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post 1696413113 01-15-2024, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzdlpress⏩
Online sucks. But IRL is not much better. In the old days, you met your significant other either thru school, work, or through bars/clubs

You're 41. I'm sure you realize it's a different time compared to 20 years ago so you can't just hit on coworkers because of #MeToo

And me and BBMG are both out of school, so thats not an option

Whens the last time you went to a bar or nightclub with mostly 18-25 kids? I'm 23 so I went to bars and nightclubs fairly often. I never see Sub-5 men getting action. It's always tall white dudes who are going home with women at these venues

Face the facts : Me and BBMG are out of options. Online we aren't viable, but we aren't viable anywhere else either
This. The bar and nightclub scene doesnt exist unless you're pretty attractive.

Its not really about location, its about attractivness. If you look good enough you can still get women IRL or online. If you're unattractive you arent getting anyone anywhere. Its over.
post 1696413183 01-15-2024, 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzdlpress⏩
What's my issue? I have no problem having sex with obese women. My standards are non-existent. I'm willing to fck an obese 2/10 woman

They don't want me. Obese 2/10 women can easily find a desperate 6/10 white dude
Women are still women. I don’t deny you have to work harder than I did. But you have to at least set yourself up for success before you complain about how rigged the game is.

Narrative-affirming statistics from dating apps help you in no way at all. Bars and clubs have never ever been a legit place to find a girlfriend, in any era.

Workplaces are still the place most relationships happen after college, in spite of me too. You just have be more delicate how you navigate those scenarios thanks to retarded wokeness
post 1696413363 01-15-2024, 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Thats like a 30 year old video LMAO
post 1696413553 01-15-2024, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted By ezmac31⏩
Women are still women. I don’t deny you have to work harder than I did. But you have to at least set yourself up for success before you complain about how rigged the game is.

Narrative-affirming statistics from dating apps help you in no way at all. Bars and clubs have never ever been a legit place to find a girlfriend, in any era.

Workplaces are still the place most relationships happen after college, in spite of me too. You just have be more delicate how you navigate those scenarios thanks to retarded wokeness
Yeah, I'm still not hitting on any co-worker. That's never ever going to happen lol

Plus, I'm looking at fully remote roles in the future. I won't even have a chance if I wanted to
post 1696413593 01-15-2024, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Issobolic28⏩
Thats like a 30 year old video LMAO
What's your point? Standards have gotten even higher now

If women were this shallow in the 1990s they are insanely shallow now
post 1696413803 01-15-2024, 08:35 AM
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
1. Anti-depressants cause weight gain.

2. Anti-depressants, ironically, have been linked to increased risk of suic..ide....


They cause more harm than good.
Not only this, but I believe the entire "chemical imbalance" theory of depression was essentially debunked and tossed out not long ago after further research found no link. More likely than not, people just feel exceptionally sad for other reasons that are entirely within their own control.
post 1696413923 01-15-2024, 08:37 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Dating app data is the best you can get because its based on anonymous behavior. Women reveal that they only are attracted to a small% of men. Thats the truth.

I have absolutely no clue why people try to pretend like it doesnt count. It does. Women are only attracted to a small % of men.

But if you insist, here is an example not on the apps of women being extremely picky on looks and height. Let me guess, it doesnt count!!!!


Your best bet is to stop relying on highly simulated environments to reach conclusions about women, and just go outside and live. If one non-fat woman has shown interest in you despite all this dating app data, there are others out there too.
post 1696414063 01-15-2024, 08:41 AM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
Your best bet is to stop relying on highly simulated environments to reach conclusions about women, and just go outside and live. If one non-fat woman has shown interest in you despite all this dating app data, there are others out there too.
Except now he apparently realized he doesn't even want a woman and is just going to keep posting these threads for awareness or some chit.
post 1696414143 01-15-2024, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By ezmac31⏩
Women are still women. I don’t deny you have to work harder than I did. But you have to at least set yourself up for success before you complain about how rigged the game is.

Narrative-affirming statistics from dating apps help you in no way at all. Bars and clubs have never ever been a legit place to find a girlfriend, in any era.

Workplaces are still the place most relationships happen after college, in spite of me too. You just have be more delicate how you navigate those scenarios thanks to retarded wokeness
The majority of the married couples I know met at work! But there was gossip from other co-workers.
post 1696414183 01-15-2024, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman⏩
Not only this, but I believe the entire "chemical imbalance" theory of depression was essentially debunked and tossed out not long ago after further research found no link. More likely than not, people just feel exceptionally sad for other reasons that are entirely within their own control.
No, post-partum depression, for example, is one instance where the chemical imbalance theory holds. I'm not saying it's common or that everyone who feels sad should rush out and grab pills. It should be the last option, but bbmg might actually be a good candidate.
post 1696415013 01-15-2024, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
The majority of the married couples I know met at work! But there was gossip from other co-workers.
Your like 50 Dusty. This isn't 1990 anymore

If a dude hits on a co-worker in 2024, flip a coin whether he gets #MeToo'd or not
post 1696415263 01-15-2024, 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzdlpress⏩
Your like 50 Dusty. This isn't 1990 anymore

