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Originally Posted By truesteez⏩
Well he did stop having sex with me after pregnancy but I did lose all of the pregnant weight in a year. He prefers slim women and I was hospitalized for anorexia in 2000 so my eating disorder treatment team has always frowned on dieting as I end up relapsing.Judging by your avi, I bet if you lost weight, things would have turned around in your marriage but I guess the typical sloot logic never prevails - run from problems, play the victim, turn to internet for validation from desperate losers.
I gained 100 lbs and then stopped listening to my treatment team and lost 50 lbs in the last year if you see my left pic is my before and my right pic is after.
So in losing weight I’m in effect “relapsing” into my eating disorder but I’m tired of being overweight where the therapists tell you to embrace size acceptance.
Plus I ended up with pre-diabetes so the extra weight is impacting my health at age 50.
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Originally Posted By Coal
Some people, myself included, don’t want to deal with the BS that comes with a relationship. I had to go to countless weddings where people spoke a different language and that was my weekend over and over.Thanks misc!
ITT I learned that nothing worth anything in life is total bliss and joy. Everything that is fun or fulfilling will come with sacrifices and compromises along the way that we must partake in if we want to be a part of something bigger than ourselves. Mind fuking blown guys, I always thought I could just wing it and kick the chit doing my own thing till I'm old while having people who just loved me for existing.
This is very unsettling btw
ITT I learned that nothing worth anything in life is total bliss and joy. Everything that is fun or fulfilling will come with sacrifices and compromises along the way that we must partake in if we want to be a part of something bigger than ourselves. Mind fuking blown guys, I always thought I could just wing it and kick the chit doing my own thing till I'm old while having people who just loved me for existing.
This is very unsettling btw
But then again now I end up traveling solo, so in order to have relationships with other people there are trade-offs, as OP is experiencing.
06-30-2022, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Coal
The sad part is it really is actually extremely unsettling (ded fkn Srs)Thanks misc!
ITT I learned that nothing worth anything in life is total bliss and joy. Everything that is fun or fulfilling will come with sacrifices and compromises along the way that we must partake in if we want to be a part of something bigger than ourselves. Mind fuking blown guys, I always thought I could just wing it and kick the chit doing my own thing till I'm old while having people who just loved me for existing.
This is very unsettling btw
ITT I learned that nothing worth anything in life is total bliss and joy. Everything that is fun or fulfilling will come with sacrifices and compromises along the way that we must partake in if we want to be a part of something bigger than ourselves. Mind fuking blown guys, I always thought I could just wing it and kick the chit doing my own thing till I'm old while having people who just loved me for existing.
This is very unsettling btw
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Originally Posted By Coal
is there something you want to share with us?Thanks misc!
ITT I learned that nothing worth anything in life is total bliss and joy. Everything that is fun or fulfilling will come with sacrifices and compromises along the way that we must partake in if we want to be a part of something bigger than ourselves. Mind fuking blown guys, I always thought I could just wing it and kick the chit doing my own thing till I'm old while having people who just loved me for existing.
This is very unsettling btw
ITT I learned that nothing worth anything in life is total bliss and joy. Everything that is fun or fulfilling will come with sacrifices and compromises along the way that we must partake in if we want to be a part of something bigger than ourselves. Mind fuking blown guys, I always thought I could just wing it and kick the chit doing my own thing till I'm old while having people who just loved me for existing.
This is very unsettling btw
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06-30-2022, 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted By dopamine72⏩
This thread was a classic example of how psycho people can get about weddings. Most of the miscers itt flipped out over the idea of OP not wanting to travel to a wedding of some broad he doesn't know and who his gf probably barely sees IRL anymore anyway. Can't even be bothered to hear the other side of the matter lolIf she's making a big deal about it prepare for the breakup, srs.
The absolute worst breakup of my life revolved around a wedding that was going to happen.
Obviously each scenario is different, but when it comes to weddings people can go fuking psycho...
The absolute worst breakup of my life revolved around a wedding that was going to happen.
