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post 1683247093 05-23-2023, 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_
So what are you gonna do OP?

If you lived closer to me I'd help you out.
My honest plan right now is just to keep NEETing and pursue hedonism and sloth.

Dont contribute to a society that doesnt care about men suffering in this way. Dont put in work in a life that will be unsatisfying no matter what I do.

Basically, its lay down and rot mode.
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Hope you’re having a good day OP, my brother from another mother
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
You believe you and your logic is infallible. No one but you can be right. You've never conceded to anyone here or said that you might be wrong.
This.

Dunno if it’s possible but if he comes around to the idea that he may not be right about everything, he might actually become more open to changing things up.

I’m reminded of the quote “It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so.”
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You're supposed to eat the bugs, live in the pods, pay for the single mothers and make money for people who have more than you.
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Originally Posted By TBO1313
You're supposed to eat the bugs, live in the pods, pay for the single mothers and make money for people who have more than you.
lol appreciate the honesty
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Originally Posted By BigDeeps01
Hope you’re having a good day OP, my brother from another mother
Thanks
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah
This.

Dunno if it’s possible but if he comes around to the idea that he may not be right about everything, he might actually become more open to changing things up.

I’m reminded of the quote “It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so.”
What about things you know for sure that are so
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post 1683249923 05-23-2023, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
To your other point about nightmare mode and grinding, I just dont think its possible dude. I literally think there is no hope there. Yes, obviously no matter what I do I cannot shake the desire for this and I cannot be content and happy alone forever.

But the reality is, I'm 32. I have pulled only 2 women from years ago off the apps before the apps became rigged and impossible. I have never one time in my life gotten any interest from women in real life. I dont think its possible. Life has shown me its not possible so many times that you gotta listen eventually.

And then I see that my experience isnt even that uncommon anymore and thats when you know its over for sure. theres even bigger factors in play here besides me just being doodoo.
I am in a similar boat to you OP, so I can understand something of your pain. I am 40 and have never pulled ONE female as none show any interest. I have tried online dating but just got blocked by anyone I tried to show interest in and never got as far as a single date.

I don't like to use the term "incel" though and it can become a poisonous and debilitating mindset. I just appreciate what I DO have and focus on other aspects of life. Day to day I barely give a chit about being an adult virgin. I don't let it eat me up.
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Originally Posted By Banderistan
-"Stop giving a shyt about what anyone else thinks"

- Makes an unhinged rant on vocaroo (worthy of a report to the FBI) raging about other people and what they think.

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Originally Posted By Banderistan
wtf is wrong with you lmao
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Sup OP, hanging in there?
Slayin since I decided to break up with my gf to bang sluts.
post 1683250543 05-23-2023, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Polaris
-"Stop giving a shyt about what anyone else thinks"

- Makes an unhinged rant on vocaroo (worthy of a report to the FBI) raging about other people and what they think.

lmao report deez nuts
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Originally Posted By Banderistan
lmao report deez nuts


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Originally Posted By rollerball
Alright my timing was bit off in the earlier vid. But MC wincel got me grooving.

lmao this slaps

Do it to a metal track.
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You haven't approached multiple women in months? Do you expect them to fall on your penis? Start a youtube channel where you do 1 thing everyday where you are out of your comfort zone. If you don't have a gf in 1 year after trying,I will paypal you 10,000 dollars
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Originally Posted By Polaris
As much as people don't want to admit it, the lol @ incels, "just get your shyt together", etc. types really should be more mindful of the bigger picture.

We've seen this shyt play out before, where things even had to so far as implementing a "bachelor tax" (beginning with Augustus) - how much of that was due to inceldom vs men simply checking out is hard to say for sure.

It's likely a reason why some of these Muslim polygamous societies have such extremism too. Top men having multiple wives, leaving nothing for a large portion of the remaining men which...leads to their religious extremism and the like.

Disincentivize men enough and society will go to shyt (which it already is). People need to be more pragmatic and able to think more long term. With that said...I don't know what the solution is - with all of this "female empowerment", social media, etc. etc. the Pandora's box was opened quite a while ago and I'm not sure if there is any feasible way to put the lid back on.
Good post.

And like I said before, this isn't just about "incels" it's a big problem. If 60%+ of young men 18-30 have no GF and a big part never had sex it's a societal problem and not a fringe "incel" problem anymore.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
you're arguing for being a beta cuck, not a good person. Anyone who doesnt hurt others is a good person. Nobody is obligated to go out of their way to help others. most people dont do that, im sure you havent either retard.
First off, I forgive you.

Dude, that statement is far removed from reality, that if if this is what you truly believe in, that what you posted is your reality, then you are delusional beyond hope, and really need professional help. Like you're in clinical realm metal illness. It's truly a self-centered point of view to the extreme.

You're confusing "being taken advantage of" and "sacrifice". So if you are unwilling to sacrifice, who in the world will sacrifice for you? If every single human interaction is a transactional obligation, just rent hookers.

You don't want a true relationship, you want a free hooker who will be a beta-cuck to you. Admit it.

You honestly don't know what love is. If you can't define "love", then how in the world do you expect to find it. You can't find something if you have no idea what your looking for in the first place. You're just hoping to "stumble" across it, and you're getting frustrated.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
What about things you know for sure that are so
You would probably find you’re not getting in much trouble or difficulty.

To use a crude example: Some doors only open one way.

Scenario: There is a door in front of you that you are certain needs to be pushed. You push it. Voila, the door opens. Your thoughts and what is align, and there is no trouble.

