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Thread: GF of 3.5 years moved on

post 1682395693 05-09-2023, 07:37 PM
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GF of 3.5 years moved on

Yea so we basically dated from June 2019 until January of this year, but kept in contact afterwards.
She msgs me yday that she's talking to somebody else.

This is the first time this has happened to me, and I feel like absolute chit

Any miscers dealt with the girl they loved moving on so quick after a breakup? Bear in mind, we broke up like 20 times during the relationship but always got back together
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post 1682407983 05-10-2023, 12:15 AM
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lol at "moved on so quick"

that dude was chillin in the wings for ages
post 1682408003 05-10-2023, 12:16 AM
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women dont leave you until they are 100% over you
post 1682414033 05-10-2023, 04:50 AM
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she kept you around as a little bitch til she found someone else.


you are a fking pathetic dork. go NC immediately since you failed to do so in january.
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post 1682414093 05-10-2023, 04:52 AM
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post 1682422983 05-10-2023, 08:46 AM
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Not trying to be a dick , really it just comes naturally... but who cares?

Some people both Men / Women will forever change their "Type" as they mature . This means its basically going to be a revolving door as far as relationships are concerned. If thats the case and he / she has moved on... just be grateful for the good times and move on to the next chapter yourself.

Because in the end none of this BS even matters anyways... You could literally and physically have everything , or be some bum that has their entire net worth in a shopping cart they stole from Wal-mart .... Either way you'll end up in the same size box in the same size hole in the ground with absolutely nothing...

So stressing over remedial BS such as what and ex is or isnt doing shouldnt even hit your radar in the grand scheme of things.
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post 1682427733 05-10-2023, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted By SikhAndDestroy⏩
Yea so we basically dated from June 2019 until January of this year, but kept in contact afterwards.
She msgs me yday that she's talking to somebody else.

This is the first time this has happened to me, and I feel like absolute chit

Any miscers dealt with the girl they loved moving on so quick after a breakup? Bear in mind, we broke up like 20 times during the relationship but always got back together
1. Breaking up/getting back together 20 times is a red flag.
2. Next time don't stay in contact as it hinders you from moving on and makes it more painful when they do as it feels like a 2nd breakup.

Have you been doing any dating since?
post 1682427893 05-10-2023, 10:19 AM
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post 1682445653 05-10-2023, 02:38 PM
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she used you as a safety net ; when ever something didnt work out with a new potential guy, she would fall back on you so she was never really alone. it sucks. it hurts. but learn from this and set a boundary that if you stop dating someone, let that be the end of it. women will monkey branch from guy to guy so they are not ever without options.
post 1682465873 05-10-2023, 08:30 PM
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Yea so I got busted cheating in December 2022 and she was never the same (other chick sent her videos of me and her). We kept in contact since and fuked a couple of times since so I honestly thought she would get over it and we'd get back together, strong delusion lol. She took care of me after I was hospitalized in Feb 2023 but then does this 2.5 months later.

First time this has happened to me, I didn't think she'd ever actually leave me.
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post 1682471193 05-10-2023, 10:13 PM
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I know that feeling but honestly it's better than her being hung up on you.
post 1682474023 05-10-2023, 11:15 PM
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well she's dating a cop so i hope she's part of the 40%
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post 1682545423 05-11-2023, 10:47 PM
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post 1682546513 05-11-2023, 11:09 PM
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'broke up 20 times before'

sounds pretty toxic. Is she tested for BPD?
post 1682583213 05-12-2023, 02:03 PM
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If you guys were on and off again, then you would do well to realize that this dude probably entered the picture a long time ago, and she's been working both angles most likely.

Based on info you've provided, it sounds like a very toxic relationship and you're both better off apart.
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post 1682632403 05-13-2023, 10:27 AM
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We all can understand that there's feelings involved, but you need to accept that it's over and lay the law down with her for your own good. Tell her that you'll never be just friends or acquaintances, that you can smile at the memories and all but you're ready to move on and don't care to stay in contact. It's what will happen eventually anyways. Might as well cut the chit right now.

