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Thread: Bigballs Rejected by 100 women in 1 night

post 1694990223 12-17-2023, 06:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
This is a really sad post, srs.


I was never without either a steady gf or fuk friend or two from gr 10 till married.

I never darkened the door of a bar or club once. Wouldn't be caught dead dancing lol.


I know things supposedly changed, but even now just chatting with females in daily life I always make sure to add that I'm married when the convo gets to that point. Im not a slimeball and love my wife. But...if my wife left me there's a half dozen sloots I interact with in minor ways in everyday life that come to mind that I'd talk to right now, and be bangin in a week.


Not sure what to say, but fuk clubs. Talk to a sloot a few times in everyday life, and if you aren't a fukin moron you'll get space in her head. Most women overthink everything, so they may as well be thinking about you. No such thing as bad PR, but you need to slide in her head somehow, preferably over time.


And if you are boring, autistic, can't talk, or are generally a dull human being than I have no other advice for you.
If you think this post is sad you should try living my life.

I'll say it again, nothing I do is going to work. The only question whatsoever what I'm going to be able to say at the end of my life.

I want to be able to say I went for every girl I thought was cute and they all said no, so thats what i'm going to start doing and I know its possible because I did it last night.
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
Then GTFO, this is BBMG's thread, but you came in here telling nonsense stories about yourself as if any of us gives a sh/t.

We're here to support BBMG, not listen to your irrelevant stories.
Nothing i post is non sense, I don't play that game. Lots of fellas on here know that, so believe me or not. My experiences are valid.

What's your advice? Keep doing what he's doing? That seems to be working well eh?

A meaningful relationship seems to be what he wants, so it's time to change it up.

While it might work for gigachad, walking up and saying "wanna dance?" Is hilarious to me. Are you gonna find that person at a club? Maybe...but what are the odds that persons shared interests or chemistry will align?


I know if the first minute of convo if she's a Trudeau loving vegan bunny hugger, and can lol and move on.

Sounds like he doesn't need support, but a different way of going about it.
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post 1694990303 12-17-2023, 06:39 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
Nah I get it, you’re saying you believe you don’t have the potential to be attractive.

I disagree.

But you have a very binary and reductive view of attractiveness, whereas I don’t, hence our differing opinions.
There is no planet where 5'3 ugly african manlet is attractive, we all know this. We can stop pretending now.

If you can approach 5 thousand women without one success, its over there's not any potential there.
post 1694990353 12-17-2023, 06:41 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
If you think this post is sad you should try living my life.

I'll say it again, nothing I do is going to work. The only question whatsoever what I'm going to be able to say at the end of my life.

I want to be able to say I went for every girl I thought was cute and they all said no, so thats what i'm going to start doing and I know its possible because I did it last night.
It's sad because I feel for ya man. Nothing is worse than the feeling of loneliness and rejection.

My ex gf/ fiancee of 7 years dumped my ass years ago. That sucked!

What are your personal relationships like?

You got friends and stuff?
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post 1694990433 12-17-2023, 06:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Nothing i post is non sense, I don't play that game. Lots of fellas on here know that, so believe me or not. My experiences are valid.

What's your advice? Keep doing what he's doing? That seems to be working well eh?

A meaningful relationship seems to be what he wants, so it's time to change it up.

While it might work for gigachad, walking up and saying "wanna dance?" Is hilarious to me. Are you gonna find that person at a club? Maybe...but what are the odds that persons shared interests or chemistry will align?


I know if the first minute of convo if she's a Trudeau loving vegan bunny hugger, and can lol and move on.

Sounds like he doesn't need support, but a different way of going about it.
What magical way do you get women to dance with you other than.......asking if they want to dance OR being gigachad and standing there?

There was only one way I was going to get a dance and it was asking for it so I did. Of course it didnt work, nothing I do will work but least I tried. I didnt sit in the corner fapping like I've done before.
post 1694990453 12-17-2023, 06:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
It's sad because I feel for ya man. Nothing is worse than the feeling of loneliness and rejection.

My ex gf/ fiancee of 7 years dumped my ass years ago. That sucked!

What are your personal relationships like?

You got friends and stuff?
Yea I have friends like I said in OP, we went out for one of my friends birthdays. Not that much family in general and none where I live though.
post 1694990513 12-17-2023, 06:48 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
You’re what I refer to as a “natural”.

Some men find getting women utterly effortless. It’s like breathing to them. I think it’s a combination of inherent traits/qualities coupled with the “right” developmental experiences when growing up. This just then compounds over time and it gets even easier for you.

