Okay, so while I was in Du bai, one of the lads that I went with has a girlfriend. A friend of this girlfriend viewed his Insta story while we were there and saw I was tagged in it. From this she viewed my story and then liked a few of my posts. I followed her back and we started talking, flirting, the usual. We arranged a date for when I was back from Thailand. The day I got back, we went out for drinks, it went really well, kissed etc. The next day we went on a second date bowling, again went really well.

Now she was going to Du bai herself last Thursday, she’s back this Thursday, so we arranged a third date for this Friday. Additionally she invited me to a concert with her in 2 weeks.

Our texting the entire time has been minimal, which I don’t mind and it’s been no different while she’s been away, again not an issue, I barely spoke to her while I was in Thailand.

Today she’s been out doing stuff but then I see a story posted an hour ago on her insta (time there was roughly 2am).

It appears she’s laid in someone’s arms and this person is stroking her head, it was a little hard to make out but it’s clearly a guys hand.

Now I’ve hardly been a saint or anything while she’s been away, I’ve seen 2 girls myself, but it’s the fact she’s actually posted something.

My response was a little beta but fuk it, sent the below message and removed her completely.

I thought I’d post this as people think I’m some chad, when I’m not. This doesn’t happen to chads.

lol

why did you get all emotional over that story? i cannot even make anything out by it

you should have just kept your cool and came to the misc for advices

unsend your message if she hasn't read it already

wow

Damn

My impression..

1st pic: Koala Tea sloot

2nd Pic: You dun goofed

3rd Pic: Dodged a bullet. Andy that is Gross.




Srs though. lol at calling a chick out and cutting it off over a social media story after two dates. Especially when you been sowing fields elsewhere boyo.

Lol, she's on vacation and you aren't her boyfriend yet. This is beta behavior. You can't lay claim to a girl you haven't fuked yet.

I've been on the other side of this, and a girl blocked me for posting on my story some other chick(that I was fuking). I was on vacation halfway around the world, and honestly I did like the girl who blocked me. But you gotta get that nut on vacation, and it's unreasonable to expect someone to be loyal to them after 3 dates.

Lol, 3rd pic tells all. She is a 6 who looks like an 8/10 when dressed up. Matty, I get the frustration but blocking her is pathetic.

Damn, that is a bit beta for the likes of you. Maybe you are human after all.

should have just removed her from your plans for anything serious, then put her on the rotation of possible hookups and forget about her until she messages you

Maybe send her a message around the time she's supposed to come if you don't have anything else lined up

Alright, I unsent it, srs. But I hate the fact that I’ve not called her out on it, it’s just principle for me. Also I didn’t block her guys, just removed her.

Doesn't look like anything, I personally would've just shrugged it off and continued to see her until I bang her, then I'd be more attached and careful.

Either send the message and don't block her, so that we can see her response, or just unsend it and don't say anything.

Pick one lol

Also she looks really good in the first pic but looks way different in the others

Hopefully she couldn't read it from the notifications window

If she didn't and asks what you sent, just say you sent her a message meant for a friend by mistake

perfect, let's reschedule

Lold hard

-doobye
-instagram sloot
-not getting chit on

Choose 2 (except for the 3rd option)

That's even more beta (ded fkn srs)

lol there is no way you just did that dude. there's putting women on pedestals and then there's this. I hope for your sake that she doesn't see the message after you unsend it

Nah the video is damning, my theory is she’s drunk and posted it, I reckon she’ll delete it the minute she sees it and is sober again.Wait, how have I put her on a pedestal here? She has do not disturb auto enabled for 10 every day (even back in the UK) so I doubt she saw it.

Brah you forgot the number 1 rule and got rustled up.... she's not yours.. it's just your turn.

Just take her from the "Potential Girlfriend" bucket, and put her into the "Hookup" bucket.

And remember that this should have happened as soon as she went to Dubye. Seriously though, no sense in catching feels for a girl you haven't fuked yet.

The fact that you reacted like this says something a change in your current feelings though. It's a reflection of you no longer having an abundance mentality. My guess is that you're finally getting tired of fuking all of these fake 7/10 vapid UK sloots are are looking for something a bit more serious. And you're trying to find that serious relationship with the same 7/10 UK vapid sloots, which isn't going to work.

Might be time to date a little higher quality girl Matty. Catching feels for these hoes is going to destroy you, especially if they're still slooting around in their late 20s and beyond.

Lol yep, glad I saw this behaviour now instead of later.You’ve pretty much hit the nail on the head here, it’s hard to drop what I’m normally attracted to and go for the type that isn’t going to ruin my life if I commit.

Bro you need to understand hoes are fuking, girls are fuking no matter what.

It's just the times we are living in.

WHen you think she is a good girl & all innocent. SHe is sucking a camel off right behind your back.

You need to play them like a slot machine. You going to win some and you going to lose some.

Sloots gonna sloot

Why do you constantly spell ***** with a space as Du Bai?

It’s not that complicated

Don't know brah, you tell me.

Nah, if it was a case of that she’d gone away and been a hoe and then we first started talking after she got back, then fine. But it’s the fact that we had had 2 dates, established a mutual intention of further dates and then she’s showcased hoe behaviour, I think it’s reasonable to be slightly annoyed by that.

I know she doesn’t owe me anything in the bigger picture, we’re not exclusive and honestly, next Monday I’m going to Miami and have 2 girls lined up that I’m seeing there, so I’ll be doing the same, the difference is, she wouldn’t have had a clue about it.

This was a more than just a “little beta” sorry brah

Sall good though, don’t be a zitch next time