If a dude hits on a co-worker in 2024, flip a coin whether he gets #MeToo'd or not
Only if he's a mentally ill creep. Otherwise, it's fine to interact with and even ask out co-workers, though not recommended for other reasons.
post 1696415423 01-15-2024, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
Only if he's a mentally ill creep. Otherwise, it's fine to interact with and even ask out co-workers, though not recommended for other reasons.
I've been at my current company for 1 year. I've noticed males barely even interact with females at work. There are lots of stories, articles, and anecdotes on the internet of people saying the same thing

https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2019/05/17/60-of-male-managers-are-uncomfortable-in-job-related-activities-with-women-heres-why/?sh=1af01a37478c

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/11s30tl/men_avoiding_women_at_work/

No dude wants to get #MeToo'd now. Any woman has the power to wreck a guy. Think about that? Any accusation can literally wreck a guys life. Why would any dude even risk it? Even Chadlites at my job stay away from women. My 4/10 ****** ass better stay in line too if even Chadlites are steering clear from women now
post 1696415713 01-15-2024, 09:16 AM
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post 1696415933 01-15-2024, 09:19 AM
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post 1696417053 01-15-2024, 09:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Issobolic28⏩
Thats like a 30 year old video LMAO
.....And do you think dating has gotten easier or harder since then? Women more or less reasonable?
post 1696417153 01-15-2024, 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted By ezmac31⏩
Workplaces are still the place most relationships happen after college
no it isnt, its online
post 1696417883 01-15-2024, 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
No, post-partum depression, for example, is one instance where the chemical imbalance theory holds. I'm not saying it's common or that everyone who feels sad should rush out and grab pills. It should be the last option, but bbmg might actually be a good candidate.
I was referring to generalized depression, but I agree that post-partum depression probably has a lot to do with hormonal issues.
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post 1696418983 01-15-2024, 10:13 AM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman⏩
I was referring to generalized depression, but I agree that post-partum depression probably has a lot to do with hormonal issues.
Studies show that Borderline Personality Disorder, Depression, etc. are a mixture of nature and nurture.

For instance, I have Grandmothers with anxiety, so I developed anxiety and depression from that, plus a mixture of events that happened to me in my younger years.
post 1696434393 01-15-2024, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
The majority of the married couples I know met at work! But there was gossip from other co-workers.
times have changed
post 1696434783 01-15-2024, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
no it isnt, its online
And after that it’s the workplace. It’s a safe place to establish a rapport. Unless totally autistic, you can get a feel for someone’s feelings about you. You can earn someone’s trust and admiration through collaboration and communication, not just the superficiality of online dating.

I see it with young people every day at work. I work at a federal center with 3k people of all races. Sorry this doesn’t fit your narrative.
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It doesn't matter if incels get pussy or not. You act like your labor is irreplaceable. But they are bringing over currycels en masse. You don't have the leverage here
post 1696435913 01-15-2024, 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted By ezmac31⏩
And after that it’s the workplace.
No it isnt

post 1696435993 01-15-2024, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted By outfoxxed⏩
It doesn't matter if incels get pussy or not. You act like your labor is irreplaceable. But they are bringing over currycels en masse. You don't have the leverage here
Its not about leverage, if society keeps trucking along with massive immigration while natives dont work, ok.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
No it isnt

1). It's unclear if that's randomized;

2). Bar/restaurant and all aspects of social circle still beat online in that survey
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The more you have, the more they can take from you. The more responsible you are, the more responsibility that is expected from you. The more you contribute the more they want you to contribute. The harder you work, the harder they expect you to work. Meanwhile neets get everything handed to them are are never asked anything of or expected to do anything. The benefits aren't worth the effort anymore.
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[QUOTE=BigBallsMcgee post_id=1696435913]No it isnt

[img]https://cdn.statcdn.com/Infographic/images/normal/20822.jpeg[/mg][/QUOTE]Lmfao no wonder why everyone is so dense these days. You really can find stats to back up whatever your view is....even if it's a survey of less that 0.1% of the target demographic.

Just look around in your regular life dude. Yes couples are increasingly meeting via online dating but a substantial amount meet via friends, work, overall real life. How many times have you left the house this week to participate in a hobby or social event?
Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; and if it is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
1). It's unclear if that's randomized;

2). Bar/restaurant and all aspects of social circle still beat online in that survey
It's probably a lowball now due to the data being 2017. I bet a lot of the respondents said they "first met" at a restaurant when in reality they matched on an app first. Who tf approaches a different table at a restaurant?

To be fair a lot of the online is Instagram. If you aren't active on that it's over.
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined⏩
Lmfao no wonder why everyone is so dense these days. You really can find stats to back up whatever your view is....even if it's a survey of less that 0.1% of the target demographic.

Just look around in your regular life dude. Yes couples are increasingly meeting via online dating but a substantial amount meet via friends, work, overall real life. How many times have you left the house this week to participate in a hobby or social event?
it's nonsense to dismiss his stats though. OLD is definitely a huge variable in the dating market equation. But I would argue the relationships that are formed via OLD are less successful than those formed in person. The psychology of OLD is always "next best thing"... I've been guilty of it. I cancelled on a girl before the holidays who I had been having genuine conversations with for weeks, because I had a different girl agree to just come over. Well turns on the girl that came over was kind of crazy. It's a hard thing not to do... one little thing goes wrong along the way or a more attractive match comes along and the effort goes away.
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