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post 1683507213 05-27-2023, 01:07 PM
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Anyone dealt with a woman that had BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder)?

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Holy ****, I thought I met the most amazing, perfect, relatable woman of my life for the first 2-3 months, then it all came crashing down

I had no idea what BPD was until I researched after the fact. A woman that is unable to see grey areas, she only sees people are good or evil. She either loves you or hates you. No inbetween.

After 2-3 months of her worshipping me, she completely hates me and has not spoken a word to me in 10 days over some silly **** (something a healthy woman would forgive in an hour). In some ways I think I'm lucky... Hopefully she never comes back if they are truly as violent and conniving as people say.

Has anyone dealt with BPD women?

I won't put on a front, my heart is broken but I know time will help
post 1683507343 05-27-2023, 01:10 PM
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I dated one a couple of years ago, and my buddy is dating one now.

First the girl I dated, it was both the highest and lowest point of my life.

My buddies GF tried to have sex with me while I was over at his house the other night, while he was there.
post 1683507393 05-27-2023, 01:10 PM
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post 1683507613 05-27-2023, 01:14 PM
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Yep. One of the hottest girls I ever dated and she was also the craziest. Would be wanting sex six times one day and then throwing things at my head the next.
post 1683507713 05-27-2023, 01:16 PM
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Don’t all women have BPD?
post 1683507883 05-27-2023, 01:19 PM
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post 1683508683 05-27-2023, 01:35 PM
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Yep. They can be a lot of fun the first couple of months, but inevitably the crazy gets to be too much. Her going NC is honestly for the best.

If you wake up one morning to find your tires slashed, you'll have a pretty good idea who did it.
post 1683508753 05-27-2023, 01:36 PM
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yup i have (srs)

and it did not end well.
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post 1683509213 05-27-2023, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted By FoulSmell⏩
Don’t all women have BPD?
It's just an excuse for being a psycho bitch.
post 1683509273 05-27-2023, 01:51 PM
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How has every miscer dated a girl with bpd lmao

Just because they’re crazy or some **** doesn’t make them bpd
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post 1683509363 05-27-2023, 01:53 PM
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Originally Posted By FoulSmell⏩
Don’t all women have BPD?
XX chromocels are all BPD plus trannies ofc
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post 1683509493 05-27-2023, 01:56 PM
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just means women without a stable father, right?
post 1683509823 05-27-2023, 02:03 PM
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someone said bpd is hysterical women and 'autism' in the internet slang is men with too little contact from women
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
How has every miscer dated a girl with bpd lmao

Just because they’re crazy or some **** doesn’t make them bpd
Fair enough. I got curious on the numbers,

"Women are far more likely to be diagnosed with BPD than men. In fact, about 75% of people diagnosed with BPD are women"

"One recent study concluded that BPD affects approximately 6.2% of women"

A little over 1 in 20, seems reasonable that many here would have dated one at some point.
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Originally Posted By BuuTheGod⏩
(I posted this in RH but it's dead)

Holy ****, I thought I met the most amazing, perfect, relatable woman of my life for the first 2-3 months, then it all came crashing down

I had no idea what BPD was until I researched after the fact. A woman that is unable to see grey areas, she only sees people are good or evil. She either loves you or hates you. No inbetween.

After 2-3 months of her worshipping me, she completely hates me and has not spoken a word to me in 10 days over some silly **** (something a healthy woman would forgive in an hour). In some ways I think I'm lucky... Hopefully she never comes back if they are truly as violent and conniving as people say.

Has anyone dealt with BPD women?

I won't put on a front, my heart is broken but I know time will help
so the men are different?
I kind of suspect this whole shrink culture of making up a bunch of horse chit. There are like a thousand different kinds of crazy according to them, and it gets a little hard to believe after a while. psychology isn't any kind of real science, it's just subjective bs.
post 1683510863 05-27-2023, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
so the men are different?
I kind of suspect this whole shrink culture of making up a bunch of horse chit. There are like a thousand different kinds of crazy according to them, and it gets a little hard to believe after a while. psychology isn't any kind of real science, it's just subjective bs.
Modern society is the issue. Women nowadays are insubordinate, because they were created to be taken, clubbed and beaten to a pulp until they succumbed to their owner. (Ded fkn Srs)
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post 1683510923 05-27-2023, 02:25 PM
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Yeah I dated one, took a long time to heal from that. First few months felt like heaven on earth, then the crazy and mental illness and cruelty erupted...
post 1683511503 05-27-2023, 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted By FoulSmell⏩
Don’t all women have BPD?
BPD women are only able to think in black or white, there are no grey areas with them, if you make a mistake that hurts their feelings they genuinely HATE you

Normal women can bitch about something small but understand you are still the same man you were yesterday
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
How has every miscer dated a girl with bpd lmao

Just because they’re crazy or some **** doesn’t make them bpd
I know every miscer claims this but she has textbook symptoms of BPD, namely the "splitting" that most women do not experience

You are either a perfect angel to them or a disgusting demon, and only one small mistake can change their mind
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Yep my ex was one, stay clear.
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I did for a year, many say they have dated a BPD but there's degrees of it. Mine was clinically diagnosed and had been on various medications and attempts at therapy but BPD is almost impossible to treat.

Someone else put it best it will be one of the best experiences of your life and possibly the worst.

I liken it to heroin addiction. That relationship ****ed me up for years afterwards and I probably still have residual issues from it almost 5 years on.

Her next boyfriend after me roped and his parents found him so I guess I was lucky.