The worst men to learn from are naturals, because like with anything that comes “naturally”, you will lack a lot of awareness of why it comes naturally to you, and as a result you can’t fully deconstruct it and pass it onto other men to whom it does not come naturally to.
Or, I'm lying about everything lol.


I wouldn't say I'm a natural, but something I am decent at is fostering relationships, no matter who or how menial.

It comes back to help you in ways you never expect.

I can call up all my exes except one (she got real mad) lol and chat if I want to. No hard feelings.


But as the other fella said, this is about getting BBM a woman, so back to that.
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post 1694990633 12-17-2023, 06:53 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
What magical way do you get women to dance with you other than.......asking if they want to dance OR being gigachad and standing there?

There was only one way I was going to get a dance and it was asking for it so I did. Of course it didnt work, nothing I do will work but least I tried. I didnt sit in the corner fapping like I've done before.
I don't dance.

You wanna dance with a sloot, or find out what her ass tastes like/date her?


Maybe I'm wrong...Been married for 7 years now, but I just don't think you'll find the type of woman you want there.

Maybe things changed and I'm out of touch, or they always were different in other places.

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post 1694990873 12-17-2023, 07:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
I don't dance.

You wanna dance with a sloot, or find out what her ass tastes like/date her?


Maybe I'm wrong...Been married for 7 years now, but I just don't think you'll find the type of woman you want there.



Maybe things changed and I'm out of touch, or they always were different in other places.

Keep your chin up.
I'm not going to find any woman anywhere but at least I tried. you must be new here, you dont seem to know how over it is for me. but its very over.
post 1694990953 12-17-2023, 07:09 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I'm not going to find any woman anywhere but at least I tried. you must be new here, you dont seem to know how over it is for me. but its very over.
Not new, but don't know you other than a screen name.

You tried like 3-4/10s?

There's no shame in that to get on your feet. Tons of guys are married to uggos and have very fulfilling lives.

Feels the same with the lights off, no?

Some of the most caring, loving women are nothing to look at. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder anyway
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post 1694991053 12-17-2023, 07:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Not new, but don't know you other than a screen name.

You tried like 3-4/10s?

There's no shame in that to get on your feet. Tons of guys are married to uggos and have very fulfilling lives.

Feels the same with the lights off, no?

Some of the most caring, loving women are nothing to look at. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder anyway
Of course I tried 3s and 4s, the problem isnt standards. At the moment I wouldnt turn anything down.
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Couple of things to unpack: first is, were you just walking up and randomly asking women to dance? Zero rapport developed ahead of time? You need to learn the stages of meeting girls, and the first is just talking to them like they are normal humans and you're having a fun night out. If you're getting a vibe then you can take it to the next level, if not then you bounce and move on to the next but at least get to that stage first and practice having conversations before just making it a blatant approach all the time.

Second is, as soon as you approach a dozen women and get shot down, the others have already seen you approach a dozen women and get shot down so they are going to shoot you down as well. You're that pathetic guy wandering around a bar trying to dance with women and pick up and every woman there knows it.
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
Couple of things to unpack: first is, were you just walking up and randomly asking women to dance? Zero rapport developed ahead of time? You need to learn the stages of meeting girls, and the first is just talking to them like they are normal humans and you're having a fun night out. If you're getting a vibe then you can take it to the next level, if not then you bounce and move on to the next but at least get to that stage first and practice having conversations before just making it a blatant approach all the time.
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A fine point from the Trudeau lover.

This applies to most situations imo.
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post 1694991263 12-17-2023, 07:19 AM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
Couple of things to unpack: first is, were you just walking up and randomly asking women to dance? Zero rapport developed ahead of time? You need to learn the stages of meeting girls, and the first is just talking to them like they are normal humans and you're having a fun night out. If you're getting a vibe then you can take it to the next level, if not then you bounce and move on to the next but at least get to that stage first and practice having conversations before just making it a blatant approach all the time.

Second is, as soon as you approach a dozen women and get shot down, the others have already seen you approach a dozen women and get shot down so they are going to shoot you down as well. You're that pathetic guy wandering around a bar trying to dance with women and pick up and every woman there knows it.
Dude I'm an invisible. They're too busy dancing drinking and eyeing to chad to see what i was doing. That wasn't a factor. Nobody knew I was there until I went up to them.

