BPD girls aren’t suitable for long term commitment, but they can be fun. If you’re weak they’ll ruin your life, but I’ve had my fair share of romances with them and came out fine.

They take whatever ground you give and gaslight you to insanity unless you’re absolutely sure of yourself. The key is, take advantage when they’re love bombing. They’ll do anything for you and it’s a lot of fun. Then when they “switch” and devalue you, tell them they’re being a monster and you’re done, then kick them out and ghost them with no remorse. Then do your own thing. When they come back sobbing for your forgiveness, enjoy a pleasant period of them doing anything they can for your approval.

congrats, you are even more sick and twisted than someone with bpd.
it's because of empathy lacking piece of **** cockroaches like u, that there exists such disorders in the first place.

I mean I’m not going to argue, you’re right. But it is what it is. I was lucky to be born in to a position where I’ve always had my pick with girls. So I’m a player. I think at least 80% of men would be the same in my position, and most people who vir7tue signal about their morals in dating are preaching hollow virtues that can’t be backed up because they have no choices in the sexual market.

When most girls you want give it up easily, it’s a fun ride but it makes it hard to commit to one. Especially because you know the nature of women better than the average man. It’s hard to commit for life when you fuked some bish last weekend whose husband thinks she’s his perfect princess. You know you have it good now, but know you could easily make yourself as vulnerable as that poor married guy

In the end if you’re fuking girls and then ultimately leaving them, or disappointing them and getting left, it’s all the same regardless of how pure or evil your intentions are. I used to be an airhead and drift aimlessly thinking I was going to find love with each of these girls, only to dump them with the best intentions and move on. Then I realized it was all a rationalization and I’m no different than the girls who monkeybranch. Ignorance of what I’m doing doesn’t make it any different. You probably wouldn’t be all that different in my shoes

Edit: you’re not really right. BPD girls are invariably a victim of childhood abuse, that’s what made them that way. I would never hit a woman. I don’t even emotionally abuse women or manipulate them. I just enjoy their company and tell them to bounce if things aren’t on my terms

You’re dealing with low level BPD if you come out fine.

The real demons will **** you up beyond your ability to manage it. False rape allegations or destroying your property or stealing your money or baby trapping you. You’re playing with fire srs

You’re dealing with low level BPD if you come out fine.

The real demons will **** you up beyond your ability to manage it. False rape allegations or destroying your property or stealing your money or baby trapping you. You’re playing with fire srs

You're a ****ing psychotoic moron you literally just said

"They take whatever ground you give and gaslight you to insanity unless you’re absolutely sure of yourself. The key is, take advantage when they’re love bombing. They’ll do anything for you and it’s a lot of fun. Then when they “switch” and devalue you, tell them they’re being a monster and you’re done, then kick them out and ghost them with no remorse. Then do your own thing. When they come back sobbing for your forgiveness, enjoy a pleasant period of them doing anything they can for your approval."


That is literally emotional abuse/manipulation and you're doing it knowingly to someone who is mentally ill

You're a ****ing monster negged *******.

You’re dealing with low level BPD if you come out fine.

The real demons will **** you up beyond your ability to manage it. False rape allegations or destroying your property or stealing your money or baby trapping you. You’re playing with fire srs

I have power to retaliate against my ex but I have not done it.

This. I've been in 3 BPD relationships. I didn't notice the red flags cuz my mom was NPD. Each successive BPD relationship was "better" than the last, but I'm still scarred for life even deeper than I was by my chit childhood by not going NC quicker. The last one was a relatively more "low level" case on the surface, but here I am 8 years later in shambles. It may seem amazing and then "tolerable" at first. DO NOT tolerate it. It WILL get worse, bro.

this is a BDP that you got to avoid

srs

BPD girls aren’t suitable for long term commitment, but they can be fun. If you’re weak they’ll ruin your life, but I’ve had my fair share of romances with them and came out fine.

They take whatever ground you give and gaslight you to insanity unless you’re absolutely sure of yourself. The key is, take advantage when they’re love bombing. They’ll do anything for you and it’s a lot of fun. Then when they “switch” and devalue you, tell them they’re being a monster and you’re done, then kick them out and ghost them with no remorse. Then do your own thing. When they come back sobbing for your forgiveness, enjoy a pleasant period of them doing anything they can for your approval.

Yep, this is the truth. If you can enjoy the love bombing phase and kick them out as soon as the crazy comes, it can be wonderful. I wasn't strong enough to do this my first time, and it took probably a year to get my head back in decent shape. But now I'm very strong mentally, and call them out as soon as they begin trying any of the manipulative chit.

One of my friends is currently living with a girl who has BPD, and he's just entering the crazy now. She tried having sex with me when I was over at their house a few weeks ago, then the next time I was there, they were having some big fight. I'm sure it will only get worse.

No srs

Im extremely boring in bed so that right there proves I’m not BPD

How Boring are we talking about ? I like my Balls Licked at least

Yep, same here. My first bpd girl did wreck me and it took me a year or so to recover. Since then though, they just don’t get ahold of me. I know their tendencies and don’t trip. One of my main chicks rn has bpd. She flipped out on me hard the other day because I was going out with my boy who was in town. Not even fuking other hoes just seeing him. I just laughed and said we were done. She went ballistic and started saying this and that. I gave her a kiss and told her it’s been real then blocked her number and left her at my apartment.

I came back home and she flipped chit on me again. I said “recalibrate.” She paused and I told her to come suk my dik if she wanted attention. Best head ever then fuked her ass.

And lol @ the low smv simps saying I’m a monster for this. Girls with bpd are going to love bomb people regardless. You’re not making them do it or tricking them in to it, it’s just what they do. And then when they blow up at me and I tell them it’s over, that’s fair game. I’m under no obligation to tolerate disrespect from anyone in this life. It’s not like I mislead them and say we’ll be together forever, or that I’ll deal with however they act. I’m pretty clear about the standards attached to my time and attention. What you think is being heartless, is actually just having a spine. Don’t blame me because the second a girl comes at you hard you start conceding and apologizing like a little bish. Arguably she’s happier with me anyway, someone like me who never yields provides structure and stability

Lmfao at calling others out as being low smv Simps , maybe some of us are just not psychopaths and don't take advantage of mentally ill people for our own sexual gratification


You are aware of their BPD cycle and taking advantage of it by blocking them /triggering them lol at trying to rationalise what you are doing as not predetaroy

Get help dude.

I've had BPD exes on the extreme end, i.e., hospitalisations, suicide attempts and so on. It's sad because that these girls, 95% of the time, were extremely socially competent, confident, and striking. Far more than normal.

But I agree with other poster, I now believe that every girl is "BPD". I think everyone experiences the same feelings that a BPD person does, but BPD people just can't regulate their responses.
This includes responses to "positive" feelings also, such as the impulse to talk to new people, resulting in them being unusually charming and gregarious.

Since those experiences, my entire dating philosophy was to minimise the chance of it happening again.

it's so crazy what kind of facade they are able to put on. like, among her closest friends, there are people who are completely unaware of her condition, since she only lashes out on her so called 'FP' - favorite person. So people in her surroundings can be completely oblivious, which once again makes it seem like u are the crazy/******* guy for leaving such a nice girl..