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post 1672665133 12-11-2022, 02:32 PM
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post 1672665253 12-11-2022, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Praise2Allah⏩
never saw my father cry ever, srs. Even when his father died. Maybe he did but he didnt do it infront of us. If you wanna cry go to your car and do it
idk brah. why do women like rock stars and musicians if not for emotion?

i think you're gonna take what i say next too extreme but i remember taking poetry and women being all over me. same with writing. the teacher wanted to suk my dik which in turn made all the sloots want me

but i do agree that the base needs to be masculinity; in other words, its almost another dimension to your personality

as long as you're masculine, doesn't really seem to be something you should worry about

also i dont think showing emotion has to equal being clingy.

brb show emotion (and lets say sloot doesn't like it)
brb get another sloot

solved that pretty quickly
post 1672665413 12-11-2022, 02:36 PM
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Look how pathetic this **** looks



post 1672665603 12-11-2022, 02:39 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
Do you think a woman who can get top tier guys wants to sit around and listen to some dude act emotional all the time, talking about his problems, sulking etc (death of family member, terminal illness and extreme things don’t count).

The only women who will put up with this garbage are low value women who don’t have options

Girls who have options are going to chase winners not sensitive emotional wrecks
You guys are presenting a false dichotomy. You act that there are only two choices:

1) Being a stoic robot who never cries or never shows sadness to a girl.

2) Be a whiny bitch who cries and complains everyday for trivial things.

Obviously option 2 is a turnoff to most women, but does aren’t the only two options.
post 1672665633 12-11-2022, 02:39 PM
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Imagine your bitch seeing you like this

post 1672665773 12-11-2022, 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Praise2Allah⏩
strong this

Shes either broken or low value af or both
You just read the description of a good woman and your response is “she’s broken”
post 1672666033 12-11-2022, 02:45 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
idk brah. why do women like rock stars and musicians if not for emotion?

i think you're gonna take what i say next too extreme but i remember taking poetry and women being all over me. same with writing. the teacher wanted to suk my dik which in turn made all the sloots want me

but i do agree that the base needs to be masculinity; in other words, its almost another dimension to your personality

as long as you're masculine, doesn't really seem to be something you should worry about

also i dont think showing emotion has to equal being clingy.

brb show emotion (and lets say sloot doesn't like it)
brb get another sloot

solved that pretty quickly
because those musicians have status/respect and are talented af, it’s a different ballgame. I under your point but you can’t apply that to an average joe. You can show emotion when you’re singing and get away with it, or even acting, but not in real life.

Also lettuce be real tea, Any sloot that does poetry is a fukin weirdo. I’m talking about normal women, not women that do chit like poetry, Beyoncé studies and stupid courses like that
post 1672666223 12-11-2022, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
Also a women can show empathy towards you but showing empathy is legit the opposite of her wanting to fuk you
This is wrong.

A woman can have empathy for you and still be attracted to you. A woman would have to be attracted to you in some way in order for her to value your feelings at all.

You're just making absurd generalizations at this point.

We're done here.
Originally Posted By navid93⏩
You guys are presenting a false dichotomy. You act that there are only two choices:

1) Being a stoic robot who never cries or never shows sadness to a girl.

2) Be a whiny bitch who cries and complains everyday for trivial things.

Obviously option 2 is a turnoff to most women, but does aren’t the only two options.
Exactly.

They're thinking in black in white without any trace of nuance.

None of them have clearly articulated their points and why they're right, and when a valid point is made they just move the goalpost.
Originally Posted By navid93⏩
You just read the description of a good woman and your response is “she’s broken”
Yeah. He's either not smart enough to understand or is being willfully ignorant because he believes we're not "qualified" to deliver a message.