There is no amount of talking or warming up that would make a difference. they can and will say no no matter I do. Plus, everyone was on the dance floor dancing there wasnt room for much talking anyway.
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Originally Posted By PenorBrahNoHomo⏩
Those women all saw you approach 99 other women, and knew you were desperate
lol I'm invisible. Those women were drinking, dancing and eye fuking chad they werent paying attention to me or even saw me until I went up to them.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Dude I'm an invisible. They're too busy dancing drinking and eyeing to chad to see what i was doing. That wasn't a factor. Nobody knew I was there until I went up to them.

There is no amount of talking or warming up that would make a difference. they can and will say no no matter I do. Plus, everyone was on the dance floor dancing there wasnt room for much talking anyway.
So they were having fun and enjoying themselves? What a novel concept. You should have been doing that too.
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I was dragged out to a club a few months ago. I took pics of a 5'2 asian manlet dancing with 3 girls at a time. I posted them here. I'll post them again if anyone needs me to.
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
So they were having fun and enjoying themselves? What a novel concept. You should have been doing that too.
He was too busy aggressively trying to approach women.

Girls automatically knew he was chasing ass all night instead of relaxing and enjoying himself
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
So they were having fun and enjoying themselves? What a novel concept. You should have been doing that too.
I did it was a good time. Getting rejected didn't change anything
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
He was too busy aggressively trying to approach women.

Girls automatically knew he was chasing ass all night instead of relaxing and enjoying himself
Yall will find any reason to hate on me.

I didn't aggressively do anything, it turns out its very easy to ask someone if they want to dance and then move on. Not even 5 seconds. Most of the time I was dancing in a group with my friends and looking around for who to ask next
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Why not stop crying on the misc like a pussy on this subject everyday?

Look at some of you posts in this thread.

I'm not a positivity/manifesting ****g0t, but you don't think girls are reading through all your internal dialogue about you being a loser?

Go see a therapist or write down some positive shyt about yourself today.


Give the woman obsession a break. Love doesn't exist. It's all smoke a mirrors.

What you are looking for is delusional.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Yall will find any reason to hate on me.

I didn't aggressively do anything, it turns out its very easy to ask someone if they want to dance and then move on. Not even 5 seconds. Most of the time I was dancing in a group with my friends and looking around for who to ask next
Just playing bro

But don't let it discourage you...again with your doomed mind state of " I stricked out one night at the club it must be over "

Even Chad's sometimes strike out at the club man
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
As typical of BBMG he’ll do some extreme version of what we advise and then convince himself that he was right all along.

Cold approaching every girl in the club won’t work even if you were normal height. If you literally exude desperation and ask out every single female in the room then no woman will respond.
there's no magical number that would have worked. The problem is i'm too unattractive, I could approach zero or 100 it doesnt matter.

Amazing how quick you went from 'bigballs doesnt try' to 'bigballs approaches too many women'. you will say whatever I do is wrong.
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Just playing bro

But don't let it discourage you...again with your doomed mind state of " I stricked out one night at the club it must be over "

Even Chad's sometimes strike out at the club man
Its been over way before this, its not going to work but I think when I'm older it will be more comforting knowing I tried.
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
He’s not striking out at the club. Approaching every single woman is the just as pathetic as avoiding approaching a single one and is not a viable strategy in the slightest even for a chad.

Instead of putting his chips in one or two baskets for the night and cutting his losses if it doesn’t work out, he completely demeans himself in his quest to affirm his own inceldom to himself.
When you're this unattractive one or two baskets is as good as zero. You really dont get it. I could ask out a thousand women and come away with nothing let alone 2 women.
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Originally Posted By OPGenesis⏩
Why not stop crying on the misc like a pussy on this subject everyday?

Look at some of you posts in this thread.

I'm not a positivity/manifesting ****g0t, but you don't think girls are reading through all your internal dialogue about you being a loser?

Go see a therapist or write down some positive shyt about yourself today.


Give the woman obsession a break. Love doesn't exist. It's all smoke a mirrors.

What you are looking for is delusional.
'internal dialogue', well they cant the read the internal dialogue of men that want to rape them or even kill them, so no, I dont think they are reading anything other than I'm ugly and its a no.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
'internal dialogue', well they cant the read the internal dialogue of men that want to rape them or even kill them, so no, I dont think they are reading anything other than I'm ugly and its a no.
How can you think telling yourself in your head you're a loser as you approach a woman is ever going to work out?

I could only imagine your body language, son.

Are you even funny? Do you have any wit?
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