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post 1694048133 11-28-2023, 09:39 AM
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JFL, "lakes" (we call that a pond in Florida) and dood thinks hes in the game. Sad! If it don't look like this after your day at the sandbar, no one cares about your scenery, 'bud'



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post 1694048223 11-28-2023, 09:41 AM
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
All the people in this thread, ask yourself the question from what you see around you. All of you have to know some guys with stay at home wives.... do their women cook them 3 meals a day, every day? Or do you see these guys getting take out lunches.
My wife cooks 75% of what I eat. I do my own smoothie for breakfast and I generally take leftovers for lunch. I almost never eat takeout.
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Originally Posted By wrassler45⏩
My wife is a stay at home mom, and I wouldn't have it any other way. We are about to have our fifth kid. It would be ridiculous to send them all to day care, when someone who loves them could spend the day with them.

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Avoided the question. Does she fix you 3 meals a day, DAILY?
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
Kept women have always been a flex. The whole "stay at home wife" meme started in Victorian England, when middle class Europoors finally got enough money to imitate the gentry.

Women have always worked, but it's been chit around the home. They were usually pregnant and almost always had childcare to manage. Driving off to a cube and working for Mr. Shekelberg is the unnatural part.
Being able to actually have stay at home wives feels like it would be linked to higher birth rates and vice versa
post 1694048283 11-28-2023, 09:42 AM
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Originally Posted By FarmersSon⏩
I love you bro, but 7 acres is a hobby, not a farm. Respect for finding a woman who will butcher though. My wife wants none of that.
Wish I had more, but we are happy with what we've got especially since I work full time as an engineer. We've talked about selling, me quitting and getting a proper farm but now is not the right time. Mainly running boer goats, rhode island red chickens and ipp and kunkune pigs.

I kill all the animals then she skins and takes out the organs then I section everything, it works well for us.
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post 1694048323 11-28-2023, 09:43 AM
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post 1694048353 11-28-2023, 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
Kept women have always been a flex. The whole "stay at home wife" meme started in Victorian England, when middle class Europoors finally got enough money to imitate the gentry.

Women have always worked, but it's been chit around the home. They were usually pregnant and almost always had childcare to manage. Driving off to a cube and working for Mr. Shekelberg is the unnatural part.
There's nothing wrong with a woman wanting to be home with her children. It's a actually a really nice thing. However, the notion of a stay at home wife generally gets romanticized and idealized by incel types.

"Bitch, you're gonna quit your job and stay home and have my kids and clean the schitstains out of my underwear and cook my meals and you do what you're told"


"Why can't I get a good conservative woman I'm a nice guy"
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post 1694048363 11-28-2023, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
Damn, congrats brah. Must be a zoo in that house

How do you fit all those kiddos under one roof?



Beautiful place. Definitely one of the most peaceful experiences to chill by a lake.




Can't imagine being so useless and incompetent that I'd solely rely on another human being to cook a meal. I'm not a child.

Also lol @ eating 3 meals a day like a pleb
You pay all the bills and your wife doesnt even cook for you? And you cope with "im tough I can cook my own meals" that isnt the point, she is leeching off you bro
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Originally Posted By dingler⏩
Wish I had more, but we are happy with what we've got especially since I work full time as an engineer. We've talked about selling, me quitting and getting a proper farm but now is not the right time. Mainly running boer goats, rhode island red chickens and ipp and kunkune pigs.

I kill all the animals then she skins and takes out the organs then I section everything, it works well for us.
7 acres seems nice. I have a few but am working towards getting a real hobby farm so we can fully live the harvest moon lifestyle over here (srs).
Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
You pay all the bills and your wife doesnt even cook for you? And you cope with "im tough I can cook my own meals" that isnt the point, she is leeching off you bro
Never claimed any of this, you're just drawing assumptions. See above post
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post 1694048463 11-28-2023, 09:45 AM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
There's nothing wrong with a woman wanting to be home with her children. It's a actually a really nice thing. However, the notion of a stay at home wife generally gets romanticized and idealized by incel types.

