩
that's because most guys are idiots and just stick it in and jackhammer for five minutes and it's over.

if you take the time to be the best phuk she's ever had, her libido will be sky high
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post 1659632373 04-14-2022, 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
Brutal

Living with a gal is a death sentence for everything
Been pressured to live with a women , could never pull the trigger though
Whats it like?
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Been pressured to live with a women , could never pull the trigger though
Whats it like?
You lose attraction but she loses more attraction
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Originally Posted By yabrahbob⏩
idk brah once i hit 30 i am not craving it as much srs
still crave it just with new partners. Every now and then we would ramp up our sex to 2-3 times a day multiple days in a row within 24 hours of 3 nuts a day ending I would cheat. every time, srs
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