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Talking to a woman I'm not attracted to made me realize "game" is fake
I was having a conversation with this woman who I was not attracted to and I realized that there was nothing she could say or do that would make me want to be with her. She wasn't even doing anything wrong, the conversation was pleasant and she wasn't ugly, just not my type.
This made me think of all the times I tried to attract a woman, either by being confident, funny, being distant, negs, etc... It's just all a waste of time. Just have a simple conversation to show you're not a weirdo and ask her out. Any further jestering is pointless.
Am I wrong misc ?
This made me think of all the times I tried to attract a woman, either by being confident, funny, being distant, negs, etc... It's just all a waste of time. Just have a simple conversation to show you're not a weirdo and ask her out. Any further jestering is pointless.
Am I wrong misc ?
11-09-2022, 09:03 PM
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11-09-2022, 09:04 PM
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11-09-2022, 09:20 PM
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Originally Posted By CoolKnees⏩
PUA is for incel, MGTOW and no hymen no Diamond types. Basically it’s grifting social mongoloids.I was having a conversation with this woman who I was not attracted to and I realized that there was nothing she could say or do that would make me want to be with her. She wasn't even doing anything wrong, the conversation was pleasant and she wasn't ugly, just not my type.
This made me think of all the times I tried to attract a woman, either by being confident, funny, being distant, negs, etc... It's just all a waste of time. Just have a simple conversation to show you're not a weirdo and ask her out. Any further jestering is pointless.
Am I wrong misc ?
This made me think of all the times I tried to attract a woman, either by being confident, funny, being distant, negs, etc... It's just all a waste of time. Just have a simple conversation to show you're not a weirdo and ask her out. Any further jestering is pointless.
Am I wrong misc ?
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11-09-2022, 09:24 PM
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Women either like you or they don''t
lol @ "game"
it's called not being autistic
lol @ "game"
it's called not being autistic
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11-09-2022, 09:29 PM
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Originally Posted By CoolKnees⏩
That's really the way it should be. It's lame as fuk you have to peacock the fuk up when really if you want a stable relationship you just need a stable boyfriend/girlfriend. Stable people don't feel the need to work to impress strangers. Otherwise the girl is going to think you're desperate, imo. Those hoorz just want you to jump through hoops so they feel their pussy is worth more than it is.Just have a simple conversation to show you're not a weirdo and ask her out. Any further jestering is pointless.
Am I wrong misc ?
Am I wrong misc ?
11-09-2022, 09:32 PM
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Yeah phuk game. Sometimes when i feel on fire but nothing good happens.
Sometimes you awkward af messing things up but the girl keeps giving chances to recover. Apologize her ass after busting too quick & she still wants to marry you.
Sometimes you awkward af messing things up but the girl keeps giving chances to recover. Apologize her ass after busting too quick & she still wants to marry you.
11-09-2022, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted By CoolKnees⏩
This is pretty much my MO nowadays. I put lots of effort into my appearance, and am intelligent and know how to let it be known that I'm interested. But my level of Jestermaxxing is like 5% nowadays, and not really going up. Sometimes you do have to Jester a little bit to get their attention, but you definitely need to cut that chit off immediately once you have it.I was having a conversation with this woman who I was not attracted to and I realized that there was nothing she could say or do that would make me want to be with her. She wasn't even doing anything wrong, the conversation was pleasant and she wasn't ugly, just not my type.
This made me think of all the times I tried to attract a woman, either by being confident, funny, being distant, negs, etc... It's just all a waste of time. Just have a simple conversation to show you're not a weirdo and ask her out. Any further jestering is pointless.
Am I wrong misc ?
This made me think of all the times I tried to attract a woman, either by being confident, funny, being distant, negs, etc... It's just all a waste of time. Just have a simple conversation to show you're not a weirdo and ask her out. Any further jestering is pointless.
Am I wrong misc ?
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I think you’re mostly right except that men separate physical attractiveness of a woman from her other characteristics while women don’t do the same for men.
If you show a woman a high status man; he has money, charisma, interesting job etc but is not conventionally good looking she will still say he’s not. She would never say “he’s not really hot, but because he has xyz, I find him attractive.” They can’t separate it like that.
From that perspective, men have a bit more of a chance of attracting a girl besides just looks.
If you show a woman a high status man; he has money, charisma, interesting job etc but is not conventionally good looking she will still say he’s not. She would never say “he’s not really hot, but because he has xyz, I find him attractive.” They can’t separate it like that.
From that perspective, men have a bit more of a chance of attracting a girl besides just looks.
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11-09-2022, 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
How do u become thatWomen either like you or they don''t
lol @ "game"
it's called not being autistic
lol @ "game"
it's called not being autistic
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The issue is not getting desperate when you DO like somebody - I've learned you can't force anything in life really, not even love and sex.
Enjoy the moment for what it is i guess
Enjoy the moment for what it is i guess
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11-10-2022, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Bigbuster1⏩
If you show a woman a high status man; he has money, charisma, interesting job etc but is not conventionally good looking she will still say he’s not. She would never say “he’s not really hot, but because he has xyz, I find him attractive.” They can’t separate it like that.
From that perspective, men have a bit more of a chance of attracting a girl besides just looks.
From that perspective, men have a bit more of a chance of attracting a girl besides just looks.
Originally Posted By dabbmw2002⏩
Yeah I think it makes sense that women look at men in terms of the whole package instead of just physical.Men and women are different. Men respond to looks more so than women, whereas women respond to smooth talk as it indicates social awareness, confidence and success- which women are attracted to.