"Bitch, you're gonna quit your job and stay home and have my kids and clean the schitstains out of my underwear and cook my meals and you do what you're told"


"Why can't I get a good conservative woman I'm a nice guy"
Youre aruging a grown adult being provided with all life expenses shouldnt atleast return the favor by cooking and cleaning for the man who works all day? she should just lounge around because she has a vagina?
post 1694048513 11-28-2023, 09:45 AM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
Damn, congrats brah. Must be a zoo in that house

How do you fit all those kiddos under one roof?
Raw dog or no dog always bro

Lol I have some spirited kids, but they actually clean up after themselves (thanks to my wife staying at home and teaching them). It makes life chaotic but being a dad is what I am meant to be. Never realized it until I held my first.
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Lmao always at this quote
post 1694048583 11-28-2023, 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted By wrassler45⏩
Raw dog or no dog always bro

Lol I have some spirited kids, but they actually clean up after themselves (thanks to my wife staying at home and teaching them). It makes life chaotic but being a dad is what I am meant to be. Never realized it until I held my first.



Lmao always at this quote
Based and jizz-pilled, boyo.

mirin' potency of your baby batter (no homo)
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post 1694048653 11-28-2023, 09:48 AM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
7 acres seems nice. I have a few but am working towards getting a real hobby farm so we can fully live the harvest moon lifestyle over here (srs).
It's a lot of work to get things going but once you start eating food that you raised/grew it's all worth it.

We just processed our first goats and pigs that we raised since birth this year. It's very fulfilling knowing you arn't eating hormone filled chit tier meat from the store anymore.

Let me know if you have any questions about anything, there's a lot to learn and do but there are tons of resources available.
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Originally Posted By dingler⏩
Wish I had more, but we are happy with what we've got especially since I work full time as an engineer. We've talked about selling, me quitting and getting a proper farm but now is not the right time. Mainly running boer goats, rhode island red chickens and ipp and kunkune pigs.

I kill all the animals then she skins and takes out the organs then I section everything, it works well for us.
Just razzing a little. 7 acres of land is really a lot to take care if you're doing it on the side. My house is on 2 acres, and I have a 5-acre pasture adjacent to my house and I'd never keep up in the summer without help from my family.
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Originally Posted By FarmersSon⏩
Just razzing a little. 7 acres of land is really a lot to take care if you're doing it on the side. My house is on 2 acres, and I have a 5-acre pasture adjacent to my house and I'd never keep up in the summer without help from my family.
Are you raising livestock?
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Wife unit stayed home a few years after having a kid. It was kind of nice honestly. Things just seemed less hectic outside of work.

Still though, having two incomes opens a ton of luxury, especially in the quality of vacations. Not sure I want to go back to the driving a long distance to a crowded resort area type of vacations.
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
Avoided the question. Does she fix you 3 meals a day, DAILY?
My wife cooks as many meals as I would ask. She cleans every single day. My wife is a PA that owns part of a med spa business just in name, so she even brings in a income.

I will more than happily admit that I married someone who is a rarity, but a good stay at home mom is worth her weight in gold. You can't be as anti feminist as the misc but then demonize a woman taking care of her family. Any one who would take advantage of the situation would be a leach anywhere, and that's just as much on the husband for marrying someone like that
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Originally Posted By dingler⏩
It's a lot of work to get things going but once you start eating food that you raised/grew it's all worth it.

We just processed our first goats and pigs that we raised since birth this year. It's very fulfilling knowing you arn't eating hormone filled chit tier meat from the store anymore.

Let me know if you have any questions about anything, there's a lot to learn and do but there are tons of resources available.
Thanks for the offer, boyo. I grow a lot of my own veg and medicinal herbs and stuff but I'm 100% definitely too much of a bitch to slaughter my own animals despite generally liking the idea of raising your own meat for slaughter. I raise hens for eggs.
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Originally Posted By dingler⏩
Are you raising livestock?
My cousin runs a couple of his wagyu beef cows on it over the summer. At this point I don't really want to take care of animals over winter (my wussitis starts acting up). We've talked about buying in the spring and eating/butchering animals in the fall, but my dad did that for years and said he never made money consistently. He tells me to actually make money with cows you have to breed them yourself, then raise and sell the calves. We have good access to high quality meat where I live so I haven't been worried about that aspect yet.