Obviously each scenario is different, but when it comes to weddings people can go fuking psycho...
Originally Posted By Beararms⏩
Yep. OP can't truly win unless he decides to go AND pays his own way for it. Anything less, and he's never gonna hear the end of it until he winds up breaking up with/divorcing his now gf. Women never let that type of chit go and will hold it over your head forever.You dont go, its going to cause issues down the line.
If you do go and she really does pay for everything. You will never hear the end of it if something comes up. She will ALWAYS hold that against you.
If you do go and she really does pay for everything. You will never hear the end of it if something comes up. She will ALWAYS hold that against you.
Honestly, the fact that OP's gf apparently decided to just insist on this traveling wedding bs is pretty telling of how dogchit their relationship is. They've been together a year (which has to be getting to the point where they start considering each other finances/long-term goals together, if they haven't already months ago), and she doesn't *ask* him/have a discussion with him about it, but TELLS him how it's going to be. It's pretty cucked to already be putting up with that type of bs from a woman you've only been dating for a year.
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What is it with sloots and weddings
BRB some stranger you barely know that said “Hi” to you a year ago asks you to go to their wedding
BRB spending thousands of dollars booking flights and hotels and new dresses
BRB some stranger you barely know that said “Hi” to you a year ago asks you to go to their wedding
BRB spending thousands of dollars booking flights and hotels and new dresses
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06-30-2022, 11:26 AM
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Sarcasm detector broken?is there something you want to share with us?
Yeah bro when you're in a relationship you gotta do some chit you don't like sometimes. Hopefully if you're with a good woman it won't be often and the happy moments derived from your relationship would greatly eclipse the difficult ones.
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
I'm pretty sure he's said she's a big earner too (obviously that doesn't necessarily mean that she isn't shyt with money and might have financial issues).In case anyone is wondering how I know OP's gf almost certainly has debt issues, it's pretty simple - women who are good with money don't spend thousands of dollars on bullchit like traveling across the country for a few days for the sake of attending a wedding. The only real exception that might make sense is if they do that for a sibling, but I 100% guarantee you this chick has money problems if she's willing to unload that kind of money on a one day party for her friends. Get used to flushing your hard earned money down the toilet on a regular basis over stuff like this if you decide to marry this woman someday.
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why are you with her if you don't care about her enough to go...that's what you should be asking yourself. Sounds like she aint it chief.
also, it wont cost 2k you poor phuk. Take frontier or allegiant. You can get a round trip fare for like 300 bucks. I go to florida all the time on poverty allegiant and have never paid more than 250 for a ticket very srs.
also, it wont cost 2k you poor phuk. Take frontier or allegiant. You can get a round trip fare for like 300 bucks. I go to florida all the time on poverty allegiant and have never paid more than 250 for a ticket very srs.
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Originally Posted By Coal
100% agree if you want to make her happy - and yourself tooSarcasm detector broken?
Yeah browhen you're in a relationship you gotta do some chit you don't like sometimes. Hopefully if you're with a good woman it won't be often and the happy moments derived from your relationship would greatly eclipse the difficult ones.
Yeah browhen you're in a relationship you gotta do some chit you don't like sometimes. Hopefully if you're with a good woman it won't be often and the happy moments derived from your relationship would greatly eclipse the difficult ones.
give and take. share yourselves. you're meant to be in it together to enjoy one another.
flying across the country, might be stretching it a bit for many.
but for sure you have to at least talk it out instead of just dropping a No. state your reasons OP to her. she will at least respect you for that
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Well, she for the streets now op. srs
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
Women cost money. Any man worth a damn knows that women cost money, its just fukin comes with the package and we all know it. If you dont want to spend money in your woman, then either you are with the wrong woman or shes with the wrong man.Lol this. Blows my mind miscers are naive enough to think it's as simple as just having his gf "pay for him". One way or the other, OP is gonna end up paying for that chit. Most likely some of it immediately, and he's absolutely gonna inherit all of the debt she gets herself into with stuff like this if he stays with her long-term/marries her eventually.
