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post 1663426183 06-25-2022, 09:37 AM
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How long should i stay NC

So me and my gf of 3 months broke up last night nothing happened between us and we had a really good relationship but im going to be moving a few hours away come September and she didnt want to have a long distance relationship so we broke up before we got pretty serious and right now we’re NC. Id like to talk to her again and atleast see her one more time if she wants too but how long should I wait to hit her up if I should at all?
post 1663426743 06-25-2022, 09:52 AM
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3 days

Just lol at going Nc for months

Shell just forget about you..you only dated for 3 months

My gf of 6 months broke it off with me over something that happened

I went 3 days NC and now atleast we are talking again
post 1663427243 06-25-2022, 10:07 AM
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It was only 3 months which is why she's so willing to break it off. Very likely your feelings are stronger than hers, and she'd rather date someone geographically close than commit to something long distance after such a short time.

Stay NC indefinitely. Talk to other girls, and if she truly starts to miss you she'll text or call, srs.
Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
3 days

Just lol at going Nc for months

Shell just forget about you..you only dated for 3 months

My gf of 6 months broke it off with me over something that happened

I went 3 days NC and now atleast we are talking again
You didn't listen to all of the brahs giving you good advice in your thread.

While I really hope I'm wrong and it works out...you're going to have to learn the hard way sooner or later.
post 1663433273 06-25-2022, 12:35 PM
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Long distance is really tough. I did it with my husband for 3 years, but that was pre-social media.

I've tried it a few years ago and the guys end up finding women closer to them so they break it off.

I do like to keep in contact with them as friends, so I went NC with them for about a year and now we all talk occasionally from a distance.
post 1663435573 06-25-2022, 01:26 PM
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what the hell do you mean? Your relationship is over; move on.
post 1663435593 06-25-2022, 01:26 PM
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You should stay NC until she breaks it but since you're moving away you can hit her up 1 more time before you leave for a last smash.

Then go NC until she reaches out.

And guess what?

If she never reaches out then neither do you.
There is but one path....we kill them all.
post 1663441783 06-25-2022, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
You should stay NC until she breaks it but since you're moving away you can hit her up 1 more time before you leave for a last smash.

Then go NC until she reaches out.

And guess what?

If she never reaches out then neither do you.
this

3 month relationship lmfao. it's likely she doesn't have the connection to regret this
post 1663449543 06-25-2022, 06:40 PM
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No communication between two people is toxic
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It doesn't take a genius to figure this out


But you would rather do things the most dysfunctional way possible.

more suffering
post 1663474633 06-26-2022, 10:33 AM
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post 1663475463 06-26-2022, 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
forever
came in to say this

NC women forever
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post 1663504263 06-26-2022, 10:12 PM
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It’s over.
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post 1663769463 07-02-2022, 05:42 AM
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Just another reason for me to dump you
post 1663769683 07-02-2022, 05:56 AM
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It's almost like you put every effort into me leaving you
post 1663769843 07-02-2022, 06:07 AM
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This is why romance is dead
post 1663771243 07-02-2022, 07:15 AM
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Don't expect anything romantic for the next year
post 1663772353 07-02-2022, 07:49 AM
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Sorry try again next year
post 1663772723 07-02-2022, 07:58 AM
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Now I get to treat you like garbage for a year
post 1663773913 07-02-2022, 08:28 AM
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And I'm probably going to give my attention to everyone except for you
post 1663774043 07-02-2022, 08:32 AM
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Heart attack srs
post 1663776173 07-02-2022, 09:24 AM
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You're not good enough...
post 1663777233 07-02-2022, 09:53 AM
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for another year
post 1663777463 07-02-2022, 10:01 AM
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this is retard(woman) logic
post 1663798263 07-02-2022, 06:44 PM
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hmm
post 1663799073 07-02-2022, 07:07 PM
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this is just of fraction of the way you/ve treated me
post 1663801783 07-02-2022, 08:11 PM
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dealing with a literal retard
post 1663852233 07-03-2022, 09:58 PM
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Why do you want to see/talk to her again?

If you don't have strong feels and just wanna be casual until she leaves by all means shoot your shot.

If you're hurtin then stay NC it'll only make it worse.
post 1663870663 07-04-2022, 10:20 AM
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strong level of communication between you

ability to converse about how you are feeling and thinking is needed boyo
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post 1664262343 07-12-2022, 04:18 AM
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NC shouldn't be that difficult given her refusal to communicate

Saying a few words requires too much effort/brain power you have to get someone else to do it for you
post 1664467463 07-15-2022, 07:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Evolutionary1⏩
NC shouldn't be that difficult given her refusal to communicate

Saying a few words requires too much effort/brain power you have to get someone else to do it for you
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post 1664480073 07-16-2022, 04:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Evolutionary1⏩
NC shouldn't be that difficult given her refusal to communicate

Saying a few words requires too much effort/brain power you have to get someone else to do it for you
It's like I already knew you wouldn't put that much effort in
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