My grandpa had a lot of cows (maybe 500) and I spent all my growing up winters as the Sunday morning cow feeder.
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Originally Posted By FarmersSon⏩
My cousin runs a couple of his wagyu beef cows on it over the summer. At this point I don't really want to take care of animals over winter (my wussitis starts acting up). We've talked about buying in the spring and eating/butchering animals in the fall, but my dad did that for years and said he never made money consistently. He tells me to actually make money with cows you have to breed them yourself, then raise and sell the calves. We have good access to high quality meat where I live so I haven't been worried about that aspect yet.

My grandpa had a lot of cows (maybe 500) and I spent all my growing up winters as the Sunday morning cow feeder.
What are your thoughts on having a cow essentially for fun on a hobby farm? Almost like a pet or a sanctuary. Unrealistic? Delusional? Possible? I've always had this fantasy of having a small homestead with a few farm animals as pets basically. A cow, a goat, a sheep, a pig. I've volunteered at non profits for many years and always had this nugget of a goal in my mind to start a tiny sanctuary for unwanted farm animals on my small hobby farm property.
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
fuking lunch and just watches youtube all day and goes hangs out with her immigrant friends.
Well there is your problem. You don't left been have friends.
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
What are your thoughts on having a cow essentially for fun on a hobby farm? Almost like a pet or a sanctuary. Unrealistic? Delusional? Possible? I've always had this fantasy of having a small homestead with a few farm animals as pets basically. A cow, a goat, a sheep, a pig. I've volunteered at non profits for many years and always had this nugget of a goal in my mind to start a tiny sanctuary for unwanted farm animals on my small hobby farm property.
I think it's doable if you have a little space. If you have good pasture and water for irrigation an acre will maybe feed a cow for the summer. All of those animals are actually pretty friendly if they're handled regularly. My old avi where it looked like I was kissing a cow was actually me feeding it an apple that I had in my teeth. My cousin always comments how much tamer the cows in our pasture are versus the ones that get put on rangeland for the summer. For winter you'd have to feed them. Hay for the cow, goat, and sheep. I don't remember what we fed the pigs. I guess it was too long ago and I didn't pay attention. I don't have a good feel for how much they would eat or what that would cost right now.
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Originally Posted By Brommando⏩
Exactly the relationship should be 50-50
So she couldn't hold up her end by doing a different task than you? Are wages the only "acceptable" contribution? It's not women who've gotten rid of the stay at home wife thing. The huge majority of men don't want stay at home wives because they don't value anything except money.
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Wife stays at home and she does the cooking all week and my lunches are usually leftovers, but sometimes something she packs for me fresh. I do the outside work of the lawn, she stays home takes care of kids and house work....a great arrangement for us.
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I'm confused by this thread, OP. Seems like you're making up strawmen. Wives with zero kids who are stay at home wives, having 2 hour chardonnay laden lunches with their girlfriends? You don't know people like that, at most you know one. They're rare. Wives who stay at home practically all have at least 2 kids they're taking care of. Changing diapers, reading lessons, running errands, etc. How's that a problem? Sure there's a gray area where the kids are all in school and the wife is still 100% at home, but that's up to individual circumstances and even then can still make sense.
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Originally Posted By FarmersSon⏩
I think it's doable if you have a little space. If you have good pasture and water for irrigation an acre will maybe feed a cow for the summer. All of those animals are actually pretty friendly if they're handled regularly. My old avi where it looked like I was kissing a cow was actually me feeding it an apple that I had in my teeth. My cousin always comments how much tamer the cows in our pasture are versus the ones that get put on rangeland for the summer. For winter you'd have to feed them. Hay for the cow, goat, and sheep. I don't remember what we fed the pigs. I guess it was too long ago and I didn't pay attention. I don't have a good feel for how much they would eat or what that would cost right now.
Much appreciated! This gives me hope. I really love animals and have always had an affinity for farm animals. I can see myself having a few in a nice heated barn and treat it like a mini little sanctuary.
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
Much appreciated! This gives me hope. I really love animals and have always had an affinity for farm animals. I can see myself having a few in a nice heated barn and treat it like a mini little sanctuary.
you might be able to get your hobby farm tax excempt status as an animal sanctuary
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
Much appreciated! This gives me hope. I really love animals and have always had an affinity for farm animals. I can see myself having a few in a nice heated barn and treat it like a mini little sanctuary.
Start with the smallest of each animal. Mini cow, pygmy or nigerian dwarf goat and a kunukune pig. They will all get along.
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OP don't forget they cheat alot too bc of boredom
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