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Thread: Tried Speed Dating and LMAO its over

post 1698096703 02-19-2024, 07:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Kaizenfr⏩
Unfortunately you're right... Bbmg it's your mindset and your beliefs, who keep limits you
My mindset and beliefs are a result of my experiences. So they cannot be the problem because they are the result of the problem
post 1698096803 02-19-2024, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman⏩
And yet we’re told constantly in these threads that a huge chunk of Gen Z men get no sex, and at least in the US, most of those men are white.
Both can be true. What i said is that white guys have it much easier and are more desired. Still if they don't get out there or are autistic with their social skills things might never happen.
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would men also chose the same top 3 girls?
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
My mindset and beliefs are a result of my experiences. So they cannot be the problem because they are the result of the problem
There have been thousands and thousands of studies that prove that when all things are equal our mindsets, positive or negative, change our outcomes. I think your mindset and beliefs may not be the root cause but your negativity is absolutely perpetuating the problem. And I've been telling you this for over 10 years, but you are still the same negative nancy. You haven't changed ONE BIT.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033

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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
BIG truth on the bolded. Gen Z are NOT effective communicators.

Hinge was a frustrating experience because a lot of the women you match with will make you carry the conversation while offering little to say on their end. Others would just totally ignore my opening question upon matching then proceed to say "hey".

Same with bumble. Lazy girls will match then put the whole conversation in your court. Just pure auditioning at that point.
They will put in effort if you're a chad with good photos and a verified account.
post 1698098443 02-19-2024, 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
There have been thousands and thousands of studies that prove that when all things are equal our mindsets, positive or negative, change our outcomes. I think your mindset and beliefs may not be the root cause but your negativity is absolutely perpetuating the problem. And I've been telling you this for over 10 years, but you are still the same negative nancy. You haven't changed ONE BIT.
The legend appears. I remember your dating threads helped change my life back when I was a misc lurker. But you're wasting your time with BBMG
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Originally Posted By Muzzfgpress⏩
Your tranny fgt voice never fails to amaze.
post 1698098943 02-19-2024, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
There have been thousands and thousands of studies that prove that when all things are equal our mindsets, positive or negative, change our outcomes. I think your mindset and beliefs may not be the root cause but your negativity is absolutely perpetuating the problem. And I've been telling you this for over 10 years, but you are still the same negative nancy. You haven't changed ONE BIT.
If my mindset and beliefs are not the root cause then what difference does it make. The root cause by definition is the problem.

Sure, I could delude myself into feeling better about being an incel but I'd still be an incel
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BBMG there's plenty of ugly people making ugly babies everyday.

How do you explain that?
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
BBMG there's plenty of ugly people making ugly babies everyday.

How do you explain that?
Genuinely ugly girls will settle with ugly guys


The problem is average girls don't want average guys
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
kill myself trying to get rich so I can get women who arent attracted to me and just want my money. Nah im good.

Its still obviously possible to be tall and white and still screw it up. But at least you get in the door.
Originally Posted By SpeakethTruth⏩
Anyone going to actually address this point? This discussion has literally been him saying that he has a house and money and people telling him to get a house and money lmao.
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Just make $300k bro!!

Truly some idiots
You need to make way more than 300k to make up for your genetic flaws. I make more than that and I still consider it peanuts, stop complaining and strive for greatness!
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
If my mindset and beliefs are not the root cause then what difference does it make. The root cause by definition is the problem.

Sure, I could delude myself into feeling better about being an incel but I'd still be an incel
There's a difference, here's an anology: the root cause of a disease might be a virus, but how you react to it, in terms of stress, anger, diet, exercise, etc, can help react back on the virus and either alleviate or exacerbate the symptoms.

Yes, you being 5'3, African, and average to below average looks is a root cause of your dating issues, but you're not helping with your mindset.
post 1698099633 02-19-2024, 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
BBMG there's plenty of ugly people making ugly babies everyday.

