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post 1681421223 04-24-2023, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
The best decision I made that changed my life was going back to college in 2015 (I was 34).

The Misc is going to hate that one I'm sure.
I went back at 31. Repped.
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post 1681421943 04-24-2023, 12:54 PM
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Originally Posted By sg1976⏩
Lived through my 20’s like waylon Jennings. Booze, Cocain, Pills. Met my wife at 28 and she managed to calm me down. Good decision.
was it like the tractor scene in walk in the line??
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post 1681422523 04-24-2023, 01:04 PM
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Worst decision: Getting head from this fat ugly sloot in my neighborhood in the 8th grade. I was a former fat kid, and I was just becoming cool via sports, was 6'3, and got my braces off. Still saw myself as that fat kid and hooked up with the fat girl and I single handedly killed my reputation in 4 separate towns before I even had a chance at the good life. Multiple females afterwards trolling me for it well into my 20s tbh.

Still had a good time and wrecked many sloots but was really bad for optics at such a pivotal time in life.

Good Decision: Not letting my oneitis fuk up a good thing I have going. She reached out and wanted to home wreck and I said "nah" and that felt good.
post 1681422623 04-24-2023, 01:05 PM
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College was a massive waste of time and money, I could've saved me the hassle and bought several bitcoins and be set for life
post 1681423153 04-24-2023, 01:13 PM
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Worst: Joining the misc

Best: getting a misc platinum account
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post 1681423693 04-24-2023, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
Did you find a virgin wife? If so, where did you find?
No, but I wouldn't have trusted a virgin wife. Men cheat more when they are younger but women cheat more in marriages later, and if a virgin at marriage will always wonder what another feels like.

Who in their right mind seeks a virgin to marry?
Originally Posted By bradlehman⏩
Glad to hear it. Hope to get to this stage at some point. At least I think I learned enough from my prior situation to not fall into the same trap a second time.
What was the trap you refer to? Learning from past mistakes, including relationships, is vital in personal growth.
post 1681423793 04-24-2023, 01:23 PM
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Best decision was going to school to be an anesthetist. Now I make $500k a year working 40 hours a week doing traveling anesthesia. Worst decision was falling madly in love with a 17 yr old girl who crushed my heart. I loved her more than anything. Another horrible decision was ego lifting doing bent over rows and deadlifts and other exercises that broke my back. Had to have back surgery after many years of 9/10 back pain 24/7. The surgery cured my pain for the most part and saved my life.
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bad:
- sold house in ohio in 2019
- traded in a '15 f150 for an '18 f150

good:
- was @ wekeend drill & made a comment to someone i didnt know, we started BSing, i ended up working at his company
- that job opened up a chit ton of opportunities & if it hadnt been for that id still be making a poverty wage or be in a semi 6 days a week.
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
What was the trap you refer to? Learning from past mistakes, including relationships, is vital in personal growth.
I did not have prior experience in a serious relationship and so had no baseline for comparison. Things often seemed 'off' after the first year or two and escalated over time, but I became conditioned to accept the explanation that it was almost entirely my fault and that everything would be great if I would just try harder not to cause problems. Eventually, she told me I was hopelessly screwed up and needed therapy. I agreed to start going, and it didn't take long before the therapist realized and pointed out to me that I was dealing with someone who has a serious personality disorder, who would never admit any fault, and who would almost certainly never get better. Almost immediately it was like a fog lifted from my brain and I was able to see things very clearly through the lens of the disorder the therapist talked about (covert narcissistic personality disorder), and things that had been so confusing to me made perfect sense. Now I know what to look out for.
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Bad: I placed in the top two percentile in the country in science. I had opportunity to go to a private school but I passed and continued to slack off.

Good: My department was downsized and it was left with coworkers I didn't like working with. I got a transfer. Great personnel. New coworkers every week. The second week in I met the woman I was with for 3 years. I several kaizen bonuses.
post 1681438483 04-24-2023, 06:18 PM
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Good morning misc?

Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
I want a wife and kids but I'm no hymen no diamond crew and girls these days literally havebody counts of 50-100.
I was lucky in that sense.

You'll find the right one someday. I wish you luck, brother.
Originally Posted By desslok⏩
Worst decision ever: joining the misc
Originally Posted By SaviorSelfJT⏩
Good: choice of school and major

Bad: Not buying a house in 2020, srs
School and house. Big decisions.
Originally Posted By PumkinPie⏩
Bad: Getting Married
Good: Getting Divorced
Now you are free I see, where do you want to go from here?

