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post 1686870173 07-20-2023, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted By ALinkToThePast⏩
Maybe everyone should just stop crying over this. It doesn't even fkn matter.
You’re free to post elsewhere or not enter the thread
post 1686870653 07-20-2023, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted By ezmac31⏩
You’re free to post elsewhere or not enter the thread
I said "maybe". It was a suggestion. An idea. That's all. No need to make a mountain out of a molehill.

Also, I already posted my opinions multiple times in the thread. I didn't randomly pop in just to make that one comment. Context, bro. Context.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
I have a lot of respect for people who risk a dry wedding. A lot of guests are going to be unable to cope socially while sober. The prudent thing would be to have 10 guests, close friends and immediate family only and keep it a short affair.

While I think not going because it's dry is a bad excuse, I actually support you not going OP based on your prerogative. Just decline, why is a thread needed?
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post 1686872403 07-20-2023, 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted By kengriffeyjr24⏩
lol at being such a degenerate you cannot handle a couple hours around friends and family without alcohol (srs)

maybe islam was right
Originally Posted By MEDITATE⏩
ya so, people who drink alcohol are fukcing idiots ...lol imagine being happy because youre drunk and enjoy being sh!tfaced while acting like an idiot infront of everyone


grow up op
Originally Posted By sooby⏩
imagine being so much of an alcohol-cel that you feel the need to get wasted in order to have fun at every major event, dedsrs
Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
Most of you are FA kissless virgins, but for those of us that have had a wedding, i can't blame them. People go to weddings and get completely fuked up and stupid. I gave out tickets at mine... everyone got 2 drinks then it was a cash bar. Booze is also ungodly expensive. Some people can't control themselves. Its smart to at least throttle or limit consumption. Just LMAO at alcoholcels that cant do anything without drinking.
Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
100% this.

LOL @ the cope ITT from alcoholics.
glad this opinion was within first 15 posts and for a few others

wont read rest of thread


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post 1686873943 07-20-2023, 01:08 PM
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I've been to 2 dry weddings...One was pretty awful the reception was pretty much people standing around after dinner on their phones, and talking to only people they knew. The dance floor was pretty empty for the most part lol.

The other one was pretty fun actually it was a muslim wedding, and the food was great, and they even had some dancers. Met some people there, and we went to the bars after to drink lol.

Nothing wrong with dry weddings, it's their choice, but I find a dry wedding on a boat a pretty bad idea. Lol I don't think most people would enjoy being on a boat sober especially around some people they might not even know lol just seems like it would be really awkward. Me personally I wouldn't go or would pregame before lol.
post 1686874503 07-20-2023, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted By freeburn⏩
Yeah, but even your post says it all... Every wedding you attended had alcohol. Because that's the norm. Dry weddings are not the norm.

Everyone is saying the alcoholcels are all defensive but how? It's absolutely what's to be expected by social standards in nearly every country at a wedding. No one cares if you don't drink. That's fine. But people will care if there's a strict no booze policy. Drinkers don't feel the need to justify our decisions because society isn't judging us, drinking at a wedding is totally normal and even generally expected.


The only ones thinking deeply about it are the non drinkers... The rest of us just go have some drinks and a good time and don't think twice. The defensive people are the ones in here calling others addicts simply because we expect booze at a wedding lmao. All of sudden that makes us dependent on booze otherwise we can't function in society or have any fun... Lmao pls, this is huge cope. It's not that deep to a normal person... it's that deep to someone who needs to justify their reason not to drink.
Degeneracy is the norm, it's the easy path. Most people are cowards, and alcohol gives them the courage to be themselves, and that self is usually awful. I'm all for people doing what they want, but alcohol is a net negative for society.
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post 1686876213 07-20-2023, 01:56 PM
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a lot of you boozecells need to watch this

some of the comments here are shocking.

"I cannot sit through a wedding without being drunk"

really? you cant eat a meal with family and friends without drinking? You can't chat with cousins and extended family you havent seen in years without being drunk? Not just one time? Of course I get you prefer to have drinking at a wedding, but its such a deal breaker you would consider never showing up or purposely downgrading whatever gift you were planning to give?