In case anyone is wondering how I know OP's gf almost certainly has debt issues, it's pretty simple - women who are good with money don't spend thousands of dollars on bullchit like traveling across the country for a few days for the sake of attending a wedding. The only real exception that might make sense is if they do that for a sibling, but I 100% guarantee you this chick has money problems if she's willing to unload that kind of money on a one day party for her friends. Get used to flushing your hard earned money down the toilet on a regular basis over stuff like this if you decide to marry this woman someday.
In case anyone is wondering how I know OP's gf almost certainly has debt issues, it's pretty simple - women who are good with money don't spend thousands of dollars on bullchit like traveling across the country for a few days for the sake of attending a wedding. The only real exception that might make sense is if they do that for a sibling, but I 100% guarantee you this chick has money problems if she's willing to unload that kind of money on a one day party for her friends. Get used to flushing your hard earned money down the toilet on a regular basis over stuff like this if you decide to marry this woman someday.
Also, no woman is good with money. They all spend it on bull**** and are living paycheck to paycheck. Its a mans job to correct this behavior and its her job to follow and comply.
OP, you dun goofed. Your thread is a good example as to why relationships are so fuked up nowadays. Both men and women really dont know **** about commitment, everyone's selfish looking for the short term pleasure.
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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha⏩
Dump her. I'm not joking. If she's already getting that emotionally manipulative towards you just one year into the relationship, I guarantee she's going to turn into a ruthless, cold hearted, emotionally abusive kunt within few years. No woman is worth dealing with that horse chit. srs.Boyos I told her to stop ****ing nagging me about it but I just saw her for a few hours tonight and she looked like she was holding back tears the whole night (ded fkn Srs)
This is what she texted me last night but she’s still salty LOL
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
The misc is typically right in these scenarios. Can't wait to see how it plays out. How long of an update? 4 months maybe?Women cost money. Any man worth a damn knows that women cost money, its just fukin comes with the package and we all know it. If you dont want to spend money in your woman, then either you are with the wrong woman or shes with the wrong man.
Also, no woman is good with money. They all spend it on bull**** and are living paycheck to paycheck. Its a mans job to correct this behavior and its her job to follow and comply.
OP, you dun goofed. Your thread is a good example as to why relationships are so fuked up nowadays. Both men and women really dont know **** about commitment, everyone's selfish looking for the short term pleasure.
Also, no woman is good with money. They all spend it on bull**** and are living paycheck to paycheck. Its a mans job to correct this behavior and its her job to follow and comply.
OP, you dun goofed. Your thread is a good example as to why relationships are so fuked up nowadays. Both men and women really dont know **** about commitment, everyone's selfish looking for the short term pleasure.
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I understand both arguments but 2 things-
1) shes paying for everything
2) this wedding is of a close friends
If you were paying for everything and this friend is someone she hasnt spoken to or seen in 5 years then I understand why you would be mad but thats not what’s happening.
Go to the wedding. Apologize and you apologize some more after the wedding and then have a serious talk about how you feel about finances.
Hopefully both can come to an understanding.
1) shes paying for everything
2) this wedding is of a close friends
If you were paying for everything and this friend is someone she hasnt spoken to or seen in 5 years then I understand why you would be mad but thats not what’s happening.
Go to the wedding. Apologize and you apologize some more after the wedding and then have a serious talk about how you feel about finances.
Hopefully both can come to an understanding.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
I wasn't saying there exist many women are legitimately good with money. Of course most of them are awful with money and spend tons of it on stupid bullchit.Women cost money. Any man worth a damn knows that women cost money, its just fukin comes with the package and we all know it. If you dont want to spend money in your woman, then either you are with the wrong woman or shes with the wrong man.
Also, no woman is good with money. They all spend it on bull**** and are living paycheck to paycheck. Its a mans job to correct this behavior and its her job to follow and comply.
OP, you dun goofed. Your thread is a good example as to why relationships are so fuked up nowadays. Both men and women really dont know **** about commitment, everyone's selfish looking for the short term pleasure.