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post 1681452633 04-25-2023, 12:09 AM
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Originally Posted By TheDude8734⏩
Good decisions:
Started career at 21 (can retire fully at 55)
Bought house in 2013 at extremely low interest rate
Went back to school and earned Masters degree
Opened up an investment account for additional retirement funds

Bad decisions:
Waiting so long to open said investment account (after I bought my house)
Prioritizing work and side gigs for additional funds over living life in my 20's
Career and finance.
Originally Posted By UniversalBen⏩
Started running 5km daily and stopped being a fat slob. lost 60kg in 1 year.
Lost 60kg (132lb)!? Awesome job!!

150 km (93 mi)/month, 1,800km (1118mi) /year, is a good distance.

Keep it up, it's a good decision indeed.
Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
getting over myself and stop drinking.


what a ride that chit is man.
I'm trying for my health, but it's a long road.
Originally Posted By gradtech17⏩
Worst:
Getting addicted to video games
It's a phase, I was once.

Diablo, M&M, Wizardry, Morrowind, Resident Evil..., and so on.

Creating one's own game mods (modules) for Morrowind was really addictive.

But IMO, addiction isn't a decision.

How much time you spend on games is a decision.

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post 1681452743 04-25-2023, 12:12 AM
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Worst decision I ever made was to start drinking.
post 1681457783 04-25-2023, 05:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Rajc⏩
brah when i reflect through my life, there could have been a lot of very small decisions i could've made that would've completely changed my life
sometimes i still can't believe how i ended up in this position i am in right now

could've been a retailcel, could've been a tradie, could've had many dead end jobs, could've been a fat fuk, could've never gotten higher education

it's really frightening to think about srs
Originally Posted By Goodguy03⏩
drinking monster zero ultra changed my life
hmm...
Originally Posted By IntelExchange⏩
my problem is that I didnt make any and I let others take them for me
worst thing you can do.
When you have diarrhea and there is a certain risk of wet fart, whether you fart or not is a decision.

Do you let someone else make that decision for you?
Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
Not becoming a tradie

Saved myself from countless surgeries, and my profession is actually respected by society
What's wrong with becoming a tradie?

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post 1683592753 05-29-2023, 12:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Samraiwise⏩
Good afternoon misc!
The best and worst decision I have ever taken is the one that is before me at this very moment.
post 1683592903 05-29-2023, 12:15 AM
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
The best decision I made that changed my life was going back to college in 2015 (I was 34).

The Misc is going to hate that one I'm sure.
I second this. Went to college late (was like 23) and best choice I made. So many good memories and actually helped me get a decent job after. I wish I would’ve studied harder and been more involved with school activities, but hindsight is 20/20.

Best choice after that was moving out of my hometown (was like 27).
post 1683593013 05-29-2023, 12:23 AM
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When I was young I was really shy but I had a big crush on a girl. It took all of my energies to ask her out. All of my mates were like take no for an answer. Do it do it do it but I was tricked by being taught to respect women. Well later that night we were driving on an off road. Right then I had a chance to force myself upon her and show her my powers but I took her home. A few years later I heard an astronaut knocked her up and she got an abortion. Now married to a toothless guy. I always will wonder had I choked her and slammed my man meats in her had I saved evolution
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
when I was 35, my dad tried to give me a crew cut while I was asleep. I woke up, broke his arm, haven't seen him since. I'd rather live in a dumpster then under his freaky ass rules!
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I actually paid for Wes Watson to coach me for a short period of time when he was new to the coaching/youtube/etc. game. I had gotten into legal trouble, wrecked my own family life and wrecked a couple of other marriages, ****ed around with my career... ruined (I thought) what was a clean record/spotless career/great family, my fitness/health had gone way downhill. I never thought I would benefit from a coach, but, the layer of accountability was exactly what I needed to be more proactive and disciplined in self accountability. Now I try to continually have people in my life that can hold me accountable and I can learn from, etc. whether it's AA, therapy, work, finance, the misc, whatever. You can learn a lot from everybody. it also got my fitness back in check and got me back into muay thai and BJJ consistently.
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Good. One of my best friends married his high school sweetheart. I always knew she was a snake, but he couldn't see it.

I told him she's going to frame you someday I don't mean to be all up in your business, but I'm telling you. She ended up divorcing him taking everything. Married another dude, and claimed that she got raped dude served 2 yrs in prison.

