I love Collective Soul.

This book will help you:https://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-...s%2C100&sr=8-1

I'm reading it right now and a recent chapter talks about how men need different things at different points in their lives. For example, if you get with a woman and marry her and she's a fiery hothead, which is what attracted you to her in the first place, you need that energy in your life and you love it. But then you change jobs and you have a lot more stress and disorder at work, you will need a cooler headed woman as your wife's energy is just too much for you at this point in your life. It doesn't mean you should cheat or leave her, it just means you need to be aware of what's happening and take steps to have your needs met.

It's a complex topic but just understand that love and energies change, but that doesn't necessarily mean you should cheat, as cheating usually creates more complexity and stress in your life. Plus IMO it's immoral. But regardless, you and everyone reading this post should buy and read that book. Lots of good info in there.

If you're talking about the girl with 2 adolescent kids who sleep in bed with her, and her ex's wife cut herself up in front of them the other day demanding to live with them, then dude get rid of that fkn girl. Jesus. Be glad you have other options. No single moms, especially ones like that disaster.

Marriage is a true test of a man’s character. If you’re a man of any value, you’ll be tested often with temptation, and unlike men, a lot of women don’t give a F if you’re married. It’s very hard to stay the course if you’ve been with a lot of women and things with your wife hit a rough patch, with all this temptation around. I haven’t been married 7 years but I can already feel this. I just try to think about my children and all the positive things. I have no plans of leaving my wife, so it’s strictly a sexual thing. But goddammit it’s hard when a 23 y/o fresh nurse is flirting with you, even though she knows you’re married with children.