How do you explain that?
Theres 7 billion people on the planet so you can find examples of anything. But the trend is more and more wome preferring to stay single than settle for lower tier men
post 1698099663 02-19-2024, 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted By andyray⏩
Genuinely ugly girls will settle with ugly guys


The problem is average girls don't want average guys
As a genuinely ugly man I can tell you that's not true. They're increasingly staying single instead
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
My friend invited me to speed dating cause he didnt want to go alone.

The results were a perfect example of why dating is broken now. The women all picked the same 3 guys.

There were a few more men than women at the event, like maybe 15 guys and 10 girls. Of the 15 guys, 3 got ALL the matches. All 10 girls only liked some combination of the same 3.

And this is the entire problem with modern dating. Too many all want the same guys. If you're one of the lower ranked guys there's just nothing you can do. There's no longer a market for you cause women all want the top men or nothing at all.

That's normal unfortunately, you live in a society that empowers women to make their choices with their mates which is fine morally but unfortunately terrible in practice.

The problem of too much choice creates a lot of confusion as comparision is the killer of all joy - it's like seeing Chads bang lots of girls including the one you are crushing over and willing to even marry, you cannot understand how Chad couldn't just settle down like you would if you were in a similar position.

The only solution is to dig LOWER. By lower I mean not in looks/genetics as that's too much of a compromise for a LTR but in life circumstances. You need to be willing to look into third world/SEA countries. Yes it's possible they will turn on you the longer they spend in Western countries but the statistics are on your side. Men who marry overseas for love have significantly lower divorce rates and are usually looks matched. The benefit is that you can settle down quicker in life and actually enjoy the important things in life such as kids, or you can wait indefinitely for Chads scraps and have kids very late in life with women who have fuked 992949234 guys and lost the ability to pair bond.
post 1698099803 02-19-2024, 08:55 PM
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Originally Posted By jamiejammer⏩
You need to make way more than 300k to make up for your genetic flaws. I make more than that and I still consider it peanuts, stop complaining and strive for greatness!
Way more than 300k? Well never happening so better off as NEET
post 1698099883 02-19-2024, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
If my mindset and beliefs are not the root cause then what difference does it make. The root cause by definition is the problem.

Sure, I could delude myself into feeling better about being an incel but I'd still be an incel
The difference is that you have a defeatist attitude.

When you are on your deathbed, you are not going to say, "Oh well, it was out of my control."

No, you will feel nothing but regret and think about all the things you should have tried, but didn't.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033

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post 1698099963 02-19-2024, 08:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
There's a difference, here's an anology: the root cause of a disease might be a virus, but how you react to it, in terms of stress, anger, diet, exercise, etc, can help react back on the virus and either alleviate or exacerbate the symptoms.

Yes, you being 5'3, African, and average to below average looks is a root cause of your dating issues, but you're not helping with your mindset.
.......if the problem is being fundamentally unattractive because of immutable traits of height and race and face, then all this other nonsense doesn't matter.

I understand the virus example but romantic attraction just doesn't work that way. At a certain point there is nothing you can do. There are 2s and 3s walking around and they will always be 2s and 3s
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
The difference is that you have a defeatist attitude.

When you are on your deathbed, you are not going to say, "Oh well, it was out of my control."

No, you will feel nothing but regret and think about all the things you should have tried, but didn't.
So I'll die alone either way but on my hypothetical deathbed ill feel differently?

1. I couldn't care less, the damage will be the preceeding 70 years I lived a lonely miserable life.

2. I'm not going to have a death bed cause I'm gonna OD on blow in Uruguay by 45

3. I don't have any delusions that anything I could do would make a difference. I would bet the life of everyone i know on earth that I'm going to die alone no matter what I do. I will not at all think with any regret I do not at all believe in any possibility for this to be different
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Originally Posted By OnlyHope⏩
That's normal unfortunately, you live in a society that empowers women to make their choices with their mates which is fine morally but unfortunately terrible in practice.