Bad. Probably when I was 17 on AIM Swedish girl I knew in high school moved back to Sweden, and we kept in touch she always kept saying "So when are you going to visit me??" I was super shy so didn't even respond lmao I was the classic meme "Pls Respond"

Literally went NC for almost a yr cuz I didn't know what to say, and when I finally replied I found out from her sister that she died.
post 1683639133 05-29-2023, 09:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Vhagar⏩
Bought a house in 2013 for 160k and sold it in 2018. It’s now worth 500k+

Also going to college
I didn't buy my own home but not that I didn't want to.

I worked for a national bookstore chain for 35 years. That meant I expected a lot of job transfers during my career. Actually, the company had me transferred nine times.

It was a difficult decision. I could have bought a decent one with the total sum of the rent money I paid.

But it's the story of typical salary men in Japan. *shrug*
Originally Posted By bradlehman⏩
Worst was probably burying my head in the sand about the unhealthy nature of my relationship with my ex and going with the flow for years, getting married, etc., before I eventually realized what was going on and that it was not normal. I think finally making the decision to be done with it was a good move on my part, but some days it also sucks to look back on spending basically all of your 20s with someone and then having to start from scratch.
We were boys once… and young. I think I was lucky because, in the end, I met the best girl in the world, my wife.
Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
Like the bible states, sloots shall be submissive. That’s the problem with society today,sloots have forgotten their place .
I only have two rules . Never let your man go to work hungry or horny. That’s why I’m single ,asapparently I’ve set the bar way too highfor modern day sloots
Better thantoo low. Considering the alternative, I think you are lucky too in a different sense.
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Best decision was to quit living with my college roommate...all around a negative dude that didn't have a job or graduate. A couple months later I went to a career fair that landed me a job working in a bank's HQ which put me on the path to sales. If I lived with him he probably would've said it was a waste of time and knowing me back then I would've believed it instead of going.

Worst was joining a sports league srs. Too many opportunities to drink that I never turn down.
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I'm only going to speak of things more recently

Good: I took the job I currently have. It has put me in a position with a lot higher opportunities I may have never had a chance to do.

Bad: When my ex and I had our big breakup in 2017 I shouldn't have let her come back. Not because we had just broken up but how she acted. Can't really see her the same after that.

Unknowns: Several decisions I made, who really knows what would have happened if I made the other choice.
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It's killing me right now, but the decision to break up with my ex of 3 years.
She is not a good person but I was infatuated with her
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
I want a wife and kids but I'm no hymen no diamond crew and girls these days literally have body counts of 50-100.
You need to start slaying & get a number thats gonna be bigger than her regardless how slooty she been. Then just never ask.
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ok, I will tell you about one. I was watching one stock on its way down, while I knew this is temporarily, simple mega trend swing. Bought it 1$ per share. Sold it at 1.8 a share. Watched it over a year to grow, to 6, then 7$. Then another 6 months it was at early teens. Two years later I checked again, out of curiosity, and it was reaching 30. It was fun though. If I knew how to read balance sheet back then I would probably borrow against house and hold it with death grip. Would be life-changing.
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Good: started lifting
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Good: Joining the Peace Corps. An amazing experience and where I met my wife.

Bad: Getting an MBA. It was basically free since I worked at the university, but I would have been better off using the time for a side gig. Don't think it's helped my career at all.
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Originally Posted By darkninja67⏩
Becoming clean/sober/dry was the best thing I ever did in my life. Been over 20 years now. Probably be dead if I did not stop that way of life.
Me too
Exercise will get you through times of ill health better than no exercise will get you through times of good health.
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
I overcame previous relationship bitterness enough to believe that a woman like my wife was possible. Not sure it was a "choice", but proposing to her certainly was, as is the choice to start a family with her.

I was a pretty unruly kid, and when my dad passed when I was 15 it ate me up for a long time. Guess I wish I had been a but more mature then, or that he could have lived longer to see my wife and I and our kid that is coming, along with the successes of my life.

Part of me feels his presence still - it is hard to explain.
Thanks for sharing a good story. *bow*

In our case, my wife proposed to me instead, I really wish I was the one. She was impatient as always.

Our marriage changed my late father's attitude toward me for the better. I think he took to her immediately.
Originally Posted By bradlehman⏩
Glad to hear it. Hope to get to this stage at some point. At least I think I learned enough from my prior situation to not fall into the same trap a second time.
Trap, ha! LMAO, I think I kinda understand what you meant.
Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
Did you find a virgin wife? If so, where did you find?
Like a baseball glove, I broke in my virgin wife.

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