Forum
ยป
[SRS] Depression Discussion and Support Thread Part III
10-23-2022, 01:28 PM
-
#9841
Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
Yeah after mid 20's everyone just puts on an act at work to fit in or get promoted. It's impossible to meet people unless you act like that and follow the latest trends. If you aren't like that idk what you're supposed to do.Life just sucks man after a certain point unless everything just works out organically. It's just impossible to meet new people & most people are just fake. Most people already have their own social circle of friends that they've known for years so I'd never be top priority to them in terms of wanting to hang out over people they have solid relationships for years or decades. I feel working less at my current job is still not going to improve anything for me since other areas of my life are just bad.
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
10-23-2022, 01:48 PM
-
#9842
- BigTimePlayer
- Registered User
-
- BigTimePlayer
- Registered User
- Join Date: Dec 2012
- Posts: 8,484
- Rep Power: 3850
-
-
Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Like I said most people are just fake & a lot don't have minds of their own. They just all follow the same type of **** because it's popular & to fit in. I also feel like most people would screw you over if they could benefit from it.Yeah after mid 20's everyone just puts on an act at work to fit in or get promoted. It's impossible to meet people unless you act like that and follow the latest trends. If you aren't like that idk what you're supposed to do.
10-23-2022, 02:03 PM
-
#9843
Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
Yeah exactly man. I've never been like that. Yes a lot of people will gossip or throw you under the bus. It's why i only associate with those that are very similar to me and share the same values.Like I said most people are just fake & a lot don't have minds of their own. They just all follow the same type of **** because it's popular & to fit in. I also feel like most people would screw you over if they could benefit from it.
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
10-23-2022, 02:38 PM
-
#9844
10-24-2022, 09:42 AM
-
#9845
Man idk what to do. At my job there's barely any work to do and i don't think anyone else has much either so we all just stand around doing nothing. People don't talk to each other or anything either. Idk how i'm supposed to continue working if there isn't enough work to even last me 20 hours per week. I swear automation just recently took over or something because there just isn't chit to do anymore.
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
10-25-2022, 01:02 PM
-
#9846
Another day of groundhog day. Nothing ever changes. Same work. People talking about the same things. Same thing happening on repeat yet again. How are people content with this wagecel rotter lifestyle?
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
10-25-2022, 01:20 PM
-
#9847
- BigTimePlayer
- Registered User
-
- BigTimePlayer
- Registered User
- Join Date: Dec 2012
- Posts: 8,484
- Rep Power: 3850
-
-
Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
It's due to them having social lives most likely like I've said. Work isn't that bad to them because they have things to look forward to when they're not at work. What's lame & boring to us is exciting to them which makes life good for them.Another day of groundhog day. Nothing ever changes. Same work. People talking about the same things. Same thing happening on repeat yet again. How are people content with this wagecel rotter lifestyle?
10-25-2022, 01:31 PM
-
#9848
Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
I have a gf and do things outside of work though but I'm still miserable here all day. Nobody is even talking it's just like hi John or how bout that football score every day. It's incredibly boring.It's due to them having social lives most likely like I've said. Work isn't that bad to them because they have things to look forward to when they're not at work. What's lame & boring to us is exciting to them which makes life good for them.
I keep having mood swings at work because of the boredom and monotony of doing the same work every day
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
10-27-2022, 12:08 PM
-
#9849
- Jesteaxckskehdg
- Registered User
-
- Jesteaxckskehdg
- Registered User
- Join Date: Oct 2022
- Age: 56
- Posts: 128
- Rep Power: 0
-
-
I have no friends and i havent changed my life in years, i want to make friends but dont know how and the closest thing i had to friends were people on the internet and the one i thought i was closest with ignores me
Im also single and 28 and need a job but im ashamed to work at a grocery store
People also found out im attractive and my internet friends girlfriends keep hitting on me to make them jealous or something
My ex girlfriend(s) did the same so i broke up with them, at this point i dont care if i dont see them in a long time
I miss my internet friends, im just doing this all for money because im going to be 29 next year and i havent travelled and havent had a friend since high school
Im also single and 28 and need a job but im ashamed to work at a grocery store
People also found out im attractive and my internet friends girlfriends keep hitting on me to make them jealous or something
My ex girlfriend(s) did the same so i broke up with them, at this point i dont care if i dont see them in a long time
I miss my internet friends, im just doing this all for money because im going to be 29 next year and i havent travelled and havent had a friend since high school
10-27-2022, 12:10 PM
-
#9850
- Jesteaxckskehdg
- Registered User
-
- Jesteaxckskehdg
- Registered User
- Join Date: Oct 2022
- Age: 56
- Posts: 128
- Rep Power: 0
-
-
Originally Posted By Joeyw88⏩
Therapy doesnt workAre any of y'all doing any sort of treatment for depression and/or anxiety? I get counseling every other week and also some meds, both of which have helped me tremendously.
