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post 1667329533 09-04-2022, 08:52 PM
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Would you ever take back a girlfriend who cheated on you?

Or have you know someone who has done this? I would never in a million years... once they cheat its 100% over
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post 1667329633 09-04-2022, 08:55 PM
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Originally Posted By AcetylCoA⏩
Or have you know someone who has done this? I would never in a million years... once they cheat its 100% over
Only reason to ever consider this is if you are married and have children. Even then there’s little chance.

Or if they make bank and you’re a brokecel
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post 1667329843 09-04-2022, 08:59 PM
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I couldn’t even go back to a girl I broke up with even after we BOTH have been with other people. Probably just me and my own mental hang up…but the idea of another guy dropping a load inside her AFTER me only for me to return like some jaded laborer returning back to work just doesn’t do it for me.

Inb4 everyone only fuggs virgins.
post 1667329913 09-04-2022, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted By AcetylCoA⏩
I would never in a million years... once they cheat its 100% over
This.

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post 1667330503 09-04-2022, 09:16 PM
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Absolutely not.
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post 1667330573 09-04-2022, 09:18 PM
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I know a lot of married couples who have stayed together after cheating. Then they usually go to counseling, go on date nights and prioritize the marriage. Typically kids arrive and the marriage goes down the tubes.
post 1667330913 09-04-2022, 09:26 PM
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Originally Posted By AcetylCoA⏩
Or have you know someone who has done this? I would never in a million years... once they cheat its 100% over
I like to know what's going on.

I never had a situation when there was cheating. It was more like competition and bad communication in past relationships.

THAT is puzzling because WHY did it happen?

If there was cheating I would be happy because that is a clear cut reason to break up.

Cheating is treachery.

Treachery of some sort is the only reason I would break up with someone. When you are working against me, I am out.
If you want to ask me a question:

Ask: TheAdlerian

http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=150655983&p=1000366043#post1000366043

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http://www.amazon.com/Echelon-Adlerian-ebook/dp/B00RCFFTKC/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1419640250&sr=8-1&keywords=Echelon+the+adlerian
post 1667331043 09-04-2022, 09:29 PM
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Nah, I'm not some bitchmade cuck. Seriously tho you gotta stand by your principles. If you bend your own rules then there's no point in having them.
post 1667331153 09-04-2022, 09:31 PM
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If you have any self-respect, you would completely cut them off and throw them into the streets to never look back
post 1667331223 09-04-2022, 09:33 PM
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
i did once and full regrets. dont do it bros
Same. Learned my lesson young and would never do again. There is no forgiving or forgetting.
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post 1667331313 09-04-2022, 09:37 PM
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post 1667331333 09-04-2022, 09:39 PM
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Absolutely no reason to, even with kids in the picture. Folks who stay together "for the kids" end up causing all sorts of traumas in those kids.

Inb4 "lots of cheaters stay together for marriage status" cope. Reap what you sow.
post 1667331373 09-04-2022, 09:39 PM
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a lot of couples stay together but i'm not convinced there's true forgiveness. married couples with kids might stay together but still harbor resentment. and insecure people will hold on sometimes. in college a guy i knew had a girlfriend who got caught getting ****ed by two guys at once. wanna know how she got caught? it was on camera lol. dude still tried to keep the relationship alive. it's just fear and insecurity. i knew him and he felt like he "won the lottery" with this girl since she was hot and he was afraid to let go.

the most realistic actual forgiveness scenario is probably with time. and something mild. maybe someone who's married for 20 years and they started dating at 18 and they find out the person made out with someone else at age 19. it would be like, you were 19, you were a moron, not really the same person. i dunno. just my 2 cents.
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post 1667331383 09-04-2022, 09:40 PM
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No.

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Nope.

I know for a fact my ex cheated on me, but I couldn't prove it. I wouldn't take her back.
post 1667332863 09-04-2022, 10:20 PM
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never, you are a spineless turd who needs to be castrated if you'd ever consider that


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Bruh, just go back to eating pizza like you used to back then. Do that instead of taking back a sloot gf
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
I know a lot of married couples who have stayed together after cheating. Then they usually go to counseling, go on date nights and prioritize the marriage. Typically kids arrive and the marriage goes down the tubes.
I'm sure you do.
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Absolutely no reason to, even with kids in the picture. Folks who stay together "for the kids" end up causing all sorts of traumas in those kids.

Inb4 "lots of cheaters stay together for marriage status" cope. Reap what you sow.
Many times cheating happens because the focus is on the kids, the sex stops, they don’t do date nights, the husband forgets their anniversary, etc.

50% of couple who go to counseling will be over to overcome cheating. Now affairs are like drugs, so when you remove that the person may become extremely depressed. Some couples even move to get away from the person he or she had an affair with.

If the affair is a wake-up call to work on the marriage and keep the kids together, then the marriage counselor did their job.

Source: I stared getting my masters degree in marriage and family counseling
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If I really like her then sure if I can't stand her Ill dump her ass even if she doesn't cheat.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Many times cheating happens because the focus is on the kids, the sex stops, they don’t do date nights, the husband forgets their anniversary, etc.

50% of couple who go to counseling will be over to overcome cheating. Now affairs are like drugs, so when you remove that the person may become extremely depressed. Some couples even move to get away from the person he or she had an affair with.

If the affair is a wake-up call to work on the marriage and keep the kids together, then the marriage counselor did their job.

Source: I stared getting my masters degree in marriage and family counseling
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Originally Posted By TallTigerTwo⏩
I couldn’t even go back to a girl I broke up with even after we BOTH have been with other people. Probably just me and my own mental hang up…but the idea of another guy dropping a load inside her AFTER me only for me to return like some jaded laborer returning back to work just doesn’t do it for me.

Inb4 everyone only fuggs virgins.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Many times cheating happens because the focus is on the kids, the sex stops, they don’t do date nights, the husband forgets their anniversary, etc.

50% of couple who go to counseling will be over to overcome cheating. Now affairs are like drugs, so when you remove that the person may become extremely depressed. Some couples even move to get away from the person he or she had an affair with.

If the affair is a wake-up call to work on the marriage and keep the kids together, then the marriage counselor did their job.

Source: I stared getting my masters degree in marriage and family counseling
Cope.

Explaining why cheating may happen doesn't make it either forgivable or understandable. If you're an example of a couple that made it after affairs happen, fu*k me, given your decade + on this forum and elsewhere showing everyone, with each and every post, just how much you struggle with your day to day existence.

With all due respect - people like you shouldn't be giving folks here marriage advice. Good luck.
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Only do it if you have no self respect and you want to live your gross fantasy.
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People that do that are pathetic.
Anyway girls that cheat have no respect for the guy they are with so her not dumping your ass just means she sees you as financial stability.
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made a thread about this a while ago

- my friend married for 3 years, knows his girl for over 10
- they go to a small party and get drunk as fukk
- buddy wakes up in the middle of the night and his friend (the host) is banging his wife
- he flips out, beats him up, cops get called, wife "doesnt remember anything", accuse the guy of drugging and raping her
- host has cameras set up in his place, whole thing is caught on video
- wife was probably black out drunk and wouldnt do it sober but is banging the guy like theres no tomorrow
- nobody believes the rape story except my friend who convinced himself that it had to be rape because "he knows her and she would never cheat"
- never seen such cope
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