Also, no woman is good with money. They all spend it on bull**** and are living paycheck to paycheck. Its a mans job to correct this behavior and its her job to follow and comply.
OP, you dun goofed. Your thread is a good example as to why relationships are so fuked up nowadays. Both men and women really dont know **** about commitment, everyone's selfish looking for the short term pleasure.
However, there is a difference between the average woman's poor financial habits and ones who are legit terrible with money. It's obvious that OP's gf is an example of a woman who is downright awful with money based on her spending priorities. Definitely a broad who is gonna drag any man she's with down with her pretty hard financially. You can try to "control" that type of crap all you want, but there's only so much you can do, and they get resentful af if you're having to keept them too reeled in from their natural spending habits.
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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha⏩
You did lmaoRofl I now overwhelmingly feel like I made the wrong choice (ded fkn Srs)
first off, a wedding in itself is a big event for a chick, and they want their dude to be there with them. No chick wants to fly solo at a wedding.
Secondly, it's her best friends wedding. Unless her and her best friend are gonna stop being friends soon, she is always gonna hear about how chit you are for not showing up with her to that wedding.
third, she offered to pay? It's 1 fukin weekend, it's not like she's asking you to drop everything for a week long destination wedding or something. There will be more weekends this summer, and there will be more summers to enjoy. Weddings for their best friend don't come around too often.
If you care about keeping her, you should go. If you don't, then don't go. But she will always remember this and will likely use it against you in any future arguments and you won't really have a decent rebuttal to it besides "I didn't feel like it". Sometimes you have to compromise if it's a chick you wanna go the distance with. This is one of those situations.
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
ThisYou did lmao
first off, a wedding in itself is a big event for a chick, and they want their dude to be there with them. No chick wants to fly solo at a wedding.
Secondly, it's her best friends wedding. Unless her and her best friend are gonna stop being friends soon, she is always gonna hear about how chit you are for not showing up with her to that wedding.
third, she offered to pay? It's 1 fukin weekend, it's not like she's asking you to drop everything for a week long destination wedding or something. There will be more weekends this summer, and there will be more summers to enjoy. Weddings for their best friend don't come around too often.
If you care about keeping her, you should go. If you don't, then don't go. But she will always remember this and will likely use it against you in any future arguments and you won't really have a decent rebuttal to it besides "I didn't feel like it". Sometimes you have to compromise if it's a chick you wanna go the distance with. This is one of those situations.
first off, a wedding in itself is a big event for a chick, and they want their dude to be there with them. No chick wants to fly solo at a wedding.
Secondly, it's her best friends wedding. Unless her and her best friend are gonna stop being friends soon, she is always gonna hear about how chit you are for not showing up with her to that wedding.
third, she offered to pay? It's 1 fukin weekend, it's not like she's asking you to drop everything for a week long destination wedding or something. There will be more weekends this summer, and there will be more summers to enjoy. Weddings for their best friend don't come around too often.
If you care about keeping her, you should go. If you don't, then don't go. But she will always remember this and will likely use it against you in any future arguments and you won't really have a decent rebuttal to it besides "I didn't feel like it". Sometimes you have to compromise if it's a chick you wanna go the distance with. This is one of those situations.
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
on the plus side, refusing to go gave him material for a successful misc threadYou did lmao
first off, a wedding in itself is a big event for a chick, and they want their dude to be there with them. No chick wants to fly solo at a wedding.
Secondly, it's her best friends wedding. Unless her and her best friend are gonna stop being friends soon, she is always gonna hear about how chit you are for not showing up with her to that wedding.
third, she offered to pay? It's 1 fukin weekend, it's not like she's asking you to drop everything for a week long destination wedding or something. There will be more weekends this summer, and there will be more summers to enjoy. Weddings for their best friend don't come around too often.