My ex had a chump ex bf that stayed in contact with her for an entire year of his life while she spent a months getting dicked down by a new guy that she didn't even like. What a loser idiot he must have felt like. Eventually he told her to fk off once she started dating me and never spoke to her again. You should do the same. Rip the cord right now. It's over and in 2 years or so it won't even matter.
post 1682647593 05-13-2023, 03:25 PM
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Originally Posted By RayBoccini⏩
'broke up 20 times before'

sounds pretty toxic. Is she tested for BPD?
she has it for sure
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post 1682649563 05-13-2023, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted By SikhAndDestroy⏩
Yea so I got busted cheating in December 2022 and she was never the same (other chick sent her videos of me and her). We kept in contact since and fuked a couple of times since so I honestly thought she would get over it and we'd get back together, strong delusion lol. She took care of me after I was hospitalized in Feb 2023 but then does this 2.5 months later.

First time this has happened to me, I didn't think she'd ever actually leave me.
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post 1682649713 05-13-2023, 04:05 PM
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lol I cheated on her and got caught. Why would she dump me misc?
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post 1682654133 05-13-2023, 05:35 PM
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First post - probably a chitty relationship with the usual dumb problems you can probably work through

Then the cheat reveal

If you're stupid enough to get caught, that's your own fault
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post 1682655213 05-13-2023, 05:57 PM
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We were broken up when I did that, got back together a few weeks later

I was assuming she was doing the same chit so I did it too
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post 1682951153 05-18-2023, 02:12 PM
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Don’t go back after a break up.
Also, she was monkey branching. Just keeping you around long enough until the next guy was a sure thing.
Take this time to work on you. Get a better job, make more money, hit the gym, dial in the diet and exercise.

You’re gonna make it brah.
post 1682971433 05-18-2023, 08:27 PM
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Originally Posted By FoulSmell⏩
Don’t go back after a break up.
Also, she was monkey branching. Just keeping you around long enough until the next guy was a sure thing.
Take this time to work on you. Get a better job, make more money, hit the gym, dial in the diet and exercise.

You’re gonna make it brah.
She called me the other day and said she's not sure she wants to be with this guy
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post 1683057543 05-20-2023, 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted By SikhAndDestroy⏩
She called me the other day and said she's not sure she wants to be with this guy
So what? You have more than enough evidence of her character now and how she is in relationships to know that even if she got back with you that she would always be looking to replace you with a better option.

Make no mistake about it. She's not considering coming back out of love. If this had worked out like she was praying that it would then you would have never heard from her again. Read that again..........."she was praying that it worked out with somebody other than you." That's not love.

Plus she will 100% hold all the power, have less respect for you than ever, and do it all over to you again eventually where you're left posting on here about another breakup with her.
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Originally Posted By SikhAndDestroy⏩
She called me the other day and said she's not sure she wants to be with this guy
That’s usually how it is. I lived with a girl for 6 years. She would never go to the gym or do any outdoors stuff with me. We broke up and All of the sudden she had pics of her and some new guy at the gym and going on trips. I’m like wtf. Weird thing is though she would call me to sleep with her from time to time so I never understood that
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Originally Posted By Imnew1⏩
So what? You have more than enough evidence of her character now and how she is in relationships to know that even if she got back with you that she would always be looking to replace you with a better option.

Make no mistake about it. She's not considering coming back out of love. If this had worked out like she was praying that it would then you would have never heard from her again. Read that again..........."she was praying that it worked out with somebody other than you." That's not love.

Plus she will 100% hold all the power, have less respect for you than ever, and do it all over to you again eventually where you're left posting on here about another breakup with her.
Ironically I'm probably the best option she'll ever have, 6'4 Barrister making 6 figures

another thing thats phucking me up is how we went through so many breakups and then I expected this one to be the same (we fuk off for a week or two and then get back together)

I've smashed a few chicks this month and I still feel empty inside
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