But once she's seen the whole package, she's decided if its a yes or no and no further jestering will ever change that.
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You're overthinking game. Game isn't a trick or something, it's just your ability to entice and close.
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Game is real but it isnt a fake arrogant Persona you put on.
Having game means being confident & being able to adapt based on how she reacts to what you say/do.
You can tell what to say next by how she reacts to certain things.
I never understood guys that ask coworkers out on dates out of the blue. If you had any game or social awareness you would know the answer before asking based on how she reacts to you. I hate texting for that reason. «Text game» is cringe af. Brb witty thought out responses but afraid to walk up to a girl in a club.
Game obviously is overrated but you need some sort of game to attract girls. If not your options are reduced to male mentality sloots on dating apps or girls that make the first move irl IE SLOOTS.
Being shy or non social is a no-no as a man.
Having game means being confident & being able to adapt based on how she reacts to what you say/do.
You can tell what to say next by how she reacts to certain things.
I never understood guys that ask coworkers out on dates out of the blue. If you had any game or social awareness you would know the answer before asking based on how she reacts to you. I hate texting for that reason. «Text game» is cringe af. Brb witty thought out responses but afraid to walk up to a girl in a club.
Game obviously is overrated but you need some sort of game to attract girls. If not your options are reduced to male mentality sloots on dating apps or girls that make the first move irl IE SLOOTS.
Being shy or non social is a no-no as a man.
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
Strong this.Women either like you or they don''t
lol @ "game"
it's called not being autistic
lol @ "game"
it's called not being autistic
Game is for f@gg0ts. The best course of action is being assertive with sloots. 99% of sloots love assertive men and want to be told what to think. (Ded fkn Srs)
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
But there is no enticing. She can already see your looks. She may or may not need to be told your job, income, hobbies aka status. That's all she ever needed to make the decisionYou're overthinking game. Game isn't a trick or something, it's just your ability to entice and close.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You'd be surprised how its not common sense for most men. Men are wired to believe they can "fight" for things. That if they do this and this and this the result will come but life is not always so linear like that.Agreed 100%
Makes me lol when misc used to say “a woman knows within 2 minutes of meeting you whether she is going to **** you” as if that is some big revelation lmao
Yah ofc both sexes can tell within a minute or so whether they are physically attracted to someone. That is just basic human nature and basic common sense. More news at 10.
Makes me lol when misc used to say “a woman knows within 2 minutes of meeting you whether she is going to **** you” as if that is some big revelation lmao
Yah ofc both sexes can tell within a minute or so whether they are physically attracted to someone. That is just basic human nature and basic common sense. More news at 10.
Originally Posted By 4everalone⏩
What further game is needed beyond simple conversation and asking her out ?Game obviously is overrated but you need some sort of game to attract girls. If not your options are reduced to male mentality sloots on dating apps or girls that make the first move irl IE SLOOTS.
Being shy or non social is a no-no as a man.
Being shy or non social is a no-no as a man.
Originally Posted By leafs43⏩
Not the same but closer than we thinkThis line of thinking aligns with "men are the same as women" way of thinking and is a broken philosophy.
Originally Posted By ToxMasculinity⏩
Only works if she's into you in the first place. Ugly tim is only going to get reported doing that.Strong this.
Game is for f@gg0ts. The best course of action is being assertive with sloots. 99% of sloots love assertive men and want to be told what to think. (Ded fkn Srs)
Game is for f@gg0ts. The best course of action is being assertive with sloots. 99% of sloots love assertive men and want to be told what to think. (Ded fkn Srs)
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A girl either likes you or she don't, no amount of cringey 'game' will change that.
A girl either likes you or she don't, no amount of cringey 'game' will change that.
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Game isn't to make a woman who isn't attracted to you, all of a sudden be attracted.
It's to enhance. Make a woman decide to sleep with you/ fall in love with you.
It's to enhance. Make a woman decide to sleep with you/ fall in love with you.
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11-10-2022, 08:06 AM
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hmm not sure if I completely agree, a woman's mind is easily swayed by a man after all
I agree that a basic physical attraction has to be there, but that threshold is a lot lower than you may think, then on top of that a degree of game comes in that can put the odds in your favor
I agree that a basic physical attraction has to be there, but that threshold is a lot lower than you may think, then on top of that a degree of game comes in that can put the odds in your favor
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Originally Posted By HayZues
This.Game isn't to make a woman who isn't attracted to you, all of a sudden be attracted.
It's to enhance. Make a woman decide to sleep with you/ fall in love with you.
It's to enhance. Make a woman decide to sleep with you/ fall in love with you.
Obviously if she finds you ugly straight away, then theres little chance "game" will work.
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but if shes open to you, then you use "game"
was eyeing up this girl and she was doing the same, tried talking to me a few times but I shut her down by accident and generally acting like a incel LOL, needles to say attraction was lost.
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Originally Posted By CoolKnees⏩
Having game is knowing what to say to different women based on clues you pick up by interacting with her.What further game is needed beyond simple conversation and asking her out ?
Talking about the weather then asking her out without having an idea whether she is into you or not sounds autistic if you Ask me.
Some girls are traditional & dont want to be seen as sloots. With them you have to act a certain way for them to let you fuk.
Middle eastern women play games & have you chase them.
Club sloots like it when ur direct etc etc
List goes on.
I do agree with your point tho. The girl has to be attracted to you in the first place. But Even as an attractive male you do have to work for it.
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11-10-2022, 08:35 AM
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Yeah, I've never liked game. I watched some PUA videos and thought the guys doing game were acting retarded.
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