10-27-2022, 12:12 PM
-
#9851
- Jesteaxckskehdg
- Registered User
-
- Jesteaxckskehdg
- Registered User
- Join Date: Oct 2022
- Age: 56
- Posts: 128
- Rep Power: 0
-
-
Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
Try to collect employment/(un)emoloyment insurance, they give you money from what they take for you not to workIt's just ridiculous man. I just want the most basic thing that someone could have which is feel normal & I can't even have that in life. I talked to management at my job the other day & they granted me my wish to work less hours per week going forward. I couldn't deal with the hours anymore since I was working what felt like almost everyday. I guess I'll see if it makes me feel any better at all to work less going forward.
I was getting paid for being at home and being paid from what i got working, i made around $12,000 and would just sit at home watching movies or trolling online
10-27-2022, 12:14 PM
-
#9852
- Jesteaxckskehdg
- Registered User
-
- Jesteaxckskehdg
- Registered User
- Join Date: Oct 2022
- Age: 56
- Posts: 128
- Rep Power: 0
-
-
Originally Posted By Azrairc⏩
This will probably get deleted, but i tried overdosing on those pills they give schizophrenia patients to sleep. I survived and no longer fear death, besides people at home putting me down, im good. Fk i want friends and family so bad.srs post not depressed but have recently had IBS and got had a health scare (ended up to be nothing with further testing) but I've been having a lot of mental health issues since. IBS triggering anxiety and panic attacks that led me to the ER twice in 3 months.
Didn't get on any meds, my doctor advised therapy and some med for IBS and also have a antihistamine that is working well to prevent panic attacks. Any advice on dealing with this chit? Seems like I've been having a lot of deep seeded fears emerging and overwhelming me lately especially about aging and mortality. In the past I could simply brush it off and operate normally, anxiety that I think I'm dying or some chit. Not really fun. My doc said make therapy a priority but does it really do anything?
Didn't get on any meds, my doctor advised therapy and some med for IBS and also have a antihistamine that is working well to prevent panic attacks. Any advice on dealing with this chit? Seems like I've been having a lot of deep seeded fears emerging and overwhelming me lately especially about aging and mortality. In the past I could simply brush it off and operate normally, anxiety that I think I'm dying or some chit. Not really fun. My doc said make therapy a priority but does it really do anything?
10-27-2022, 12:44 PM
-
#9853
Originally Posted By Jesteaxckskehdg⏩
Same no friends and i need to get another job but i don't wanna sit behind a desk or work at warehouse and destroy my body. Not working retail again. Quit that chit when i was 25.I have no friends and i havent changed my life in years, i want to make friends but dont know how and the closest thing i had to friends were people on the internet and the one i thought i was closest with ignores me
Im also single and 28 and need a job but im ashamed to work at a grocery store
People also found out im attractive and my internet friends girlfriends keep hitting on me to make them jealous or something
My ex girlfriend(s) did the same so i broke up with them, at this point i dont care if i dont see them in a long time
I miss my internet friends, im just doing this all for money because im going to be 29 next year and i havent travelled and havent had a friend since high school
Im also single and 28 and need a job but im ashamed to work at a grocery store
People also found out im attractive and my internet friends girlfriends keep hitting on me to make them jealous or something
My ex girlfriend(s) did the same so i broke up with them, at this point i dont care if i dont see them in a long time
I miss my internet friends, im just doing this all for money because im going to be 29 next year and i havent travelled and havent had a friend since high school
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
10-27-2022, 02:18 PM
-
#9854
I just have nobody to talk to. Everyone is just in their own little world with watching whatever is on netflix or social media or spends their time eating and doing drugs all day. I'm completely lost at what to do. At work my only coworker doesn't even talk he just sits there listening to politics radio. If i didn't have to ask him something sometimes he'd literally never talk. But neither does anyone else really they only talk if it's about tv shows.
