Got into fight with live in GF about Miami girls trip (Srs)

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So this sloot wants to meet back up with her sloot friend to party out in miami where last time her friend cheated on her future husband and your girl knows about it, omitted this from you for a long time and covers for her friend, doesnt tell her friends husband and minimized the situation when explaining it to you.

These girls have an agreement to never tell the boyfriends about CHAD.

OP also went and told her that "you'll be going as a single girl"

inb4 she takes his statement literal for her convenience. She goes out there gets a train run on her by the miami dolphins and its "not cheating" because boyfriend broke up with her before but cuck OP takes her back together and she never tells him about the tyrone train in miami.

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Her response should have been «i dont Wanna go without you babe» when you said «just go on your own»
She should have felt insulted by you even suggesting that she should go a place filled with horny men trying to hit on her without you.

Also she has bff who is a cheater? Giga red flag
She still friends with her? Red red flag
«Girl code» isnt a thing. They constantly back stab eachother & are more rivals than they are friends. So her covering for a cheating hoe says everything you need to know about her. DITCH HER ASAP!

Inb4 «insecure» comments from cucks.
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01-11-2024, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted By G-Profit⏩

That's what makes this a little more complex bro. She knows my thoughts on girls trips and invited me along. Being that I do trust her I decided to just let her go then I found out that the friend she is going with cheated on their last trip together in the very same city. So now I am a bit disgusted and doubting the character of her friend. Do I really wany my girl drinking in Miami with her girlfriend who cheated the last time they were there? It just has bad news written all over it.

One thing is for sure, I refuse to change my mind on the trip again and go with her like I'm gonna watch her lol

I’d just tell her, “I know I’d said I’d go, & we made plans, but I just prefer not to go (can say too much work you have to catch up on/expenses, whatever)..& just tell her you’d prefer if she does not go without you.

If she still wants to go, tell her that she can go single, & as much as that sucks, at least she showed you what type of person she is early on before marriage. If you two aren’t serious, & you aren’t even considering marriage with her..than it’s different. Just stay true to your principles & morals..because she is showing you she won’t stay true to hers.

01-11-2024, 10:00 AM

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01-11-2024, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing⏩

figured it out boyos

we toastin

nah bro no roll bread

01-11-2024, 11:06 AM

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I would pull up to Miami srs, fuk the work event / problem

You’re going to let the work ruin your relationship? Only solution that will leave both happy is if you go. She gets to go in the trip, you get assurance and get to have fun. If she stays she’s going to resent you. If she goes she’s going to sloot, and even if not you’ll be paranoid for life

01-11-2024, 11:13 AM

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You’re showing insecurity and lack of trust. You dun goofed. Apologize, have an adult conversation about each other’s feelings and maybe you both will learn something, make it up to her and life goes on.

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01-11-2024, 11:19 AM

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If your girlfriend/wife wants to cheat on you she will cheat on you...eventually. Controlling her isn't a long-term solution nor sign of healthy and trusting relationship. If she wants to have fun with Tony and Manny in Miami then they will be doing you a favor actually.

01-11-2024, 11:23 AM

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had the same scenario with a girl I was dating, she told me her and her friends were going to LA and that her friends were already msging guys to hang out with.
I literally told her that she could go but I wouldn't be here when she got back.

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01-11-2024, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted By G-Profit⏩

Anyway, Let me add that my gf was also justifying her friend cheating with statements like "she just made a mistake". If she is willing to justify that kind of behavior for a friend as not a big deal and "only a kiss" (lets be real she prob sucked a cock) she is probably willing to justify the same behavior to herself no?

Originally Posted By G-Profit⏩

Funny you say that because I always assumed she fuked around when she was there bc she was single (unlike her sloot engaged friend) and so never asked but did today during the fight and she adamantly denied it. She's a poor liar in general from what I've gathered being with her so far but who knows brah.

You assume your girl is lying to you which means she either has a history of doing so (in which case why are you with her) or you are letting insecurities from past experiences affect your current relationship in a negative manner.