If you care about keeping her, you should go. If you don't, then don't go. But she will always remember this and will likely use it against you in any future arguments and you won't really have a decent rebuttal to it besides "I didn't feel like it". Sometimes you have to compromise if it's a chick you wanna go the distance with. This is one of those situations.
first off, a wedding in itself is a big event for a chick, and they want their dude to be there with them. No chick wants to fly solo at a wedding.
Secondly, it's her best friends wedding. Unless her and her best friend are gonna stop being friends soon, she is always gonna hear about how chit you are for not showing up with her to that wedding.
third, she offered to pay? It's 1 fukin weekend, it's not like she's asking you to drop everything for a week long destination wedding or something. There will be more weekends this summer, and there will be more summers to enjoy. Weddings for their best friend don't come around too often.
If you care about keeping her, you should go. If you don't, then don't go. But she will always remember this and will likely use it against you in any future arguments and you won't really have a decent rebuttal to it besides "I didn't feel like it". Sometimes you have to compromise if it's a chick you wanna go the distance with. This is one of those situations.
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
A trip to a wedding of one of her best friends isnt a sign of being "terrible with money" dude. If you cant afford that as a person in your late 20's early 30's, now THAT is a sign of being terrible with money.I wasn't saying there exist many women are legitimately good with money. Of course most of them are awful with money and spend tons of it on stupid bullchit.
However, there is a difference between the average woman's poor financial habits and ones who are legit terrible with money. It's obvious that OP's gf is an example of a woman who is downright awful with money based on her spending priorities. Definitely a broad who is gonna drag any man she's with down with her pretty hard financially. You can try to "control" that type of crap all you want, but there's only so much you can do, and they get resentful af if you're having to keept them too reeled in from their natural spending habits.
However, there is a difference between the average woman's poor financial habits and ones who are legit terrible with money. It's obvious that OP's gf is an example of a woman who is downright awful with money based on her spending priorities. Definitely a broad who is gonna drag any man she's with down with her pretty hard financially. You can try to "control" that type of crap all you want, but there's only so much you can do, and they get resentful af if you're having to keept them too reeled in from their natural spending habits.
Its a once every 3-5 year type of scenario lets be honest. Its not that big of a deal.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
good women don't cost money - they often offer to pay for the man - srs. you don't have to let them thoughWomen cost money. Any man worth a damn knows that women cost money, its just fukin comes with the package and we all know it. If you dont want to spend money in your woman, then either you are with the wrong woman or shes with the wrong man.
Also, no woman is good with money. They all spend it on bull**** and are living paycheck to paycheck. Its a mans job to correct this behavior and its her job to follow and comply.
OP, you dun goofed. Your thread is a good example as to why relationships are so fuked up nowadays. Both men and women really dont know **** about commitment, everyone's selfish looking for the short term pleasure.
Also, no woman is good with money. They all spend it on bull**** and are living paycheck to paycheck. Its a mans job to correct this behavior and its her job to follow and comply.
OP, you dun goofed. Your thread is a good example as to why relationships are so fuked up nowadays. Both men and women really dont know **** about commitment, everyone's selfish looking for the short term pleasure.
i don't think he signed a disclaimer saying he had to travel with her to weddings. they are dating, not married. it's not in his city. he is better telling her no now, than being frustrated and getting drunk and potentially embarrassing her at the wedding. if it is however a real best friend of hers, and i don't mean just one of the girls. she should really make this point crystal clear.
a man for sure should provide if we are taking on traditional roles. otherwise he is just being a high level simp
he isn't in the wrong though. they probably just suck at communication. good he stuck up for himself and wasn't bullied into going.
luckily he has the misc for wisdom
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
Fuark.Dump her. I'm not joking. If she's already getting that emotionally manipulative towards you just one year into the relationship, I guarantee she's going to turn into a ruthless, cold hearted, emotionally abusive kunt within few years. No woman is worth dealing with that horse chit. srs.
06-30-2022, 12:26 PM
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06-30-2022, 12:36 PM
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Brah, I'm gonna put it to you straight and simple. If you don't want to do the **** you're expected to do in a monogamous relationship let her find someone that will. She has forsaken all other men to be with you, if you don't want to fulfill that role step out. It's not fair to her, she can find I guy that would go.