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
10-29-2022, 04:25 PM
-
#9855
Every day I have mood swings out of boredom man. Never fails.
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
11-02-2022, 06:58 PM
-
#9856
Work is so depressing dudes. Feel like i'm turning into a literal robot.
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
11-09-2022, 03:22 AM
-
#9857
11-09-2022, 07:47 PM
-
#9858
Man there's just nothing to do
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
11-10-2022, 10:08 AM
-
#9859
Man there is nothing to do i want to go somewhere and do something/socialize but everyone just talks about the same 2 topics or is obsessed with politics or looking at their phones. There just isn't anything to do anymore.
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
11-10-2022, 03:10 PM
-
#9860
11-10-2022, 06:16 PM
-
#9861
- GaryRidgway
- Join Date: Apr 2013
- Posts: 46,833
- Subscribers: 11
- Rep Power: 333682
-
-
Has this thread been beneficial to anyone?
Beer is my brush and the road is my canvas
11-14-2022, 09:03 PM
-
#9862
Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
kill yourself, naziMan there is nothing to do i want to go somewhere and do something/socialize but everyone just talks about the same 2 topics or is obsessed with politics or looking at their phones. There just isn't anything to do anymore.
11-16-2022, 02:11 AM
-
#9863
- maori-rap
- Dos hand signal
-
- maori-rap
- Dos hand signal
- Join Date: Sep 2004
- Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
- Age: 43
- Posts: 27,419
- Subscribers: 2
- Rep Power: 157969
-
-
Originally Posted By Azrairc⏩
Some of this resonates with me; I am struggling with fairly bad anxiety right now. Getting through work days at home is a real struggle. I have been going into the office a few times a week, which has definitely been helping as it is a change of scenery. It is a boring desk job with little to do, which makes the day go slloooowwweerr...which is the last thing I need. The anxiety was prompted by health issues and worrying. I am taking anti-biotics for the health issue but nothing for the anxiety. I was taking St. John's Wort for the anxiety, but honestly it does nothing for me. The anxiety affects me mainly in the form of obsessive thinking, intrusive thoughts, imagining discomfort which isn't there, very low mood. I could go on.srs post not depressed but have recently had IBS and got had a health scare (ended up to be nothing with further testing) but I've been having a lot of mental health issues since. IBS triggering anxiety and panic attacks that led me to the ER twice in 3 months.
Didn't get on any meds, my doctor advised therapy and some med for IBS and also have a antihistamine that is working well to prevent panic attacks. Any advice on dealing with this chit? Seems like I've been having a lot of deep seeded fears emerging and overwhelming me lately especially about aging and mortality. In the past I could simply brush it off and operate normally, anxiety that I think I'm dying or some chit. Not really fun. My doc said make therapy a priority but does it really do anything?
Didn't get on any meds, my doctor advised therapy and some med for IBS and also have a antihistamine that is working well to prevent panic attacks. Any advice on dealing with this chit? Seems like I've been having a lot of deep seeded fears emerging and overwhelming me lately especially about aging and mortality. In the past I could simply brush it off and operate normally, anxiety that I think I'm dying or some chit. Not really fun. My doc said make therapy a priority but does it really do anything?
Going out for walks has been helping, but I come back and I am right back into it. Evenings and nights are slightly easier as I know the day is done. I have been staying with family members at weekends (I live alone) which has been a great help.
Cook the man some eggs!
