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post 1670542473 11-02-2022, 11:15 PM
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Nah statistically speaking it goes Black women, Asian men & then black men. But you shouldn’t have any trouble finding some dumb leftist whore willing to give up her unwashed hole to virtue signal.

Just call her racist if she rejects you.
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Tbh it’s probably more the fact that you’re 5’3

If you were a foot taller, jacked and had game, you could absolutely get pussy on the regular

I think indians have it the hardest
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee


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There are probably over a million women in America that would go out with OP.
If you break down:
Overall women in America
Between 21-35(I'm guessing op is like 27ish)
Women without kids
women not married
women that would date a black guy
Women that would date a manlet

Probably around a million. So, probably 10,000 to 40,000 in his state
100-500 on his city
Of those 100-500, Cut that by 99% when they hear that you are a perpetual victim and complainer

So, either 3 women in your city or 100-500 if you get a positive attitude
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Originally Posted By 8pieces
indians and asians have 10000x more struggle with dating
Asians got kpop and anime on their side. Sloots actually love that shyt

Indians though.💩
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Originally Posted By deft0nes
Very true in the US. the desi/asian guys I knew stayed home with their parents and played video games, while the other guys participated in sports, prom, dating, hanging out with girls in clubs, etc. Though there are a lot of benefits to being "brown" and having rich parents who take care of you, educate you, and let you live at home, you just never have that confidence and experience around girls and don't know how to socialize outside of work/school. The asian parenting is very strict and demanding.
Dunno why Indians insist on differentiating based on their tribe lmao. It's like comparing cat **** and dog ****
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
I'm not trolling. I like to use myself as the measure for things. I'm not particularly hardworking, or smarter than average. So if I can hit multiple hundreds of thousands of dollars per year, then just hitting "6 figures" is nothing special. Likewise, I have multiple properties, so just owning a single house is nothing special. You get what I'm saying?
Maybe you're just lucky if you're in the 1% like that and dont really work for it. But dont act like that's just the standard and anyone who's not in the 1% aint chit. doesnt make sense. just having to explain this to you is absurd.
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Originally Posted By Rebel012
Fuk online data. It's not nearly as clear cut as you and that other incel make it out to be, plus it's self-selecting.

You gotta move beyond those worldview, not because it will help with dating, but because it's better for your mental health.
"fuk online data! My anecdotal experience of a few guys I know is all that matters!"

Sometimes I hate the misc. The online data is proof of all the things incels and red/black pillers have said for years and people like you just ignore it after always demanding evidence.
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Originally Posted By beansieweansie
is OP actually 5 foot 3? if so he has a good point. I dont know why you guys are ****ting on his pessimism. its ****ing over at 5'3, infact it never even started
Its honestly baffling. I think the misc is full of a bunch of decent looking white guys who really have no clue what its like at the bottom.

I'm rejected by 99.999% of women for being 5'3 at the very jump of it. And these miscers just totally ignore it and start making up chit to explain my situation instead of the OBVIOUS right in front of everyones face.

This only happens online. Everyone else that I've ever met understands my situation. Only online do people dismiss 5'3 and act like thats not the problem
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Maybe you're just lucky if you're in the 1% like that and dont really work for it. But dont act like that's just the standard and anyone who's not in the 1% aint chit. doesnt make sense. just having to explain this to you is absurd.
Son, I was born in a third world country and lived the first 6 years of my life in a shack with no indoor plumbing. From there my parents moved us to a roach infested basement in one of the worst cities in the US. I've had to work for everything I have. I'm just saying it wasn't particularly hard. I'm sure if I had your outlook on life I'd still be living in that reach infested basement.

Also, I have never in my life meet a black incel. But I have met a few white ones.
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Originally Posted By Ironface
Tbh it’s probably more the fact that you’re 5’3

If you were a foot taller, jacked and had game, you could absolutely get pussy on the regular

I think indians have it the hardest
I know that my problem is 5'3 and face. The thread was originally about black guys in general, not my specific situation.

Indians dont have it the hardest, because Indian women are more reasonable with standards and a higher quality. Indian guys dont have to be thugs. they dont have to worry about all of their women being single moms, or wanting criminals. They can be regular guys in their culture, and get their own women. They will be respected and valued for being a good educated person.

