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post 1671805903 11-26-2022, 03:46 PM
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Someone buying your SO a drink at a bar

was having this discussion with my girlfriend and some of her friends and their boyfriends/husbands last night..

Is it ok? We were split down the middle. I say it is not ok because clearly the person buying the drink is attempting to flirt and if you accept you’re allowing that.
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post 1671806003 11-26-2022, 03:48 PM
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If you both don’t know that someone and she accepts its over for you
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post 1671806043 11-26-2022, 03:49 PM
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Not unless they buy me one too. Srs

Even then, depends on the context
post 1671806063 11-26-2022, 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted By JeffPesos⏩
If you both don’t know that someone and she accepts its over for you
yup, this is my thought process too
Hey gideon! Ive been looking at your wall, its pretty frickin sickening bro.

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post 1671806133 11-26-2022, 03:50 PM
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umm hell yeah


love free drinks.
post 1671806163 11-26-2022, 03:51 PM
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
alpha thing to do is to thank him for paying for your grills drink as soon as its delivered
The scenario was if it was a guys night out or a girls night out. Without SOs present
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post 1671806203 11-26-2022, 03:51 PM
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
alpha thing to do is to thank him for paying for your grills drink as soon as its delivered
Would whip our my nuts, dip them in the drink, then proceed to take a fat gulp and pass it on to my sloot

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post 1671806243 11-26-2022, 03:52 PM
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I always ask what James bond and what naruto would do in any situation.

If I think they would respond the same way, then that's the right thing to do.

In this case, I think they both would welcome the compliment like gentlemen while also making sure a second advance doesn't happen.
post 1671806373 11-26-2022, 03:56 PM
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yea, imma have to say she's a conniving sloot if she accepts. i mean i guess if it were truly random but guys aren't just offering drinks for no reason

whether or not she's gonna cheat, idk. but she's def. leading the guy on. then making him crash too
post 1671806493 11-26-2022, 03:59 PM
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This has happened to me before and my bf at the time thought it was weird but we both accepted the drinks it was from an older man and it didn't bother me.
post 1671806693 11-26-2022, 04:03 PM
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is my SO out alone at a bar or with me when this happens?
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post 1671806773 11-26-2022, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
I always ask what James bond and what naruto would do in any situation.

If I think they would respond the same way, then that's the right thing to do.
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post 1671806873 11-26-2022, 04:07 PM
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Nothing wrong with the guy trying/offering(granted he doesn't know she's there with someone)

The test is how your girl responds.


When I was in college i.used to drink for free off the dude's buying the girl I was with drinks. Now as a grown man, I expect my wife to politely decline and aware the man shes.married.
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post 1671807003 11-26-2022, 04:09 PM
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If you're in a relationship I don't think it's appropriate to accept a drink from some stranger at a bar. I would decline it.
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post 1671807123 11-26-2022, 04:11 PM
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If he knows she's yours and still pulls this chit, walk over and "accidentally" spill a drink on him. If he responds with violence, oblige. Self defense.
post 1671807383 11-26-2022, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
self defense and whether you win or lose, a knife in your right lung.

i dunno why some otherwise normal dudes want to fight at a bar. nothing ends well
I never lived.with this thought(fear) until I had children.

Was always down to throw hands over disrespect. Now I find myself walking away when I know the old me would have fuked that dude up. Hard to sleep at night afterwards sometime, but the thought of leaving my kids without their father has me.shook.
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post 1671807653 11-26-2022, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
self defense and whether you win or lose, a knife in your right lung.

i dunno why some otherwise normal dudes want to fight at a bar. nothing ends well
Guys who WANT to fight in bars are gay 100% srs

A bar should be a place of focus to picking up girls and that's really It.

Now if a guy wants the same girl and you agree to a gentleman's fistfight, that can be done without tremendous animosity. I'd like that kind of society
post 1671807723 11-26-2022, 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Nothing wrong with the guy trying/offering(granted he doesn't know she's there with someone)

The test is how your girl responds.


When I was in college i.used to drink for free off the dude's buying the girl I was with drinks. Now as a grown man, I expect my wife to politely decline and aware the man shes.married.
nobody is buying your fat cow wife any drinks lmao
post 1671807823 11-26-2022, 04:24 PM
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
alpha thing to do is to thank him for paying for your grills drink as soon as its delivered and drink it yourself
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
self defense and whether you win or lose, a knife in your right lung.

i dunno why some otherwise normal dudes want to fight at a bar. nothing ends well
LOL I carry the knife boyo
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I've never accepted free drinks from strangers. Single or not single.

When they ask me what I want or come up to me with a drink, I'll tell them no thank you, or tell them to give it to another person like their friends or another girl, or tell them to just drink the shot themselves and have fun. Then I'll proceed to order my drink that I want.

If we're all drinking as a group of friends and buying rounds, sure I'll participate and I'll buy a few rounds myself because it's fun hyping things up. But never one on one with strangers.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
I never lived.with this thought(fear) until I had children.

Was always down to throw hands over disrespect. Now I find myself walking away when I know the old me would have fuked that dude up. Hard to sleep at night afterwards sometime, but the thought of leaving my kids without their father has me.shook.
Yea I can understand that.
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
one of my best friends is a girl (my gf at the time's best friend as well, all there together). some guy high on some fukked up chit (probably meth) started something in a bar with someone and my friend being drunk called him retarded. He called her a whore or whatever and pushed her. i got between them and she was being a bitch also so im feeling retarded for being there but needed to protect my friend. her BF came out of the blue with a pool stick and broke it over his head. he didnt know who did it so he and his 2 other high friends proceed to beat the chit out of several random innocent people using chairs, slamming their heads into walls and chit and throwing an arcade game on 2 people.

moral of the story: walk away and drag your drunk friends out of these situations
Or carry a weapon lol.
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Originally Posted By mr.left
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That is pretty alpha tbh.
post 1671808273 11-26-2022, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted By ********Floyd⏩
nobody is buying your fat cow wife any drinks lmao



Sure thing incel.

Have fun beating your dick tonight. Hope.your mommy doesn't catch you.
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What if they buy her a Blowjob shot

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Originally Posted By HayZues
how does this pic disprove anything? shes fully covered up. all you see is her soft upper arm area but you can tel shes has a FUPA by how her kid sits upon it. look at that foot resting upon her huge gut. sticks out more than her tits.
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Originally Posted By Mr.Roarke⏩
was having this discussion with my girlfriend and some of her friends and their boyfriends/husbands last night..

Is it ok? We were split down the middle. I say it is not ok because clearly the person buying the drink is attempting to flirt and if you accept you’re allowing that.
if a guy buys your girl a drink and she doesnt hand it over to you thats a no go, dump her
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Originally Posted By DieAlone⏩
how does this pic disprove anything? shes fully covered up. all you see is her soft upper arm area but you can tel shes has a FUPA by how her kid sits upon it. look at that foot resting upon her huge gut. sticks out more than her tits.
Sure thing incel.


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Originally Posted By HayZues
Sure thing incel.


Have fun dying alone.
you have no defense. why even post the pic tryna prove something when you cant even back it up? lmao
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