She may have many orbiters. Hard to say, but read the text she just sent me. It just blew my f'ing mind.Thank you for saying this because that's what I just did, hehe. I hope it's the right move. I don't want to play hard to get when she's displaying interest. I told her something like, "Yes, it's okay to say that. Can I tell you I was fantasizing about kissing you at lunch when sitting across the table from you? You have a nice smile and those lips!!! (hot emoji)"

I actually have semen in my boxers from texting her.

What you said was perfect. You expressed your interest in an intimate relationship and she is flirting back. I feel bad for this bird's bf. She's going out with male friends and meeting up with dudes that are interested in her. Kinda trashy but the kind of trashy that you need in your life right now. Keep up the good work player.

tell her that your pulsating meat missile in your pants is full of desire and ambition to penetrate her sugar walls if m'lady will be a good little slut.

I was kissing and massaging a chick the other day that I haven't slept with yet and I had so much pre-cum in my shorts that it was showing through and this 31 year old bird literally thought I came in my shorts. She started talking about the scene from American Pie and I didn't know how to tell her that it wasn't from an orgasm but just pre-cum. You would think a grown woman knows the difference. She was turned on that I was into her so much. Woman love seeing that you can't control yourself infront of them.

Thank you. I like how her bf is not the guy she hangs out with on the weekends, or, seemingly, the weekdays for that matter. I am trying my best to show her what I've known since the moment I first interacted with her: I'm VERY interested in getting to know her and being intimate.Lol that first sentence may be too much, but I'm guessing the alcohol is affecting her, lowering her inhibitions and the truth is coming out. LOL! It doesn't take much for me if I'm into a woman. I remember a first date I went on at the end of '21 because when I first met this woman IRL I was shaking violently and she put her hand on my thigh to try to help it. I wore jeans that helped my semi-boner from making a scene.

You should get them checked again and increase them if necessary. It could help your game (srs)

Luc1fer is gonna be fuming when he reads this text.

I guess I'm a nerd.I guess I'm a nerd.

I may do that soon, actually. I need to have my annual physical and I'd like some extra blood work / testing. Increase them how? I think about sex all day. If I increased them wouldn't that be even worse for my mental and physical?

Any help? I'm not sure what to say here...probably replying in a few minutes. I'd be pretty sad if this is how she feels about me but doesn't want to pursue something with me. Doesn't really make sense, considering the time we've invested in each other. Anyway, I'm OPTIMISTIC. She seems to want me...I think?

Edit: I replied to her. The text frequency between us is much higher than usual because it's the weekend and she's been drinking. I didn't want to leave her hanging, but I gave her a heartfelt message that doesn't come across as desperate or anything. After all, we haven'tformally dated yet.

She probably needs you to pay for something boyo

Fuark, so close! You absolutely could have hooked up with her last night.

The classic "what are you doing right now" --> interested in meeting up. Hard to tell where she was or what the "place out" for her was since it's all blurred above, but she said she was looking to "go crazy", "stay somewhat alive", etc... that could have been with you. Once mutual attraction is established there's no need to text back and forth about it -- you need to act like a man and make it happen in person. All that said, good progress brah. You'll know for next time.

Also, if her bf believes they're in a committed, monogamous relationship then this ho is absolute straight trash. Don't get any deeper in your feels.

You guys are clearly showing your interest

If you wanted it you should have jumped on it. You were at the crux point to get her out or get her somewhere

Just sitting there texting wasn't going to do chit

She was telling you to make a move

Women have enough options they'll just think you're disinterested and move on

reps for cliffs

Ton of OG miscers falling for 10/10 troll job of the year

"Ï don't know how to explore this" literally means "I want you to make a move on me now". And then this is what OP does?

"but I gave her a heartfelt message that doesn't come across as desperate or anything."

The fuk brah you could've been deep inside those sugar walls last night and you gave her a heartfelt message? Are you GAY or what?

Idk how I feel about this. On one hand I’m rooting for OP but on the other I think pursuing a girl with a BF and watching her do this dance of “I have a bf but I also think you’re cute” is pretty pathetic.