The problem of too much choice creates a lot of confusion as comparision is the killer of all joy - it's like seeing Chads bang lots of girls including the one you are crushing over and willing to even marry, you cannot understand how Chad couldn't just settle down like you would if you were in a similar position.

The only solution is to dig LOWER. By lower I mean not in looks/genetics as that's too much of a compromise for a LTR but in life circumstances. You need to be willing to look into third world/SEA countries. Yes it's possible they will turn on you the longer they spend in Western countries but the statistics are on your side. Men who marry overseas for love have significantly lower divorce rates and are usually looks matched. The benefit is that you can settle down quicker in life and actually enjoy the important things in life such as kids, or you can wait indefinitely for Chads scraps and have kids very late in life with women who have fuked 992949234 guys and lost the ability to pair bond.
Repped lmao.

I agree overseas is the best of the options but let's be real most men are not going to do that. I wouldn't either. If its stay single or move to the Phillipines I'll stay single.

I also think bringing those women back is a dumb move. I think if you're doing that you should stay in their country of origin. Otherwise the ending writes itself
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Repped lmao.

I agree overseas is the best of the options but let's be real most men are not going to do that. I wouldn't either. If its stay single or move to the Phillipines I'll stay single.

I also think bringing those women back is a dumb move. I think if you're doing that you should stay in their country of origin. Otherwise the ending writes itself
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Originally Posted By andyray⏩
Genuinely ugly girls will settle with ugly guys


The problem is average girls don't want average guys
There's plenty of average people making average babies though. Everywhere I go I see ugly and average dudes with a woman. I ran into an old highschool friend, guy was very average, not popular at all and had a kid.

Something isn't adding up with what you and many other guys online are saying.
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
There's plenty of average people making average babies though. Everywhere I go I see ugly and average dudes with a woman. I ran into an old highschool friend, guy was very average, not popular at all and had a kid.

Something isn't adding up with what you and many other guys online are saying.
I've said this before but how are your average joe's even meeting nowadays when competition and life is 100x harder now than even a decade ago?
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I've said this before but how are your average joe's even meeting nowadays when competition and life is 100x harder now than even a decade ago?
Check ur PM


pls respond to my PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Theres 7 billion people on the planet so you can find examples of anything. But the trend is more and more wome preferring to stay single than settle for lower tier men
Nah man forget the planet, I'm talking about Americ, the country you and me both live and work in.

No matter where I go, restaurant, zoo, grocery store, I see ugly and average guys with a girlfriend/wife.

There is hope , you just have to open your eyes and stop pretending like none of this is real.
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Originally Posted By YuckyLucky⏩
Check ur PM


pls respond to my PM
I don't even know what to say about the 2012 changes everything is different now srs
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
There's plenty of average people making average babies though. Everywhere I go I see ugly and average dudes with a woman. I ran into an old highschool friend, guy was very average, not popular at all and had a kid.

Something isn't adding up with what you and many other guys online are saying.
There's someone for everyone.

I remember when my husband and I went to Disneyland he said he couldn't believe how many unattractive women were there. They basically cut their hair off, stopped wearing makeup and just gave up. But the husbands were pretty average looking, too.

You definitely don't see Chad and Stacies with kids at Disneyland. You may see young ones walking around holding hands, but that's about it.
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
There's plenty of average people making average babies though. Everywhere I go I see ugly and average dudes with a woman. I ran into an old highschool friend, guy was very average, not popular at all and had a kid.

Something isn't adding up with what you and many other guys online are saying.
Yes you see average guys with average girls, no chit.
It's not that categorical.

But you cannot ignore the fact that average guys on dating apps barely get any matches. Whilst average and even ugly girls inboxes are flooded with messages.
There's statistics on this as well as countless catfish experiment vids on youtube.
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
No matter where I go, restaurant, zoo, grocery store, I see ugly and average guys with a girlfriend/wife.
Jesus christ.

because lonely single guys are always in restaurants or at the zoo by themselves
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