IMO you need to trust your girl fully that a) she won't cheat and b) her friend is not going to put her in uncomfortable positions (because if she might then IMO she should absolutely not want to go).

But these decisions are hers to make and not yours and I would want no part of a relationship where one party gives the other an ultimatum as such.

Whatever the outcome, if you stay together you two need counseling.

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Originally Posted By GorillaBellend⏩

All girls get up to no good on trips

ive literally smashed married women in bars for years

Same and this dumb broad couldn't understand why I was so against it

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Originally Posted By GorillaBellend⏩

only the dorks and virgins throw the "youre insecure" chit

Married for 25 years now by not acting like an insecure angry incel virgin dork.

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01-11-2024, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted By G-Profit⏩

So my gf went to Miami for her best friends bachelorette party a few years ago (before I met her, no cuck)

I met this girlfriend of hers a few months ago and she seemed like a nice girl, now married obviously. Husband was cool too but could tell he is too nice.

My gf knows my thoughts on girls trips (any brah who has fuked enough sluts with bfs/husbands on vacation is wise to this red pill) and is overall a great and very submissive girl who treats me well. Anyway, she mentioned to me a few months ago this same girlfriend of hers is going back to Miami next month for a work trip weekend and she invited my gf to come hang out and stay with her. My gf invited me along to which I initially said yes and we were gonna book our own room and chit but things came up with work so I went against my gut and told her I'll prob just stay home while she goes and stays with her friend in Miami for the weekend.

Well, I question her more about the bachelorette party from 2 years ago and turns out her friend cheated on her fiance (It was only a kiss! riiiiiight lol) I got pissed and told her of course my gut feeling about girls trips is true and that if she wants to go, she can but she'll be going as a single woman. We aren't currently speaking.

Did I do the right thing brahs? Or am I too red pilled? I gotta stick to my guns now either way.

Yes you did the right thing if she really likes you she will just deal with it and not go. If she does go then be happy for the pucci while you had it.

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Originally Posted By G-Profit⏩

That's what makes this a little more complex bro. She knows my thoughts on girls trips and invited me along. Being that I do trust her I decided to just let her go then I found out that the friend she is going with cheated on their last trip together in the very same city. So now I am a bit disgusted and doubting the character of her friend. Do I really wany my girl drinking in Miami with her girlfriend who cheated the last time they were there? It just has bad news written all over it.

One thing is for sure, I refuse to change my mind on the trip again and go with her like I'm gonna watch her lol

Bro. Don't do this to yourself. Get away from that wench while you still can.

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Are we 16 and in HS? If you don't trust your GF, why be with her.

Cucks are so dumb these days.

If you don't have trust, you don't have a relationship. It really is that easy.

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Originally Posted By Berts⏩

Are we 16 and in HS? If you don't trust your GF, why be with her.

Cucks are so dumb these days.

If you don't have trust, you don't have a relationship. It really is that easy.

You sound like a woman.

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married women want to be around drunk hrny guys trying to smash. why even get married

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Originally Posted By G-Profit⏩

That's what makes this a little more complex bro. She knows my thoughts on girls trips and invited me along. Being that I do trust her I decided to just let her go then I found out that the friend she is going with cheated on their last trip together in the very same city. So now I am a bit disgusted and doubting the character of her friend. Do I really wany my girl drinking in Miami with her girlfriend who cheated the last time they were there? It just has bad news written all over it.

One thing is for sure, I refuse to change my mind on the trip again and go with her like I'm gonna watch her lol

you goofed letting your trust in your gf and your opinion about her going on the trip be determined by her friend's past behavior, rather than hers, or just trusting her.

it's def a red flag, but now you've put her on the defensive for both her friend and herself.

Best of luck OP, i have to agree with Hayzeus in this scenario. Give her enough rope to hang herself and see what's what.