Why is alcohol having such a positive impact on your life you cannot fathom doing something without it.

post 1686877113 07-20-2023, 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
None of y'all teetotaler cowards would've dared to speak up if GaryRidgway was unbanned.
Is a person who stays away from street drugs a teetotaler too? Or just smarter than people who poison themselves with drugs and alcohol?
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post 1686877263 07-20-2023, 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
Is a person who stays away from street drugs a teetotaler too? Or just smarter than people who poison themselves with drugs and alcohol?
it is not even that

lmao at this being necessity to enjoy a wedding...

legit lol at alcohol-cels
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post 1686877413 07-20-2023, 02:21 PM
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Originally Posted By atgbrahsrs⏩
it is not even that

lmao at this being necessity to enjoy a wedding...

legit lol at alcohol-cels
its just as bad as alcohols cels who need to be drunk to have sex with girls
"how could anyone enjoy having sex sober!"

brah...if you need to medicate yourself to bang girls.....i have some BAD news for you and what your REAL desires are.
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Originally Posted By kengriffeyjr24⏩
its just as bad as alcohols cels who need to be drunk to have sex with girls
"how could anyone enjoy having sex sober!"

brah...if you need to medicate yourself to bang girls.....i have some BAD news for you and what your REAL desires are.
Is this how you cope? Making up scenarios where people don't want to have sex unless they drink alcohol? Who tf says they don't want to have sex unless they are drunk lmao

Fkn lol nothing mental gymnastics for people justifying sobriety. No one cares that you don't drink except for you.

We aren't even talking about raging alcohol use, the thread is about just having a dry wedding and how it would be boring. Normal people can drink at an event like a wedding and arent all fukkin weird about it.

Some of yall genuinely sound unbearable to party with, imagine thinking you're better than anyone cause you can't handle drinking alcohol once in a while without your entire mental state collapsing. It's so weird to think you are superior because you can't handle drinking.
post 1686878503 07-20-2023, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted By freeburn⏩
We aren't even talking about raging alcohol use, the thread is about just having a dry wedding and how it would be boring. Normal people can drink at an event like a wedding and arent all fukkin weird about it.
No they can't. There's a fair bit of research available on this. "Normal" people who drink increase their consumption over a lifetime. Sure, some people may never become fall down drunks, but everyone who drinks is headed that way.

It's an addictive chemical. What part of that is difficult to understand?
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post 1686878553 07-20-2023, 02:48 PM
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[QUOTE=kengriffeyjr24 post_id=1686876213]a lot of you boozecells need to watch this

some of the comments here are shocking.

"I cannot sit through a wedding without being drunk"

really? you cant eat a meal with family and friends without drinking? You can't chat with cousins and extended family you havent seen in years without being drunk? Not just one time? Of course I get you prefer to have drinking at a wedding, but its such a deal breaker you would consider never showing up or purposely downgrading whatever gift you were planning to give?

Why is alcohol having such a positive impact on your life you cannot fathom doing something without it.

[youtube]3Xa1L01ZNaY[/youtue][/QUOTE][QUOTE=DrewDarden post_id=1686877113]Is a person who stays away from street drugs a teetotaler too? Or just smarter than people who poison themselves with drugs and alcohol?[/QUOTE][QUOTE=atgbrahsrs post_id=1686877263]it is not even that

lmao at this being necessity to enjoy a wedding...

legit lol at alcohol-cels[/QUOTE][QUOTE=kengriffeyjr24 post_id=1686877413]its just as bad as alcohols cels who need to be drunk to have sex with girls
"how could anyone enjoy having sex sober!"

brah...if you need to medicate yourself to bang girls.....i have some BAD news for you and what your REAL desires are.[/QUOTE]And these nerds think that we are the triggered ones here lmao.

Nice circlejerk, you guys should get a hotel room
post 1686878563 07-20-2023, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted By freeburn⏩
Is this how you cope? Making up scenarios where people don't want to have sex unless they drink alcohol? Who tf says they don't want to have sex unless they are drunk lmao

Fkn lol nothing mental gymnastics for people justifying sobriety. No one cares that you don't drink except for you.

We aren't even talking about raging alcohol use, the thread is about just having a dry wedding and how it would be boring. Normal people can drink at an event like a wedding and arent all fukkin weird about it.

Some of yall genuinely sound unbearable to party with, imagine thinking you're better than anyone cause you can't handle drinking alcohol once in a while without your entire mental state collapsing. It's so weird to think you are superior because you can't handle drinking.
You keep making butthurt, multiple paragraph, posts and accusing others of "Cope".

You seem to be a bit lacking in self awareness.
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There seems to be a mix up between drinking and getting drunk. Two very different scenarios and any self respecting adult knows the difference.
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Originally Posted By Polaris⏩
You keep making butthurt, multiple paragraph, posts and accusing others of "Cope".

You seem to be a bit lacking in self awareness.
Is it too hard for you to comprehend that much text at once?
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0% chance i'm attending.

anyone defending a "dry wedding" is some weird socially awkward incel or an alcoholic. No thanks.
post 1686879433 07-20-2023, 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted By 8PointBuck⏩
0% chance i'm attending.

anyone defending a "dry wedding" is some weird socially awkward incel or an alcoholic. No thanks.
People who don't drink are either socially awkward or alcoholics?

You might have actually won the cope award ITT. And that's in a thread full of terminal cope. Srs.
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post 1686879583 07-20-2023, 03:15 PM
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I see a lot of holier than though people in this thread posting about the virtues of not drinking at a wedding (or not drinking period).

