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post 1680045393 04-02-2023, 10:26 AM
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gf left me. am anxious, sad, lonely, cant sleep, cant eat

pretended to be okay for a bit. lying to myself. kept telling myself it would be okay

hurts more that we're still in contact regularly. worse still that I mostly initiate that contact

i lost an average of 1.2lb/day for the last 30 days. lots of gains and bloat gone.

right now i'm completely dead inside. destroyed emotionally and physically

seeking therapy now
post 1680045523 04-02-2023, 10:27 AM
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post 1680045593 04-02-2023, 10:28 AM
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Why do you care? Do you think she’s the only girl in the world? You’re not the last two members of the human species left, boyo. The fate of humanity doesn’t rest on your shoulders.
post 1680045613 04-02-2023, 10:29 AM
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western women arent worth your time.
post 1680045693 04-02-2023, 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted By AdvancedDreamer⏩
western women arent worth your time.
This

I could never be sad over losing a western woman
post 1680045793 04-02-2023, 10:32 AM
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Stop initiating and find other sloots.
Then initiate contact with her teling her you regret sleeping with other sloots.
post 1680045893 04-02-2023, 10:33 AM
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youll need to create new
memory...or youll be on catch 22
and reminded of her,and her vaginal scents for weeks
on your ass...you love math my ass.
post 1680046063 04-02-2023, 10:35 AM
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She's riding the cock carousel while you're sitting around all sad
See Shakebrah's sig
post 1680046423 04-02-2023, 10:44 AM
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why are you still talking to the bird when you are broken up and she's moved out? Hands down the hardest part about divorcing my ex a few years ago has been that I literally do not have the option to go North Carolina completely on my ex, because I had a kid with her. If you don't have kids with her, count your lucky stars that you don't have another 15+ years of dealing with various bs with her because of that.

Assuming you don't have kids with her, you are needlessly making the process of getting over it 1,000x worse than it needs to be by refusing to go NC. Don't do that to yourself. People here give me shiiiit for having a tough time getting over my divorce, but most of them aren't stuck starring down the barrel of being forced to communicate and associate with their exes on some level for the next couple decades, or seeing contant daily reminders by seeing the very walls within their own homes that their ex painted, etc., either.
post 1680046463 04-02-2023, 10:44 AM
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The old you has to break to create a new you.

Tough times create tough men

Chin up fgt
post 1680046983 04-02-2023, 10:57 AM
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Do you think you will ever calculate how much is a sloot?
post 1680047003 04-02-2023, 10:59 AM
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You need to get it together, OP. First go no contact
post 1680047033 04-02-2023, 10:59 AM
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post 1680047933 04-02-2023, 11:16 AM
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I'm sorry man.

What's the whole story, though? Were you together for years and have kids together? Or why are you so ate up over this?

Do you have guilt because you feel like you fuked it up?
post 1680047973 04-02-2023, 11:17 AM
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rational and logical are different things

i quote my favorite game theory book: "it would not be irrational to prefer the destruction of the world over a scratch on my finger"
post 1680048193 04-02-2023, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By jreacher⏩
I'm sorry man.

What's the whole story, though? Were you together for years and have kids together? Or why are you so ate up over this?

Do you have guilt because you feel like you fuked it up?
i caused problems yes

no kids though thats a mess. almost had one, planned on others. too much there

and i feel guilt, yes

i want us to reconcile but after so much time, it seems not probable
post 1680048833 04-02-2023, 11:36 AM
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I know it might be hard to do and at first it will hurt a lot but you need to delete everything you have about her and just ride it out, I think that is the only way. If you deep inside know there is no chance of getting back then that is the path to take.
If you keep on going back it will hurt, and then she will move on and you will still think of her and it will hurt even more when you see pics of her with another chad and stuff.
You are not the only one to go through this, im glad you are seeking help and misc got your back as well

once they lost them feels I dont think there is going back, maybe after years of no contact
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post 1680048933 04-02-2023, 11:38 AM
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Bitches come and go
post 1680049103 04-02-2023, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
pretended to be okay for a bit. lying to myself. kept telling myself it would be okay

hurts more that we're still in contact regularly. worse still that I mostly initiate that contact

i lost an average of 1.2lb/day for the last 30 days. lots of gains and bloat gone.

right now i'm completely dead inside. destroyed emotionally and physically

seeking therapy now
Bro why you are contacting her. If you want any chance of getting back, you must go NC now, or else she’ll just use you for attention now until she has a new man. Srs. Man up. Also go lift
post 1680049203 04-02-2023, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted By beebell12⏩
Bro why you are contacting her. If you want any chance of getting back, you must go NC now, or else she’ll just use you for attention now until she has a new man. Srs. Man up. Also go lift
I will lift today

will try NC, still have her stuff tho
post 1680049463 04-02-2023, 11:50 AM
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Stop talking to her and start talking to other people more. Not new girls, you aren't ready for that, but guy friends and family. Being stoical and tough is the ideal if you are a guy, but if you are having emotional problems there's no point in pretending like you aren't. Hopefully you have some people you are close to who you can talk with.
post 1680049623 04-02-2023, 11:53 AM
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Broke up after Valentine’s Day to squeeze a few hundred more out of you
post 1680050023 04-02-2023, 12:03 PM
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Spend the next year trying to win her back and once she finally takes you back, break up with her
post 1680050043 04-02-2023, 12:04 PM
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Is it because you kept replaying mass effect 2?
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post 1680050233 04-02-2023, 12:08 PM
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
pretended to be okay for a bit. lying to myself. kept telling myself it would be okay

hurts more that we're still in contact regularly. worse still that I mostly initiate that contact

i lost an average of 1.2lb/day for the last 30 days. lots of gains and bloat gone.

right now i'm completely dead inside. destroyed emotionally and physically

seeking therapy now
Been there, done that.

Had the hardest break up with an ex GF of 4,5 years when I was younger, and I emotionally ruined me because I lacked the emotional awareness to overcome a break-up.

Sadness, drugs, self destruction etc.

I WAS SO FKING STUPID !

Dont lose sleep over a ex ever, period. Heart break is the evolutional feeling to not let lose of her because she potentially can carry your genes, thats all it is to it.

Once you realize that you can rational your feelings and move on.

Yes its okay to be sad for some time but dont message her and just block her everywhere and move on, no drama to hold your frame.

If a woman breaks up with you she emotionally distanced herself from you a long time ago anyway (srs).
post 1680051143 04-02-2023, 12:24 PM
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post 1680060823 04-02-2023, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted By badbiter⏩
Been there, done that.

Had the hardest break up with an ex GF of 4,5 years when I was younger, and I emotionally ruined me because I lacked the emotional awareness to overcome a break-up.

Sadness, drugs, self destruction etc.

I WAS SO FKING STUPID !

Dont lose sleep over a ex ever, period. Heart break is the evolutional feeling to not let lose of her because she potentially can carry your genes, thats all it is to it.

Once you realize that you can rational your feelings and move on.

Yes its okay to be sad for some time but dont message her and just block her everywhere and move on, no drama to hold your frame.

If a woman breaks up with you she emotionally distanced herself from you a long time ago anyway (srs).
she was there for me all the time. mopped the floors, helped shovel snow, did the dishes and laundry

she was there during my appendectomy a few weeks back where i thought i was going to die

she kept my bed warm at night.

she climbed on me and kissed me just randomly when i was working

how can i live without her
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Ask yourself what would vascularmanlet do on this situation.
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