Many of ya'll are just as broken as the women you complain about.
post 1672666373 12-11-2022, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted By navid93⏩
No it isn’t. Redpill people are too autistic too think of things other than black and white.
Lol no. Redpill people just don’t cry over chit you shouldn’t cry about. Crying because life is hard is for poocies. Crying because your father died is legit.
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post 1672666393 12-11-2022, 02:53 PM
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Originally Posted By navid93⏩
You just read the description of a good woman and your response is “she’s broken”
you can be sad, but crying is too far, that’s crossing the point of no return.
post 1672667583 12-11-2022, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Praise2Allah⏩
I’m talking about normal women, not women that do chit like poetry, Beyoncé studies and stupid courses like that
i also know what you mean. but when you say that, kinda sounds like trash women

but i also think quite a few of those women just put up a front and want a man to pierce the veil... but it doesn't usually happen

anyways, we mostly agree. i'm not saying that a man should cry 24/7
post 1672668113 12-11-2022, 03:20 PM
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if you cry tears of happiness, sloots get wet srs. it means you're passionate about something. that's like the number one thing besides looks and height.

sad crying will dry them up like the sahara though srs
post 1672668663 12-11-2022, 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
What life experience are you basing this on?
I have an answer, but me and you both know you're asking this with the intent to disagree or invalidate what I'm saying.

You can use my refusal to engage with you to conclude that I'm wrong if you like.

Instead, how about you explain how what I've said is wrong?
post 1672669183 12-11-2022, 03:39 PM
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Rolling a tear and genuinely being sad about something serious isn’t bad. Never go full out crying though. All depends how you do it I guess.
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post 1672669363 12-11-2022, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
I have an answer, but me and you both know you're asking this with the intent to disagree or invalidate what I'm saying.

You can use my refusal to engage with you to conclude that I'm wrong if you like.

Instead, how about you explain how what I've said is wrong?
Do you even want a girl feeling empathy for you outside of something serious?

I couldn't imagine being a grown man and wanting empathy from a female. It's unnatural. If I ever find myself wanting or expecting empathy from anyone especially a chick it will be time to seriously reevaluate my life.
post 1672670023 12-11-2022, 03:54 PM
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its a complex issue but IRL yeah crying is a massive turnoff

the true black pill is where it gets tricky; women aren't turned on by 80-90% of men in the first place
majority couples are women settling for a beta so crying is just a confirmation of their existing resentment
post 1672670183 12-11-2022, 03:57 PM
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Well yeah if you were a women who needed to feel safe and protected you wouldn't wanna be with a guy who doesn't provide you with safety.
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post 1672670363 12-11-2022, 04:00 PM
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depends what stage you are in and how close you are to begin with.. doubt it overall. If shes a **** person, shes a **** person

if youre in a serious relationship, you arent gonna be playing the invincible alpha role 24/7. Sometimes your mood is going to change

hell.. sometimes I cry when I listen to a good song and im not even sad.. just because its so good, or a few times when my favorite fighter won srs
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post 1672670453 12-11-2022, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
Do you even want a girl feeling empathy for you outside of something serious?

I couldn't imagine being a grown man and wanting empathy from a female. It's unnatural. If I ever find myself wanting or expecting empathy from anyone especially a chick it will be time to seriously reevaluate my life.
The types of guys your talking about are the ones that stand sideways and look at the floor with their shoulder shrugged up and talk out the side of their mouth with a crooked smile and eyebrows up trying to be a shy anime guy.
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
So are tears considered absolutely haram?

What if I'm crying because it's cold as fuk out?
What if I'm crying because I got a piece of dust in my eye?
What if I'm crying because I sneezed too many times?
What if I'm crying because I'm allergic to cheese?
What if I emerge from a pool and water leaks down my cheeks and it appears I am crying?

Is my tour still over if all of the above transpire?
Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
Seriously shut the f*ck up with your hair splitting bull****.

Everybody knows what OP means including you, you're being willfully ret*rded to make a valueless point.
How is it humanly possible that you could neg me saying I have 0 critical thinking skills.

If someone says don't cry in front of someone, do you HONESTLY with your true heart and mind believe that person has even a .01% chance of referring to getting out of a pool and wiping water from your face that makes it look like you cried.