What prudes you people are. So judgemental.

You all sound like Vegan cells. Look at MEEEEEEEE. I don't drink!


Screw people who are trying to shove THEIR VALUES AND WEAKNESSES...IE CAN'T HANDLE ALCOHOL OR AN ALCOHOLIC OR DON'T LIKE IT FOR WHATEVER REASONS.

Alcohol is not coca cola. It isn't meth. It's just a beer or some wine or some vodka.

Wow such danger!!! Such risk!!!

How about some people who have to go to a wedding who just want to actually loosen up and enjoy themselves after a week of work and having to be on a boat for a wedding than many probably don't even want to be at but do out of respect for the bride and groom?

My advice is just bring your own alcohol. Either bring a cooler full of beers to bring on the boat or bring some flasks of hard liquor.
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Originally Posted By BeachPro11⏩
I see a lot of holier than though people in this thread posting about the virtues of not drinking at a wedding (or not drinking period).

What prudes you people are. So judgemental.


Screw people who are trying to shove THEIR VALUES AND WEAKNESSES...IE CAN'T HANDLE ALCOHOL OR AN ALCOHOLIC OR DON'T LIKE IT FOR WHATEVER REASONS.

Alcohol is not coca cola. It isn't meth. It's just a beer or some wine or some vodka.

Wow such danger!!! Such risk!!!

How about some people who have to go to a wedding who just want to actually loosen up and enjoy themselves after a week of work and having to be on a boat for a wedding than many probably don't even want to be at but do out of respect for the bride and groom?

My advice is just bring your own alcohol. Either bring a cooler full of beers to bring on the boat or bring some flasks of hard liquor.
Why are you so upset?
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Originally Posted By leoaa777⏩
There seems to be a mix up between drinking and getting drunk. Two very different scenarios and any self respecting adult knows the difference.
Exactly. Most people I know who drink do so to relax and loosen up a bit.

I can't even remember the last time I saw a person knocked out staggering drunk.

So many over reactions in this thread.
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Originally Posted By Polaris⏩
Why are you so upset?
Not upset but you all sound like Vegans who talk down to you for eating meat.

You know how that comes across right?
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Originally Posted By BeachPro11⏩
You know how that comes across right?
Yes. It's coming across like you have an inferiority complex.
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
Yes. It's coming across like you have an inferiority complex.
Explain. Because that may be the biggest reach around since Biden was in the shower with his daughter.
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Okay look at it like this alcoholcels. I think drinking alcohol is stupid. It's bad for your brain. It's bad for your liver. It's bad for you in general.

Let's look at it from another point of view. Imagine you guys told me shoes were stupid, do you think I'd react with as much passion as you alcoholcels?

No, I'd laugh and say whatever.

But the fervor with which you're defending something that you claim is no big deal shows me that deep down you know we're right.
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
Okay look at it like this alcoholcels. I think drinking alcohol is stupid. It's bad for your brain. It's bad for your liver. It's bad for you in general.

Let's look at it from another point of view. Imagine you guys told me shoes were stupid, do you think I'd react with as much passion as you alcoholcels?

No, I'd laugh and say whatever.

But the fervor with which you're defending something that you claim is no big deal shows me that deep down you know we're right.
Bro the mental gymnastics that are needed to compare consuming alcohol at a wedding to wearing shoes is just the copiest of cope I've ever seen
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
Okay look at it like this alcoholcels. I think drinking alcohol is stupid. It's bad for your brain. It's bad for your liver. It's bad for you in general.

Let's look at it from another point of view. Imagine you guys told me shoes were stupid, do you think I'd react with as much passion as you alcoholcels?

No, I'd laugh and say whatever.

But the fervor with which you're defending something that you claim is no big deal shows me that deep down you know we're right.
No, but if you kept going on and on about how stupid shoes are, I'd think you're coping cause you can't afford them

Sort of like what you're doing now itt
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden⏩
Okay look at it like this alcoholcels. I think drinking alcohol is stupid. It's bad for your brain. It's bad for your liver. It's bad for you in general.

Let's look at it from another point of view. Imagine you guys told me shoes were stupid, do you think I'd react with as much passion as you alcoholcels?

No, I'd laugh and say whatever.

But the fervor with which you're defending something that you claim is no big deal shows me that deep down you know we're right.
You sound crazy. As in bat **** insane.

Do you know how many things a day that you do that are bad for your brain? Heart? Liver? Body?

To single out a once in a few weeks drinking at a wedding as being the death of you?

You might as well be a leftist woke purple haired VEGAN lib because the over reaction is 10/10.
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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77⏩
No, but if you kept going on and on about how stupid shoes are, I'd think you're coping cause you can't afford them

Sort of like what you're doing now itt
Can't afford shoes/alcohol lmao?

Alcoholcel cope is off the charts at this point.
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