My ex-wife came over one day to pick up the kids during the divorce and started bishing about work.
I calmly told her "I don't care".

i might as well as slapped her in the face. LOL!

You probably gonna have to seriously move to another place when you become a programmer, either foreign or a place like Washington, Arizona, California, Florida, New York, etc. A place where IR dating is the norm and where there are more women than men and there are alot of single women.

Thought the same. But if that's the look he's going for and he's going for hipster chicks, I guess it works.30 minutes before? That's seriously a bitch move. What's her excuse?

That's why it's better not to have any expectations for a first date until it actually happens. I used to almost always send a text several hours before the date so that I would know whether to make other plans, get ready, etc. Just a simple, "See you at 8 (or whatever time you're supposed to see her)."

have had women do this to me also.
I hit the point where i didn't even acknowledge the flake and when they came back around again I ignored them.

that is some 2nd level time wasting.

The reason I asked was because I recently heard of a guy who was Mode One in the Bay Area that was having little to no success and when he moved to New York, he started getting laid like crazy. I, myself, am actually thinking of moving myself in the distant future, probably Arizona or Texas. Chicago (at least the suburbs) is not a good place to try to hook up and I still do decently but I know I have more potential in other places and so do you.

Just take a long awaited vacation in Brazil, Columbia, Eastern Europe or Japan and slay some foreign pussy.

Yeah nowadays if a woman just ghosted or flaked even once, unless it's a really good excuse, I just ignore them too. That's really the best course of action.

Now if a woman is just making baseless excuses then I just move on and delete their number and them off social media.

BlackScorpio

https://vocaroo.com/i/s1Z3juR7DEZO

Otaku WTF is up with that f'ing bish making the plans and bailing 30 min before????? I feel ragey for you! Don't even respond to her if she ever texts you again. I can't even!

As far as places to live, from everything I've seen here NY seems to be the easiest place to get laid.

I actually did use to live in New York (when I was a kid) so maybe I should go back there again......

And yeah I agree, ignore that bitch forever.

Good idea.

Fukin lmao.

You love somebody else's man.And the text said what? Do you just make plans and then not talk at all between?

lolWould think that is easily done.We didn't do the cringe baby talk thing. Read somewhere that is serves a purpose though, at least for actual infants. Not that much older than my ex, but our parents were very different. Mine were what seems to be the usual hands off free range 70s parents, his were very focused/protective/coddling; so he thought I was too hands off. Still neither of us did that.

You live in a fantasy world.


Cant tell If you are making up these people entirely, or just in denial about who you are to them.


Still might be momwithfat tbh.

My response to both of you

https://vocaroo.com/i/s1Gf9sQT36G0

You're momwithfat.

Otaku sorry to hear about the sloot, not sure if its always chadception or what but I always get the same kinds of flakes. Do you text in between or anything? Not sure if I'm not texting enough or what and to be frank I'm not sure whose getting laid these days. Women seem looser but more selective at the same time.

As far as cities are concerned it depends where you move. I'm from a decent sized metro area...sloots are hotter but they are also more stuck up and you have to come correct. However there are a good number of cute nerdy girls as well, just food for thought. Suprised at it being easier in NY cause I'd imagine that girls thereare more stand offish.

Met a cute thick girl at work today, crushed my presentation and she was mirin. Talked to her a bit afterwards, she seems interested and she's certified HTC. Damn near got a boner as I held the door for her... hopefully I'll see her around again inb4 HRI dress similarly, minus the socks and suspenders and I regularly get compliments on my outfits. Not sure where all the hate is coming from, looks standard for a young brofessional.

I always try to wear a polo button down, nicely fitted joggers/jeans and clarks when going out. Not too much but enough to look decent. Might get into the chelsea boots thing.

You do have a nice voice! I'm so sorry.I really don't understand these bishes. I never bailed once I made plans.What's that?

Bro, I was hesitant to turn off my gym mix to hear your voice, but I was pleasantly surprised. Nice tone. Too bad your energy and vine don't match the coolness of your voice. No homo.



One on one dates are scary. Especially for your generation and later. You're still going to see this girl out and **** right? Dont get butt hurt. Just get her drunk next time yall out as a group. Smash THAT NIGHT. Not later in the week after the glow is gone, making plans over sc.

If the sex is good that night, a relationship of some form will form organically.

Early DLB multi, momwithmuscle. I think her longest account tbh.

lol @ otaku's situation. not lol @ him just that is such a mindfuk of a thing. I've had women approach me (ya rly) be as forward as she can be, make plans, spend time talking to me about how she wants me to stay focused on her (exclusivity without the exclusivity label, I guess) then guess what? She ghosts. I couldn't imagine being enamored enough with a woman then suddenly changing my mind just cuz.I thought it was pretty straight-forward :\

Dude is 28 years old so if a girl that old is scared of a one-on-one date then I don't wanna live on this earth anymore. For what its worth I have friends who get dates regularly. So what you're saying is that the best chance is to just have a drunken one night stand?