The only issue is the amount of indian women who want white guys. But the same problem exists for black guys. If you arent thuggmaxed or gigatyrone, black women wont want you either so there's no difference.
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Originally Posted By rollerball
So you've had legitimate connections with two women, one of whom was genuinely attractive. This says that given enough time and exposure to your personality you're able to attract *some* women. The issue is getting through that application phase where you're submitting your CV in the form of your dating profile which, on paper, is just not competitive to more traditionally attractive profiles. The other issue is that you're taking their not swiping right on you as more than just them being overwhelmed with options online.

There are plenty of women who are getting tired of being pumped-and-dumped by chad regardless of what you, or the misc, likes to think. Women are not men, they need more than just the physical. The novelty of good looks always fades over time, you just get used to it. There are always chicks out there who develop sexual attraction through the strength of a mental connection and do not necessarily require a good looking face/physique. They're just looking for a legit solid dude.

By your vocaroo it's easy to tell that you're capable of having a meaningful conversation with a woman, likely able to offer well-developed opinions about art, politics, philosophy etc. You also seem like a decent fellow, you don't sound awkward or creepy. With these attributes you can, 100%, find a relationship with a commensurate female. Obviously it will take more time, but you 100% have enough qualities to attain this.

I get why constant rejections, or in your case merely lack of dating site matches, could be frustrating but it is possible as proven by your own experiences. But, again, that is not your optimum way of getting dates by far. You need to figure out your own angle of approach.
I didnt really say this in the video, but it has nothing to do with personality. Its just raw numbers and chance. I have never just found someone that liked me in real life, because IRL its impossible to play the number game at a scale necessary to hit on something.

The 2 that I talked about only happened after swiping on every girl online for YEARS. That's thousands and thousands of women. That's how hard it is for me, and even worse now with some of the changes online.

Approaching in real life or anything in real life will never work for me.

And yes no kidding i'm not awkward or creepy or whatever. How many goddamn times has the misc made up bullchit that isnt true just fit their narrative. I'm a normal dude. In fact I'm a fairly popular person. thats how I know it has nothing to do with personality.

its the factors I constantly talk about that brings my odds so low. height face and race.
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Originally Posted By sword_


Good stuff man thank you. Was gonna respond to some of the key points.

With online, yes it sucks in general, and then especially for me being black and short height online it's a very very low hit rate. Like I said it took years to get even those results when a more attractive guy can do that in less than a week. But even then for me it's still better than my hit rate of zero in real life.

Real life has never worked for me. Your average guy can just exist and do things and will stumble into women every so often. Never happened for me. So as bad as online is it's my only real option. And yea, that's despite having solid social skills and personality that people generally like. I have no issues getting out there as you picked up on. I really think its just a numbers thing that is impossible to do in real life.


For purpose and this somewhat gets into hobbies also, as I've realized how low the odds are that I get anywhere in dating, I've started being more honest with myself about what I want to do. I feel like for most single guys, whether we consciously recognize it or not, a lot of the stuff we do is to put ourselves in position to get women. And since I've basically stopped all efforts in summer 2021, now I definitely feel like everything I do is genuinely stuff I want to do for myself.

I even catch myself sometimes and stop myself from doing something that is really motivated by trying to meet women.

As a result, I find myself trending more to the rotter side of things. My genuine interests are nothing special but are fun. And long term, honestly I kind of think that if I have no need to impress women, and wont ever have a family, hedonism is basically the end goal. There's maybe one bigger, more noble goal that I have that involves helping family. But that really just comes down to making money and giving it to them so nothing more to do with my life than I already do.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
Son, I was born in a third world country and lived the first 6 years of my life in a shack with no indoor plumbing. From there my parents moved us to a roach infested basement in one of the worst cities in the US. I've had to work for everything I have. I'm just saying it wasn't particularly hard. I'm sure if I had your outlook on life I'd still be living in that reach infested basement.

Also, I have never in my life meet a black incel. But I have met a few white ones.
Ok, it wasnt hard for Lebron to make the NBA but I think he's smart enough to recognize that's not the norm for the vast majority of people.