Money is nothing. Loyalty is priceless and can only be given away. If she giving you loyalty you're devaluing it tremendously.
And a wedding symbolizes exactly that.
Money is nothing. Loyalty is priceless and can only be given away. If she giving you loyalty you're devaluing it tremendously.
And a wedding symbolizes exactly that.
The closer we approach the uncertainty of life's ending the more we wish to trade all of the things we have acquired in exchange for all of the things we have lost: wealth for youth, knowledge for fresh curiosity, resignation for hope. We'd trade our wisdom for new experiences, but it is wisdom that will teach us that at the end of the road the only new experience is death.
06-30-2022, 12:44 PM
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i get you not wanting to go bro but the fact that she is willing to pay for it..why not? go rage and get yucky and make the best of it (ded fkn Srs)
this all assumes it's an open bar wedding
**** them if not (ded fkn Srs)
this all assumes it's an open bar wedding
**** them if not (ded fkn Srs)
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06-30-2022, 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
Yeah but for $2,000?! I’ve been a bridesmaid in several weddings and you’re paired up with a groomsman so you’re busy with him. Your SO is either another groomsman or sitting in the corner getting drunk alone.You did lmao
first off, a wedding in itself is a big event for a chick, and they want their dude to be there with them. No chick wants to fly solo at a wedding.
Secondly, it's her best friends wedding. Unless her and her best friend are gonna stop being friends soon, she is always gonna hear about how chit you are for not showing up with her to that wedding.
third, she offered to pay? It's 1 fukin weekend, it's not like she's asking you to drop everything for a week long destination wedding or something. There will be more weekends this summer, and there will be more summers to enjoy. Weddings for their best friend don't come around too often.
If you care about keeping her, you should go. If you don't, then don't go. But she will always remember this and will likely use it against you in any future arguments and you won't really have a decent rebuttal to it besides "I didn't feel like it". Sometimes you have to compromise if it's a chick you wanna go the distance with. This is one of those situations.
first off, a wedding in itself is a big event for a chick, and they want their dude to be there with them. No chick wants to fly solo at a wedding.
Secondly, it's her best friends wedding. Unless her and her best friend are gonna stop being friends soon, she is always gonna hear about how chit you are for not showing up with her to that wedding.
third, she offered to pay? It's 1 fukin weekend, it's not like she's asking you to drop everything for a week long destination wedding or something. There will be more weekends this summer, and there will be more summers to enjoy. Weddings for their best friend don't come around too often.
If you care about keeping her, you should go. If you don't, then don't go. But she will always remember this and will likely use it against you in any future arguments and you won't really have a decent rebuttal to it besides "I didn't feel like it". Sometimes you have to compromise if it's a chick you wanna go the distance with. This is one of those situations.
As I stated I was just fine attending a wedding alone as a bridesmaid but I’m an only child and very independent.
Gosh people go psycho over weddings and they’re honestly a joke of an expense ($50,000 and higher). I’m glad I’m not a younger man trying to finance a wedding if the bride’s parents can’t.
06-30-2022, 01:11 PM
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The the OP and his girlfriend are low value losers.
OP is immature and a loser....so obviously low value, can't even come up with the money to go to a wedding for a weekend, LOL just LOL.....which also immediately tells us his GF is fat / ugly.
OP you're seriously a loser. Get your chit together....you say you're in sales and you don't have $2k?? You must suck at selling bro.....probably because you are a weak selfish bish...like you are in this thread.
Grow up pussssy boy
OP is immature and a loser....so obviously low value, can't even come up with the money to go to a wedding for a weekend, LOL just LOL.....which also immediately tells us his GF is fat / ugly.
OP you're seriously a loser. Get your chit together....you say you're in sales and you don't have $2k?? You must suck at selling bro.....probably because you are a weak selfish bish...like you are in this thread.
Grow up pussssy boy
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