Thanks for keeping it 100

Wait a minute, are you saying it's okay to go and stay in a hotel with friends/coworkers when you're in a committed relationship?

I'm sorry, but that would not be acceptable to me. If someone in a relationship behaves like a single person - they should be left alone to be single again and do all the things they want to do.

Have sex with her first before you dump her.

Anyone who says I love you freely and easily cannot be trusted.

Well OP you either trust her or you dont, even if she checked in she could have cheated on you, her slut gfs wont tell you either way

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=154760943

OP read this thread and let me know if you still think you trust her lmao

Who wouldn't invite their boyfriend to their birthday? A cheating sloot.

Lol you can tell how much she doesn't care about you just through her texting. Break up with her immediately

This has cuckoldry written all over it

Must be trolling, nobody calls their GF 3 times to tell her off about the same incident. Also fkn LOL at lecturing people by text or phone, if you're bothered talk to her face to face.

This is a lose-lose situation but being an obsessive naggy little bitch is about the worst way to handle it.

Its amazing how FAs are so aggressive in giving OP advises.
Make your decision and standup for it OP.

Talk to her, tell her what your conditions are. If she cant do it, then you got to move on.
Going out with her gfs are fine for me but the hotel is not anyway I put it. I'm not sure if I'll even think of giving her a chance after that.
You've been with her for less than a year, that's nothing.

Op,

based on your initial post and subsequent posts I would end it. Once a girl disrespects you and you continue to "take her back" she'll do it again and again until you feel like a worthless human being. Every time she goes out with the girls a little part of you now will be paranoid, do you want that?

End it man.





Ps don't listen to that worthless troll MefromG, she's an absolute cancer

What do miscers get out of creating multis then making up cuck stories?


A male texting 'I feel disrespected' to his woman...

Ok den

There's nothing normal in that text derp

What this guy said... fair enough you pulled her up on it the first time. But bringing the issue up like a little bish again and again. You're coming off as a control freak.

If you're going to make a point you make sure you say all you have to in the initial argument.

Holy sht!

Lmao OP is a cuck and he isn't going to do chit. He has already text her and called her to say the SAME message on THREE separate occasions. He just confirmed to his girl that he's a wuss who doesn't have the guts to break up with her.

Is age: 47 real?

I'm having a hard time believing you're over the age of 21.

I'd say at this point you should just end it. It's clear you don't trust her and have a bit of growing up to do yourself.

Cuck

Sorry OP. Look at my previous history. My ex went out with her coworkers and did the same. She’s now together with her coworker. F that, could be different with you but watch out. Srs

mexican girls dont cheat on their bf"s like white chicks do so you are good to go but keep that leash tight anyway

you know the only thing she loves more than you, OP?

chad's dick

I hate to say it dude and I’m only speaking now from personal experience but seems like somethings up. I’ve been dating my current GF for two years now. If she wants to go out with friends I am always okay with it, I never even ask her to call, we both trust each other. In fact, she’s remained friends with someone she once dated in high school he’s in town for winter break. She asked me if it were cool if they go to lunch, I said absolutely have fun and really haven’t given it much thought since. Applying my own situation to yours I clearly tell you weren’t okay with this night out from the get go. A phone call wouldn’t and shouldn’t have upset you to the point where you need to go online and make a thread about it. You seem like a smart enough guy... in my opinion something is obviously up based on her very lax replies claiming she just fell asleep etc. if you’ve been dating for a year then she knows you, and she she should know you’re a high strung guy with trust issues. Many people have been able to deduce that about you from simply reading your query. In many ways you’re doing this to yourself man. By establishing unrealistic expectations on a person you know will never be able to meet you’re just setting yourself up for disappointment. Sounds like you need to work on yourself first before you can really be happy in a relationship with someone else. If you were truly happy and trusting you wouldn’t really give a **** about a phone call, nor would you cite past examples of “disrespect.” I hate to say it but your instinct may be spot on and to me it sounds like somethings afoot with her dude. Show yourself some respect and leave her if she makes you this unhappy.