Have some perspective.
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Originally Posted By DrAlchemist
- too busy doing constructive hobbies to care about any of that bs
- posts 39 000 times on a forum about other people’s inability to converse


In other words. You don’t know how to lead conversations and navigate past small talk
Its probably way past 60000 tbh, hes had multiple accounts here
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If you are only going for White sloots, it's harder for Asian men than Blacks in NA. I personally had no problems cause I don't fit the stereotype but I've seen many manlet Asian brahs struggle hard when talking to White chicks.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Ok, it wasnt hard for Lebron to make the NBA but I think he's smart enough to recognize that's not the norm for the vast majority of people.

Have some perspective.
You are not just short and ugly and being black is not the problem. There is a forum for you and you should go there

Actually, I don't think you should go there. It's not healthy. It's a big circle jerk confirming everyone else is the problem.

I read that forum every so often and am always...how the **** can people be that way??? The loathing and self-pity complaining about everyone else not giving a fukc about them while they themselves don't give a fukc about anyone else other than how it pertains to their own self-interest.

You can get with women similar to yourself. Open up, get to know them and be happy with them. Likely you won't. You'll continue blaming society.
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Originally Posted By sapdori
If you are only going for White sloots, it's harder for Asian men than Blacks in NA. I personally had no problems cause I don't fit the stereotype but I've seen many manlet Asian brahs struggle hard when talking to White chicks.
Only weird self haters do that.
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Originally Posted By Casca
You are not just short and ugly and being black is not the problem. There is a forum for you and you should go there

Actually, I don't think you should go there. It's not healthy. It's a big circle jerk confirming everyone else is the problem.

I read that forum every so often and am always...how the **** can people be that way??? The loathing and self-pity complaining about everyone else not giving a fukc about them while they themselves don't give a fukc about anyone else other than how it pertains to their own self-interest.

You can get with women similar to yourself. Open up, get to know them and be happy with them. Likely you won't. You'll continue blaming society.
My problem is being short and ugly, but still if I was white I would be able to get an asian.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Only weird self haters do that.
Eh, not really. I don't mind Asian sloots now but I used to only go for white sloots in my younger years because I knew Asian sloots would be way too easy, which is no fun (and most of them don't have any azz which is a big no no for me).
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Originally Posted By sapdori
Eh, not really. I don't mind Asian sloots now but I used to only go for white sloots in my younger years because I knew Asian sloots would be way too easy, which is no fun (and most of them don't have any azz which is a big no no for me).
if you dont go for your own women you got issues.

Like asian women simping for white dink is weird af. same for men.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
if you dont go for your own women you got issues.

Like asian women simping for white dink is weird af. same for men.
Like I said, I don't mind Asian sloots now. But there's nothing weird about men going for more challenging sloots. There's no sense of accomplishment if it takes little effort, lmao.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Good stuff man thank you. Was gonna respond to some of the key points.

With online, yes it sucks in general, and then especially for me being black and short height online it's a very very low hit rate. Like I said it took years to get even those results when a more attractive guy can do that in less than a week. But even then for me it's still better than my hit rate of zero in real life.

Real life has never worked for me. Your average guy can just exist and do things and will stumble into women every so often. Never happened for me. So as bad as online is it's my only real option. And yea, that's despite having solid social skills and personality that people generally like. I have no issues getting out there as you picked up on. I really think its just a numbers thing that is impossible to do in real life.


For purpose and this somewhat gets into hobbies also, as I've realized how low the odds are that I get anywhere in dating, I've started being more honest with myself about what I want to do. I feel like for most single guys, whether we consciously recognize it or not, a lot of the stuff we do is to put ourselves in position to get women. And since I've basically stopped all efforts in summer 2021, now I definitely feel like everything I do is genuinely stuff I want to do for myself.

I even catch myself sometimes and stop myself from doing something that is really motivated by trying to meet women.

As a result, I find myself trending more to the rotter side of things. My genuine interests are nothing special but are fun. And long term, honestly I kind of think that if I have no need to impress women, and wont ever have a family, hedonism is basically the end goal. There's maybe one bigger, more noble goal that I have that involves helping family. But that really just comes down to making money and giving it to them so nothing more to do with my life than I already do.
Feel kinda sad reading this. Genetics are a bitch
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Originally Posted By sapdori
Like I said, I don't mind Asian sloots now. But there's nothing weird about men going for more challenging sloots. There's no sense of accomplishment if it takes little effort, lmao.
just go for better looking ones in your own race
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
just go for better looking ones in your own race
Simply not many (hot) Asians where I grew up compared to White sloots. Forced me to up my game though.
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