How is that anything other than honest self ret*rdation
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OP is an idiot, but sadly he's correct on this one.

In twenty-one+ years, my wife has seen me cry twice.

Once was when our son left for the Marines (we'd been together for almost twenty years at that point).

And the other was when I was telling one of our family members that my wife has cancer (just a few months ago). Again, after twenty years.
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
How is it humanly possible that you could neg me saying I have 0 critical thinking skills.
It probably has something to do with quickly resorting to abusive speech to get your point across.
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Agree. Men fell for the trap. I am big on this one. I have seen my father cry twice. When my grandmother passed away (his mom), and at the end of Gran Torino when he died. He said he reminded him of his father. Actually three times the third being when the family dog died.

I can count on one hand how many times I have cried since I was 16. Not because I'm emotionless, but as a man I find it necessary to maintain emotional stability for people around me or my family. I am one of the few men in it and my family already sees me as someone to look to for help, especially physically.

Must be a cultural thing. People are too soft nowadays but I guess that comes with the times. Men need to teach their grown sons to be the rock even in difficult times.
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Agree. Men fell for the trap. I am big on this one. I have seen my father cry twice. When my grandmother passed away (his mom), and at the end of Gran Torino when he died. He said he reminded him of his father. Actually three times the third being when the family dog died.

I can count on one hand how many times I have cried since I was 16. Not because I'm emotionless, but as a man I find it necessary to maintain emotional stability for people around me or my family. I am one of the few men in it and my family already sees me as someone to look to for help, especially physically.

Must be a cultural thing. People are too soft nowadays but I guess that comes with the times. Men need to teach their grown sons to be the rock even in difficult times.
Peterson talks about this too and has some good points; “Be the man that other men come to for comfort at a funeral”. The world needs men that can help hold others together.
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Agree. Men fell for the trap. I am big on this one. I have seen my father cry twice. When my grandmother passed away (his mom), and at the end of Gran Torino when he died. He said he reminded him of his father. Actually three times the third being when the family dog died.

I can count on one hand how many times I have cried since I was 16. Not because I'm emotionless, but as a man I find it necessary to maintain emotional stability for people around me or my family. I am one of the few men in it and my family already sees me as someone to look to for help, especially physically.

Must be a cultural thing. People are too soft nowadays but I guess that comes with the times. Men need to teach their grown sons to be the rock even in difficult times.
We're so close on this it's crazy.

I've seen my dad cry once (when his dad died).

I can also count on one hand the times I have cried, except mine is since I was nine srs. All of them are related to my son leaving for the Marines and my wife's cancer.

Also not because I'm a sociopath, but because I wasn't raised to cry.
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Agree srs

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Originally Posted By Kraken⏩
Peterson talks about this too and has some good points; “Be the man that other men come to for comfort at a funeral”. The world needs men that can help hold others together.
Yea this is a fantastic statement. Actually at my grandmother's funeral she was buried with my grandfathers ashes. He served in WW2 and they did a three volley salut and I received the flag since I am the only one left to carry on the family name. Didn't know until that day I was receiving it. It was quite impactful but I didn't come close to crying. The naval officer speaking and giving me the flag actually had to stop momentarily as he was tearing up (probably 50 years old and tons of medals). Idk it kind of felt like a passing of the torch of being the man besides my father and I have a duty to uphold for my family.
Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
We're so close on this it's crazy.

I've seen my dad cry once (when his dad died).

I can also count on one hand the times I have cried, except mine is since I was nine srs. All of them are related to my son leaving for the Marines and my wife's cancer.

Also not because I'm a sociopath, but because I wasn't raised to cry.
Yea I was raised to be tough and my father was a giant man and the rock of our family. So seeing him never cry until our family dog died in 2015 was example enough to show me how to emotionally hold myself as a man.

Yea people have called me a robot in the past (a lot of females), but I just am not outwardly emotional. Internally I feel it all but have learned to control it.
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