Same scenario, only the door needs to be pulled: You are certain it needs to be pushed, so you keep pushing, and pushing, unwavering in your belief that it needs to be pushed, but the door just won’t budge. You now have trouble in your life, you cannot open the door you need to get through.

Real life: No one is entirely right or wrong about everything, but as Muzzlepress pointed out, you’re the type of person who believes he’s always right, about everything, which simply won’t be true. It’s likely this is why you lead a troubled life, because you’re wrong about more than a few things that you’re certain you’re right about.
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Cliffs: Be a Dark Horse

A hit was sent, from the President, to raid your residence /
Because you had secret evidence, and documents /
On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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Originally Posted By sword_
Cliffs: Be a Dark Horse
Is that a veiled reference to the BBC?

Also, listened to it and 10/10 advice.
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Originally Posted By Banderistan
Is that a veiled reference to the BBC?
A dark horse is a previously lesser-known person or thing that emerges to prominence in a situation, especially in a competition involving multiple rivals, or a contestant that on paper should be unlikely to succeed but yet still might.

The term began as horse racing parlance for a race horse that is unknown to gamblers and thus difficult to establish betting odds for.

The first known mention of the concept is in Benjamin Disraeli's novel The Young Duke (1831). Disraeli's protagonist, the Duke of St. James, attends a horse race with a surprise finish: "A dark horse which had never been thought of, and which the careless St. James had never even observed in the list, rushed past the grandstand in sweeping triumph."[3]

Trump was a Dark Horse candidate and we see where that got him.

My idea is that he should work on his own self-fulfillment and values then find women that admire those values instead of competing in the general dating market where LMS is the key. I'd probably advise this for a lot of men too in these modern ages. For example there are some philosophical and religious values I hold dear even if they are unpopular. I want to find those women that find them rare and want them as a partner as potential partners.
A hit was sent, from the President, to raid your residence /
Because you had secret evidence, and documents /
On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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Originally Posted By sword_
A dark horse is a previously lesser-known person or thing that emerges to prominence in a situation, especially in a competition involving multiple rivals, or a contestant that on paper should be unlikely to succeed but yet still might.

The term began as horse racing parlance for a race horse that is unknown to gamblers and thus difficult to establish betting odds for.

The first known mention of the concept is in Benjamin Disraeli's novel The Young Duke (1831). Disraeli's protagonist, the Duke of St. James, attends a horse race with a surprise finish: "A dark horse which had never been thought of, and which the careless St. James had never even observed in the list, rushed past the grandstand in sweeping triumph."[3]

Trump was a Dark Horse candidate and we see where that got him.
A 5 million dollar fine?

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Originally Posted By sword_
A dark horse is a previously lesser-known person or thing that emerges to prominence in a situation, especially in a competition involving multiple rivals, or a contestant that on paper should be unlikely to succeed but yet still might.

The term began as horse racing parlance for a race horse that is unknown to gamblers and thus difficult to establish betting odds for.

The first known mention of the concept is in Benjamin Disraeli's novel The Young Duke (1831). Disraeli's protagonist, the Duke of St. James, attends a horse race with a surprise finish: "A dark horse which had never been thought of, and which the careless St. James had never even observed in the list, rushed past the grandstand in sweeping triumph."[3]

Trump was a Dark Horse candidate and we see where that got him.
Translation: grow a meaty brown horse cock.

I hear jelqing works.
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Originally Posted By sword_
Cliffs: Be a Dark Horse

This is actually solid.

Apologies for the horse cock quip.
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah
This is actually solid.

Apologies for the horse cock quip.
Yea I thought it was great advice too. I do not apologize for my horse cock BBC quip tho.
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Originally Posted By Tuksonrider
First off, I forgive you.

Dude, that statement is far removed from reality, that if if this is what you truly believe in, that what you posted is your reality, then you are delusional beyond hope, and really need professional help. Like you're in clinical realm metal illness. It's truly a self-centered point of view to the extreme.

You're confusing "being taken advantage of" and "sacrifice". So if you are unwilling to sacrifice, who in the world will sacrifice for you? If every single human interaction is a transactional obligation, just rent hookers.

You don't want a true relationship, you want a free hooker who will be a beta-cuck to you. Admit it.

You honestly don't know what love is. If you can't define "love", then how in the world do you expect to find it. You can't find something if you have no idea what your looking for in the first place. You're just hoping to "stumble" across it, and you're getting frustrated.
huh? What i'm saying is you arent a bad person for not helping people. You have absolutely no obligation to do anything for anyone including yourself. A person who minds their own business and harms nobody is a good person.

And of course I cant define love, I've been alone my entire life.
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah
You would probably find you’re not getting in much trouble or difficulty.

To use a crude example: Some doors only open one way.

Scenario: There is a door in front of you that you are certain needs to be pushed. You push it. Voila, the door opens. Your thoughts and what is align, and there is no trouble.

Same scenario, only the door needs to be pulled: You are certain it needs to be pushed, so you keep pushing, and pushing, unwavering in your belief that it needs to be pushed, but the door just won’t budge. You now have trouble in your life, you cannot open the door you need to get through.

Real life: No one is entirely right or wrong about everything, but as Muzzlepress pointed out, you’re the type of person who believes he’s always right, about everything, which simply won’t be true. It’s likely this is why you lead a troubled life, because you’re wrong about more than a few things that you’re certain you’re right about.
I dont believe I'm always right. There's loads of chit I know nothing or next to nothing about. I tend to try to speak about things I do know a lot about, like my own situation with women.

Your door thing can be right about sometimes, but it isnt right about this
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