OP, ignore the people that are saying you're a control freak and needy. The truth is you're not, anyone who actually cares about their relationship will have a harder time trusting their significant other after they promised not to make the same mistake. I lose interest if i get disrespected like that, i say disrespect because this isn't the first time and if she actually cared/respected you truly, she wouldn't have made a mistake like this. Personally i would look at it like this, looking further down into the relationship if you have problems like this popping up it's going to end your relationship. If she stops keep her but otherwise next her OP

I know man I have some talking with myself to do.

And do anyone calling me names it’s all good cuz I’m me and know how much girls I get when single. But I don’t want many girls without meaning I just want one that’s decent man.

you have to have a zero tolerance policy, you guys have to do **** together or not at all, thats how it has to be honestly. If people say "no thats gay bro" like you're just giving the opportunity for either you to cheat on her orfor her to cheat on you. yea its good we should trsut each other, but we're all humans and if we're not real with ourselves that we have sex as a desire and if we want to be monogomous we have to eliminate all distractions, a relationship wont work.

also shes latina, you could get away w ith being more assertive and ****, they want that, they're very sexual but also very loyal if you know how to put them in their place correctly



Honestly never understand the guys in here taht say "haha what are u beta you dont trsut her?!11"

i mean you want that stress? of your girl going out alone? you think thats going to last? you know no matter how ugly a girl is she goes out she gets hit on by like 5 guys, shes going to resist that ev erytime? no i don't think so buddy, imagine you went out and got hit on everytime you went out by atleast 5 girls a night without you going for it first. you'd slip up too.


No one wants to be cheated on, theres no mind games here, tell people what you're about and expect taht you should do the same, obviously that means she'd probably expect herself invited when you go out too, and if you're in a serious relationship with the person going out with them shouldn't be a drag. if it is relationship isnt for you.

people are just poking fun at you, and honestly thats part of this forum don't take it too seriously, have respect for yourself and stand up next time, if a girl says "i need time alone too" honestly leave her, cause no girl needs time alone from you at anytime, unless shes a sloot. if you wanna date a sloot then date a sloot.

Thanks man it means a lot. I’m not taking anything personal which is why I’m not calling them names.

You hit the nail on the head mane.

Das it.

OP,

It's very simple: Go out with a bunch of your friends clubbing, get a hotel, and don't respond to her.

If she's okay with that, fair enough.

More evidence, that committed relationships are just not the way to go.

The reaction is fine as long as you are true to yourself. You need to remain in control. And from my experience lying to yourself or putting on a fake act will just have you beneath a woman's boot..

Fear of loss should be her driving force not yours

Sounds like you both have different expectations on what the relationship should be. She doesnt seem to take the relationship very seriously.

Its her birthday and she doesnt want to spend it with you, she wants to go out with the "girls" and get a hotel afterwards and you dont hear from her all night? Yeah that sounds bad op. What does "girls night out" mean? what did they do? go clubbing? "girls night out" in a club is a polite way to say dick hunting. So your girl went dick hunting and got a hotel afterwards and you didnt hear from her all night long. There is a red flag in that situation somewhere.

Need more info to say for sure but sounds like she likes having a "real" relationship with a guy who shows her affection and buys her gifts but also likes to "just have fun" in hotel rooms with other guys too and so she is trying to keep both lifestyles going at once.
If it really is what you made it sound like then there isnt much to say besides dont get mad just cut her out and look for a girl that isnt a whore.

THIS is the purest distillation of all of the best advice you'll ever receive in the misc.

UPDATE:

I was on ******** at 4 am today while she was in my bed and noticed she accepted a friend request from the promoter at the club she went to.

I immediately called her out on it and she denied knowing him.

I kept pushing it and she admitted that he bought all the girls in the group drinks cuz it was her birthday.

But says she doesn’t know how he knew her name to add her.

I had enough and told her I’m dropping her off and broke up with her.

She is calling me crying saying she is sorry.

CLIFFS:

Hos gonna hos
Miss was right.