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Originally Posted By ithappenss⏩

married women want to be around drunk hrny guys trying to smash. why even get married

You sound very insecure. srs

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Even if she wasnt going to do it, she will now. Already had the fight, why not.

It was a good run OP

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Originally Posted By Berts⏩

You sound very insecure. srs

idc. what does she gain from being in a bar drunk with guys hitting on her? if it was about seeing a friend they'd hit the beach get food and cocktails. she obvs wants to be hit on by what they call "creeps" & end up going hotel with.

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Originally Posted By Berts⏩

You sound very insecure. srs

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Update: She came to me to discuss and now says she doesn't even want to go anymore and isn't going. She sounds resentful tho srs. Asked her if she'd want me going on a trip to a party city with one of my boys who is a known cheater and she said no of course not. Was upset at me for "making her choose between me and her best friend of 10 years"

Idk if I can even look at her the same anymore now brahs the damage might be done.

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Originally Posted By G-Profit⏩

So my gf went to Miami for her best friends bachelorette party a few years ago (before I met her, no cuck)

I met this girlfriend of hers a few months ago and she seemed like a nice girl, now married obviously. Husband was cool too but could tell he is too nice.

My gf knows my thoughts on girls trips (any brah who has fuked enough sluts with bfs/husbands on vacation is wise to this red pill) and is overall a great and very submissive girl who treats me well. Anyway, she mentioned to me a few months ago this same girlfriend of hers is going back to Miami next month for a work trip weekend and she invited my gf to come hang out and stay with her. My gf invited me along to which I initially said yes and we were gonna book our own room and chit but things came up with work so I went against my gut and told her I'll prob just stay home while she goes and stays with her friend in Miami for the weekend.

Well, I question her more about the bachelorette party from 2 years ago and turns out her friend cheated on her fiance (It was only a kiss! riiiiiight lol) I got pissed and told her of course my gut feeling about girls trips is true and that if she wants to go, she can but she'll be going as a single woman. We aren't currently speaking.

Did I do the right thing brahs? Or am I too red pilled? I gotta stick to my guns now either way.

A girls trip to Miami...that's the sloot capital of the US.

You went about it wrong though. Did something with work really come up? Did you mention that first and what was her response? She shouldn't want to go to Miami w/o you and you should have let her figure that out on her own. If she didn't, then that says a lot.

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Update: She came to me to discuss and now says she doesn't even want to go anymore and isn't going. She sounds resentful tho srs. Asked her if she'd want me going on a trip to a party city with one of my boys who is a known cheater and she said no of course not. Was upset at me for "making her choose between me and her best friend of 10 years"

Idk if I can even look at her the same anymore now brahs the damage might be done.

Now we're being petty and insecure. You got what you wanted and you're still not satisfied.

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Everyone has insecurities. I mean she did invite you along as well and you said yes. but things happen and you can't go now. So since you can't go now you don't want her going. Honestly if you don't trust her, break up. Before she ends up being your wife and mother of your kids. If she was going to cheat, she could do that here.

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Originally Posted By _zman⏩

A girls trip to Miami...that's the sloot capital of the US.

You went about it wrong though. Did something with work really come up? Did you mention that first and what was her response? She shouldn't want to go to Miami w/o you and you should have let her figure that out on her own. If she didn't, then that says a lot.

Now we're being petty and insecure. You got what you wanted and you're still not satisfied.

Yea so this morning she brought up the miami trip and I said you know what I have a lot to do here with work and she's your friend so you should just go without me and stay with her. She didn't object or ask me to come anyway but also didn't seem too eager for me not to if that makes sense.

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Originally Posted By G-Profit⏩

Update: She came to me to discuss and now says she doesn't even want to go anymore and isn't going. She sounds resentful tho srs. Asked her if she'd want me going on a trip to a party city with one of my boys who is a known cheater and she said no of course not. Was upset at me for "making her choose between me and her best friend of 10 years"

Idk if I can even look at her the same anymore now brahs the damage might be done.

Lol why are you still arguing your point when she conceded.

just break up with her and let her have her fun.