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Thread: Got a 1st date in an hour. Give me some tips.

post 1686890633 07-20-2023, 06:58 PM
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Didn't want to post a thread about this, because I have been talking to a girl for a MONTH and the date hasn't been confirmed until today.

I thought she was a time waster, but she kept putting effort into week apart messages, so fuk it. I played ball...

Med student so she is busy as fuk. Pretty HTC. Will not be providing pics b/c misc.

We're going to a cocktail bar with ample parking (IYKYK). Hit me with some tips on how to be smooth af. Definitely feeling a bit nervous rn.
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post 1686890813 07-20-2023, 07:00 PM
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she wouldnt be "busy" and take so much time in between responses if you were a CHAD


srs think about that
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post 1686890943 07-20-2023, 07:02 PM
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post 1686890973 07-20-2023, 07:02 PM
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just stfu opie and go with the goal in mind of having fun and putting a smile on her face.


thats it.
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post 1686891023 07-20-2023, 07:03 PM
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She took a week to respond to texts?

Do what you can to get a blowy off her, coom on her face then get rid of her, don’t fuk her, she’s fat so doesn’t deserve the respect of anything more than a blowy.

Good luck!
post 1686891033 07-20-2023, 07:03 PM
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Originally Posted By nickh04⏩
she wouldnt be "busy" and take so much time in between responses if you were a CHAD


srs think about that
Brad Pitt rule has 100% crossed my mind.
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post 1686891073 07-20-2023, 07:04 PM
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If you have an awkward moment of silence, reach over and pinch her on the nose and say "honk"
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post 1686891163 07-20-2023, 07:04 PM
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My tips is pics to avoid negs. Srs, vry srs.
post 1686891173 07-20-2023, 07:04 PM
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Best tip you will get: stop overthinking things.
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post 1686891193 07-20-2023, 07:04 PM
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All you have to do is be funny, attractive, and cool no big deal. She already sees these things in you so just keep up what you've been doing. Have you met her IRL before? I'd recommend getting there early and starting your drink or taking a shot to take the edge off srs you're already at a bar anyways might as well
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post 1686891333 07-20-2023, 07:07 PM
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Good luck, OP! Always rooting for you!
post 1686891373 07-20-2023, 07:07 PM
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Are you bringing her a basket of delicious seasonal fruit?
post 1686891423 07-20-2023, 07:08 PM
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I’ve heard that people like it when you ask them thoughtful questions about themselves
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post 1686891883 07-20-2023, 07:17 PM
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Try toning down your narcissism and inability to believe in the positive lives of others. Both are a huge turnoff to women, as you're well aware.
post 1686891913 07-20-2023, 07:18 PM
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Don’t forget to escalate throughout the date…
post 1686892023 07-20-2023, 07:21 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Try toning down your narcissism and inability to believe in the positive lives of others. Both are a huge turnoff to women, as you're well aware.
The fun thing is that if I had your condition, I wouldn't be worried at all. Cluster Bs do well with women, can't even deny it.
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post 1686892153 07-20-2023, 07:23 PM
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do as your username says
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post 1686892253 07-20-2023, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
The fun thing is that if I had your condition, I wouldn't be worried at all. Cluster Bs do well with women, can't even deny it.
So you do have a sense of humor. Projection and dodging all in a short post. Good luck on the date.
post 1686892293 07-20-2023, 07:26 PM
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**** her for us bro. Lose your virignity. Is this your second date?
post 1686892393 07-20-2023, 07:28 PM
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Miscer... nervous... putting her on a pedestal... going to a cocktail bar as a "date".

Yeah, tour is over before it began. You're gonna be goofy and awkward and she's never going to want to see you again
post 1686892583 07-20-2023, 07:31 PM
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Get out the friend zone and ****
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post 1686892613 07-20-2023, 07:32 PM
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post 1686892633 07-20-2023, 07:33 PM
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take some pepsi with you and do some before meeting her so you're alpha maxxed and smoothmaxxed and lowinhibmaxxed
post 1686892643 07-20-2023, 07:33 PM
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Pretend this is a practice date to give u more experience & prepare for your REAL hbb wife you’re gonna meet later down the road
post 1686892653 07-20-2023, 07:33 PM
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Originally Posted By IlChosenOne⏩
I’ve heard that people like it when you ask them thoughtful questions about themselves
Have you had success using this method on girls
post 1686892813 07-20-2023, 07:36 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
He has to overthink. Life isn't a fair game, equal inputs will lead to vastly different outputs for different people.

"Just do it" will work for some people but it clearly doesn't work for OP. When the default solution doesn't produce the desired result, the correct move is to go to the drawing board to figure out a different solution, i.e. overthinking.
Just drink before
post 1686892913 07-20-2023, 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted By suave2000⏩
take some pepsi with you and do some before meeting her so you're alpha maxxed and smoothmaxxed and lowinhibmaxxed
I did this chit once and everything was going great until I went to the bathroom and did a line, then when I got back to the girl my nose started running so fkn bad she realized what I did and she basically noped out. She was hot as fuk too I was so mad at myself lol
Originally Posted By DomMJr⏩
Just drink before
This. Just don’t be drunk
post 1686893103 07-20-2023, 07:43 PM
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op make sure you make confident frequent eye contact and hold it for 3-5seconds at least.
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Clean the tubes
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Originally Posted By Mountaineer92⏩
just stfu opie and go with the goal in mind of having fun and putting a smile on her face.


thats it.
yeah this. if you're still at the stage of overthinking things and being outcome-dependent then you need to get some more losses under your belt. Not saying go into it with the intent to fail but be OK with the date not working out in the end as it will make you more comfortable going into the date. Make an effort to be affable and engage with her. She already likes you well enough to want to meet up with you, so just chill and go with it.
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