BTW when her roped (which was caused by her cheating on him and all the mind games) she complained that she wasn't center of attention at his funeral, that's what we are dealing with when we talk about real BPD, psychopathic levels lacking empathy.
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Originally Posted By HangingChad⏩
Fair enough. I got curious on the numbers,

"Women are far more likely to be diagnosed with BPD than men. In fact, about 75% of people diagnosed with BPD are women"

"One recent study concluded that BPD affects approximately 6.2% of women"

A little over 1 in 20, seems reasonable that many here would have dated one at some point.
The reason is because although only 6% of women have BPD, those women date abnormally high amounts of men

It's very likely to run into one because they are always cock hopping
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
so the men are different?
I kind of suspect this whole shrink culture of making up a bunch of horse chit. There are like a thousand different kinds of crazy according to them, and it gets a little hard to believe after a while. psychology isn't any kind of real science, it's just subjective bs.
No I'm just talking about women because I don't suck cocks and most ppl here are men

BPD has a very specific framework in how their brains operate, and they all operate the same

They treat you like a god for the first few months, you are perfect to them, and then they "split" (google it) and do a 180, thinking you're a demon that is worth nothing and the worst thing in their lives (they will truly believe a normal caring guy is an abusive piece of ****)

Then a few days/weeks later, they go back to normal and realize what they did and come crying back to fix it, rinse repeat
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I absolutely loathe people with BPD. Literally every single interaction with them is all about them finding ways to create stupid drama and find ways to try to manipulate people. They're terrible to be around even as basic associates when you recognize the behavior, so I have absolutely no idea what would compel someone to actually want to be in a romantic relationship with someone like that.

And yeah, believe me, I know all about the intense, crazy, wild sex that batchit women can give a man. I get that it can be blinding to an extent. However, BPD women are just so incredibly unbearable to deal with imo, then no amount or quality of sex with a BPD woman could come even close to justifying it.
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Originally Posted By stayhomeneet⏩
I did for a year, many say they have dated a BPD but there's degrees of it. Mine was clinically diagnosed and had been on various medications and attempts at therapy but BPD is almost impossible to treat.

Someone else put it best it will be one of the best experiences of your life and possibly the worst.

I liken it to heroin addiction. That relationship ****ed me up for years afterwards and I probably still have residual issues from it almost 5 years on.

Her next boyfriend after me roped and his parents found him so I guess I was lucky.

BTW when her roped (which was caused by her cheating on him and all the mind games) she complained that she wasn't center of attention at his funeral, that's what we are dealing with when we talk about real BPD, psychopathic levels lacking empathy.
"BPD is almost impossible to treat."

its not, there is a 90% remission rate within 10 years, that means 90% of BPD people can eventually live normal lives if they actually seek help, 35% of them are living normal lives within 1 year

thats pretty huge for lifelong trauma

maybe that rope girl was the 10% that is insane enough to manipulate her therapist, etc, or actually enjoyed ruining lives (psychopath)
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Originally Posted By BuuTheGod⏩
"BPD is almost impossible to treat."

its not, there is a 90% remission rate within 10 years, that means 90% of BPD people can eventually live normal lives if they actually seek help
That's BS statistics, there's a saying amongst therapists, you don't treat a BPD you ignore them.

These "numbers" are commonly flung around now when they weren't 10 to 15 years ago and the reason why is political. They can't be admitting that 6% of women are running around with a virtually untreatable mental illness, that would not be politically correct.
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Originally Posted By stayhomeneet⏩
That's BS statistics, there's a saying amongst therapists, you don't treat a BPD you ignore them.

These "numbers" are commonly flung around now when they weren't 10 to 15 years ago and the reason why is political. They can't be admitting that 6% of women are running around with a virtually untreatable mental illness, that would not be politically correct.
Why is it BS?

90% in 10 years isnt exactly the most impressive stat in the world lol
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Originally Posted By BuuTheGod⏩
Why is it BS?

90% in 10 years isnt exactly the most impressive stat in the world lol
So are you saying that it's 90% if they actually commit to therapy and grind it out for 10 straight years? If so that probably is true.

The issue is we are in a society now which enables all of their bad behaviours, it sort of comes under the sphere of feminism "she can do whatever she wants"

Combine that with the fact the illness itself detaches them from reality and changes their entire mood on a dime, and that's why it's almost impossible to treat, there's virtually no way to get them to commit to the work, they will do it for a few weeks and decide they are cured.
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Yeah OP, quite a few.
They’re very emotionally intense, passionate, can be hyper sexual, great in bed…. But also the type to stab you in your sleep, lie without shame, destroy your life if they feel scorn and their feels always trump the rational reality unless they’ve possible been going therapy and know what they have.

Juice isn’t worth the squeeze.

Combine it with narcissism and you have yourself a amber heard like psycho. Run away from those or don’t interact, srs. They can’t be helped or fixed and just about always see kindness as a type of weakness
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Originally Posted By BuuTheGod⏩
The reason is because although only 6% of women have BPD, those women date abnormally high amounts of men

It's very likely to run into one because they are always cock hopping
Yeah, that too. Repped.
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Originally Posted By stayhomeneet⏩
So are you saying that it's 90% if they actually commit to therapy and grind it out for 10 straight years? If so that probably is true.

The issue is we are in a society now which enables all of their bad behaviours, it sort of comes under the sphere of feminism "she can do whatever she wants"

Combine that with the fact the illness itself detaches them from reality and changes their entire mood on a dime, and that's why it's almost impossible to treat, there's virtually no way to get them to commit to the work, they will do it for a few weeks and decide they are cured.
Yeah 10 years of weekly therapy is requirement

I agree that reality is not on their side and a lot of them think they don't need help and they blame society lol all we can do is avoid them
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