Here's part of the most recent text she sent me:


Lol maybe. She seems to like it when I pay for lunch.She has 3 friends over at her apartment and she was drunk, so I don't think hooking up last night was really feasible. I wouldn't want the first time we rub nasties to be when she's drunk. I get what you mean about taking action though. I displayed my interest and told her I was fantasizing about kissing her yesterday as we sat across the table from each other. I'm starting to think she doesn't have a bf and made him up in an effort to push me away. It's possible he is real, but I don't see why she's never mentioned hanging out with him.She was really drunk and at her apartment with 3 friends so it wasn't the time to make my move. We've communicated with each other for 3 and a half weeks straight, and I don't see that changing just because of what happened last night.There are so many things to describe, but the current situation is I have a crush on a woman I met 3.5 weeks ago at the gym. She finally expressed interest me in last night. I'm trying to see her again soon.No trolling whatsoever.She was drunk, at her apartment, and with 3 friends. I don't want to be seen as a desperate predator by asking for her address and trying to take advantage of a drunk woman.

We still don't know if this bf is real or not. I'm not going to bring it up over text, but may do so (if I feel it's appropriate) IRL. I'm not sure what to do now in terms of when to see her again. My current thought is to ask her, "When can I see you again?"

Any advice? I am so confused. I really like her. I think she's making up the boyfriend.

OP slowing turning into a Chad?

I hope so! The cutting is helping. I bought new cargo shorts and shoes yesterday for cheap from Target and got compliments on them from the woman texting me above when she saw me. I really want to date this woman.

cliffs on whether the gal is dialed

[QUOTE=ArCaNe66 post_id=1689470213]Any advice? I am so confused. I really like her. I think she's making up the boyfriend.

[/img]https://i.imgur.com/MrOL72l.png[/img][/QUOTE]Tell her that you two can be saying those things face to face from now on. Let her know right off the bat that you're interested having sexxors with her, and don't let her off the hook.

Don't be one of those forever orbiters. She'll either cheat on her BF, or she won't, in which case, abort.

What do you mean by that?She knows I'm interested in her. I told her I was fantasizing about kissing her when we were sitting across from each other yesterday at lunch. I will reply in a few minutes. I agree - we should be saying this face to face.

[QUOTE=ArCaNe66 post_id=1689470213]Any advice? I am so confused. I really like her. I think she's making up the boyfriend.

[img]https://i.imgur.com/MrOL72l.png[/img[/QUOTE]Why would she lie about having a bf?
Why is she showing him the texts?
Why would he be okay with her seeing you again?
Why would he tolerate this and stay with her?
Why is she playing these weird games?
Why does the universe exist?

1. I believe the only reason she would lie is because she, for some reason, has this thing where she pushes people away. She said it herself:



2. This one makes no sense to me. She would clearly have to show him (assuming this guy exists), but why? Guilty conscience?
3. If he exists and they both want to be together, then she's probably going to go NC on me.
4. If he exists, no idea. I said it earlier in the thread, but he's either a closet homo or a cuck if he actually puts up with this behavior.
5. I don't know. 3.5 weeks of long texts, 2 meetups, and her confession that she has a huge crush on me and finds me really attractive then does a 180 once she's sober. It is leaving me sad and disappointed at the moment. Her most recent text to me had something that virtually NO text had up until that point: her ignoring a question of mine and not commenting on something I said.
6. Don't know, but this whole situation with her is starting to feel like a cruel joke.

Damn. The part in her reply that starts withDis blurred out. It's supposedly the name of her boyfriend. I'm open to suggestions on how to reply to this, but I'm thinking I'll give her space and agree to take apause.

wow, did Dufus McCuckerson finally run out of blue pills and realize it's a bad idea to let your gf have male friends

Lol'd at this. That's a good question. I wonder what's going to happen. I'm going to try to move on from this. Not sure if I need to reply to her, really. This thread details the insane high I was on late last night and the low point that I'm at now. It'sjusta woman I made an incredible connection with and find incredibly attractive. I need to better myself (especially lookswise) so more women actually want to be with me.

If you still have any interest in this chick don't reply. Keep some mystery and let her wonder what you're thinking. Do that and you'll eventually hear from her -- a girl like this hates it when you stop giving her attention.