11-17-2022, 12:01 PM
-
#9864
Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
Kill yourself you fat piece of s/hitSome of this resonates with me; I am struggling with fairly bad anxiety right now. Getting through work days at home is a real struggle. I have been going into the office a few times a week, which has definitely been helping as it is a change of scenery. It is a boring desk job with little to do, which makes the day go slloooowwweerr...which is the last thing I need. The anxiety was prompted by health issues and worrying. I am taking anti-biotics for the health issue but nothing for the anxiety. I was taking St. John's Wort for the anxiety, but honestly it does nothing for me. The anxiety affects me mainly in the form of obsessive thinking, intrusive thoughts, imagining discomfort which isn't there, very low mood. I could go on.
Going out for walks has been helping, but I come back and I am right back into it. Evenings and nights are slightly easier as I know the day is done. I have been staying with family members at weekends (I live alone) which has been a great help.
Going out for walks has been helping, but I come back and I am right back into it. Evenings and nights are slightly easier as I know the day is done. I have been staying with family members at weekends (I live alone) which has been a great help.
11-17-2022, 05:56 PM
-
#9865
11-17-2022, 09:12 PM
-
#9866
11-17-2022, 09:17 PM
-
#9867
- GreenWave1
- Saved
-
- GreenWave1
- Saved
- Join Date: May 2006
- Location: United States
- Posts: 20,299
- Rep Power: 158563
-
-
Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
How is your sleep. My PTSD gets real bad when my sleep is bad.Some of this resonates with me; I am struggling with fairly bad anxiety right now. Getting through work days at home is a real struggle. I have been going into the office a few times a week, which has definitely been helping as it is a change of scenery. It is a boring desk job with little to do, which makes the day go slloooowwweerr...which is the last thing I need. The anxiety was prompted by health issues and worrying. I am taking anti-biotics for the health issue but nothing for the anxiety. I was taking St. John's Wort for the anxiety, but honestly it does nothing for me. The anxiety affects me mainly in the form of obsessive thinking, intrusive thoughts, imagining discomfort which isn't there, very low mood. I could go on.
Going out for walks has been helping, but I come back and I am right back into it. Evenings and nights are slightly easier as I know the day is done. I have been staying with family members at weekends (I live alone) which has been a great help.
Going out for walks has been helping, but I come back and I am right back into it. Evenings and nights are slightly easier as I know the day is done. I have been staying with family members at weekends (I live alone) which has been a great help.
Jesus is my lifting partner.
11-18-2022, 04:29 AM
-
#9868
- maori-rap
- Dos hand signal
-
- maori-rap
- Dos hand signal
- Join Date: Sep 2004
- Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
- Age: 43
- Posts: 27,419
- Subscribers: 2
- Rep Power: 157969
-
-
Originally Posted By GreenWave1⏩
Quite disrupted, uneasy sleep with "restless dreams"...which is the usual for me during periods of anxiety. I try to tire myself out during day as much as poss so am tired at night.How is your sleep. My PTSD gets real bad when my sleep is bad.
Cook the man some eggs!
11-18-2022, 06:19 PM
-
#9869
Just nothing to do ever but drink coffee and listen to music
PC specs
i9 9900k/AMD RX 6800 16 GB/16 GB RAM/LG BX 65'' OLED/Gigabyte GS27QC 27''
OLED Master Race crew
1440p 120+ fps only crew
6'2 master race crew
Audiophile crew
Metal crew
Introvert/INTJ crew
German crew
If you aren't getting stronger you aren't getting bigger crew
11-18-2022, 09:41 PM
-
#9870
- GreenWave1
- Saved
-
- GreenWave1
- Saved
- Join Date: May 2006
- Location: United States
- Posts: 20,299
- Rep Power: 158563
-
-
Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
I have the same. I recently started drinking a cup of chamomile lavender (very masculine, I know) tea at night and it has helped tremendously. It's not sedating, but it is relaxing. My sleep has improved.Quite disrupted, uneasy sleep with "restless dreams"...which is the usual for me during periods of anxiety. I try to tire myself out during day as much as poss so am tired at night.
Jesus is my lifting partner.
Bookmarks
-
- Digg
-
- del.icio.us
-

- StumbleUpon
-
-
Posting Permissions
- You may not post new threads
- You may not post replies
- You may not post attachments
- You may not edit your posts
